Note that I used the term intimate. It does not have to be sex. Could be everything else as well.

What marriage are we waiting for??

The marriage is delayed...and causes temptations for both the man and the woman.

The marriage that gives a man a lot of responsibility with no benefit?

The marriage where the women put having a career and a busy schedule above their home?

The marriage where both the men and women have been around the block (i.e. slept around) before getting married bringing demons into the marriage?

The marriage powers of darkness are trying to break using anger, etc?

The marriage where a man will get divorced often with no notice and pay alimony and child support his whole life. Failure to pay results in inprisonment. With thr established Ministry of Womens Affairs under UN mandate in Nigeria this year, no fault divorce and forced alimony and child support payments are coming to naija soon

The marriage where the sex dies down after two years.

So why are we waiting until marriage to get intimate? I suggest to all young men to get a stable girlfriend and plan to marry her later. older guys can follow the current system of late marriage. its a work around; ideally you should marry outright but society has changed.

Overhyped

Intimacy are meant for couples

You are seriously making no point.

AlienStar:
You are seriously making no point.

I concur.

Issokay

AVRecruit:
Note that I used the term intimate. It does not have to be sex. Could be everything else as well.

What marriage are we waiting for??

The marriage where the man is 40 and woman is 30 both of them losing in physical attractiveness a major ingredient men look for though most guys are religious hypocrites and wont say this.

The marriage that gives a man a lot of responsibility with no benefit?

The marriage where the women put having a career and a busy schedule above their home?

The marriage where both the men and women have been around the block (i.e. slept around) before getting married bringing demons into the marriage?

The marriage powers of darkness are trying to break using anger, etc?

The marriage where a man will get divorced often with no notice and pay alimony and child support his whole life. Failure to pay results in inprisonment. With thr established Ministry of Womens Affairs under UN mandate, no fault divorce and forced alimony and child support payments are coming to naija soon

The marriage where the sex dies down after two years (they gave their best years to bf and gf not you!).

So why are we waiting until marriage to get intimate? I suggest to all young men to get a stable girlfriend and plan to marry her later. older guys can follow the current system of late marriage. its a work around; ideally you should marry outright but society has changed.

Well, i dnt knw the denomination where you belong, but i sure know there's a set standard for everything including marriage, esp if you are a christian..

AlienStar:
You are seriously making no point.

this thread is for men. All I am saying is the delayed marriage system doesnt work. you expect a guy to wait 40 years to get laid for a heaven that is speculative at best? Heaven is a hope. Its a HOPE for believers.

my point is for no sex till marriage to work, a man should not wait 40 years and a woman should not wait 35 years. If im doing no sex till marriage to enter heaven heaven is speculative at best and have a 50 50 chance of getting sorely disappointed on Judgement Day.

God created intimacy for human bonding, increase of trust and loyalty, also for romantic attachment, this is one of key to feeling happy, so why waste it?