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Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 6:55am On Aug 02, 2016 |
chillingbabe: Don't be silly I obviously misunderstood the lady's post a little If you can't correct someone without sounding like a fucktardic dumbass Don't bother quoting the person. And I don't do this first to comment nonsense. |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by frubben(m): 6:55am On Aug 02, 2016 |
OdikwaRisky: Lwkmd chai!!!!!!, hahhhahahhahahhahhhhhhahah u dull abeg. Who d hell told u they pay her 100k per day. See why u fail exam. U no go sofri read u wan rush comment 1 Like |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 6:57am On Aug 02, 2016 |
Otondo I misunderstood the post I was wondering how she'd make that amount in a day Abeg make I go edit am before una go come finish me frubben: |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by Flexherbal(m): 6:58am On Aug 02, 2016 |
It is either you forgive him or be a BOSS of yourself. |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by Prosperousman(m): 6:59am On Aug 02, 2016 |
Don't resign because of anger, your resignation would not close the company or change your boss reputation. Worst things like this happens but it should not make you loss focus. Don't ever think you're indispensable no matter how talented you're. Sorry for the SLAP |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by Mentorkaryhm(m): 7:01am On Aug 02, 2016 |
It's very gud that u are committed to ur job, but never take d rules for granted and also try to create time for ur self because ur boss can't slap u while u ar eating he can only hurry u up....just learn from it and continue ur job |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by tonymania(m): 7:09am On Aug 02, 2016 |
Forgive him and I need a job oo if vacancy dey abeg. |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by Exponental(m): 7:11am On Aug 02, 2016 |
He has no right to slap you even though you were at fault too. To treat his f...up, it will cost you something. Pls forgive for now. Make it his 1st warning. |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by DabuIIIT: 7:12am On Aug 02, 2016 |
lenposh: play along with then/him,pretend as if u are happy and ok....but secretly seek out another job,especially a CAREER job..u dont wanna live ur life in a hotel where u could be slapped again. |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by Exponental(m): 7:12am On Aug 02, 2016 |
Very wrong of him to hit you but on the contrary, very very wrong of you as a supervisor to attend to a customer with food in your mouth. Next time, eat in private while another attendant sees to the customer. This should apply to all staffs... |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by malthus231(m): 7:14am On Aug 02, 2016 |
tonididdy: But do u know that is officially wrong for you to slap a staff in an organization be you anybody |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by cleanclean(m): 7:14am On Aug 02, 2016 |
Sincerely speaking my brother, two wrongs cannot make a right. You should let go for the sake of God and his kingdom, not necessarily because there is no job out there or because you are weak. Thank you. |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by eyinjuege: 7:15am On Aug 02, 2016 |
To be honest with you, as an employee, you are entitled to at least 30minutes to one hour of break time. You are expected to eat to stay alive, and if you're not allowed any break to do that then your employers are wicked. There should be someone else there to man your position while you're on break. Its obvious he is wicked anyway for assaulting you. I do not blame you so much for eating and attending to the customer that came in while you were. It was a decision you had to make in split seconds. Either keep him waiting which might have become another brouhaha or attend to him with your mouth full. That wasn't your fault but the poor systems/policies in place at your place of work. I'm sure its a law somewhere about this break time thing for workers. The man needs to be reported to the police for slapping you, and as someone said earlier you should be able to get compensation. But as also pointed out, this is Nigeria. You may end up getting nothing. Its your decision anyway, but even if you have to go back there, let them know you intend to to be taking your break time so that such won't happen again. 2 Likes |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by skywalker240(m): 7:15am On Aug 02, 2016 |
its at the workplace u receive insult the most...so u gonna drop what people dont have and praying night and day for? |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by AmuDimpka: 7:16am On Aug 02, 2016 |
lenposh: You shouldn't have even been talking while eating. It is the way you carried yourself that will make him slap you. I ama what I know is that we are proud and no apologies. What I will do ? I will immediately slap him there and like 3 times You can take away money from a man ..he is still a man But When you take away dignity from a man he has lost his manhood . Take it or leave it ...your dignity has been taken away Are you tied to that hotel job,is he your destiny maker. People and stupidity seff. Well you have been slapped now eat the humble pie Take a firm decision that makes you a man ... My MD can talk to me anyhow ..even in the talk there is limitations on what he can talk not to even slap me...if he does that ..he has signed his warrant I don't forgive easily |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by Lifestone(m): 7:17am On Aug 02, 2016 |
You are in a weak position now, if you know anything about the art of war, keep your peace and pick your fight when you are in the position of strength. While I do not support your boss animalistic behaviour, it's impolite for you to attend to customers with meat in your mouth. Just imagine how you will be sounding like talking with mouthful of meat. Lol. 1 Like |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by mikhaillibran: 7:20am On Aug 02, 2016 |
ppl jst lyk others to interfere der business,u jst told us ur manager begged u not to resign,what advice do u nid from us again,na we born,kk ,go n resign n cum join us here so u can hav more chat tym...mtchw |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by lonelydora: 7:21am On Aug 02, 2016 |
lenposh: He has just thrown that ladder you are looking for before your very eyes. That's the best time to renegotiate if you still want to work there. Meanwhile, I will still blame you a little. Attending to a customer in a hotel with meat in your mouth is very wrong. You are the hotel customers are seeing and not the manager or owner. You should represent those values and quality you pasted on the wall very well. Plan yourself next time. |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by AmuDimpka: 7:21am On Aug 02, 2016 |
Lessons Never you think your are indispensable all of us are expendable Never you allow any man to take away your dignity Never you think that a job is the best in life always believe in yourself not the job |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by SaintAlbert53: 7:24am On Aug 02, 2016 |
I don't know how much you're being paid there because you didn't mention it,but if you believe there's hope of getting any new job as soon as possible, then quit the present job..If there's no hope of any for now,you just have to forgive and forget about it.Dont stop searching for a new one anyways,I really don't buy the idea of a lady working in a club too,and I would say you learn how to place yourself there also.The way you present yourself to people outside,is the way you gonna be treated.. saintalbert53 was HERE |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by kkboy(m): 7:25am On Aug 02, 2016 |
To err is human, and forgive divine. Leave vengeance to God and move on. In life there are so many people who will treat you badly, but the best revenge is forgiveness. |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by Skelewu: 7:26am On Aug 02, 2016 |
Goldie88: Chai, babe no offence, but you wicked o! Finger ke? Seems like you do it all the time. Assuming that's your picture in your profile, then it's true that those with cute innocent faces can be heartless. 1 Like |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by sekem: 7:27am On Aug 02, 2016 |
lenposh: Sewa, I'll advise you work on your written English first before you start working on getting the revenge because for a graduate you claim to be, I must say your English sucks. |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by eph12(m): 7:29am On Aug 02, 2016 |
derrick333:The manager apologized not the MD. |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by seunoni34(m): 7:29am On Aug 02, 2016 |
Im just feeling sad at the soft comments here. I can never take a slap from anyone no matter how much they're paying me. This is crazy and barbaric! WTF, some people are advising you to stay? This is high level slavery! Let me tell you something, physically abusive men never change, especially men who slap grown ups at any slight provocation. Your conduct may be unprofessional but his reaction is far from unprofessional and now an infringement on your right as a citizen. You either do anything in your power to sue him or leave the company. If you stay, one thing is certain, you'll never get that respect back. Another day will surely come, trust me. He might even r@pe you one day and you'll do nothing about it! You'll get weaker and weaker until the abuse will finally become a norm. And you'll hate yourself. I work for someone who pays me well enough to buy my basic needs, as arrogant as he can be at times, I make sure I set my boundaries with him. Anybody who can hit an adult for any reason except in self defense should be avoided at all cost. |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by autodoctor: 7:31am On Aug 02, 2016 |
derrick333: So its OK to slap someone and then apologise later? |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by hardbody: 7:32am On Aug 02, 2016 |
tonididdy: The managing director slapped her, the manager is begging her. The former is the boss and can't see value in her, but the manager runs the place and appreciates her input , unfortunately he doesn't have the final say. When you guys read, pick the details, then you can advise with insight. Just saying. 2 Likes |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by Nickymezor(f): 7:34am On Aug 02, 2016 |
Goldie88:... can u hear ur self |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by derrick333(m): 7:36am On Aug 02, 2016 |
autodoctor:It depends ,u r an employee under him n dis is d 1st ,I bliv it shud b d last too ,odawise he can now take legal action ,needless sueing 4now |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by ManTiger(m): 7:42am On Aug 02, 2016 |
Wait... 100k/day? |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by crosspaul1(m): 7:42am On Aug 02, 2016 |
before you revenge, try reading your english language again cause i got lost at some point. how can you write such and you say you don't deserve a slap. you deserve more than just a slap. |
Re: My MD Slapped Me, Please I Need Your Advice by 8BitGee(m): 7:42am On Aug 02, 2016 |
tonididdy: But then, he has no right to ASSAULT her. No one does. He'd be rubbing his nose against iron bars and paying through them if it were here. It is primitive to raise your hand against people because you want to "correct" them . Query her. Their are ways of dealing with professional misconduct without assault or discrimination. FFS! |
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