Yesterday I finished a work out routine and was having a break when I saw a lady spotting a low cut which I find really attractive on girls.
Had a little discussion and collected her number and promised to call her later. I had genuine intentions.

Because I saw her in a fitness arena, I felt she might be interested in swimming. So when I was going to swim in the evening, I asked her if she wanted to come along and swim with me. She said yea, I should pick her up somewhere opposite a supermarket.

I got there and waited a while before she appeared. She was now wearing a wig and I was like hmmmm?

Immediately after exchanging greetings, she said she wanted to shop. Wanted to buy so so perfumes and stuff and was looking at me to give her money. I looked at her and studied her as her value crashed and the interest plummeted. I asked her how much? She said 2-3K.

I gave her 3K and she added that she doesn't even have a bikini and bla bla.
I waited for her to finish her shoppin. When she came out, I did not care about what she bought. When she stepped into the car, I told her that I wanted to go alone since she had no bikini to swim with. She was like huh?? I said yea. Deleted her number immediately she stepped out.

Why do some ladies think that every guy that show interest is after their kitten and they start from the word go to extort as much as they can?

You gave her 3k? Then left her?and your point for doing that exactly?

I am old school,so my advice is the old school sense kind.

First,never ever give a woman money the day you just met her no matter what, as you are laying a very bad precedence for the future between the two of you.

A woman that begs for money on the first day,is a professional begger,schemer,and honestly not somebody a responsible man should go near.

My last advice for you is this,and it has worked for me. After some few minutes of conversation with her,always ask her what she does for a living.

As a rule,I never go near female students,unemployed females and any female who cannot in anyway support themselves.

And even at that,the female have to be somewhat close to my level financially.

Beerbeer Bank(yansh bank) no be bank at ,and I no go deposit my money there. Beerbeer bank no get withdrawal card,only deposit machine.

It the present trend. It's either their phones are bad or they have an urgent need

Smh... Guy you're funny tho

You weren't as rude as you should have been!

You a calm dude. Girls like that deserve A1 disrespect!

Bros, you shouldn't have given her a dime. I came to buy perfume , okay I'm waiting for you in th car, that would have solve the ish. Naija girls and craze for money, jeez!!!

3k for dis bihari rigme? You for just dash begger the money for street

I find this your story hard to believe op

nma24:
I find this your story hard to believe op

why wont you find it very to hard to believe. Anyway am not surprised.

nma24:
I find this your story hard to believe op

You actually don't have to believe it hun.

You should have left her zoomed off the moment she asked for the 3k. She took u for a maga and you fell for it. Its your hard earned money, never ever be ashamed to say NO to money eating termites like that.

HungerBAD:
You gave her 3k? Then left her?and your point for doing that exactly?

I am old school,so my advice is the old school sense kind.

First,never ever give a woman money the day you just met her no matter what, as you are laying a very bad precedence for the future between the two of you.

A woman that begs for money on the first day,is a professional begger,schemer,and honestly not somebody a responsible man should go near.

My last advice for you is this,and it has worked for me. After some few minutes of conversation with her,always ask her what she does for a living.

As a rule,I never go near female students,unemployed females and any female who cannot in anyway support themselves.

And even at that,the female have to be somewhat close to my level financially.

Beerbeer Bank(yansh bank) no be bank at ,and I no go deposit my money there. Beerbeer bank no get withdrawal card,only deposit machine.

Lol, How would you know a student and all that ish from a fitness arena? She had the classy outlook of someone independent. And you know it takes some independence for a lady to go out with a low cut. I always see such people as people who don't care about the crowd. You can imagine my disappointment when I saw her on a wig.

I gave her the money. There was no plan to see her again. So it was a way of telling her off but in a respectable way assuming she has the brain to understand that.

All the same I have helped a sister/beggar in need

saintdennis:
Smh... Guy you're funny tho

You weren't as rude as you should have been!

You a calm dude. Girls like that deserve A1 disrespect!

Well, Sometimes, being rude would not return my wasted time or add anything to my value

Ahmed0336:
3k for dis bihari rigme? You for just dash begger the money for street

She is also a beggar

ojay2053:
Bros, you shouldn't have given her a dime. I came to buy perfume , okay I'm waiting for you in th car, that would have solve the ish. Naija girls and craze for money, jeez!!!

Bros u go harsh o... Well he gave her d money to help her and I dont see anything bad dere. Tho she's a cheap gal for asking a guy for money on first date

Don't blame, it's the change season, might be a tactic at surviving...Biologically spking, an adaptashin for survaiva.

Op na Maga and GTB ATM machine. I dey craze to give person money like that.

david2:


Bros u go harsh o... Well he gave her d money to help her and I dont see anything bad dere. Tho she's a cheap gal for asking a guy for money on first date

I tell you.

steppin:
Op na Maga and GTB ATM machine. I dey craze to give person money like that.

Lol@maga

So you must always get something back from a girl you gave money or you cannot give unless there is something to get in return?

Sometimes, it is actually good to be a maga if you decide to be

3k!
Generously Good...

agabaI23:
Lol@maga

So you must always get something back from a girl you gave money or you cannot give unless there is something to get in return?

Sometimes, it is actually good to be a maga if you decide to be

I give to people who are in need of help, not gold diggers.
From his story, the lady is clearly one.

david2:


Bros u go harsh o... Well he gave her d money to help her and I dont see anything bad dere. Tho she's a cheap gal for asking a guy for money on first date

Baba, is better that way, don't you think so? Cos dem hoes ain't loyal. The guy came with a clean mind remember?

ojay2053:
Baba, is better that way, don't you think so? Cos dem hoes ain't loyal. The guy came with a clean mind remember?

Yea its her loss.. she would have gain more if she was loyal

Are you sure this was all that happened? Audi alteram partem(Hear both sides)
On a lighter note,if the accused is on Nairaland let's hear your side of the story.

david2:


Yea its her loss.. she would have gain more if she was loyal

yes, it's not our lot, dem hoes shall never come our way. Dont worry, ye shall meet thy virtuous woman soonest.

u did not even wait for December to reach self before you start giving out cash, father Xmas

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Really don't understand what's happening to most girls now, meet a stranger and you start singing the being broke tune, you can't even differentiate BTW the ones that truly need it and those who want to take advantage of guys.

u've got good principles....

agabaI23:
Yesterday I finished a work out routine and was having a break when I saw a lady spotting a low cut which I find really attractive on girls.
Had a little discussion and collected her number and promised to call her later. I had genuine intentions.

Because I saw her in a fitness arena, I felt she might be interested in swimming. So when I was going to swim in the evening, I asked her if she wanted to come along and swim with me. She said yea, I should pick her up somewhere opposite a supermarket.

I got there and waited a while before she appeared. She was now wearing a wig and I was like hmmmm?

Immediately after exchanging greetings, she said she wanted to shop. Wanted to buy so so perfumes and stuff and was looking at me to give her money. I looked at her and studied her as her value crashed and the interest plummeted. I asked her how much? She said 2-3K.

I gave her 3K and she added that she doesn't even have a bikini and bla bla.
I waited for her to finish her shoppin . When she came out, I did not care about what she bought. When she stepped into the car, I told her that I wanted to go alone since she had no bikini to swim with. She was like huh?? I said yea. Deleted her number immediately she stepped out.

Why do some ladies think that every guy that show interest is after their kitten and they start from the word go to extort as much as they can?

Guy, you are a MUGU! Period.

You no even get swag sef

hahn:


Guy, you are a MUGU! Period.

You no even get swag sef

Thanks, anymore blessings from your stables?

julioralph:
u've got good principles....

Bros na so oo