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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Imakeherdrip(m): 2:48pm On Aug 12, 2016
Patiently waiting...
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 5:29pm On Aug 12, 2016
cheruv:

Taa méchíe onu

She'd go with guy 2

cheesy cheesy

but ehmmm
wat means d bolded?
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 5:30pm On Aug 12, 2016
peterpen:
Harddon am still expecting ur reply bro



thanks


u asked a Q?

didnt get d memo
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Obiomon: 2:11pm On Aug 13, 2016
liljboy:
FOR THE MR NICE GUYS


nice guy will constantly give in and do whatever the woman wants. When the woman finds this unattractive and eventually leaves him for a more exciting guy, the nice guy will complain about how he “did everything for her.”

And therein lies the problem… Nice guys also have issues with jealousy, born out of their insecurity. They are too outwardly-dependent; all their happiness comes from the woman. They don’t want her talking to other guys for fear she’ll run off and he’ll lose his source of happiness.

You see, the problem with the feelings of jealousy that so many beta males have about their women is that it comes from a position of neediness. So whenever you feel that way with a girl, suck it up and let those feeling go. When a girl detects a guy is jealous, it's as if he's saying to her, "Hey, I feel inferior to those other dudes you're talking to."

And having that lack of confidence in yourself makes the chick not feel so confident in you, either. She begins to wonder whether the grass is greener in other pastures. I know it's tough to not feel jealous, but look at it this way: if you knew that you were the shit and that you can attract hot babes and get laid easily, would you care that your girl is going off and talking with some other guys? Of course not, because that would be her loss (and you could just get laid from some other chick)!

Okay, so here's a new attitude I want you to adopt: "I am developing into a high value alpha male." Keep repeating that to yourself throughout the day as an affirmation. By the way, you're probably still wondering what you should actually do if you're girl is talking to other dudes. Well, the absolute worst thing you can do (ironically) is to try to intervene to stop her from doing it. That makes it so that she has the higher value, not you. Instead, the best way to counter such behavior is to say, "Have a good time!" with a tone of complete indifference when she says she's going to go hang out with some other guy. Let her see that it doesn't phase you one bit. Meanwhile, you go talk with other girls.
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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 1:49am On Aug 14, 2016
HARDDON:
But u must first work on ur self with these drills so that u minimise rejections because from experience, guys r their own worse enemies when it comes to meeting ladies for the first time.

A lil foot wrong , n u spoil d broth

We have told u to avoid blands, pickup lines and sterotype lines.

They r d questest way to get booted even b4 u r suited

But u should know this:

Sense Pill 50:

Women have lota ish going on in their lives most times than they cud manage: from painful flow to been broke, from cheating bf to family stress. So they just lose it when u step in wrongly trying to talk.
Some wud ignore u, others wud look @ u quzzically, some wud hiss n just move on, very few wud smile n respond to u!

D solution is to be a gud situation / facial expression reader n be quick witted enuf to know how to approach d subject @ hand. because u can let her walk on, u might never met @ again

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 11:07am On Aug 14, 2016
Imakeherdrip:
Patiently waiting...


For? cheesy
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 12:19pm On Aug 14, 2016
PreciousRahl:


Sorry my reply is coming late.. i had to do alot of thinking before answering your questions cos "reason" is such a strong word.. The only reason i could come up with is that i like her.. Alot

That means ATL

As Time Leads ....... Inbtw short n long term
Undecided
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by PreciousRahl(m): 12:27pm On Aug 14, 2016
HARDDON:

That means ATL
As Time Leads ....... Inbtw short n long term Undecided
yea... i guess so
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 4:33pm On Aug 14, 2016
HARDDON:


But u should know this:

Sense Pill 50:

Women have lota ish going on in their lives most times than they cud manage: from painful flow to been broke, from cheating bf to family stress. So they just lose it when u step in wrongly trying to talk.
Some wud ignore u, others wud look @ u quzzically, some wud hiss n just move on, very few wud smile n respond to u!

D solution is to be a gud situation / facial expression reader n be quick witted enuf to know how to approach d subject @ hand. because u can let her walk on, u might never met @ again

Here is a lil secret:


Sense Pill 51:

We don't deploy wits n sways all the time!
We read d moods n flow in tone.
We deploy wits n sways most times
care n concern sometimes
surprise expression( without speaking) laced with laughter sometimes,
reach out a hand n help out most times,
Sing sometimes
Flow peotry sometimes
But with our confident aura all the Times! Cos in d final analyses,u r all u got all times

We r no robots.

Only the wise wud fathom this

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 4:45pm On Aug 14, 2016
HARDDON:


Here is a lil secret:


Sense Pill 51:

We don't deploy wits n sways all the time!
We read d moods n flow in tone.
We deploy wits n sways most times
care n concern sometimes
surprise expression( without speaking) laced with laughter sometimes,
reach out a hand n help out most times,
Sing sometimes
Flow peotry sometimes
But with our confident aura all the Times! Cos in d final analyses,u r all u got all times

We r no robots.

Only the wise wud fathom this

These opens up com lines
Apply them minimise rejections.

If all these still fail, note that the problems isn't urs but hers. Move on.

U don't wano be saddled with a gurl who lacks sense of humour no matter how pretty she is, she wud bore u in a week!

Note that there r ladies u wud meet that naturally wudnt like ur face for no just cos cheesy

I natuaraly don't like some ladies even b4 they talk to me. No matter how pretty a gurl is , her chest must be bigger than mine 4times. grin ....its not my fault just how I was fashioned .

So u should know that and don't force urself on any one.

SENSE PILL52:
if a gurl is wacky enuf to ignore u, tell urself if only she knows what she is missing!

U r the best guy any lady cud ever dream of having. And her lose is mos def another's gain!

she isn't worth it! Move on.


Just smile @ her and say: if only u know....... B4 she responds, be on ur way out

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 4:54pm On Aug 14, 2016
On to dah Next one:

DRILL NUGGET 6:
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 4:58pm On Aug 14, 2016
HARDDON:
On to dah Next one:

DRILL NUGGET 6:


DRILL NUGGET 6: HOW TO APPROACH DA FIRST KISS
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 7:04pm On Aug 14, 2016
HARDDON:


DRILL NUGGET 6: HOW TO APPROACH DA FIRST KISS

News flash: I'd rather u don't do this as a newbie! Avoid this, its too direct, too demanding n it defines a lot!

Get this wrong , and u might as well kiss her gud bye.

What u should rather do:


Sense Pill 53:
Always as a rule of thumb, use the public parts to wake up the private parts!



It means : go stealth like dah black bird and b4 the enemy knows it , uve drawn d town n u r home safe

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 7:20pm On Aug 14, 2016
HARDDON:


News flash: I'd rather u don't do this as a newbie! Avoid this, its too direct, too demanding n it defines a lot!

Get this wrong , and u might as well kiss her gud bye.

What u should rather do:


Sense Pill 53:
Always as a rule of thumb, use the public parts to wake up the private parts!



It means : go stealth like dah black bird and b4 the enemy knows it , uve drawn d town n u r home safe


The hand is a very gud public part to start with ... Hold n caress it nonechalantly as u burst her bubbles, pick @ d strands of her hair as u ask witty questions about it.

U must know hair colours: colour 1, 28 , 30 etc know them n what they look like! How much the attachment cost n have a favourite hair style cheesy

Learn about all human hair types: brazillian , Peruvian etc. Know what is human what is not.

Why I'm I so concerned with hair? Cos her hair is one of the major indirect way to launch in . as u talking, run ur hands down her hair a couple of times nonechalantly . stop @ d ear loop n caress it..... Be wise here! Cos this is sensitive

While u make funny comments about her cheeks , eye brow , lip stick , make up etc to divert her attention


Notice d sequence?

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nobody: 10:15pm On Aug 14, 2016
peterpen:
Hello Hardon d Don.....Great work i must say....I want to practice these life saving drillls, nd i got two gorgeous candidates..... 1) I got to knw this girl wen i collected her number from a friend, i added her on watsapp nd we got to chat....am nt really d boring type buh i can be sumtimes...altho i can be funny at times buh am nt sassy and witty....we started chatting nd i got to really knw her....i later knew she was a student in thesame university i attend, she was friendly nd i was keeping it dat way, arranged for us to meet sumwere at school severally buh they were all futile, on one ocassion after we had agreed on the time nd i was going there already, i decided to call her only for her to tell me she was at home, i was angry buh still forgave witout her apologising, then i decided to move to the level of dating her....immediately i started making advanves at her she kindof changed, always expecting me to say hi wen we both online....took time to reply my msgs nd even ignores sumtimes,.....am nt a desperate type altho i gat bad tales to tell wen it comes to girls.....i bcame tired of her games nd moved on....i neva chatted her anymore, its been months since i last chatted her, meanwhile i neva called during d period we were communicating, I met her along the road at school one day nd we greeted,despite that i still didn't chat wit her..i wanna pratice these drills wit her .....i wanna have her drooling nd knwing she cant have me.......i need you to help me.....i wuld be grateful man.. 2) There's this gorgeous dame dat lives a third street from mine, her elder sister nd my sister are friends nd they kinda close to my sisters.... i dnt talk to her dat much, i give this i dnt care attitude wen around her, we dnt see each other often, she respects me too....shes got sooo many admirers, i wanna practice these drills with her nd i want you to help me wit going abt this.... Thanks....
Harddon am still expecting ur reply @this post..

thanks
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Imakeherdrip(m): 1:20pm On Aug 16, 2016
HARDDON:



For? cheesy
For you Don_me_ce_lee
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 1:37pm On Aug 16, 2016
Imakeherdrip:

For you Don_me_ce_lee

Huh?
Don me CE Lee?

Waz fhat?
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 1:38pm On Aug 16, 2016
peterpen:
Harddon am still expecting ur reply @this post..

thanks


I'm totally @ sea gee.....

Is there a question on that write up?
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nobody: 3:34pm On Aug 16, 2016
HARDDON:



I'm totally @ sea gee.....

Is there a question on that write up?
read the post carefully, u will see the question therein..

Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by free37: 4:07pm On Aug 16, 2016
Hmm.
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 4:38pm On Aug 16, 2016
peterpen:
read the post carefully, u will see the question therein..


undecided undecided

Hola wen u r ready

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Imakeherdrip(m): 8:00pm On Aug 16, 2016
HARDDON:


Huh?
Don me CE Lee?

Waz fhat?
A title for a Don that knows his worth
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 12:31pm On Aug 17, 2016
Imakeherdrip:

A title for a Don that knows his worth

cheesy grin
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by okwypascal: 5:59pm On Aug 17, 2016
HARDDON:



The hand is a very gud public part to start with ... Hold n caress it nonechalantly as u burst her bubbles, pick @ d strands of her hair as u ask witty questions about it.

U must know hair colours: colour 1, 28 , 30 etc know them n what they look like! How much the attachment cost n have a favourite hair style cheesy

Learn about all human hair types: brazillian , Peruvian etc. Know what is human what is not.

Why I'm I so concerned with hair? Cos her hair is one of the major indirect way to launch in . as u talking, run ur hands down her hair a couple of times nonechalantly . stop @ d ear loop n caress it..... Be wise here! Cos this is sensitive

While u make funny comments about her cheeks , eye brow , lip stick , make up etc to divert her attention


Notice d sequence?
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by okwypascal: 6:21pm On Aug 17, 2016
Boss hardgee, abeg continue with that kiss drill I need it this friday, one new harsh gal I managed 2 calm down. She too dey flare up
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 1:36pm On Aug 18, 2016
okwypascal:
Boss hardgee, abeg continue with that kiss drill I need it this friday, one new harsh gal I managed 2 calm down. She too dey flare up


she is acting up, u should know gurls use been harsh as a MEANS OF CONTROLLING YOU TOO!

dont take that crap, rather use it to poke fun at her!

You: wow, u blowing hot, did u eat hot pepper this morning? or is your period out? need buscupan?

2) take a deep breath, what were u trying to say again?

3) look into her face intently and start laughing queerly, when she ask what you are laughing at, tell this: IF ONLY U KNOW WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE WHEN U ARE TALKING LIKE THAT, YOU WUDNT ROLL THAT LANE! cheesy

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Imakeherdrip(m): 2:35pm On Aug 18, 2016
HARDDON:



she is acting up, u should know gurls use been harsh as a MEANS OF CONTROLLING YOU TOO!

dont take that crap, rather use it to poke fun at her!

You: wow, u blowing hot, did u eat hot pepper this morning? or is your period out? need buscupan?

2) take a deep breath, what were u trying to say again?

3) look into her face intently and start laughing queerly, when she ask what you are laughing at, tell this: IF ONLY U KNOW WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE WHEN U ARE TALKING LIKE THAT, YOU WUDNT ROLL THAT LANE! cheesy

cracked me all up thanks Don...
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 3:28pm On Aug 18, 2016
Imakeherdrip:


cracked me all up thanks Don...

tongue grin


how about you look round her @ her bum bum and say: the sun isnt shinning out of your bum bum now, why u so hawt? cheesy

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 3:52pm On Aug 18, 2016
SENSE PILL 53:
while you are on this lane, dont lose sense of your focus, dont turn a clown! have a target and poke humour that drives you home to your SET target

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 3:02am On Aug 20, 2016
Her: I just want us to be friends

You: Y r u so confused? Ur heart pants for me yet ur lips says d opposite, is that how much I make u lose ur breath?! Btw, You can't afford to be my friend.

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 3:08am On Aug 20, 2016
Her : don't u think we r moving too fast?

You: yes we r!
Then go down on ur fours n start slowly crawling then ask her

" is this slow enough for u? "

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 3:11am On Aug 20, 2016
Her: r u @ home ? Or where r u?
You: aha, (then whisper to urself n say, is she planning to come n rape me again?) Oti ooo, I'm @ home but my Jrod went on sabbatical. So nothing for u!

Then burst out laughing

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