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Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by ChemicalReaction(f): 1:56am On Aug 15, 2016
NevetsIbot:
nope. Just feeling sorry for her that's all
'Bet' why
Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by ChemicalReaction(f): 1:58am On Aug 15, 2016
firstking01:
Dating a nigerian girl is harder than bricklayer work, except you 've never been there.
So, you're #teamforeign?
Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by LuvU2: 2:58am On Aug 15, 2016
firstking01:
To the guys who are successfully and happily dating a nigerian girl, thumbs up to you guys.
e pain u oo Lol
Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by coulisse: 9:02am On Aug 15, 2016
I think you really like her( people can change you know)
Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by MrDraey(m): 10:06am On Aug 15, 2016
NevetsIbot:
bro. I'm not even ready for marriage now. Like in the next 7 yrs. I just want a relationship that would possibly lead to it. It's better than fooling around
Lol. Bro u r wicked. 7 years!!!! make one gurl give u her 7 years?

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Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by jamesPAN(m): 10:35am On Aug 15, 2016
grin grin grin
Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by GloriaNinja(f): 10:38am On Aug 15, 2016
I love leading. a female like me can not be controlled like a puppet

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Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by jaywhoco(m): 10:44am On Aug 15, 2016
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Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by repogirl(f): 10:46am On Aug 15, 2016
Nevetsibot, what if it were a guy or one of your friends who displayed this sort of attitude, would you still be friends with him?

What I want to know is....Is it that you can't condone this sort of attutude from any one at all or only females.

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Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by Realhommie(m): 10:49am On Aug 15, 2016
NevetsIbot:
bro. I'm not even ready for marriage now. Like in the next 7 yrs. I just want a relationship that would possibly lead to it. It's better than fooling around
Lol... Guy 7 years no be beans ooooooo.

To see girl wey go fit dey patient that long presently be like finding oil in sambissa forest ooo.
Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by Josmila(m): 10:51am On Aug 15, 2016
Every man has what he looks out for in a woman, she clearly can't submit to a man's authority, she's better off being single or a babymama. Move on bro

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Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by kenoz(m): 10:53am On Aug 15, 2016
lol
Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by Nobody: 10:55am On Aug 15, 2016
coulisse:
I think you really like her( people can change you know)
Don't mind the OP! He also has as much ego as the lady that is why he couldn't cope! Its better he gets a 'yes yes' woman who would agree with every thing he says so that the egoistic lady can find a guy who values her! undecided

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Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by ifex370(m): 10:55am On Aug 15, 2016
Realhommie:
Lol... Guy 7 years no be beans ooooooo.

To see girl wey go fit dey patient that long presently be like finding oil in sambissa forest ooo.

So @ 20.. Does that mean I kind find n date one 18 year old barney with marriage in view in let's say 5 year's..


Is that asking for too much?
Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by Realhommie(m): 10:55am On Aug 15, 2016
GloriaNinja:
I love leading. a female like me can not be controlled like a puppet
You again... Lol

We'll, na ur type sef dey easy pass. Make one guy man press ur mumu button you go even loyal pass loya milk. Hehehehehehe

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Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by Snow5(m): 10:57am On Aug 15, 2016
Mine eh... Her own is too much..

She keeps quiet when she is angry... And snub people a lot... When I talk to her to lighten up a little she den told me she knows what she is doing...

Na so I turn back Waka leave her oo... Till now we still dey fight... She doesn't want to submit

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Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by Nobody: 10:57am On Aug 15, 2016
repogirl:
Nevetsibot, what if it were a guy or one of your friends who displayed this sort of attitude, would you still be friends with him?

What I want to know is....Is it that you can't condone this sort of attutude from any one at all or only females.
Pls help me ask him! Its always easy to spot men easily intimidated by an intelligent woman undecided

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Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by Nobody: 10:58am On Aug 15, 2016
GloriaNinja:
I love leading. a female like me can not be controlled like a puppet

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Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by Realhommie(m): 10:59am On Aug 15, 2016
ifex370:


So @ 20.. Does that mean I kind find n date one 18 year old barney with marriage in view in let's say 5 year's..


Is that asking for too much?
Obviously not... I'm just saying it's not gonna be easy finding such presently with the kinda girls our society is grooming now..

Personally i like to have a long and healthy relationship b4 marriage, had one for 5 years that ended last year. E no easy ooooo my guy.
Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by ayokunlei(m): 11:00am On Aug 15, 2016
NevetsIbot:
I was you know... Errm ''chyking'' one babe lately. Nine months, I was on her. Not that I was foolish, i felt she could hold a long lasting relationship (which was what I wanted). Nonetheless,I was looking out for any other reasonable date. I'm not interested in just sleeping with girls or dating shabby and nonsenstical girls. I've always admired long relationships.

So, She fell. She really did. But she was an outspoken, egoistic, judgemental,critical, a bodacious critic. She would always find a fault in everything. Always wanna advise you on everything (even tho she knows clearly well that you know what you're doing). Even in areas she knows little about, she'll sha want to be right. Like sometime ago, shared her an excerpt from the book I was writing, Next thing she did was advising me on who my audiences shud be cos of the vocabulary in the excerpt. Me wey dey write book, she wan tell me say I no sabi which type of people I wan address?

''You can't always be right'' - told her that several times. She always wants to be in the ''right''. Doesnt wanna be wrong. And boy! Can she evade questions. She's compassionate, yeah, sure! But that leadership vibe in her is just too much. And she'd always find an excuse or explanation for everything she says or does (no wonder her ex left her ''nigga couldnt handle more criticism'' ) Being a PUA, Ive learnt that there are some girls that just don't succumb to authority, and she's one.


Now,she wants to date when I'm off her. No way! No one wants an I-too-know wife of gf. So ladies. Overwiseness doesn't pay at all.

My guy, pua means what
Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by ephi123(f): 11:02am On Aug 15, 2016
Hard to admit but the truth is you attract who you are.

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Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by Odgfidelity(m): 11:03am On Aug 15, 2016
NevetsIbot:
Even in areas she knows little about, she'll sha want to be right. ''You can't always be right'' - told her that several times. She always wants to be in the ''right''.
Now,she wants to date when I'm off her. No way! No one wants an I-too-know wife of gf. So ladies. Overwiseness doesn't pay at all.
No man wishes to marry a lady who resist teachings and corrections. Ladies should learn to honour and saubmit to the leadership of the man. Then the man must be a wise man also, so that He will not be manifesting folly when wisdom should be displayed. A rule of thumb is that your woman will naturally follow your orders when she has proven that you are a wise man, and your decisions have produced undeniable results. I dont advice a lady to follow a fool!

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Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by GloriaNinja(f): 11:05am On Aug 15, 2016
Realhommie:
You again... Lol

We'll, na ur type sef dey easy pass. Make one guy man press ur mumu button you go even loyal pass loya milk. Hehehehehehe
You don't even know me, let alone trying to underestimate me or play guessing game, don't lecture me on how your sisters behave or something like that, you don't even know me and you again? you just don't mind your business

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Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by ifex370(m): 11:08am On Aug 15, 2016
Realhommie:
Obviously not... I'm just saying it's not gonna be easy finding such presently with the kinda girls our society is grooming now..

Personally i like to have a long and healthy relationship b4 marriage, had one for 5 years that ended last year. E no easy ooooo my guy.


5:years mehn.. What ended it Na?..

This is really discouraging.. I was thinking its time I started a relationship.. Being alone has really helped me focus on my career tho.. And given me enough the to develop myself.. I think I should just continue this way..

But my fear is.. When am fully ready to commit n get married.. Might not be too familiar with the girl.. She must have had too much outside experience.. Sharp guys may have eaten her meat well well , and then we may not be on the same reasoning level


So I want to groom up a girl into a woman I can marry.. Forget the sex part am not interested in that

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Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by poweredcom(m): 11:13am On Aug 15, 2016
firstking01:
To the guys who are successfully and happily dating a nigerian girl, thumbs up to you guys.

I tell u I don't like any naija babe for marriage only for f....k. Dats all cos. 80percent are just not loveable they r all the same the olosho. Ashi ones these days. R. Thebest now
Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by ClintonDal(m): 11:14am On Aug 15, 2016
I can relate, I've dated such a girl for over 2 years. Now she's sweet and all but her one problem is always wanting to be right. Her ego is something else, it would literally take her days to apologize when she does something wrong.
I pride myself as a smart and intelligent guy so sometimes I just stare at her as she blabs away. I had to advise her,if she continues on that path she'd be heading for doom and truthfully that's where she might be now. Her close friend whom I still talk to told me she hasn't had a serious relationship after we broke up 3 years ago, that's bad.
It's okay to be opinionated and outspoken but not to the detriment of others. You can't be a know-it-all and expect everyone to like you.

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Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by Realhommie(m): 11:16am On Aug 15, 2016
GloriaNinja:
You don't even know me, let alone trying to underestimate me or play guessing game, don't lecture me on how your sisters behave or something like that, you don't even know me and you again? you just don't mind your business
Hmmmmmmmm..

Babes, that was humor right there, how you missed it i don't know. I was just kidding.

And ur response again, even having to involve my family, are you for real? That's bad

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Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by Emmahunk(m): 11:18am On Aug 15, 2016
Why do we always rush to NL to share our experiences with girls who fall short of our expectations?
How often do we take out same time to extol the rare qualities of those that spend time and energy in cleaning, washing and loving us without a price tag yet end up with broken hearts from us?

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Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by ritylove(f): 11:19am On Aug 15, 2016
trash
Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by GloriaNinja(f): 11:21am On Aug 15, 2016
Realhommie:
Hmmmmmmmm..

Babes, that was humor right there, how you missed it i don't know. I was just kidding.

And ur response again, even having to involve my family, are you for real? That's bad

Thought you directly meant it but Mumu is an insult.
Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by Realhommie(m): 11:22am On Aug 15, 2016
ifex370:



5:years mehn.. What ended it Na?..

This is really discouraging.. I was thinking its time I started a relationship.. Being alone has really helped me focus on my career tho.. And given me enough the to develop myself.. I think I should just continue this way..

But my fear is.. When am fully ready to commit n get married.. Might not be too familiar with the girl.. She must have had too much outside experience.. Sharp guys may have eaten her meat well well , and then we may not be on the same reasoning level


So I want to groom up a girl into a woman I can marry.. Forget the sex part am not interested in that
There's never a best time to start a relationship once you're an adult, it could be any time but you must first be ready and know what you want.

You shouldn't be discouraged by other people's negative experience, just do ur thing and be hopeful.


Best wishes.. Cheers
Re: When A Girl Believes She's Too Smart For Anyguy To Hold Down. by just2okworld(f): 11:23am On Aug 15, 2016
Ok

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