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10 Things Guys Should Stop Doing On Their First Date by Adudavidlee(m): 12:37pm On Aug 07, 2016 |
1. Oversharing Women feel sometimes men burden them with the labour of going through a lot in their life on first dates and it’s not supposed to be. So know it’s the first date and just talk little details about yourself. 2. Be intelligent Women generally hate it when men on dates do not know basic things, so if possible, do some digging about your date and get to know her. One of the women we spoke to, said her date didn’t know what a content writer did, and he said something else. To be on the safe side, if you don’t know it, don’t assume. 3. Don’t think it’ll end in sex Men need to understand that not all first dates end in sex and as thus, remove all the thoughts from your head. Every damn thing. It’ll make the date go fine and would lead to the probability of a second date. 4. Don’t overdrink Few of the ladies who spoke to us mentioned that men had been drunk on dates before and we really can’t understand how that works really. But if you’re the culprit, first dates are most definitely not the time to show off your drinking prowess okay? Good. 5. Avoid being the comedian A lot of men know women like funny men and as such come prepared to turn everything into laugh fest and this is totally wrong. Forget all the ideas in your head and resist the temptation to make crass and tasteless jokes, and more importantly, prevent your date from the struggle to laugh or blush at your jokes. 6. Avoid weird touches A lot of women love their space and so they hate it when men touch them discreetly on the first date. According to one of the ladies who spoke to us for the purpose of this article, she says “You don’t know me too well and that’s clearly an invasion of space”. So don’t do it. 7. Don’t stare for too long People in the past have gotten dumped at the first date because they were over staring, either at the ladies boobs or ass or even another lady. So, don’t over stare. Nothing at all 8. No phones No phones at dates, because it’s rude. What this means is forget the world, forget your twitter fam, forget to Instagram that food really. It’s the first date and it won’t kill you if you don’t post this one food okay? Very good. 9. No friends Some people still don’t understand how offensive it is to bring a friend on a date and it shouldn’t be. Men, don’t try it. Even if you meet a friend at the date, don’t invite him over. It’s wrong and won’t allow for communication between both parties, which the date is supposed to do. 10. Don’t blow up when she pays Some women are very independent and as such may want to pay the bills, or even go dutch and men need to understand that it’s a thing. Don’t cause a scene, agree on something and leave. What other things do you think men should stop doing on first dates?
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Re: 10 Things Guys Should Stop Doing On Their First Date by Adudavidlee(m): 12:40pm On Aug 07, 2016 |
Cc: seun pls help move it to front page,let's educate some niggas in da house |
Re: 10 Things Guys Should Stop Doing On Their First Date by FreeSpirited: 12:40pm On Aug 07, 2016 |
How about a situation where the first date or meeting happen to be in your room?....does all that apply too? thank you |
Re: 10 Things Guys Should Stop Doing On Their First Date by Kenzico(m): 12:41pm On Aug 07, 2016 |
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Re: 10 Things Guys Should Stop Doing On Their First Date by jeyselassie(m): 12:46pm On Aug 07, 2016 |
nigerian guys dont date. besides no matter how they F up sef its a mans world. its d ladies that are searching she has no choice than to comport and be tolerant. |
Re: 10 Things Guys Should Stop Doing On Their First Date by Adudavidlee(m): 12:46pm On Aug 07, 2016 |
First date with a gal is not suppose to be in your room except she's a LovePeddler |
Re: 10 Things Guys Should Stop Doing On Their First Date by Nobody: 12:48pm On Aug 07, 2016 |
No sex on a first date. Dude pay your bills on the first date, very important. or you might fall your hands. Even if the girl insist on paying, persistently stop her, she will love you more, unlike when she wants to pay, and all you said is ok!, go ahead....so not manly. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Things Guys Should Stop Doing On Their First Date by Adudavidlee(m): 12:51pm On Aug 07, 2016 |
jeyselassie: |
Re: 10 Things Guys Should Stop Doing On Their First Date by Nobody: 12:51pm On Aug 07, 2016 |
11. Be Clean. 12. Don't crack boring jokes. 13. Be fluent in conversation 14. MOST IMPORTANTLY, Bring a heavy wallet filled with money and not with complimentary cards. Lols |
Re: 10 Things Guys Should Stop Doing On Their First Date by thesuave10(m): 12:54pm On Aug 07, 2016 |
Adaure4ever: Hehe.. Adas and money. You just had to say "heavy" . Lemme guess your one of them that wants honeymoon in Bahamas and paris |
Re: 10 Things Guys Should Stop Doing On Their First Date by Adudavidlee(m): 12:57pm On Aug 07, 2016 |
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Re: 10 Things Guys Should Stop Doing On Their First Date by Nobody: 1:01pm On Aug 07, 2016 |
thesuave10:hahaha, I remember One guy who love carrying a heavy wallet but its filled with complimentary cards and flyerz. Lols. Boys deceiving Girls since 90AD. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Things Guys Should Stop Doing On Their First Date by nrexzy: 1:06pm On Aug 07, 2016 |
Lol..... old school format... did that done that moving on #pimpin |
Re: 10 Things Guys Should Stop Doing On Their First Date by ILiberianGirl(f): 1:27pm On Aug 07, 2016 |
jeyselassie: This is a shame |
Re: 10 Things Guys Should Stop Doing On Their First Date by thesuave10(m): 1:52pm On Aug 07, 2016 |
Adaure4ever: Lol...see your mouth. So it's wallet before looks in Ada's world. What if he was testing yo ass? |
Re: 10 Things Guys Should Stop Doing On Their First Date by jeyselassie(m): 4:21pm On Aug 07, 2016 |
ILiberianGirl:oh pls. im taken jus telling u the reality tho |
Re: 10 Things Guys Should Stop Doing On Their First Date by Nobody: 4:34pm On Aug 07, 2016 |
Adudavidlee:Do not order for anything at his expense on a first date if you dont want him to touch you.Some guyz will suppose you only want to eat their money and run away.So while you are eating the meal he bought he will be touchlighting.So as not to be label,a maga. |
Re: 10 Things Guys Should Stop Doing On Their First Date by thesuave10(m): 12:30am On Aug 08, 2016 |
Adaure4ever: Lol...yeah right . You want a heavy wallet so he'll be buying you strawberries |
Re: 10 Things Guys Should Stop Doing On Their First Date by thesuave10(m): 11:34pm On Aug 08, 2016 |
Adaure4ever: Yh..right you want a heavy wallet so he can buy you an island of strawberries |
Re: 10 Things Guys Should Stop Doing On Their First Date by Lexxyburg(m): 11:58pm On Aug 08, 2016 |
For most Nigerian ladies, You don't need a date when you have a fat bank account, or a car |
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