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Now she jst brought 2my knowledge dat my washing machine is faulty yesterday n wen I checked I discovered it could no longer rotate fast as usual bt jst keeps humming,I initially tot d current must be low n thus plugged it 2my stabilizer, still no improvement.I then waited till now to still check it out, still no improvement.Its a skyrun model n I bought it 3months back. Abeg mamas can d machine be fixed? .

Find the address of their service center online. My lg washing machine dey shock self. Na time to carry am go their apapa service center be my Koko. I had a pleasant experience when they repaired my TV earlier this year. Sharp after service is a no no. They request 10k non refundable fee to just see your stuff. Lg, repaired then billed. Only 2k I paid for a TV out of warranty that seemed like what repairers would call colour icing problem.

Malizzy:
I return all the glory to thy most high GOD.
Rejoice with us as my princess made her grand entrance yesterday morning tru vaginal delivery. BS later
termaugustforsupernaturaldelivery#

Sweet sweet news ....All glory returned to God! Congratulations to you and your family. ...Welcome Princess. ...May she always be a source of blessings to your family!
We await your birth story. ..

Redoil:
clown why do you spam my mention?

You have the guts and effrontry to call a mama here 'clown'? Did you check the name of this thread well before stopping by to be silly ??

Oya, Mama's let's make this dude trend for being silly here...hashtag #redoil till further notice....
We have done it before and can do it again. ..
#redoil
#redoil

BritneyStacy:

You have the guts and effrontry to call a mama here 'clown'? Did you check the name of this thread well before stopping by to be silly ??

Oya, Mama's let's make this dude trend for being silly here...hashtag #redoil till further notice....
We have done it before and can do it again. ..
#redoil
#redoil

Yawa don gas!

Abi ooo @BritneyStacy. Oya let's begin mamas
#redoil
#redoil
#redoil
#redoil

sweetestmum:
I really appreciate all the mama's in the house for your warm welcome yesterday.you were able to take away my fears, I appreciate u so well, may Almighty Allah continue to be with us all. Pls for the mama that has cerclage on, pls always mention me if u come across any other dos and don'ts so as to be more careful so as to carry to term. I appreciate u all. My husband also says Thank u, mercy, gratis, jazakum llahu aira.

I think you should talk to your doctor about the possibility of adding cyclogest. It seems to have worked better for mama raptor. Also I think ekeminiabasi had issues with cerclage and did only cyclogest and carried to term.

rezzy:
Please mamas, for those that have older children, how do you train them without beating/flogging them with cane? I almost ran mad on Monday and even yesterday,.

My 21 months old son is stressing us here.


If it's beat, I'm already tired of beating him. Dh said I'm abusing him

I used a word out of annoyance 'I will march your head against the wall' since then, before I will say anything, Dh will just say the word and it makes me feel bad. He always mock me with the word and say I'm worst that all those househelp that maltreat children.

Dh says I shout like a mad person. These few weeks that he is always home, him too don dey hearam. He was shouting the other day 'leave there, that's electricity, it's dangerous' Kaka didn't even answer,. I laughed so hard. I just told him 'na so madness dey start'

My questions
Is it that he is to young to understand what I'm saying or he is just been stubborn.. ?

Thanks

I don't have a toddler yet so mamas with first hand experience will add their contributions but the little I want to say now is based on my little knowledge of child psychology. ...
That age range of you mentioned is 'transition phase' for him. Transition in the sense that he is moving from a phase where he was cared for completely and the centre of attention to a phase he has to start discovering little things for himself. It is also a learning stage for him. It's usually a little confusing for them but you can guide him successfully thro out this period by trying to understand what is going on in his mind at this stage.
Unlike adults who learn using a systemic process, he learns by sheer 'discovery or experimenting if i want to put it that way and this discovery is by scattering things to see what happens to it. So all those things he used to see when he couldn't walk ,he will want to get hold of them now that he can walk and find out in his little mind, how does this thing work? What will happen if I hit it on the floor or something? Hence the destruction! !
Here are some tips:

1. For his safety, try ti keep potentially harmful things like sharp objects or electrical appliances out of his reach!!
For scattering drawers like the ones you posted, the only dangerous thing there is his climbing on it as he could fall and break a hand . But if he stays on the ground level to scatter, sometimes you allow him and then rearrange later. Thats the hurdles of parenting..But after rearranging don't let him scatter it again immediately. ..

2. Learn to set rules and gradually guide him to follow too. If you say, don't touch that thing ,if you do, I will beat you. If he does touch it, beat him as you had said. But beat like you are beating a baby abeg and not an older child. Like a tap on the buttocks or something... or something he will sense you are punishing him bevause you are displeased with him. If you don't beat, he doesn't take you seriously and will be stretching his boundaries to see how far he can go. While doing so, talk to him. Tell him 'remember I said I will beat you if you do this, that's why am beating you'. You are communicating to him too and he is learning that you didn't punish because you hate him but because of what he did.At the same time, he is learning to recognize that there are rules in life that you as a parent will set and he is expected to follow.

3. DON'T ever use abusive words or curse words on children please! It's wrong....It constitutes emotional child abuse. If he does annoying stuff, discipline which ever way you want but don't curse! Verbal abuse destroys a child's self worth and confidence. ..

4. Sometimes you learn to ignore. Ignore when no harm will come to him from what he is doing but be observant before he leaves that one to another that could hurt him Allow the 'discovery'. Dont let him get too used to hearing you scream....So that any time you do ,he will know you mean business.

5. Engage in some productive activities that will help him to learn. Buy educational toys for him, educational CDs not necessarily cartoons ooo. There are CDs children songs are taught, alphabets and numbers etc are taught. Put it when there is light. Don't buy too many toys at the same time. They easily fall out of love once they understand how it works and will need something else to catch his fancy. So you buy another.

Equip yourself with knowledge about what goes on in each stage of his growth process. This you can do by reading. Most books on child psychology can be found on Google. At your leisure, read them! That way you will know what to expect and how to handle them. Motherhood is no mean business o ooo... It doesn't stop at caring for his physical needs . His emotional and mental needs should be cared for too.

Don't forget prayers too. Pray to God who gave him to you for wisdom to train n handle him successfully. ...
Best wishes

#redoil

Omojudy:

My ex would say, there is a way you can tell someone to go to hell and they will long for the trip.

This got me laughing

We are fine o teamie
How was ur exams!b success is yours already ma'am
Rgds to ur cutie

christybabe:
waow, abeg I can't read back ooo, Congrats to all mama's that has delivered.

I have been so busy with school stuffs, I had to travel with my one month old baby to sit for my final exam.... It has not been easy sha, but God gat my back. Thank God my mum travelled with me..

Greeting mama's, I just said let me hop in and hop out.
all my July mama's how body na, baby nko. @ Mitchy, fortius, olatebony, esof1, raptor2 and other's...

All waddling mama's the Lord is Ur strength....
Threadcuties today, waiting to see our fine fine shildrens.

Redoil:
what do you want from me and how do you want it?

Excuse me sire!what do i want from you as how?

sugah:

I think you should talk to your doctor about the possibility of adding cyclogest. It seems to have worked better for mama raptor. Also I think ekeminiabasi had issues with cerclage and did only cyclogest and carried to term.

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Thank u sugar, will mention it to gynea, m sure he will recommend cos he has a listening ear. I appreciate . Zaynie mama didn't give me the golden chair to seat on . Been longing for that chair

sugah:

Na wa for this mama o. You come just knock this midnight kon run again? Abeg enter, the door is open but hurry so mosquito no go enter too.

I am already in pls register me ooo,team march third time mum

Redoil:
clown why do you spam my mention?

You really want to do this the hard way, right?

I dey come. Let me feed my baby first cus he's more important than you. Wait for me o, let me truly define spam for you.

Thanks to everyone who welcomed me.

Congrats to all the mothers that gave birth. Supernatural delivery to those of us still waddling IJN, Amen!

ahnie:


Excuse me sire!what do i want from you as how?

Leave am. He's feeling cool because we've not descended on him like Mr Ha.ute. i go open chapter for am now

#redoil

Omojudy:
Yawa don gas!

you too like trouble

ozycy:

Where is the redoil?
Where is the redoil?
Where I our redoil?
I no see any redoil ooo
Welcome and easy preggy and delivery to you.

hahahaha...see the red oil has come himself, without even my asking. lolsss

Redoil:
you like? I am a male searching for a female. If you are vacant shout "aye"

Chili89:
Abi ooo @BritneyStacy. Oya let's begin mamas
#redoil
#redoil
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una too like trouble

Please leave Mr Red.oil alone o. No be una dey mention him?

Purity77:


hahahaha...see the red oil has come himself, without even my asking. lolsss

trouble maker good morning

#redoil

firsttymum:
#redoil

how come trouble is so much fun. Trouble maker how you and ur baby

Redoil:
how come trouble is so much fun. Trouble maker how you and ur baby

kikikikikikikikiki lemme o... Kikikikikikikikiki I and my baby are fine my dear

Fortius:
SisiNini.christybabe.Ummtwins2 nd mumi zaynie..tnx for askin afta me..been busy wt sum family ish..regrds to d families

nazablossom..yes i see damian nd he is lukin great..weldone nd cant wait to see u guys.

Lovely babies everywia..bless dem all.

hold tight, we are almost there

Omojudy:
That person wey bring dues of red oil without a visual evidence Na em cause all the trouble today. What should we fine her as punishment?

as per assistant nahh o di egwu, lolsss
Presido has already received her goods with joy. fara bale joo

@raptor2 just read your bs, there shall be no more loss in your life, this one v cm to stay. Welcome baby Eliana(in love with that name)
@enkaydewdrop mama Jay hope you are good?
Congrats to All the August mama's that delivered, may they be a source of blessing to you.
@britneystacy easy delivery to you dear, you shall deliver like a Hebrew woman. Can't wait to see that bobo that occupied that mansion.
@mitchyy @ahnie don't mind that redoil he just wants to be noticed.
Plenty newbies, welcome and have a lovely stress-free 9months
To all mama's that suffered one loss or another my prayers are with you. May God comfort you and give you a reason to laugh again

rejoice02:
Mamas pls help me out on this. I took my first TT dose at 18weeks and the second one today at 29wks2days, does it mean I will start all over? .I read it here dat d first dose should be 4wks apart from d 2nd dose. I don't understand dis my hospital procedure oh.

Cc: Soonest

What we were told at my clinic is dat one needs to follow d dates religiously, once u miss out on the expected date u ll av to start again.
You can seek further clarification at ur clinic though.

Prettyhurts:

@britneystacy easy delivery to you dear, you shall deliver like a Hebrew woman. Can't wait to see that bobo that occupied that mansion.

Thanks Sis....the bobo will be here in less than no time....

limsycutey:
Please leave Mr Red.oil alone o. No be una dey mention him?

Nor be we send am to use commodity as moniker now. Essential commodity for that matter. Lol

zimunachimdi:


britneystacy,how far?u don born? safe delivery dear.

I never born ooo....But we don conclude plans to take baby out by next week...e b like say him body too heavy for am to move out on his own.
Thank you for asking

#redoil

mitchyy:


Leave am. He's feeling cool because we've not descended on him like Mr Ha.ute. i go open chapter for am now

#redoil

i stil fail to decipher this lacuna...pls is redoil character preggy!this nl eeh nurrin wey pesin no go see!

Mumtwins08:
None at all will be 41 weeks on Saturday I have been scheduled for an induction on Tuesday ... Baby is fine did a non stress test and he is ok ... Was even bringing out tongue for me yesterday at the scan center . I pray I go to labour before then . I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me . God is in control ;Dno worries

Same thing here ooo. Tuesday is the D-day...So chilling till then but hoping something happens before then. ..
God has got us....