mhiztee15:
But what if you guys get married won't you be bored again because you be doing almost everything together

rosalieene:

what kind of relationship is this!!. You might not call each other even for a week! Holy SHIIT !!
communication is the key! For a person like me, communication is one of my love languages, its very important in a relationship. Anyway, you both understand yourself that's why we are all different.

Rexhenrex:
yea a very pretty girl any problem?

Cool23:
Is it that u and ur gfs have been having issues and u get tired then break up cos maybe that's the problem

obiorathesubtle:
Lol.. Kindof.. She always wanted more tho.. More love, more attention, wanted things her way.. Very slow to adjust.. Stuff like that..

So.. I guess so..


But I'm grateful to have known someone like her, she taught me a lot of things.. She made me realise parts of myself I had no idea about..

she humbled me to the ground! Damn!!

ireneony2:
Op chill. it happens... so i went into celibate.(2yrs counting) To rediscover myself

schumastic:
I guess you are not ready for the word RELATIONSHIP if the thoughts of breaking up keeps coming to your mind after a month or two and if care is not taken, it might affect your marriage.

my advice is this, ask yourself what do you want in a relationship? leave the issue of marriage out of it cus you can't handle it yet.

am sure you learnt one or two in your previous relationships, try to avoid those mistakes and learn to open up to your partner. communication is one of the basic keys in a good reparationship.

finally you said you don't have sex, I don't know how true that is but if is true, then please try and have sex cus it helps in creating more bond between partners.goodluck

Rexhenrex:
thank you sir,would put this into consideration but the sex aspect i can't,

IamLEGEND1:
affirmative,bro.
Tenemos un problema grande.

It is highly advised you do not create emotional dependency on a mentally distraught gender.
I no call names oh.

EmperorLee:


When we reach that bridge, we will buy canoe








Lol you call it communication, I call it choking. If you choke me, we won't last.

schumastic:

why if I may ask?

Rexhenrex:
i soo much detest and hate it thats a very quicker way for a break up.

Rexhenrex:
lmao...trouble maker,she has been my bestie for couple of years now, we grew up together

EmperorLee:


When we reach that bridge, we will buy canoe








Lol you call it communication, I call it choking. If you choke me, we won't last.

rosalieene:

communication is vital in every relationship,one
of the reason for this is because
communication between persons causes one to
know and understand the ideology one lives on
then u can relate effectively.

Rexhenrex:
I Am Very Confused What Should I Do?


[b]For sometime now i have been trying to hide this problem of mine,but now i can't hide it any longer because its really getting out of hand i just had to muster courage to type this because a problem shared ,they say is Half solved.

whenever i see a girl i like i would want to get her and assure my self that i will date her and eventually marry her i will also tell my friends that once i get her am not going to date any other lady.but when the lady agrees to date me after highest a month i would get tired of her and break-up with her. the longest relationship i ever had was 2months and it made me feel bitter when i heard a guy saying he is in the 3rd year now with his g.f i was just wondering how he did that. its really not funny i told my bestie bout it and she said maybe its because am an introvert and its because i don't have sex with my g.f so it gets boring for me and currently am dating a girl but am getting bored again as usually and i really love this lady but i fear i will soon break-up with her again and i don't want this to happen...pls how can i enjoy a relationship without involving sex ??

Matured minds please its really important and perhaps others might benefit from your advice also.thanks![/b]

Rexhenrex:
I Am Very Confused What Should I Do?


[b]For sometime now i have been trying to hide this problem of mine,but now i can't hide it any longer because its really getting out of hand i just had to muster courage to type this because a problem shared ,they say is Half solved.

whenever i see a girl i like i would want to get her and assure my self that i will date her and eventually marry her i will also tell my friends that once i get her am not going to date any other lady.but when the lady agrees to date me after highest a month i would get tired of her and break-up with her. the longest relationship i ever had was 2months and it made me feel bitter when i heard a guy saying he is in the 3rd year now with his g.f i was just wondering how he did that. its really not funny i told my bestie bout it and she said maybe its because am an introvert and its because i don't have sex with my g.f so it gets boring for me and currently am dating a girl but am getting bored again as usually and i really love this lady but i fear i will soon break-up with her again and i don't want this to happen...pls how can i enjoy a relationship without involving sex ??

Matured minds please its really important and perhaps others might benefit from your advice also.thanks![/b]

EmperorLee:
When next you get into another relationship, try as much as possible to keep your distance right from the beginning. Keep your space and avoid too much familiarity (like seeing her everyday, calling or chatting her every time and n so on), with this the relationship will always seem fresh and you won't get tired and bored of it.

Rexhenrex:
I Am Very Confused What Should I Do?


[b]For sometime now i have been trying to hide this problem of mine,but now i can't hide it any longer because its really getting out of hand i just had to muster courage to type this because a problem shared ,they say is Half solved.

whenever i see a girl i like i would want to get her and assure my self that i will date her and eventually marry her i will also tell my friends that once i get her am not going to date any other lady.but when the lady agrees to date me after highest a month i would get tired of her and break-up with her. the longest relationship i ever had was 2months and it made me feel bitter when i heard a guy saying he is in the 3rd year now with his g.f i was just wondering how he did that. its really not funny i told my bestie bout it and she said maybe its because am an introvert and its because i don't have sex with my g.f so it gets boring for me and currently am dating a girl but am getting bored again as usually and i really love this lady but i fear i will soon break-up with her again and i don't want this to happen...pls how can i enjoy a relationship without involving sex ??

Matured minds please its really important and perhaps others might benefit from your advice also.thanks![/b]

Richiy:
Op, obiorathesubtle and emperorlee have given you really great advise. Consider it seriously.

I am going to come from another angle. I am not trying to reprimand you, but just what do you think will happen to the girls you just dropped like hot coal? You drag them in just to leave them broken? Even if you don't consider anything, please consider these girls. Don't purposefully leave a trail of broken hearts behind you.

Fin advise: If you are not absolutely sure, do not even start it at all.

Obiorathesubtle, that story was so touching I'd really wanna know what happened

IamLEGEND1:
affirmative,bro.
Tenemos un problema grande.

It is highly advised you do not create emotional dependency on a mentally distraught gender.
I no call names oh.

Rexhenrex:
I Am Very Confused What Should I Do?


[b]For sometime now i have been trying to hide this problem of mine,but now i can't hide it any longer because its really getting out of hand i just had to muster courage to type this because a problem shared ,they say is Half solved.

whenever i see a girl i like i would want to get her and assure my self that i will date her and eventually marry her i will also tell my friends that once i get her am not going to date any other lady.but when the lady agrees to date me after highest a month i would get tired of her and break-up with her. the longest relationship i ever had was 2months and it made me feel bitter when i heard a guy saying he is in the 3rd year now with his g.f i was just wondering how he did that. its really not funny i told my bestie bout it and she said maybe its because am an introvert and its because i don't have sex with my g.f so it gets boring for me and currently am dating a girl but am getting bored again as usually and i really love this lady but i fear i will soon break-up with her again and i don't want this to happen...pls how can i enjoy a relationship without involving sex ??

Matured minds please its really important and perhaps others might benefit from your advice also.thanks![/b]

KAYD007:




why makes it looks like he intentionally drop them like its hot?

man shouldn't stay in a relationship out of pity...lest it turns to hate.