Good day ladies and gentlemen. I have been disturbed by the above question for the better part of a month now that I find it necessary to share my experience with lovers and love experts in the house. Am a twenty-six year old male living in Nigeria. I am successful in my own little way because I have a job and I just concluded my masters programme in one of the leading universities. Life is good? Maybe, maybe mot. I have a problem, and it's simple, I have never felt anything strong for the opposite sex.
Don't get me wrong. I am attracted to their sexuality and all but I have never fallen in love with them. I could go days without calling a person that I am supposed to be in a relationship with and feel nothing. My first relationship was accidental because I did not ask her out, we just grew together and maybe when she found our I wasn't going to ask her out she asked me out. Am not saying this for any reason other than the fact that I didn't see her in a romantic way. How ever in order not to hurt her feelings we started dating. I broke her heart in the most cruel of ways and I never felt a prick.
Fast forward to now few relationships on the way and I can say with all certainty that I have never felt any love for the ladies. The irony is that I love my family members. The kind of love that makes your heart ache by the thought of loosing them, however I have never felt that way for any of thee ladies in my life at any time. This brings me to my conclusion. Is it possible to never feel love for the opposite sex? Is there a way out? Your advice will be well appreciated.

Thou shall not tempt me to say what i dont want to say

Oma307:
Thou shall not tempt me to say what i dont want to say

Funny reply. Nobody is forcing you

It is possible . Ask God to guide you so you won't fall in love with the wrong person.

lilyqueen:
It is possible . Ask God to guide you so you won't fall in love with the wrong person.

I have started putting it in prayers. But is it possible to marry someone you don't have romantic love for and still live happily ever after?

some months ago a man of God helped someone with thesame problem, its spiritual, go to a powerful man of God

amdo007:

I have started putting it in prayers. But is it possible to marry someone you don't have romantic love for and still live happily ever after?

It's possible. but it's rare

vchykp:
some months ago a man of God helped someone with thesame problem, its spiritual, go to a powerful man of God

Thanks. I wil work on it. Godbless

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Paulakosu:
Op, what if I told you dat love is a mirage ?

Mirage? Why do you think so? Are you in my shoe?

sure its possible.........

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Paulakosu:
I'm not in your. To find someone you love & who at the same time loves you back is even more difficult. Besides, I no longer believe love exists.

Un returned love is also a problem but we were meant to beleive that we need to have a certain level of affection for a person before we marry them.

faruz:
sure its possible.........

and can yo go ahead and still marry such a person?

amdo007:
and can yo go ahead and still marry such a person?

no no no......





To avoid story that touches the heart.......

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Paulakosu:
I believe one thing, relationships are not meant for everybody, so just live your life the best you can.

Thanks

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You don't have to be in a relationship to love.

So it's not possible...except you're living with rats or dead people.

Love is subjective...nobody can define it for you.

DeLioncourt:
You don't have to be in a relationship to love.

So it's not possible...except you're living with rats or dead people.

Love is subjective...nobody can define it for you.

but the romantic feeling is empty.

Paulakosu:
Dnt mention.

hi

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amdo007:
Good day ladies and gentlemen. I have been disturbed by the above question for the better part of a month now that I find it necessary to share my experience with lovers and love experts in the house. Am a twenty-six year old male living in Nigeria. I am successful in my own little way because I have a job and I just concluded my masters programme in one of the leading universities. Life is good? Maybe, maybe mot. I have a problem, and it's simple, I have never felt anything strong for the opposite sex.
Don't get me wrong. I am attracted to their sexuality and all but I have never fallen in love with them. I could go days without calling a person that I am supposed to be in a relationship with and feel nothing. My first relationship was accidental because I did not ask her out, we just grew together and maybe when she found our I wasn't going to ask her out she asked me out. Am not saying this for any reason other than the fact that I didn't see her in a romantic way. How ever in order not to hurt her feelings we started dating. I broke her heart in the most cruel of ways and I never felt a prick.
Fast forward to now few relationships on the way and I can say with all certainty that I have never felt any love for the ladies. The irony is that I love my family members. The kind of love that makes your heart ache by the thought of loosing them, however I have never felt that way for any of thee ladies in my life at any time. This brings me to my conclusion. Is it possible to never feel love for the opposite sex? Is there a way out? Your advice will be well appreciated.

Better not to feel the love at all. bcz if you do, pray, tell you never get heart broken, then you will know that some things can be more painful than loosing a loved one to death.

queencalipso:


Better not to feel the love at all. bcz if you do, pray, tell you never get heart broken, then you will know that some things can be more painful than loosing a loved one to death.

Deep.