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Love. Is It Possible To Never Feel Love? by amdo007(m): 5:44pm On Aug 02, 2016 |
Good day ladies and gentlemen. I have been disturbed by the above question for the better part of a month now that I find it necessary to share my experience with lovers and love experts in the house. Am a twenty-six year old male living in Nigeria. I am successful in my own little way because I have a job and I just concluded my masters programme in one of the leading universities. Life is good? Maybe, maybe mot. I have a problem, and it's simple, I have never felt anything strong for the opposite sex. Don't get me wrong. I am attracted to their sexuality and all but I have never fallen in love with them. I could go days without calling a person that I am supposed to be in a relationship with and feel nothing. My first relationship was accidental because I did not ask her out, we just grew together and maybe when she found our I wasn't going to ask her out she asked me out. Am not saying this for any reason other than the fact that I didn't see her in a romantic way. How ever in order not to hurt her feelings we started dating. I broke her heart in the most cruel of ways and I never felt a prick. Fast forward to now few relationships on the way and I can say with all certainty that I have never felt any love for the ladies. The irony is that I love my family members. The kind of love that makes your heart ache by the thought of loosing them, however I have never felt that way for any of thee ladies in my life at any time. This brings me to my conclusion. Is it possible to never feel love for the opposite sex? Is there a way out? Your advice will be well appreciated. 1 Like |
Re: Love. Is It Possible To Never Feel Love? by Nobody: 6:10pm On Aug 02, 2016 |
Thou shall not tempt me to say what i dont want to say |
Re: Love. Is It Possible To Never Feel Love? by amdo007(m): 6:23pm On Aug 02, 2016 |
Oma307:Funny reply. Nobody is forcing you |
Re: Love. Is It Possible To Never Feel Love? by Nobody: 7:08pm On Aug 02, 2016 |
It is possible . Ask God to guide you so you won't fall in love with the wrong person. |
Re: Love. Is It Possible To Never Feel Love? by amdo007(m): 7:24pm On Aug 02, 2016 |
lilyqueen:I have started putting it in prayers. But is it possible to marry someone you don't have romantic love for and still live happily ever after? |
Re: Love. Is It Possible To Never Feel Love? by vchykp(m): 7:50pm On Aug 02, 2016 |
some months ago a man of God helped someone with thesame problem, its spiritual, go to a powerful man of God |
Re: Love. Is It Possible To Never Feel Love? by Nobody: 8:41pm On Aug 02, 2016 |
amdo007: It's possible. but it's rare |
Re: Love. Is It Possible To Never Feel Love? by amdo007(m): 9:39pm On Aug 02, 2016 |
vchykp:Thanks. I wil work on it. Godbless |
Re: Love. Is It Possible To Never Feel Love? by Paulakosu(m): 10:11pm On Aug 02, 2016 |
. 1 Like |
Re: Love. Is It Possible To Never Feel Love? by amdo007(m): 10:41pm On Aug 02, 2016 |
Paulakosu:Mirage? Why do you think so? Are you in my shoe? |
Re: Love. Is It Possible To Never Feel Love? by faruz: 12:58am On Aug 03, 2016 |
sure its possible......... |
Re: Love. Is It Possible To Never Feel Love? by Paulakosu(m): 4:31am On Aug 03, 2016 |
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Re: Love. Is It Possible To Never Feel Love? by amdo007(m): 6:25am On Aug 03, 2016 |
Paulakosu:Un returned love is also a problem but we were meant to beleive that we need to have a certain level of affection for a person before we marry them. |
Re: Love. Is It Possible To Never Feel Love? by amdo007(m): 6:26am On Aug 03, 2016 |
faruz:and can yo go ahead and still marry such a person? |
Re: Love. Is It Possible To Never Feel Love? by faruz: 8:46am On Aug 03, 2016 |
amdo007:no no no...... To avoid story that touches the heart....... |
Re: Love. Is It Possible To Never Feel Love? by Paulakosu(m): 11:34am On Aug 03, 2016 |
. 1 Like |
Re: Love. Is It Possible To Never Feel Love? by amdo007(m): 5:14pm On Aug 03, 2016 |
Paulakosu:Thanks |
Re: Love. Is It Possible To Never Feel Love? by Paulakosu(m): 8:08pm On Aug 03, 2016 |
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Re: Love. Is It Possible To Never Feel Love? by DeLioncourt: 10:16pm On Aug 03, 2016 |
You don't have to be in a relationship to love. So it's not possible...except you're living with rats or dead people. Love is subjective...nobody can define it for you. |
Re: Love. Is It Possible To Never Feel Love? by amdo007(m): 11:39pm On Aug 03, 2016 |
DeLioncourt:but the romantic feeling is empty. |
Re: Love. Is It Possible To Never Feel Love? by lollybae(f): 10:25pm On Aug 04, 2016 |
Paulakosu:hi |
Re: Love. Is It Possible To Never Feel Love? by Paulakosu(m): 10:46pm On Aug 04, 2016 |
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Re: Love. Is It Possible To Never Feel Love? by lollybae(f): 8:02am On Aug 05, 2016 |
Paulakosu:I just want to solicit for singular vote for falconey in the Mr nairaland grand finale coming up on saturday. I"d be so grateful if u agree on this. Please 1 Like |
Re: Love. Is It Possible To Never Feel Love? by ogojabhoi(m): 5:32pm On Aug 05, 2016 |
lollybae:alright... Keep us posted.. |
Re: Love. Is It Possible To Never Feel Love? by queencalipso(f): 7:34pm On Aug 05, 2016 |
amdo007: Better not to feel the love at all. bcz if you do, pray, tell you never get heart broken, then you will know that some things can be more painful than loosing a loved one to death. |
Re: Love. Is It Possible To Never Feel Love? by amdo007(m): 11:05pm On Aug 05, 2016 |
queencalipso:Deep. |
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