LuvU2:
*musing-* For real i cant stand a pot-bellied man for long
I cant stand a scruffy looking man for long
I cant stand a smelly man
I cant stand a man who is wealthy but looks messy.

Why would a man be wealthy and erm unappealing to look at? If anything, he should look the best.

He can afford to gym. He has time too. He is in the best position to always eat healthy and stay fit.

Why would he want to look like my dad after 2,3 years of marriage?

If ive planned to look good even after having kids. Why not him?
Yes i plan looking good like my mum.

I remember my dad started to grow belly fat in his early 40s and my mum wasnt pleased. She didnt voice it bt my dad sensed her displeasure and hit the gym asap, continuously, until he trimmed completely. Till today, he still visits...

Well, if my hubby would be insensitive, I will try to caution him, if nothing works, its not i may cheat, i would cheat on him.

*How a man looks matters a lot*

LuvU2:
*musing-* For real i cant stand a pot-bellied man for long
I cant stand a scruffy looking man for long
I cant stand a smelly man
I cant stand a man who is wealthy but looks messy.

Why would a man be wealthy and erm unappealing to look at? If anything, he should look the best.

He can afford to gym. He has time too. He is in the best position to always eat healthy and stay fit.

Why would he want to look like my dad after 2,3 years of marriage?

If ive planned to look good even after having kids. Why not him?
Yes i plan looking good like my mum.

I remember my dad started to grow belly fat in his early 40s and my mum wasnt pleased. She didnt voice it bt my dad sensed her displeasure and hit the gym asap, continuously, until he trimmed completely. Till today, he still visits...

Well, if my hubby would be insensitive, I will try to caution him, if nothing works, its not i may cheat, i would cheat on him.

*How a man looks matters a lot*

LuvU2:
My pills are not eye/ear friendly, unfortunatelly.

pimpchi:
To be a truck pusher is far more honourable than becoming a home grown, world wide, home grown olosho.... I jst pity d innocent man that choose a loser like u for a wife... I will put him in my prayers. #ASHAWOTENKOBO

torqque7:


Rotfl..who your pills epp?Gerarahiamen....smh..as tiny as you are, you are giving me a tongue?ifa knock your small nose ehnn you'll go and sleep.

Anyway I hope you'll not make a big deal of it if after giving birth and your breasts fall like a deflated balloon,your husband goes to cheat cos you are no longer as good looking as you were when he married you? . But seriously that ideology is not it at all aunty smally.

LuvU2:
I pray ur wife cheats on u too with ur superiors of course Amen

pimpchi:

God will never ever give me an olosho like you for a wife... Meanwhile only God is my superior and she can cheat on me with God..... #pig

LuvU2:
chai see painment God pls dash my little friend small beauty. He may become suicidal if every woman starts daring to live smart and happy.

PushPlay:
What's this rant about?
Dear, cheat all you want .

Nobody fcvking cares. You only end up hurting yourself .

pimpchi:

If living smart and happy is to cheat on ur partner, then it's not worth it....#lowlife

LuvU2:
I want my man looking good else i look elsewhere but still stay with him. How am i different from the millions of adulterous men u celebrate everyday.

Thiwalade:


.... while it is important to be with someone that is presentable and looks out for himself, personally I feel it will be a bit too far to cheat just cause of looks. I was also very rough back in the days but through hardwork, and willingness to improve, I can boldly say I've CHANGED and I'm glad about it. "smileysmiley" can testify to that..

LuvU2:
nah its a win win. I enjoy what my husband lacks and still stay to enjoy what he has.

torqque7:


I'll tell you how you are different,you have a whole in between your legs while they have rods in between theirs. And you don't need to be reminded that you are in a world where there is a clear expectation for females and males,expectations which are not in anyway similar. Weather you like it or not it's a man's world and some things will remain same like FOREVER and if you decide to cheat and you get caught then be rest assured you'd be kicked out,except by some miracle you are allowed to stay..but if your husband cheats he will hardly get kicked out and the chances of the marriage ending is not as hight as when you as female cheats..that's the difference between you and the adulterous men 'we celebrate " .

By the way don't let your mum hear you say this. Lemi ask sef do you consider yourself a feminist? cos you sure sound like a lil feminist wannabe or feminist in the making.

PushPlay:


Good for you. Just get ready to live a miserable life when you get caught cuz men usually don't forgive a cheat.

That's if he doesn't dump you ass.

LuvU2:
aww my baby
@bold, ur opinion.

LuvU2:
Stop sounding pained. Its that simple.

LuvU2:
Helo, its a man's world? wow i am just knowing. U mind showing me where it was stamped? That the world belongs to David Emeka and Kola?

Lol, honey i am free to have my say in this new world where women are becoming more assertive
.
Its no one's world. If there are rules, everyone shd keep them. If there are none stay off my Vg.

If these rules are biased, someone has to straighten them. If feminism can, then well, it should.

But in my my world, i hve a choice. I have desires. If my man fails to meet all, i would peep to see who has the rest. If he doesnt want no peeping, he has to give me his best.

PushPlay:

Am I the husband you intend to cheat on?

I'm just telling you the consequences of cheating you are likely to face .

He is even likely to react even if he suspects anything.

Guys hardly forgives cheats. I'm site you read stories here. Chroniq.ue was a recent one.

Cheers!

LuvU2:
*musing-* For real i cant stand a pot-bellied man for long
I cant stand a scruffy looking man for long
I cant stand a smelly man
I cant stand a man who is wealthy but looks messy.

Why would a man be wealthy and erm unappealing to look at? If anything, he should look the best.

He can afford to gym. He has time too. He is in the best position to always eat healthy and stay fit.

Why would he want to look like my dad after 2,3 years of marriage?

If ive planned to look good even after having kids. Why not him?
Yes i plan looking good like my mum.

I remember my dad started to grow belly fat in his early 40s and my mum wasnt pleased. She didnt voice it bt my dad sensed her displeasure and hit the gym asap, continuously, until he trimmed completely. Till today, he still visits...

Well, if my hubby would be insensitive, I will try to caution him, if nothing works, its not i may cheat, i would cheat on him.

*How a man looks matters a lot*

torqque7:


OK maybe you can be the female version of ghandi in Nigeria and change things for women all over..

Sha I am not contesting anything with you (guys never win arguments with women so no bigi ) but if your husband kicks you out for cheating il just hand you a bowl of ice-cream and say sorry but I warned you before and you were forming girl on fire for me..

LuvU2:
*musing-* For real i cant stand a pot-bellied man for long
I cant stand a scruffy looking man for long
I cant stand a smelly man
I cant stand a man who is wealthy but looks messy.

Why would a man be wealthy and erm unappealing to look at? If anything, he should look the best.

He can afford to gym. He has time too. He is in the best position to always eat healthy and stay fit.

Why would he want to look like my dad after 2,3 years of marriage?

If ive planned to look good even after having kids. Why not him?
Yes i plan looking good like my mum.

I remember my dad started to grow belly fat in his early 40s and my mum wasnt pleased. She didnt voice it bt my dad sensed her displeasure and hit the gym asap, continuously, until he trimmed completely. Till today, he still visits...

Well, if my hubby would be insensitive, I will try to caution him, if nothing works, its not i may cheat, i would cheat on him.

*How a man looks matters a lot*

LuvU2:
Just go away (like cheezy would say) with ur negativity. There are so many married women who cheat. Not encouraging cheating, but why they cheat is very obvious.

TheModsAreMad:


Shaarap! You are a bloody liar. How a man looks doesn't matter to women (especially Nigerian women) once he has the cash.

schumastic:


this is what you came up with and to make it all worse, you said you can cheat and still love the person

PushPlay:

lol!
So you're making these women your role model right?
Just look at them closely and tell me if they live a life worthy of emulation .

Just compare them with happily married women who have supporting husband's by their side.

You dare hurt his ego and you stand alone the rest of your life.

Chacha!

Thiwalade:


.... while it is important to be with someone that is presentable and looks out for himself, personally I feel it will be a bit too far to cheat just cause of looks. I was also very rough back in the days but through hardwork, and willingness to improve, I can boldly say I've CHANGED and I'm glad about it. "smileysmiley" can testify to that..

LuvU2:
U know ur problem, u think all men are the same!

PushPlay:


Yes indeed, all men are the same given the same circumstance or condition.
They only act in varying degrees which often determines the outcome or turn of events .

LuvU2:
Why? whats wrong wif that.