It is a known fact that people pretend anytime they are in church. Raising up "holy hands" and putting on a fake holier-than-thou attitude is the norm in churches these days. The sister you are eyeing could be the same chic giving guys lap dance at the club, the brother you so much admire could be the main happening guy at the latest beer parlour in town.

Therefore, is it really wise to seek a life partner in the church?

Matured comments please.

Well i dont think you should seek a life partner from any gathering, just be yourself, put up with a good character both in your work place, outings and church, be a gentleman and respect yourself both online and offline.
Then you will eventually see a lady that will admire you, then both of you can begin the journey to marriage if you are cool with her.

It is advisable



Does that answer your question?

If you realise that institution such as marriage is a huge one, you won't want to restrict thyself to a particular gathering or sq/kilometers.....

Of course, it is advisable. You have to change your mindset about that statement
But why will you want to restrict yourself to the church alone?
There are many other places you can get someone worth to be your life partner.

Is even better there than here on Nl.

Tomcorp:


It is a known fact that people pretend anytime they are in church. Raising up "holy hands" and putting on a fake holier-than-thou attitude is the norm in churches these days. The sister you are eyeing could be the same chic giving guys lap dance at the club, the brother you so much admire could be the main happening guy at the latest beer parlour in town.

Therefore, is it really wise to seek a life partner in the church?

Matured comments please.

Guy this is NOT an exaggeration IF YOU LOVE YOURSELF DO NO NOT (I REPEAT DO NOT) look for a life partner in church.

In fact it's preferable to even look for a life partner @ a night club than church... why? Church is the embodiment of fake... everyone has to behave themselves and FORM good boy-good girl.

You cannot expect to see the real character of a girl who wears tight jeggins mon-saturday. But rocks ankara on Sundays.

Need to find a good girl? Attend a gathering/party you will see free-styling u can gauge the babe wella.

#my opinion

jnrbayano:
If you realise that institution such as marriage is a huge one, you won't want to restrict thyself to a particular gathering or sq/kilometers.....

mizzbouqui:
Of course, it is advisable. You have to change your mindset about that statement
But why will you want to restrict yourself to the church alone?
There are many other places you can get someone worth to be your life partner.

SAINTSAMURAI:
Well i dont think you should seek a life partner from any gathering, just be yourself, put up with a good character both in your work place, outings and church, be a gentleman and respect yourself both online and offline.
Then you will eventually see a lady that will admire you, then both of you can begin the journey to marriage if you are cool with her.

Am not restricting myself to a particular environment, just that nowadays church is seen as the right place to meet your life partner. Especially for people who don't socialize much...online is even out of it cause you have no idea of the person's background.

aloobright17:
Is even better there than here on Nl.

Lolz I get you.

saintdennis:


Guy this is NOT an exaggeration IF YOU LOVE YOURSELF DO NO NOT (I REPEAT DO NOT) look for a life partner in church.

In fact it's preferable to even look for a life partner @ a night club than church... why? Church is the embodiment of fake... everyone has to behave themselves and FORM good boy-good girl.

You cannot expect to see the real character of a girl who wears tight jeggins mon-saturday. But rocks ankara on Sundays.

Need to find a good girl? Attend a gathering/party you will see free-styling u can gauge the babe wella.

#my opinion

Hmmm true, but me nor fit marry nite club babes o.

NO! It's not, not even in redemption camp

Well to some, it might be. Just dnt program your mind that you'll find good folks there.

jashar:
where do people get the perception that the church is full of perfect/good people? Is the hospital full of healthy people?

You meet all kinds of people in church. Good, bad and .......

I'd rather meet in church than at a bar though.........

Honestly I prefer meeting Miss Right in church too. But truth is that people have tendencies of not showing you their true selves till after marriage. If you research on divorce cases in our society, you would be shocked to know that most of them met in the church, which scares me alot.

At times I just wish God would send down wives from Heaven...I swear.

flokii:
NO! It's not, not even in redemption camp

Well to some, it might be. Just dnt program your mind that you'll find good folks there.

Yes I know bro, have done my survey and series of scanning. It's probably the reason most guys prefer to settle for baby-mamas.

Tomcorp:


It is a known fact that people pretend anytime they are in church. Raising up "holy hands" and putting on a fake holier-than-thou attitude is the norm in churches these days. The sister you are eyeing could be the same chic giving guys lap dance at the club, the brother you so much admire could be the main happening guy at the latest beer parlour in town.

Therefore, is it really wise to seek a life partner in the church?

Matured comments please.

A church is still better than a Club..

nma24:
A church is still better than a Club..

What if most of the girls in the church (or any church) are club girls?

Tomcorp:


Yes I know bro, have done my survey and series of scanning. It's probably the reason most guys prefer to settle for baby-mamas.

Yeah, probably

Buh that baby mama thing should not be encouraged. There is someone for everyone and I'm sure you'll find urs #cheers

DeLioncourt:
OP this your question sef!

anyway, best place to look for partner is in the market. (she will finish your money on clothes)

not cloth market ooo... fish market or where they're selling tomatoes and pepper.

No worry I go buy the entire market. Lolz

flokii:


Yeah, probably

Buh that baby mama thing should not be encouraged. There is someone for everyone and I'm sure you'll find urs #cheers

Thanks...cheers.