Every Nigerian Single ladies want to get married and of course wants to impress the man of their dreams.There's absolutely nothing wrong in showing off your good womanly skills and why you will make a better wife than your rival.

Buh there are some wifely duties you should avoid with your boyfriend if you want to have a good future ahead.


7 Wifely Duties Nigerian Ladies Should Avoid With Their Boyfriends

1. Mingle With His Friends

This might be fun if you knew him through his friends, buh nevertheless, you should cut down on all familarity with his friends once you start dating him.This will save you from the stress of your good intentions being misinterpreted,Or his friends knowing too much of you to begin to decide whether they like or approve you or not.

2. Do His Laundry

You should be focused on building your relationship, not how great a housekeeper you're.There are laundry shops on almost every street in Nigeria cities.If he tells you his clothes need washing, offer to call your laundry man for him or help him drop his clothes at the laundry shop.

3. Spend The Weekend At His Place

Most Nigerian ladies do this a lot and it's becoming a norm.You just want to have the feel of what it will actually be like living with him.It starts by sleeping over because it was too late for you to go home, then it progresses to you consciously going there for the weekend.What happened to the place you paid rent for? Smh..

4. Visit His Family Regularly

First things first, don't be in a haste to meet his family, or for him to meet your family unless he's planning to marry you.And when he finally introduces you to them, avoid paying the regular and uncalled for visits.The idea is not to get too involved with his family until you start bearing their name.

5. Depending On Him To Take Care Of You And Your Family

This is very common among Nigerian ladies, where a single lady assumes that all her financial burdens will be relieved by her boyfriend.Only lazy girls depend on their boyfriends for everything and if you want him to appreciate you, show him you're capable of taking care of your needs as well as that of your family.

6. Sleep With Him

Sex is sacred and was designed for married couples.You giving your body to your boyfriend goes against God's plan and also defiles your body and values.Stop giving him your body whenever he calls you up for it.Until he puts a wedding ring on your finger, then he's not worthy to receive wife benefits from you.When you become his wife, he will get treated like a husband.

7. Public Display Of Affection

Nigerian ladies are too fast in doing things when they are in a relationship.Try as much as possible to avoid going everywhere together, holding hands, kissing in public, uploading his pics on your social networks account and all that love birds do to drag attention.You might see it as part of spicing up your relationship buh it'll have negative effects on you if the relationship doesn't end up at the altar.

I drop my pen at this Juncture.


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DanceVille

funny op , its axiomatic the aforelisted gestures are the reasons guys approach ladies in the first place .

without "some" of them guys won't approach.

do not forget , ladies need to convince us they are ready and worthy to be our partner for eternity , in this case some of these traits comes in.

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Continue spoiling market

Danceville don expose us.
Chai.. This guy how va now.

Nice thread.. Hope they'll listen.

falconey:
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I don't believe that bro...


Lol!

Kakamorufu:
Continue spoiling market

How did I bro?

ThemiDhayor:
Danceville don expose us.
Chai.. This guy how va now.

Nice thread.. Hope they'll listen.

Lol!

Thanks.

Never invest in any kind of relationship with anyone who is not willing to work on themselves just a little every day. A person who takes no interest in any form of self-improvement, personal development or spiritual growth will also not be inclined to make much of an effort building a truly meaningful connection with you. A relationship with only one partner willing to do the work ceases to be a relationship. And as anyone who has been there will tell you - it's pointless to try and dance the tango solo.
Anthon St. Maarten

Op be ready to get bash today.

It's true... Ayam coming.

Not for sale.

You have practically erased everything meaningful a girlfriend should do for her guy....what then your highness should be the duties of a babe to her guy

Boyfriends are coming for your head

Cutezt:
I See Nothing Wrong With No 3, I Have Slept On The Same Bed With My Gf For 3 Days, And Nothing Serious Transpired Between Us, BTW, I Will Outrightly Dump Any Lady Who Does'nt Give Me PDA, Warrafuk??

Sorry!


Are you a lesbian?

AngelAhnie:
Boyfriends are coming for your head

Lol Dear..


Let them come.. Hope you go dey beside me sha?

marveangel:
You have practically erased everything meaningful a girlfriend should do for her guy....what then your highness should be the duties of a babe to her guy

Lots bro...

Brymo:
Never invest in any kind of relationship with anyone who is not willing to work on themselves just a little every day. A person who takes no interest in any form of self-improvement, personal development or spiritual growth will also not be inclined to make much of an effort building a truly meaningful connection with you. A relationship with only one partner willing to do the work ceases to be a relationship. And as anyone who has been there will tell you - it's pointless to try and dance the tango solo.
Anthon St. Maarten

Hmmmmm...

DanceVille:
Lol Dear..


Let them come.. Hope you go dey beside me sha?

You are right

If any guy want full package from a lady then he should put a ring on it

DanceVille:
Sorry!

Are you a lesbian?

AngelAhnie:
You are right

If any guy want full package from a lady then he should put a ring on it

Exactly.. That's how it should be.

Thank God OP is male.

truth is no 6 and 7 work hand in hand, a girl who depends on her boyfriend is not going to refuse him sex,not because she feels obligated to,its because she is scared of what might happen,because a guy that provides for should not be treated with refute and unfortunately for 9ja gals they fall in the dependent category, so they have no other option than to perform the rest.

Nice one Op

Doesn't matter...que sere sera

So the guy should be doing "husband-ly" duties ...



Continue

Continue you hear

Continue

Spot on bro

Ok Kwantinue

Stop snitching!

Lalasticlala... Please help me to give this thread wider coverage.


Let's warn our Nigerian ladies out there.

Smhart1:
Thank God OP is male.

Lol!

What if am a female dear?

Greenbullet:
truth is no 6 and 7 work hand in hand, a girl who depends on her boyfriend is not going to refuse him sex,not because she feels obligated to,its because she is scared of what might happen,because a guy that provides for should not be treated with refute and unfortunately for 9ja gals they fall in the dependent category, so they have no other option than to perform the rest.

And you think that's right?

firstking01:
Spot on bro

Thanks bro..