Sunnycliff:
No body is above sexual mistakes and errors!

The way our African parents traumatize young girls who got pregnant and refused the abortion option is really discouraging.

NGO'S should really do more work on sensitization and rehabilitation in such cases!

The stupid boy who knows how to Bleep and pregnant a girl doesn't know he has to take care of the girl and maintain her upkeep.

This is too bad

read d post again....

d boy didn't reject d girl....


d grandma is not to be blame okay. u take responsibility for ur action....

I remember when I was at age., d girls dat were flocking around me...but d consequences of sleeping around detered me

babajero:
And I believe you are product of such relationship, that is why you type the way you do.

Thank God say na 'Believe' you 'Believe'..


Me I also believe in Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny and that Jesus died and woke up after three days.. But that does not make any of these true..


It's cool to believe though..

#BeCoolBelievingKimosabe..

greatme2good:
Why are they blaming the poor woman? I don't really understand this. The grandma did the right thing....so she actually wanted to get "thank u for getting pregnant" from the woman. The guy accepted the pregnancy and she still took her own life....just wondering why.

u made a very good point....wisdom is rare.!!!

Jahelastic:



But do you know the boy may be happy with the pregnancy and his family may be ready to accept both the baby and the mother?

The mother did not force them to abort she only gave them space to go and have their child in the boyfriend's house. What is her offense? Did she join them during the fun?

Fourwinds:
u have said the right thing....


grandma has no blame here...

How are you?

I remember a girl from Emmanuel Alayande college whose "pious deaconess mum" sent packing for getting preggy. The girl was frustrated she had to dump the baby in an unoccupied building. She however came back and confessed , adding that she eants to finish her schooling but that her mum had disowned her...blah blah...
The thing is anybody can err. Nigerian parents really need to take it easy on their children. The subjugation is just too much

atuanso:
This does not seem like sucide more lk murder.

If the boyfriend recieves the child wht need for her to tk her life.

Men hate responsibities. Check that sucide note if that hand writing corresponds to that of the girl.

thanks bro...another wisdom

LynnPetra:

How are you?

I'm great...
hope u are having a good time

ebby9z:
I remember a girl from Emmanuel Alayande college whose "pious deaconess mum" sent packing for getting preggy. The girl was frustrated she had to dump the baby in an unoccupied building. She however came back and confessed , adding that she eants to finish her schooling but that her mum had disowned her...blah blah...
The thing is anybody can err. Nigerian parents really need to take it easy on their children. The subjugation is just too much

no be only take am easy... na take am greasy.


once my child is 10 years ..,I will read d riot act to them...

some parents have taken d responsibility of running around of training their children....all what d foolish ones among them could do is to move round open their legs and d stu..pid boys with tentacles penile running amork

Fourwinds:
I'm great...

hope u are having a good time

Sure.

[quote author=Daslim180 post=48326993]Getting pregnant at that age and still bllaming grandma the way APC still blames PDP, is it the grandma that impregnate you. And moreover, you expect your grandma to welcome you with both arms for getting pregnant out of wedlock. So people no serious... R.I.P tho[/quote]

make them arrest the boy jare, what if he poisoned her and framed it to be suicide? there is a motive here, he might not want to be father

splenzard:
they found a suicide note?

how were they sure she wrote it ?


she died at her boyfriend's house,

and he wasn't arrested

I wonder
Coupled with the fact that the randy boy impregnated a minor and he wasn't arrested for that. Our police officers need serious re orientation.

Jahelastic:



But do you know the boy may be happy with the pregnancy and his family may be ready to accept both the baby and the mother?

but her family is not happy that's why she was sent out of the house..would u be happy if ur 19yrs old sis gets pregnant in that circumstance? I think ur answer would be a FAT "NO".

She was never pregnant oh nd her grandmum was not arrested pls u guys should gather news from reliable source d guy was arrested bcuz d grandma told d police DT she ws pregnant... Nd the gal ddnt die in hiz house oo na for shop d guy shop not house oooooo..her grandmum do maltreat her...the girl isba very good friend of mine

The guy may have tried to remove the pregnancy by giving her something to drink which resulted in her death and quickly wrote the suicide note


I think they should compare the handwriting with hers if the grandma still have her school notes



17yrs old girl should have nothing to do with a guy of that age. That's even an offence in itself!

MadCow1:
Fhucking Grandma...


A pregnant teen is a troubled teen and you don't kick them into the streets, that's not a solution but just adding more troubles to an already troubled situation..


Old age does not equate wisdom.


My Grandma would have beaten the shiit out of the teen, then taken her beat-up pregnant asss into the house and nursed her till delivery because that Baby in her belly is at the end of the day is still her Grand baby..

there is nothing fvckin abt the granny, d stupiid girl got pregnant n there's nothing wrong by sending her to the Father of her baby. The boyfriend should be held responsible for impregnating a minor.

bigiyaro:
there is nothing fvckin abt the granny, d stupiid girl got pregnant n there's nothing wrong by sending her to the Father of her baby. The boyfriend should be held responsible for impregnating a minor.

If it all goes well..

The Boyfriend should be in Jail for impregnating a Minor.

Grandma chasing a pregnant teen out of the house was an extremely irrational and stupiid thing to do.

Pregnancy is not a disease.

The Girls life path has been greatly altered by that pregnancy. The wise thing to do is not to kick her out. It's at this time that she needs all the love she can get.

Why would you want to add more problems to an already distressed situation.

Grandma fhucked up.. #Fact.

and how are you sure that the said boy didn't write the suicide note just to implicate the granny..why get her pregnant when they're not yet married..ohk she likes the girl but he could have ask for her hand in marriage but condom is cheaper than snipper na...May her soul rest in peace

Jahelastic:



But do you know the boy may be happy with the pregnancy and his family may be ready to accept both the baby and the mother?

MadCow1:



If it all goes well..

The Boyfriend should be in Jail for impregnating a Minor.

Grandma chasing a pregnant teen out of the house was an extremely irrational and stupiid thing to do.

Pregnancy is not a disease.

The Girls life path has been greatly altered by that pregnancy. The wise thing to do is not to kick her out. It's at this time that she needs all the love she can get.

Why would you want to add more problems to an already distressed situation.

Grandma fhucked up.. #Fact.

u were not there, do you know if the grandma is financially capable to take care of a pregnant teen?

bigiyaro:
u were not there, do you know if the grandma is financially capable to take care of a pregnant teen?

If she could take care of the teen, she can take care of a pregnant teen.. Its still the same 1 person she will be feeding.

Secondly, Grandma has the experience.. She has been pregnant before (probably multiple times).. Nobody was a better help for that teen than Grandma..


Grandma Fhucked up Bro.. Fhucked up BIIIIG!

They will take insecticide in their house and go to their boyfriends house to go and die. Can't they take it and die in their own house??

Anyways all this goes down to moral decadence in the society.

atuanso:
This does not seem like sucide more lk murder.

If the boyfriend recieves the child wht need for her to tk her life.

Men hate responsibities. Check that sucide note if that hand writing corresponds to that of the girl.

splenzard:
they found a suicide note?

how were they sure she wrote it ?


she died at her boyfriend's house,

and he wasn't arrested

she myt hav bn forced 2 write it by the evil boyfriend..


where did he find the suicide note.. her house or his house


something fishy is smelling here.. I smell murder as well..

MadCow1:



If it all goes well..

The Boyfriend should be in Jail for impregnating a Minor.

Grandma chasing a pregnant teen out of the house was an extremely irrational and stupiid thing to do.

Pregnancy is not a disease.

The Girls life path has been greatly altered by that pregnancy. The wise thing to do is not to kick her out. It's at this time that she needs all the love she can get.

Why would you want to add more problems to an already distressed situation.

Grandma fhucked up.. #Fact.

When the innocent granny sent her out.. y can't d idiot take her in.. @least he should know the consequence of sleeping with a woman..

without prevention at that..

MadCow1:

She kicked her into the streets.. Going to the house of her lover was solely up to the girl. She may have ended up under a bridge or God knows where

“The woman insisted that she packed to her boyfriend’s house. She threw out her luggage and chased her away,” he said.


*I believe you read the part above. The granny specifically told her where she wants her to go.

MadCow1:

No its not any Parents first reaction Bro.. I know a couple. Infact in our case, its was our Househelp who got pregnant for my Cousin (iKnow.. ), we didnt kick her out immediately. Infact, she gave birth in our house and stayed with us a for bit after the baby was born before she was evicted

People react differently. You said your cousin impregnated a girl and your family took her in. Isn't that the same case here? The boy that got her pregnant ought to take her in too.

MadCow1:

*I dont get..

# Here's my point, the granny had been takin care of the girl since she was 3. It takes real commitment and love to do that. I'm sure the granny jus intended to punish her out of love and utter disappointment for being wayward. Imagine, the boy even slept with her in the poor granny's house?
I also know a lady of about 24 that got was impregnated and her mum chased to her to her boyfriend’s house too. She saw hell there and was sending people to plead WIth her mum to just forgive her. After a year her mum took her back.

The boy and the granny should both share the blame. But while I pity the granny cos she's the loser here-that girl is her investment , I don't pity the boy at all. His just an opportunist

MadCow1:

She kicked her into the streets.. Going to the house of her lover was solely up to the girl. She may have ended up under a bridge or God knows where

“The woman insisted that she packed to her boyfriend’s house. She threw out her luggage and chased her away,” he said.


#I believe you read the part above. The granny specifically told her where she wants her to go.

MadCow1:

No its not any Parents first reaction Bro.. I know a couple. Infact in our case, its was our Househelp who got pregnant for my Cousin (iKnow.. ), we didnt kick her out immediately. Infact, she gave birth in our house and stayed with us a for bit after the baby was born before she was evicted

#People react differently. You said your cousin impregnated a girl and your family took her in. Isn't that the same case here? The boy that got her pregnant ought to take her in too.

MadCow1:

*I dont get..

# Here's my point, the granny had been takin care of the girl since she was 3. It takes real commitment and love to do that. I'm sure the granny jus intended to punish her out of love and utter disappointment for being wayward. Imagine, the boy even slept with her in the poor granny's house?
I also know a lady of about 24 that got was impregnated and her mum chased to her to her boyfriend’s house too. She saw hell there and was sending people to plead WIth her mum to just forgive her. After a year her mum took her back.

The boy and the granny should both share the blame. But while I pity the granny cos she's the loser here-that girl is her investment , I don't pity the boy at all. His just an opportunist
How are we sure he didn't give something to abort the pregnancy and it led to her death. That sucide note should be scrutinized

bkool7:




“The woman insisted that she packed to her boyfriend’s house. She threw out her luggage and chased her away,” he said.


*I believe you read the part above. The granny specifically told her where she wants her to go.



People react differently. You said your cousin impregnated a girl and your family took her in. Isn't that the same case here? The boy that got her pregnant ought to take her in too.




# Here's my point, the granny had been takin care of the girl since she was 3. It takes real commitment and love to do that. I'm sure the granny jus intended to punish her out of love and utter disappointment for being wayward. Imagine, the boy even slept with her in the poor granny's house?
I also know a lady of about 24 that got was impregnated and her mum chased to her to her boyfriend’s house too. She saw hell there and was sending people to plead WIth her mum to just forgive her. After a year her mum took her back.

The boy and the granny should both share the blame. But while I pity the granny cos she's the loser here-that girl is her investment , I don't pity the boy at all. His just an opportunist

Okay..

Let's find common ground here.. You said people react differently which is true. Grandma in her anger kicks her pregnant grand daughter out of the house.. Pregnant Grand Daughters reaction to the depression of this rejection from Grandma was to end her life.. Actions and consequences Bro..

In my Cousins case, the Nigga denies responsibility till next year.. But the fact remained that a Girl (a Teen) was pregnant and everybody who has been around a pregnant person knows they are frail and need the utmost care and attention. Grandma allowed her anger be cloud her better sense of judgement..

Ask for the boy who got her pregnant, he shouldn't be taking her in, he should be on a one way Ticket to prison for having sex with a Minor (Rape).

So I agree with you that Grandma's actions were borne out of anger and probably sort to discipline her.. Sadly, he actions has led to the death of her only surviving grandchild from that Kid (Grandma's dead daughter/the kids mum).

Actions and Consequences shows Grandma fhucked up.. She is the oldest party in this saga and should have exercised a lot more wisdom in dealing with this issue.

johnbuck81:
this is one of the results of unplanned pregnancy with a small girl.
Now its d granny that they want to pin it to...how about the boy?

Abi oooo

Jahelastic:



But do you know the boy may be happy with the pregnancy and his family may be ready to accept both the baby and the mother?

Buh she already moved 2 do guy's house na.
She want love, she see love, love give am belle, dem pursue am 4 house & he pack go love house.
Case closed

Life! One seventeen year old is being offered admission into 13 universities, another is being offered admission into motherhood.

MadCow1:



Thank God say na 'Believe' you 'Believe'..


Me I also believe in Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny and that Jesus died and woke up after three days.. But that does not make any of these true..


It's cool to believe though..

#BeCoolBelievingKimosabe..

This confirms that you are really a product of child and unwanted pregnancy and I bet you don't even know your father.

babajero:
This confirms that you are really a product of child and unwanted pregnancy and I bet you don't even know your father.

Smart Kid you are..


Now you use 'confirm'..

Sadly you still missed the mark because if you were so certain, you wouldn't be making a bet against yourself with regards to my father.

Trust me kid, I ain't mad at you. I will not disrespect your mother or your father. I am sure they raised you the best way they knew how to. They can't be blamed or held responsible for your actions. It's only sad that you have no respect for them because if I indulge you, all it would amount to is me heaping insults on them all because of your foolishness to drag them into an online debate or fight (whatever this is).


Do you want to make any wild aspersions? Fire away.. I am not MadCow for nothing. You are still throwing lightweight punches. Keep swinging kid, you might be lucky and land a good punch eventually.