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Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by chiwetel(f): 1:09pm On Jul 31, 2016 |
Hi guys,been a while so here is food for my readers,please do enjoy. The price of not making a move towards personal development, has been and would continue to be great. Most women do not typically define self-esteem and purpose in terms of personal accomplishments, instead they primarily feel that the only way to have some sense of identity, value and meaning in their lives is through a RELATIONSHIP. When a woman doesn't dare to dream or commit to a purpose, her sense of meaning and worth generally comes from excessive emphasis on a relationship with a man. It is sad enough that we women grow up believing in fairy tales, Cinderella for example, waiting for a man to come and fix her up. It is disturbing to think that most relationships are not because women are making sensible choices, rather it is because women are being driven to attach to men for identity, approval, safety and security all of which should come within oneself. If you are desperate for attachment to a man,if you are settling instead of being selective, then you are making stupid dating choices. When we choose to include courage and personal achievement as part of our feminine identity, only then would we stop hearing"I know he is abusive, but I'm too scared to be alone" or "I know he lies, but if I leave,what if I never find another man?"all this and many other traps women fall into because of there lack of exercise of true courage. Thus,it is high time we as ladies acknowledge that it is our job as a woman,as a person to become as fully realised as we can be by having dreams,forging a purpose, building an identity and making commitment to worthwhile things outside ourseleves. In doing so,we take a more active role in the quality of our own lives,so that other people;our friends, spouse and family can share from our growth. please do vist www.Sirwels..com(#silk writes) for more articles by me.Thanks ![]() 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by chiwetel(f): 1:14pm On Jul 31, 2016 |
cc: tosynemuch iAmCharis joeCutie Lsofdk EOOJ Breadmaker food haf come o ![]() |
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by EOOJ(m): 1:19pm On Jul 31, 2016 |
My Chiwetel, only u post, only u chop ftc...haba Nice write up but some ladies will never ever listen na ![]() |
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by Nobody: 1:20pm On Jul 31, 2016 |
Trapqueen77, the op said food don come, oya come and response |
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by Nobody: 1:22pm On Jul 31, 2016 |
Ayam coming. Make my garri no soak. ![]() |
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by Nobody: 1:23pm On Jul 31, 2016 |
Oma307: Where I gonna sit? ![]() Juz make sure no chilli eehn ![]() |
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by mhisbliss(f): 1:25pm On Jul 31, 2016 |
Someone read the epistle up there and summarize while i make myself comfortable |
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by Nobody: 1:27pm On Jul 31, 2016 |
Tell them. But I don't say anytin bad if a Lady requests one OR two tins from her guy. besides Life is in stages, u will always need help from ur friends, ex n ur bf. it depends on d context 1 Like |
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by chiwetel(f): 1:27pm On Jul 31, 2016 |
mhisbliss:oya start reading am coming to epp u ![]() |
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by mhisbliss(f): 1:32pm On Jul 31, 2016 |
chiwetel:lol am tired already 1 Like |
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by chiwetel(f): 1:34pm On Jul 31, 2016 |
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Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by mhisbliss(f): 1:36pm On Jul 31, 2016 |
chiwetel:believe me bae i tried |
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by Nobody: 1:38pm On Jul 31, 2016 |
mhisbliss: If you can take ur time to read it, it is enlightening, a summary from someone would most likely make u lose nuggets of wisdom that you would assimilate if u read the post urself. |
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by mhisbliss(f): 1:39pm On Jul 31, 2016 |
kennygee:lol ok lemme try again |
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by Nobody: 1:42pm On Jul 31, 2016 |
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by Nobody: 1:43pm On Jul 31, 2016 |
chiwetel: Another guy busted!! I don't know when guys will stop impersonating ladies on this forum *NB, didn't arrive at my conclusion due to this topic you created, but the current picture on your profile and past comments has exposed you! |
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by Lsofdk(m): 1:45pm On Jul 31, 2016 |
chiwetel:This one na sunday rice ![]() Nice piece dear but the title of this thread will make most ladies here come for your head without reading its content; D i can't chop alone, make i invite my goons them ![]() cc: smellymouth mimzy suzan404 smellinganus ogorwyne 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by mhisbliss(f): 1:49pm On Jul 31, 2016 |
Independent ladies now i like the sound of that, its the point i like most about all what the op is saying, thats why linda ikeji is really my role model thanks for the message op nice job |
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by Nobody: 1:50pm On Jul 31, 2016 |
Lsofdk: ![]() |
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by nonsoyoungprof: 1:50pm On Jul 31, 2016 |
I am bewildered by the foolishness of some (99%) ladies,. they never return good gesture nor appreciate ,.they walk into your life asif they are your creator,.just like a lady I asked why she do not use to call, she said it is because she have no call card(recharge card), I sent her good amount of recharge card, my brodas in the lord, up till today I never see her call, over 3 months .. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by Nobody: 1:51pm On Jul 31, 2016 |
chiwetel: *modified, refresh |
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by chiwetel(f): 2:01pm On Jul 31, 2016 |
TheModsAreMad:please do read dear ![]() iAmCharis.. they r saying your bae is a guy oooo |
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by Smellymouth: 2:02pm On Jul 31, 2016 |
Lsofdk:
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Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by ogorwyne(f): 2:17pm On Jul 31, 2016 |
Lsofdk:Chop dis one alone o. I haff beleful |
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by Originalsly: 2:53pm On Jul 31, 2016 |
It is only natural for a lady to need the company of a man....and vice versa. To do anything else is to suppress nature....regardless of what the mouth says. I know of ladies who have done exactly what Op is preaching.... have degrees, great jobs, own houses, fully independent....but now unfulfilled because they have no children nor men of their own....are now desperate...desperate to find a man... husband material.. but what is left to pick from are widowers or played out players with lots of baggage. And the crybis..educated Black men are hard to find /Black men are afraid of educated Black women. Nature will always run its course. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by Lsofdk(m): 4:58pm On Jul 31, 2016 |
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Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by Nobody: 7:44pm On Jul 31, 2016 |
Originalsly:The OP didn't say the opposite @bolded. Yes, it's natural for a lady to want and need the company of a man but while her man is yet to show up, she should develop herself and not wait for a man to fix her up. The kind of ladies described in the OP oftentimes attach themselves to "prospectives" for wrong reasons. I dare say the ladies you're talking about aren't unmarried today because no one showed interest but because they were too selective when they were in their prime. Do you really opine they sit their as$ at home while waiting for one rich husband rather than getting educated with good jobs? chiwetel:You dey mind all these pseudo nl FBI? Na attention dem dey find. ![]() |
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