Bros no try am o

I wish u success op [/quote]
Main i respect you, on Sunday am also embarking on same journey but have been so confused.
But wuth all the advice i have gathered from you post,my confidence has increased and i guess am good to go.

obitee69:
Thanks guys for your warm comments! I hope all goes well o.

I hope you are not gathering for a roasted goat as a wedding cake o.

ojun50:


thanks dear
i did my 2month ago nd it went well infact her father shake up to 4 times befor i leave.

Now i they gather money for marriage next year.

I wish u success op

I hope you are not gathering for a roasted goat as a wedding cake

in my culture,as u are going u will go with win or any drink u know he likes,then go with one of ur good friend,both of u should dress well and be decent in appearance.

Oga nah Naija we dey.....no go dey form Will Smith just dress cool...avoid @boki perfume.... barb your hair well give am better lining ,no sag oh, no go there go dey form social
carry gifts oh...just casual gift



Finally no look the small sister yansh oh....I take God name beg you

Wear baggy jeans clean tshirt and snapback cap not forgetting timberland foot wear then make sure a bottle of beer is on d table ...answer all questions thrown at u starting with "You know what"

You are good to go bro.

Thank me later

put on a baggy jeans with faze cap, bring along a couple of weeds a bottle of don simon tell her dad ow his daughter likes it rough in d bedroom and cant do without it rememba to tell him ure willing to extend d favour

oluwafreshkid:
you defied the odds of this buhari economy and popped the question. Big ups man!

Go traditional. You can never go wrong in white, add a blue cap.

Composure? You should be used to a part of her family already na, be it siblings or mother.
Don't famz the dad o, cos he ain't happy that you're nacking his daughter.

Don't wear matching outfits with ur fiancee. No gallas or any funy haircuts. And don't do touch touch, we are Africans ooo.

Don't talk politics ooo... the father maybe APC. Lol.
Be confident, sharp and clean. Be matured.

Funny but d truth

CoCoLav:
Obie, is this the girl you met in April as referenced in your earlier post? Is this also the girl your parents do not like? Are you planning on marrying her just within 4 months of dating her?

What's the ideal period to date a girl before marrying her ?

Godmother:


Well said.

Op you can also put on native as it has a way of making people look respectable and decent.

Agreed for d fact Dat u are a lady, am learning here incase of my own time lol

CoCoLav:
Obie, is this the girl you met in April as referenced in your earlier post? Is this also the girl your parents do not like? Are you planning on marrying her just within 4 months of dating her?

LOL, u open d chapter of remembrance to d op, wish he answer ur questions

AlphaCentauri:
wear clean underwear incase you faint and paramedics have to strip you naked for fresh air. you dont want ya inlaws seeing dat ya dirty underwear with plenty holes and skid marks

This really got me laughing........ hahahahahahaha.

Op, congrats but, don't forget to look presentable and composed. Please, don't try to lie coz if u do, it's gonna tell on you later. Goodluck!

Note: Don't forget to take some gifts no matter how small it is, it may go a long way.

oluwafreshkid:
you defied the odds of this buhari economy and popped the question. Big ups man!

Go traditional. You can never go wrong in white, add a blue cap.

Composure? You should be used to a part of her family already na, be it siblings or mother.
Don't famz the dad o, cos he ain't happy that you're nacking his daughter.

Don't wear matching outfits with ur fiancee. No gallas or any funy haircuts. And don't do touch touch, we are Africans ooo.

Don't talk politics ooo... the father maybe APC. Lol.

Be confident, sharp and clean. Be matured.

You are so funny.

CoCoLav:
Obie, is this the girl you met in April as referenced in your earlier post? Is this also the girl your parents do not like? Are you planning on marrying her just within 4 months of dating her?

Are u nw a monitoring spirit?

First thread that people will respond to excellently

obitee69:
Hey guys...I just popped the question and she said yes!!. Now her family is inviting me over for lunch this weekend. Please any useful tips? On style, dressing or composure? I hope I don't get nervous.

Had my own experience last weekend. It was fun. Just be yourself.

AlphaCentauri:
wear clean underwear incase you faint and paramedics have to strip you naked for fresh air. you dont want ya inlaws seeing dat ya dirty underwear with plenty holes and skid marks

2 Hajj allocation for this dude.

ojun50:


well she should dress decent, simple make up and some gift along like fruit, she should relax her self wen she get there nd she should expect questions too

questions like....
What do you have to offer this our company?
How many year's experience have you got?

I went for mine in delta. Yours is even good. I had to see the parents first and then I was directed to meet with the extended family.
I was honoured.
Just dress on native {simple}, go with wine, at least with one of your family friend or mature siblings so that he will speak for you intence of marriage description. Then you are gud to go.
I wish you Goodluck

Don't overblow your finances or where you work as if Dogara help you pad your salary, so that they no go turn you to their central bank in the future. Just stay humble and interesting.

Turn your phone settings to Vibrate and put it IN your pocket. You FIL to be may wish to dial your number to confirm it once saved

Even if they be shayo family, Don't buy alcoholic wine on the first visit. That said, please don't buy EVA wine. No be valentine.

Use deodorant and cut your fingernails

Carry your motor go mechanic before the D-day to avoid spiritual embarrassment on your way going and returning

Don't be an ass-licker.

Ask questions too ooo, make you no go marry into stories that touch family.

You'll do great.

oluwafreshkid:
you defied the odds of this buhari economy and popped the question. Big ups man!

Go traditional. You can never go wrong in white, add a blue cap.

Composure? You should be used to a part of her family already na, be it siblings or mother.
Don't famz the dad o, cos he ain't happy that you're nacking his daughter.

Don't wear matching outfits with ur fiancee. No gallas or any funy haircuts. And don't do touch touch, we are Africans ooo.

Don't talk politics ooo... the father maybe APC. Lol.

Be confident, sharp and clean. Be matured.

Bwhahahaha roflwkmd I busted into treacherous laughter when reading your comment... You made my night bro... Thumbs up!!

I love these, Nairalanders are just too funny with their advice, you people made my night.

mixratio:
questions like....
What do you have to offer this our company?
How many year's experience have you got?

Your cloth should not be made with curtain material o. Might just be the same with the curtain in their house. Lolz.

For the tips
If they are rich people, don't act too poor

If they are poor people, don't act too rich.

If you are poor, think about what the future holds for your unborn children.

Thanks

obitee69:
@cocoluv ur deviating the topic. I need suggestions. This is a new phase

I understand you bro... Na ur new fish be this

SafeAlhaji:
I hope you are not gathering for a roasted goat as a wedding cake

i will invite u wen d time come

obitee69:
Hey guys...I just popped the question and she said yes!!. Now her family is inviting me over for lunch this weekend. Please any useful tips? On style, dressing or composure? I hope I don't get nervous.

A lot of people have said right thing. Just wear a good trousers/pant with a nice casual shirt. Just look neat and a bit affluent.

George22016:
some girls are still busy editing pictures while their mates are getting married every Saturday. NA bridesmaid BR their career last last.
@op I was like Awww you be man.still going on my courtship so as to study and know the bae I day date

Spot on baba !!!

supersystems:



@op oluwafreshkid the guy beneath you said it perfectly no need to say anything further

But to add an extra elemnt of suprise that you're coming into their family buy some fruit wines,perhaps like 4 bottles pop pop pop and pop.Tell them hoe excited you are..the felling will leave a lasting memory in their minds u will not stop benefitting from

English

ojun50:


i will invite u wen d time come

ok...o we shall see...And may God spare our life till and after then

VocalWalls:
Just man up.. No go dey wear suit.

A Jean and a shirt is just ideal, don't go all in for being a gentleman, be more of a homely guy.

No touching, no excessive perfumes, wear something that won't contribute to making you sweat... You probably will.

Talk less, listen more. Make her dad feel like the wisest man on earth, look deeply into his eyes (the guy code) when he's talking to you, but don't go on nodding like an agama, he may be fooling you to know if you're stupid


Some Indoor Plants With Amazing Home Scents


Top questions they'd ask are:

Do you work, where, do you like it? (Protip: Don't meet the parents if you're unemployed.)

Where did you two meet? (Mom may ask)

Do you have any siblings?

If something you do triggers a red flag, questions could get more intense:

Well, what are your feelings on :controversial topic (maybe Buhari's issues) : (If you are afraid to answer, try a neutral: You are interested in learning more, can they please enlighten you?)

The killer phrase:

Tell papa you're interested in something he talked about, and you'll love to learn more on another date... He'll start growing fond of you.

THESE HOME TIPS COULD HELP YOU

Egbon, e be like say e don tey wey u don dey go In-law house?