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Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by Spells(m): 2:55pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Yes abstain from sex is te best.... Any one who thinks otherwise should quote me wrong. I no holy pass sha 2 Likes |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by emymeeky: 2:55pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Yes |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by darkid1(m): 2:56pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Lol, there is time for everything. You see this sex of a thing, when done outside marriage only brings pain and regret . 3 Likes |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by Nobody: 2:56pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Not so, Seun. Some people are disciplined enough to stand by their convictions, not cut corners and wait for marriage. Yes, some people do practice abstinence in every sense of the word. Seun: 4 Likes |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by emymeeky: 2:56pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by Nobody: 2:57pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Abeg lalasticlala can assist. I just heard he is now fully engaged. Kindly share your experience on this subject.
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Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by 9jatatafo(m): 2:58pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Drdreyy: Celibacy in this our time and age where sex is like a cup of tea that people take every minute? |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by eph12(m): 2:58pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU:Do you want a religious view or social view? They are two different views which clashes at times. So which exactly do you want? 1 Like |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by Nobody: 3:00pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
"Most people are going to do it" doesn't make it right. Remember you were created to be different. 2 Likes |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by FOLYKAZE(m): 3:00pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
abdulkayus: Maybe the person have not reached puberty stage. The body is programmed by nature for sex. |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by queenfav(f): 3:01pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Seun:Please get me a Royal cape,a crown and a throne,let's name him king!Thats the truth right there.On the flip side,i know very few true Christians still practice "TOTAL" abstinence from sex before marriage.Its very hard Sha.. 1 Like |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by olaolaking: 3:02pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
YES! We did it. So it is realistic 1 Like |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by NameChecker: 3:02pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Seun: Three bottles of Origin for You |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by OLAADEGBU(m): 3:05pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
eph12: The realistic view. |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by mira4u: 3:06pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Seun: What happens if I tell you I never did any of them before I got married? If you or some people can't abstain, it doesn't mean others can't. Yes, it's realistic. 9 Likes |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by holluphemydavid(m): 3:08pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
lilyqueen:Oya clap for ur sef, but wait ooooo, hope u laid a gud example of dat? |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by rita25(f): 3:08pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
babes I advice you better taste performance and skillz before you say I do cos I am tired of reading stories that touch the heart cos women are chopping outside cos their men are made in china( one minute men) |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by Proffdada: 3:08pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Seun:there's a difference between abstinence and virginity Some may not be virgins but abstain from future spouses till marriage 1 Like |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by holluphemydavid(m): 3:09pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
lilyqueen:U get my thumb up for d advantages u listed above 2 Likes |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by LaExpert: 3:10pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Yes, it is realistic, possible and definitely the best option. 1 Like |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by abhosts(m): 3:11pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
I Completely Abstained from all forms of sex, kissing or masturbation for 11 years prior to my marriage. So yes, it is possible. The First 6 months is usually challenging. Thereafter, the desire for sex would no longer be strong and compulsive. 1 Like |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by OLAADEGBU(m): 3:11pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
tolutweety: How did you manage to conclude that as fact? 2 Likes |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by queenfav(f): 3:12pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
rita25:True o,i did a divorce where the wife was knacking her husband's younger brother living with them in their matrimonial home. 1 Like |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by bjtinz: 3:13pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Proffdada: yeah, like the difference between six and half a dozen. :-/ |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by Nobody: 3:13pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
lilyqueen: 1 Like
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Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by OLAADEGBU(m): 3:13pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
joseph1832: So your reason for engaging in pre-marital sex is because the unfaithfulness? |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by bjtinz: 3:16pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Proffdada: yeah, like the difference between six and half a dozen. :-/ |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by Nobody: 3:18pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
It's not easy to keep sexual urge at bay but it can be controlled by two things. 1. Focusing on something that occupies the mind like reading. 2. Having the fear of God. This is the most effective. The fear of sexual transmitted disease can never save you. When it's time, you won't remember HIV or syphilis. I have overcome one or two sexual temptations. I don't really know how but I just overcome it. I'm not a saint. I have feelings too but all the same, Kongi nah bad thing 1 Like |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by eph12(m): 3:18pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU:Some people can't do without taking hard drugs should we stop teaching against it? Some are kleptomaniacs should we also not bother to talk it? Because my little boy will always want to watch TV 247 I should allow him and not caution him since he will always choose TV over most other things? If you don't believe in God your view will definitely be different from those that do so why bother? Your realistic view may not be another realistic view. |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by OLAADEGBU(m): 3:19pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Seun: That is a bold statement. How did you know? Are you saying that you have all the knowledge in the entire universe? You know how many hairs are upon every head, every thought of every human heart, you have the knowledge about every detail of history, every atom within every rock and nothing is hidden from your eyes. You know the intimate details of the secret sex-life of the fleas on the back of the black cat of Napolean's great-grandmother for you to be able to conclude that nobody practices abstinence before marriage. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by Tmercy(m): 3:19pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
tolutweety:realest fact |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by Nobody: 3:22pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
holluphemydavid: Yes |
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