This issue has always been over-emphasized. Almost evry gurl once had(or still have) that school of thought. You claim to be a virgin in a relationship, with the "No sex" rule and u get so heartbroken when u find out he later cheats on u with another girl who probably gave him what u withheld.
I personally see this as big-time mumunity..it's like a guy dating u as a girl refuses to spend a dime on u and feels cheated when another guy spends on u..is it not strange?
This thing do one corper girl I knw..after a little over a year of dating with the "no $ex" rule..she eventually caught the guy cheating. Expectedly, this girl life turned upside down, she lost weight, ppl tirelessly Consoled her. The guy sef even beg tire. She no gree.
Fine! Sex shudnt define a relationship but why not try rule that out as a license to cheat?..
If not, just kukuma no date, expectin the highly improbable.
"NO SEX" rule and expecting a guy not to cheat cos of that..FOOLISHNESS or VIRTUE?

Most relationships of today are not built on love. Its all about me, what i want.

Some even apply wickedness to their partners to make the person subservient or weaker in the relationship.

You hear things like, " if you dont give me money for cloth and hair, i wont sleep with you "..

O boy, nah to kuku go carry harlot. Since relationship is exchange of one thing for another.

That same girl claiming no sex, just pay N100,000 into her account and see how she will 4ck out ur brains in one month. Smiling sheepishly..

Okada stop me here


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I think it all boils down to mutual understanding and agreement between the both parties...and most times the fault could from the guy..

Lets look at it in this scenario, you met a girl and ask her out, she agreed dating you but with the " no sex" condition attached to it, you agreed but later on you cheated on her without her consent saved cos she told you no sex till marriage, so, in this case who's fault is it?, i think it's the guy's....

Bottomline, inother to avoid all these shady story that touches the heart, i'd implore we date somebody who holds the same view and believe with you, and be ready to meet and agree with his/her terms and conditions.

Naughtysite:
Most relationships of today are not built on love. Its all about me, what i want.

Some even apply wickedness to their partners to make the person subservient or weaker in the relationship.

You hear things like, " if you dont give me money for cloth and hair, i wont sleep with you "..

O boy, nah to kuku go carry harlot. Since relationship is exchange of one thing for another.

That same girl claiming no sex, just pay N100,000 into her account and see how she will 4ck out ur brains in one month. Smiling sheepishly..

Lolx..this ur ideology strong oo..tho realistic

For the guy who agrees to no sex, there is no point cheating on her.

The truth is if i see a virgin, i will know after going on a first date. Assuming we want a relationship, i wont mention sex. What am i doing with a virgin if not that i want to marry her ?

But a girl who starts harrasing a guy for money, what should the guy do, but to harrass her for sex ? Do you know that if you continue giving her and you dont harrass her back for sex, she will get bored and dump you ?

Sexxkillz:
So relationships are now all about sex? You ask her out for a relationship. She tells you there'll be no sex. You didn't break up with her at that point, but you went on with the relationship, and cheated on your promise to her, with another girl. And then, you blame her for your own offense?
Peppersoup logic.

firstking01:
I think it all boils down to mutual understanding and agreement between the both parties...and most times the fault could from the guy..

Lets look at it in this scenario, you met a girl and ask her out, she agreed dating you but with the " no sex" condition attached to it, you agreed but later on you cheated on her without her consent saved cos she told you no sex till marriage, so, in this case who's fault is it?, i think it's the guy's....

Bottomline, inother to avoid all these shady story that touches the heart, i'd implore we date somebody who holds the same view and believe with you, and be ready to meet and agree with his/her terms and conditions.

U are talkin as if u dnt knw that when a guy agrees to the "no sex"rule...he only did it to get the relationship goin..expectin to change the game with time..
A guy might sincerely share. D same view with a girl at 1st..buh we both knw priorities in relationships are dynamic..they change wit time