Hey people how do u deal with a partner or spouse (male & female) who never/rarely says sorry when they've done something wrong?

you ignore them and move forward with your life.

You judge them by their action.

scemchee:

you ignore them and move forward with your life.

Am not talking about a casual friend or acquaintance am talking a bout a lover or a wife.

Bontee:

You judge them by their action.

And do wat?

iice:

Talk to them.

And say wat?

Lord_Reed:

Hey people how do u deal with a partner or spouse (male & female) who never/rarely says sorry when they've done something wrong?

God!!!! i had on couple of yrs ago, she never ever say sorry, she is always right. It drives me insane. Thank God she is an ex now.

scemchee:

you ignore them and move forward with your life.

Yeah am in support of that . or you could probably talk to them and if they still remain adamant judge them by their action .

Some ppl are not just used to sayin sorry but it's not like they dont feel bad thou but they cant just say SORRY.
If she's a lover and u cant stand not saying sorry,tell her to bounce but if she's a wife,she's your cross you have to carry it, that means you have to live with it.

rita@NL:

Some ppl are not just used to sayin sorry but it's not like they dont feel bad thou but they cant just say SORRY.
If she's a lover and u cant stand not saying sorry,tell her to bounce but if she's a wife,she's your cross you have to carry it, that means you have to live with it.

That is even worst, my ex ego is so high that she can't bring herself to say sorry.

How are you going to have a marriage with someone like that?!? You cant, its impossible.
I can not deal with a partner like that. you either change or i leave.

O ga oh. So there are babes that cannot accept mistakes/faults?

My bf seems to have forgotten my worth

When am wrong, I do not hesitate to apologize and make amends.

No wonder he is doing shakara 

amhurting:

O ga oh. So there are babes that cannot accept mistakes/faults?

My bf seems to have forgotten my worth

When am wrong, I do not hesitate to apologize and make amends.
No wonder he is doing shakara

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Don't change cos somebody 4got ur worth.
U have a quality that will earn u more respect.

@poster

Its in nigerian character

Thanks guys. Meaningful contribs there.

Just ignore h/her! People like that are usually stubborn and opinionted. If you are unlucky enough to fall in love with such a person, I guess it's one of those thing you have to live with!

scemchee:

you ignore them and move forward with your life.

Shikena!

iice:

explain to him/her that what she/he did was wrong. The effect of their actions on people and having the decency to apologize for hurting them (people/person in their lives). Making sure to explain that the apology should come because he/she felt it necessary of his/her own accord to do so and not because it's expected (like people always expect some apology and get their knickers in a twist if they don't get one) If it doesn't take, then you've done what you can.
I don't know what is even worse. . .the one that does it over and over and pours out apology like water or the one that doesn't even realize the wrongness of the deed .

wise one there!

You look for technique to get him hurt to bone marrow, pretend you are right and refuse to say sorry, make him see how you feel.I think that is the best way he will feel you pains, let him realise later that it was intensional and then tender your apology

justwise:

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Don't change cos somebody 4got your worth.
U have a quality that will earn u more respect.

i wont change. thanks

Be mature in a relationship. If one is Lion let another be sheep. If she/he did not say sorry, you say sorry to yourself and forget about it. Shekena!!

But what about the one that keep saying sorry all the time. Committing the same offence from time to time and will not stop saying sorry. How will you feel and what will you do?

Purposely hurt him/her back and never say sorry then they will get the feeling.

Kai, i'm deffo one of those who find it hard to say sorry.
I'd do anything else but say sorry

that's one of the things that kills relationship if am to say, to me ooooooo if i offend u and find out that i did something that annoyed u i will tell u that am sorry, it will not take a hair out of my hairs rather it will solve a grate problem that may arise.

a mere lover who after continous talking refuses to change there is still time to back out
husband and wife issue learn to deal with it.

Just tell him or her to 4K OFF and move on!!!

get used to it

it could really make life horrible. if there are other
benefits you carry on. Perhaps it is a spouse
and you believe that there is no divorce and
remarriage then you turn to God to help you carry
the cross.

Ignore the partner.

MrPrsdent, point of correction, it's not a Nigerian thing as u rightly adduced. It can happen anywhere be it in Ghana, Europe, China, etc. It is caused by an individual's inability to swallow his/her pride. lol,

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ignore her and if she continues oh well