Oahray:
for me, a beautiful woman is appealing to both my eyes and my mind. Has to to be both of them, not just my eyes. So I usually prefer to just say a lady is pretty.

I can't answer your second question. I do have my preference, but it's not my place to determine the correct view of beauty. If a person thinks a light skin is what beauty is, fine. If they think the opposite is the case, fine. Just don't bug the next person with it.

LoveMe4real:
How would you react?

Lovelynature:
chai, and I don dey loveyou4real

drmikeadams:
..if your the peron..me go like marry u//

LoveMe4real:
So we can position our assets well.
Sometimes we just forget our legs need to be composed well too. hehehe

ButteredBiscuit:
I explained that twice now

ButteredBiscuit:
you answered neither question.
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Why are you pushing them?
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they answered yet question in the negative but you just keep pushing what are you looking for?

henrybomb:
she doesn't nid to do dat...she is very beautiful

LoveMe4real:

Okay o. I always mind my business sha...just said i should talk about it today.

They way some people badmouth others is very bad for people's esteem.

GlorifiedTunde:
what assets?
Well if you're still trying to make me see an asset, that means its not there.

Because even we guys have microscopic eagle eyes that pierces any form of clothing... So we see well. Even if an endowed lady wears bubu, we can see what is hidden

Beamborla:

The OP is only trying to make a point.

People would excuse an ugly fair lady for her skin color.
'She no fine but she's fair in complexion'...'Na only her skin complexion dey help her'.

But if you are dark and ugly, you've committed an unpardonable crime...'she no fine, she still come black join'

Yet these same set of people don't waste time when it comes to chantting black is beautiful.

The ugliness of a fair lady is always detached from her skin color while for a dark lady, well, it's just one of her ugliness

But only you and she seem to think it needful to push and push and push
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Despite honest opions being given the 1st time
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Don't you 2 see Men/people don't always light it lighter/brighter
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But you refuse the data you've collected because it doesn't fit yer preconceived notions

Beamborla:

The OP is only trying to make a point.

People would excuse an ugly fair lady for her skin color.
'She no fine but she's fair in complexion'...'Na only her skin complexion dey help her'.

But if you are dark and ugly, you've committed an unpardonable crime...'she no fine, she still come black join'

Yet these same set of people don't waste time when it comes to chantting black is beautiful.

The ugliness of a fair lady is always detached from her skin color while for a dark lady, well, it's just one of her ugliness

Beamborla:

The OP is only trying to make a point.

People would excuse an ugly fair lady for her skin color.
'She no fine but she's fair in complexion'...'Na only her skin complexion dey help her'.

But if you are dark and ugly, you've committed an unpardonable crime...'she no fine, she still come black join'

Yet these same set of people don't waste time when it comes to chantting black is beautiful.

The ugliness of a fair lady is always detached from her skin color while for a dark lady, well, it's just one of her ugliness

Oahray:
don't try to make it sound like it's universal opinion. Popular opinion, yes... Universal, no.[b] Negative people usually have louder opinions/[b].

Oahray:
well, people would always talk. You could let them define who you are or you could choose to see yourself differently. A woman who is confident in her skin is appealing to the mind... ok, my mind

ButteredBiscuit:
But only you and she seem to think it needful to push and push and push
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Despite honest opions being given the 1st time
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Don't you 2 see Men/people don't always light it lighter/brighter
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But you refuse the data you've collected because it doesn't fit yer preconceived notions

ButteredBiscuit:
@ bold. Right there!!!
Not popular just the loud mouths speaking over everybody else!!!

Beamborla:

It's not a preconceived notion, sir.
I've seen it in display over and over again.

Oahray:
don't try to make it sound like it's universal opinion. Popular opinion, yes... Universal, no. Negative people usually have louder opinions, so you'd hear it far more often.

ButteredBiscuit:
yeah.And from those experiences you've developed the mind-set that every/most people/man thinks that way.
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You have preconceived notions.
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And its 'MISS '

Beamborla:

My bad, miss.

My post did not in any way suggest that everyone is guilty but 7 out of 10 are.

Beamborla:

Sir, very few persons are not guilty of this.
It's not limited to men alone even ladies are guilty as well.

ButteredBiscuit:
Said "MOST/every".
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Anyway think what you want. Yer only hurting herself with that mindset.Bye

Oahray:
give me a number estimate. How many Nigerians have you met that condemned dark skin as ugly?

Oahray:
give me a number estimate. How many Nigerians have you met that condemned dark skin as ugly?

Beamborla:

The OP is only trying to make a point.
People would excuse an ugly fair lady for her skin color.
'She no fine but she's fair in complexion'...'Na only her skin complexion dey help her'.
But if you are dark and ugly, you've committed an unpardonable crime...'she no fine, she still come black join'
Yet these same set of people don't waste time when it comes to chantting black is beautiful.
The ugliness of a fair lady is always detached from her skin color while for a dark lady, well, it's just one of her ugliness

LoveMe4real:
You are very funny. Are you a comic actor?

LoveMe4real:
In nigeria, fair is beautiful 99.9% of the time while black is beautiful only sometimes.

LoveMe4real:
These loudmouths outnumber the reserved ones na. When last did you see dark girls winning anything or used for sales promo?

*SIGH*
No, they dont .
They're just sooo loud they give the illusion of being many
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Winning? Ms.Nairaland wad a dark skin woman .
And her 2 runners ups?.... Dark skin
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Did you follow the contest see how the makes on her raved on those DARK skin women?
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No,I'm sure if you viewed with clear eyes you wouldn't have asked me that question 1st question.
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Yer 9ja most all yer ads are dark girls.
I've seen them up above or down below on this very form
But again you didn't note this did you?...NO.
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I am Finished with this back and forwards .
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You are set absolutely set on seeing this the way You've decided they are inseat of what's before yer eyes.
.......Bye-bye

LoveMe4real:
But what if she is not very beautiful kwa? will bleaching be ok?

GlorifiedTunde:


You have not slept ehn? Still on this bleaching matter.

Oya its past bed time, go and sleep joor.

Good girls don't talk to guys late at night

Sweet dreams.