Sexxkillz:
Confront wetin? Do you want to fight her in the dirt?

Just disappear like a black goat into the night. . . Without trace. Keep your "evidence" for future use. That kind of girl will want to pin the pregnancy on you, in the long run.

Sexxkillz:
Confront wetin? Do you want to fight her in the dirt?

Just disappear like a black goat into the night. . . Without trace. Keep your "evidence" for future use. That kind of girl will want to pin the pregnancy on you, in the long run.

tjark1:
When you spy on someone, I imagine you already know the possible outcome of what you're looking for and why you need the information...

You see? You don't need any advice sir

bicmitchum:

But I like her, I won't lie. You don't find someone like her that easily. She is special in her own way, and of course really intelligent!

bicmitchum:
This girl is probably the most intelligent girl I have ever met. That she is intelligent/smart is in no doubt. She schooled somewhere in the UK and is now working for her dad in Nigeria. We met some months ago and it's been a really good time. Finally I met someone who really challenges me to the bone. We get into arguments on interesting topics and it's such fun. Technically, I could say we are dating. But definitely not marriage-dating or anything of the sort.

Anyways, she uses my computer or other devices from time to time and always makes sure to sign out and erase all traces of use. Because I'm smarter , I installed some kind of keylogger on these devices and obtained her passwords. For some weeks now, I have been monitoring her conversations on all social media platforms she is on. The revelations have been mind-blowing to say the least.

I travel often and can be away for several days, sometimes out of the country. During these times, we still talk of course. But what did I find on her chats? She's been rolling with at least three different guys when I'm not around. And worse still, she's been having unlimited sex with them (she loves sex). Of course, she has always played like I was the only one. The bad news? She is now pregnant for one of these guys. On her chats with him, she goes on about how "her dad is going to kill her". Some other times she is "concerned about how this will crush her reputation." It's almost eerie how I see in real time their planning to take out the pregnancy, lol. Really funnily strange.

Perhaps it wouldn't have been any strange if this girl isn't one who looks as innocent as a baby duck. It's indeed incredibly baffling. I can't even quantify how much respect I had for her. Somehow, I still do and want to continue with her. Maybe? But the thing is, she has continued to deny seeing other guys. Not once has she admitted to this each time I subtly hint at it. Should I confront her with the evidence I have?

Dajugba:



I read through your written, and I smiled.
From your article, she is neither you fiance nor girl friend, just friends you are . You only delveloped affection for her strength, because she probably out smart your ego as a dude. Work on that, it sound as your weakness.

Secondly you didn't ask her to be your fiance, and she was comfortable with it and had friend zoon you, but you were likely not aware. She is only wanting to act safe as apc saints, so you don't
lose confidence (Respect) , of who she presented her self to be. And she value her esteem as every other decent lady would want to be address or caution with respect.

Thirdly Even if you show evidence to her act, the worst she may say is that you are monitoring her privacy, and she is not your wife or girl friend. Believe me, any mature and learned lady hate when someone intrude without thier consent, and that would worsten matter, she may hate you and Friendships will turn sore.

Fourthly. I don't know how you want to love someone who sleeps with three different men, even if you love that person, man think twice na! Abi, you prefer to share and train another mans child? But out side that , pardon if I sound harsh; she is a pervert. She don't deserve you except you are like her. You don't need to tally with such lady. She wont change, and eve if she will, it may take years, and discipline. Abi you want to start bullying someone's daughter because of love?

In conclusion, you know what to do. except you love friend zoon, and want her to be singing " I love you to be my maga..."

ButterFrost212:
You obviously like this girl, with all her sleeping around and what not... But dude if she's pregnant and she has three bed mates,then she really doesn't like you, it's not hard to see. My advice? Cut ties with her and move on, you'll definitely meet someone else who's more intelligent and finer too. It might seem hard, but it's what you have to do trust me, life is too precious to not be able to trust your partner or have rest of mind when it comes to someone you claim to like a lot. I hope I helped

bicmitchum:

Lol. Yes indeed, I like her. Hmm...cut ties? Maybe I should. But I'm 100% sure it will take no less than 2 years to find someone her type again.

bicmitchum:

That "spying" was more out of curiosity than out of blackmail.

ButterFrost212:
You obviously like this girl, with all her sleeping around and what not... But dude if she's pregnant and she has three bed mates,then she really doesn't like you, it's not hard to see. My advice? Cut ties with her and move on, you'll definitely meet someone else who's more intelligent and finer too. It might seem hard, but it's what you have to do trust me, life is too precious to not be able to trust your partner or have rest of mind when it comes to someone you claim to like a lot. I hope I helped

Trudiee:

u know the saying.. curiosity killed the cat.

not only did u violate her privacy, u want to confront her with evidence gotten from it. u urself are u loyal? are u? did u marry her? u sed d relationship ain't one for marriage according to ur story. so she shd wait til ure ready to marry her.

if she carry belle for another guy, dis she put it on ur head. u cn only complain if ure sure the baby z not urs. u didnt tel us if ure also sleeping with her.

tho i dont see y a smart lady as u say shd be promiscuous but bro! ure no saint

if u still respect her as u say, maybe when she brings it up.. she has to be the one to do it. or if she doesn't, stylishly bring it up n talk about it.

bicmitchum:
This girl is probably the most intelligent girl I have ever met. That she is intelligent/smart is in no doubt. She schooled somewhere in the UK and is now working for her dad in Nigeria. We met some months ago and it's been a really good time. Finally I met someone who really challenges me to the bone. We get into arguments on interesting topics and it's such fun. Technically, I could say we are dating. But definitely not marriage-dating or anything of the sort.

Anyways, she uses my computer or other devices from time to time and always makes sure to sign out and erase all traces of use. Because I'm smarter , I installed some kind of keylogger on these devices and obtained her passwords. For some weeks now, I have been monitoring her conversations on all social media platforms she is on. The revelations have been mind-blowing to say the least.

I travel often and can be away for several days, sometimes out of the country. During these times, we still talk of course. But what did I find on her chats? She's been rolling with at least three different guys when I'm not around. And worse still, she's been having unlimited sex with them (she loves sex). Of course, she has always played like I was the only one. The bad news? She is now pregnant for one of these guys. On her chats with him, she goes on about how "her dad is going to kill her". Some other times she is "concerned about how this will crush her reputation." It's almost eerie how I see in real time their planning to take out the pregnancy, lol. Really funnily strange.

Perhaps it wouldn't have been any strange if this girl isn't one who looks as innocent as a baby duck. It's indeed incredibly baffling. I can't even quantify how much respect I had for her. Somehow, I still do and want to continue with her. Maybe? But the thing is, she has continued to deny seeing other guys. Not once has she admitted to this each time I subtly hint at it. Should I confront her with the evidence I have?

otingy:
bro, if u don't mind, I need those keyloggers. thanks.