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Re: How I Overcame Pornography by Toks2008(m): 9:51pm On Aug 20, 2016
BlindAngel:

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My God, this is just me.
I have vowed to God several times that if i ever masturbate again then let God take my life or let me sleep that day and never see the next day, then with in 3 - 6days max am back at it again, i always crave for dirty and most intresting oily bf and at the same time my body is already boiling with the urge to masturbate. That nothing will stop me from doing it, its either i do it in the bathroom or in the ceiling. Most expecially in the ceiling, because i have the most and best privacy there. No soul will know that am at home, i will masturbate and after i cum, then the intresting bf i was watching looks irritating to me and i will mark all and delete with so much anger in my heart that i will cursed my s@elf severally but with in a day - 2 - 3days am at it again, downloading again with full urge to masturbate with, the highest i have vowed and gone without masturbating is two weeks maximum, i have prayed, vowed, cursed my self writting many notes like the side effects, dis-advantages and consequesces of doing it and vowed never to masturbate again but with in some days am at it again.
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Please use this links to help yourself, although it did't help me but just try may be it can for you.
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http://www.christian-courtship.com/side-effects-of-masturbation.html
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http://www.howtostopmasturbation.com/page-1-testimony.html
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http://www.naturalhealthprotocol.com/masturbation--dr-lawrence-wilson.html
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http://abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/171060/
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https://sureshjonna.in/tag/disadvantages-of-masturbating-masturbation-why-masturbation-is-bad-how-to-overcome-masturbation-masturbation-addiction/
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http://www.homeoint.org/site/ahmad/masturbation.htm

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Maturbating without viewing porn to me is ok as long as you dont allow it to take ful control ,of you.

Lets stop fooling each other here.. you were not created to stay long before getting married but the economy has caused it and sexual urge is a biological urge that comes naturally and you cant wish it away or even pray it off but you must get married to overcome it.

Yes some people even in marriage masturbate and that is a different ball game but trust me, as human and i mean normal sexually active human, it will be pretty hard for you to keep the urge for long without easing off.

But watching porn is very wrong and watching it while self servicing is 200% fornication.
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by bartho77(m): 9:51pm On Aug 20, 2016
BlindAngel:
We need all this kind of topics on fp and not all those crap.
I deleted my 333 blue film (bf) a day before yesterday eveling. And now the urge is back again and very strong and powerful to download another bf and masturbate to it. No matter how hard i try to quit its not always succesful. Its been 4years now i started masturbation but still can't quit it.




Chisos clist of onitsha, 333 porn clips. Dude, u are legendary.
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by san316(m): 9:55pm On Aug 20, 2016
What abt jerking off
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch: 9:56pm On Aug 20, 2016
Ginaz:
Religion aside, pornn is really damaging. The things they do in porn is so disgusting, it doesn't display the true meaning of sex. In porn, sex is seen as a medium of release, where people get together and fucck, nothing attach.

That's what they breed, that it's OK to have foursome, it's OK to sleep with 10 men, you're not a man if you don't last an hour. It brings misconception which sadly many youth of nowadays are following.

I hate porn with passion, it should be banned cos it is destroying the real conception about sex.

I can't add more to all you've said. God bless u!

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Re: How I Overcame Pornography by Mopolchi: 10:01pm On Aug 20, 2016
[quote author=fratermathy post=48660113][/quote]

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Re: How I Overcame Pornography by Thisis2raw(m): 10:06pm On Aug 20, 2016
advocatebaba:
BT U STIL WATCH IT UNCONCIOUSLY
point is I don hunger for it anymore
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by wtfCode: 10:06pm On Aug 20, 2016
Ok ooo....make i log to porn hub
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch: 10:08pm On Aug 20, 2016
benji93:
As much as it pains me that i will be part of the long list of those who have posted comments, but i would like to know, what is the purpose of this thread? so anyone who wants to quit watching porn materials should make a convenat with God, and that will be it.

Three words:

PORNOGRAPHY IS EVIL.

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Re: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch: 10:17pm On Aug 20, 2016
brostheo:
Op your annotations are not substantial enough, you didn't give us tips on how to quite porn.Rather you came up with your God and paper blah blah blah alibi.Do we all believe in God,and does that affect our modern day life.You know how many bad habits I don write down and i never stop?



and why should we stop porn sef,na crime abi he day kill?

It's a pity some of u don't believe in God. But it's d respect I have for my creator that made me respect my vows to Him. But more importantly was my DECISION to quit.

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Re: How I Overcame Pornography by anyicash(m): 10:17pm On Aug 20, 2016
And the infants quickly moved it to FB.smh
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by Nobody: 10:21pm On Aug 20, 2016
BlindAngel:
We need all this kind of topics on fp and not all those crap.
I deleted my 333 blue film (bf) a day before yesterday eveling. And now the urge is back again and very strong and powerful to download another bf and masturbate to it. No matter how hard i try to quit its not always succesful. Its been 4years now i started masturbation but still can't quit it.
.
.

.
.
My God, this is just me.
I have vowed to God several times that if i ever masturbate again then let God take my life or let me sleep that day and never see the next day, then with in 3 - 6days max am back at it again, i always crave for dirty and most intresting oily bf and at the same time my body is already boiling with the urge to masturbate. That nothing will stop me from doing it, its either i do it in the bathroom or in the ceiling. Most expecially in the ceiling, because i have the most and best privacy there. No soul will know that am at home, i will masturbate and after i cum, then the intresting bf i was watching looks irritating to me and i will mark all and delete with so much anger in my heart that i will cursed my s@elf severally but with in a day - 2 - 3days am at it again, downloading again with full urge to masturbate with, the highest i have vowed and gone without masturbating is two weeks maximum, i have prayed, vowed, cursed my self writting many notes like the side effects, dis-advantages and consequesces of doing it and vowed never to masturbate again but with in some days am at it again.
.
Please use this links to help yourself, although it did't help me but just try may be it can for you.
.


http://www.christian-courtship.com/side-effects-of-masturbation.html
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.
http://www.howtostopmasturbation.com/page-1-testimony.html
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http://www.naturalhealthprotocol.com/masturbation--dr-lawrence-wilson.html
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http://abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/171060/
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https://sureshjonna.in/tag/disadvantages-of-masturbating-masturbation-why-masturbation-is-bad-how-to-overcome-masturbation-masturbation-addiction/
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http://www.homeoint.org/site/ahmad/masturbation.htm

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You really need to quit man. I don't know if it's okay to out the solution I used to quit might work for you. You see porn is a psychological problem not even masturbation, you find it easier to go a week without masturbation but difficult to go a week without porn. The mistake your making is deleting the porn clips. Just like u watch it and masturbate to it and the clip doesn't interest you again even if you feel the urge to masturbate you will prefer a fresh clip so you keep downloading new once. Try this its difficult but it worked for me, download all the porn you can find then stop when ur done, don't download new onces again you have so many already. Now listen make a promise to yourself that you will not masturbate no matter how turned on you are from the video. Now start watching the clips over and over again your brain will realise dopamine a chemical released from addiction. You will feel tired and probably satisfied and fall asleep. Don't masturbate soon porn will bore you. And you will delete them all when ur really tired. Hold keep trying if u fail try again.
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch: 10:23pm On Aug 20, 2016
femi4:
I see you going back soon

Hello! 9 years ain't 9 months or 9 weeks or even 9 days ok?

The 1st year was a struggle but gradually d desire obliterated. And today porn disgusts me.

I fear my Creator and that's y I can't break my vows.

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Re: How I Overcame Pornography by VickyRotex(f): 10:23pm On Aug 20, 2016
[quote author=femi4 post=48660237][/quote]

The both words are correct Sir!
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by Fidelismaria: 10:25pm On Aug 20, 2016
Trash

Mumu op

I wonder who asked u how u quit
U quit ooo u no quit ooo
Aint nairaland fuvkin business
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by HarryTellMe(m): 10:25pm On Aug 20, 2016
Thisis2raw:
That's de same tin I did. I made a vow to God dat if he gives me wat I Wan, I would do de same tin too. Since on the 28th of December 2015 till date I havent watch Porn consciously

But you dey watch porn unconsciously sometimes, shebi?
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by VickyRotex(f): 10:26pm On Aug 20, 2016
Firefire:



E Jo e pa ri owo yin oooo...

Iri ni si, ni se ni lojo...? Let me know if you can give us the full 'Ijinle Owe' tongue

Mo ti pa ri e. Abi is there anything left after that? cheesy cheesy
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by benji93: 10:26pm On Aug 20, 2016
4Qbitch:


Three words:

PORNOGRAPHY IS EVIL.
well we have always known that, bros
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch: 10:33pm On Aug 20, 2016
BlindAngel:

.
.
My God, this is just me.
I have vowed to God several times that if i ever masturbate again then let God take my life or let me sleep that day and never see the next day, then with in 3 - 6days max am back at it again, i always crave for dirty and most intresting oily bf and at the same time my body is already boiling with the urge to masturbate. That nothing will stop me from doing it, its either i do it in the bathroom or in the ceiling. Most expecially in the ceiling, because i have the most and best privacy there. No soul will know that am at home, i will masturbate and after i cum, then the intresting bf i was watching looks irritating to me and i will mark all and delete with so much anger in my heart that i will cursed my s@elf severally but with in a day - 2 - 3days am at it again, downloading again with full urge to masturbate with, the highest i have vowed and gone without masturbating is two weeks maximum, i have prayed, vowed, cursed my self writting many notes like the side effects, dis-advantages and consequesces of doing it and vowed never to masturbate again but with in some days am at it again.
.
Please use this links to help yourself, although it did't help me but just try may be it can for you.
.
max max max max max max max

http://www.christian-courtship.com/side-effects-of-masturbation.html
.
.
http://www.howtostopmasturbation.com/page-1-testimony.html
.
.
http://www.naturalhealthprotocol.com/masturbation--dr-lawrence-wilson.html
.
.
http://abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/171060/
.
.
https://sureshjonna.in/tag/disadvantages-of-masturbating-masturbation-why-masturbation-is-bad-how-to-overcome-masturbation-masturbation-addiction/
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http://www.homeoint.org/site/ahmad/masturbation.htm

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seriously dis is a strong case o. Were u not scared that God could curse u for breaking d vows?

Try to find other means to release ur energy such as other vocations or hubby. Even games ain't bad to vent out d urge. It's a real struggle n it's worst wen u add masturbation to it (was lucky I didn't graduate into masturbation).

If u fear God, He would help u destroy d desires.

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Re: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch: 10:36pm On Aug 20, 2016
frubben:



U should take heed. Because he made a valid point.

Ok.
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by Becina(f): 10:37pm On Aug 20, 2016
somebody shout Hallelujaaaaah!!!


Neeeeextt!
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by Abra4real(m): 10:37pm On Aug 20, 2016
dukeprince50:
you don't watch porn?? believe me, you are not making good use of ur mb

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Re: How I Overcame Pornography by Femistico(m): 10:39pm On Aug 20, 2016
Thisis2raw:
That's de same tin I did. I made a vow to God dat if he gives me wat I Wan, I would do de same tin too. Since on the 28th of December 2015 till date I havent watch Porn consciously
buh u watch unconsciously
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by phensbassey: 10:44pm On Aug 20, 2016
BlindAngel:
We need all this kind of topics on fp and not all those crap.
I deleted my 333 blue film (bf) a day before yesterday eveling. And now the urge is back again and very strong and powerful to download another bf and masturbate to it. No matter how hard i try to quit its not always succesful. Its been 4years now i started masturbation but still can't quit it.
.
.

.
.
My God, this is just me.
I have vowed to God several times that if i ever masturbate again then let God take my life or let me sleep that day and never see the next day, then with in 3 - 6days max am back at it again, i always crave for dirty and most intresting oily bf and at the same time my body is already boiling with the urge to masturbate. That nothing will stop me from doing it, its either i do it in the bathroom or in the ceiling. Most expecially in the ceiling, because i have the most and best privacy there. No soul will know that am at home, i will masturbate and after i cum, then the intresting bf i was watching looks irritating to me and i will mark all and delete with so much anger in my heart that i will cursed my s@elf severally but with in a day - 2 - 3days am at it again, downloading again with full urge to masturbate with, the highest i have vowed and gone without masturbating is two weeks maximum, i have prayed, vowed, cursed my self writting many notes like the side effects, dis-advantages and consequesces of doing it and vowed never to masturbate again but with in some days am at it again.
.
Please use this links to help yourself, although it did't help me but just try may be it can for you.
.


http://www.christian-courtship.com/side-effects-of-masturbation.html
.
.
http://www.howtostopmasturbation.com/page-1-testimony.html
.
.
http://www.naturalhealthprotocol.com/masturbation--dr-lawrence-wilson.html
.
.
http://abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/171060/
.
.
https://sureshjonna.in/tag/disadvantages-of-masturbating-masturbation-why-masturbation-is-bad-how-to-overcome-masturbation-masturbation-addiction/
.
.
http://www.homeoint.org/site/ahmad/masturbation.htm

.
I don't believe the op because he said he quit that easily, its impossible to quit without relapses if you are already addicted, I know the struggle, I've been battling mine for close to seven years now...I can go weeks without relapse..now, as mine often happenes at night, before I sleep I reflect on positive things, when I feel the urge to masturbate, I immediately fall to the ground and do push ups till am exhausted by then I won't be able to masturbate I'll just fall asleep the fight is not easy, its just to Neva give up..and ask God for help.. don't feel ashamed when you relapse just analyse what led to the relapse and try to avoid it next time... may God help us.

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Re: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch: 10:44pm On Aug 20, 2016
Fidelismaria:
Trash


Mumu op


I wonder who asked u how u quit

U quit ooo u no quit ooo

Aint nairaland fuvkin business

So y r u here Mr Antagonist?

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Re: How I Overcame Pornography by spencekat(m): 10:45pm On Aug 20, 2016
4Qbitch:


Three words:

PORNOGRAPHY IS EVIL.
It is devilish too.
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by Fidelismaria: 10:47pm On Aug 20, 2016
4Qbitch:

So y r u here Mr Antagonist?




Isn't it obvious
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by Icon79(m): 10:47pm On Aug 20, 2016
Toks2008:


Maturbating without viewing porn to me is ok as long as you dont allow it to take ful control ,of you.

Lets stop fooling each other here.. you were not created to stay long before getting married but the economy has caused it and sexual urge is a biological urge that comes naturally and you cant wish it away or even pray it off but you must get married to overcome it.

Yes some people even in marriage masturbate and that is a different ball game but trust me, as human and i mean normal sexually active human, it will be pretty hard for you to keep the urge for long without easing off.

But watching porn is very wrong and watching it while self servicing is 200% fornication.

Please let's get it straight: masturbation, with or without pornography, is a sin - pure and simple. It's very simple to quit masturbation; all it takes is self control.

And by the way, once addicted, getting married would not liberate you from masturbation. Millions of married folks are living in that bondage, believe it or not. If you want to know how to stop masturbation, read this book:

https://www.amazon.com/Homosexuality-Explaining-Zeitgeist-Emmanuel-Ekwo/dp/1452047618

This is actually the most informative book on sex perversion in the market. Try to get a copy....you'll thank me later.

O pari
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by tens4real(m): 10:56pm On Aug 20, 2016
4Qbitch:
It's exactly 9 years now since I said no to pornography, that demonic thing that's designed to destroy young men.

Looking back now, I just thank God because I know that nearly everyone wif an access to internet occasionally checks out porn videos.

How did I quit?

Simple. I made a strong vow to God. I just took out a piece of paper and wrote: I hereby vow to quit pornography for life. May God punish me instantly any day I consciously watch porn videos.

It's that simple. I DECIDED TO QUIT. If you still do porn, I pray u also DECIDE to quit. There's nothing good about porn.



Mods ejoor move this to FP to help save our youngsters that re under d devilish grip of pornography!
congrats but please change ur moniker it speaks alot and contrary to ur repentance!!!
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by Toks2008(m): 10:59pm On Aug 20, 2016
Icon79:


Please let's get it straight: masturbation, with or without pornography, is a sin - pure and simple. It's very simple to quit masturbation; all it takes is self control.

And by the way, once addicted, getting married would not liberate you from masturbation. Millions of married folks are living in that bondage, believe it or not. If you want to know how to stop masturbation, read this book:

https://www.amazon.com/Homosexuality-Explaining-Zeitgeist-Emmanuel-Ekwo/dp/1452047618

This is actually the most informative book on sex perversion in the market. Try to get a copy....you'll thank me later.

O pari

I am not here to argue..i have been born again since 1987 and i will never be caught preaching heresy.

We have bad habits and we have sinful habits...Masturbation can be seen as a bad habit for those who are not comfortable with it while doctors recommend it for some patients and some people see it as a seemingly innocent way of releasing themselves of sexual urge.

Many believers enslave themselves with personal belief of what they think is a sin and that is their choice.

Self servicing was never mentioned a a sin in the bible because GOD did not find it necessary to see it as a sin..he made us to have urge for sex,he created that urge and if you dont have it then you are not normal.

Self servicing is a way many believers have prevented fornication so the truth is that if you can do without easing off, good for you,if you can't please do it rather than fornicate and if you believe you can cheat nature then be ready to have wet dreams.

The point is clear, watching porn at all or while masturbating is a sin but when you feel the urge and ease off with whatever is at your disposal be it candle or your finger or Vaseline as some people say...i believe you are only acting normal as a sexually active man or woman.

Nevertheless, whatever you do in excess and whatever has a possibility of addiction must be minimized to avoid getting traped in excessiveness.

Marriage is one great cure to self servicing and if you still see yourself doing it after marriage, as long as it does not affect your sex life then i wish you well.

Lets stop this self imposed bondage on ourselves.
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by Firefire(m): 11:10pm On Aug 20, 2016
VickyRotex:


Mo ti pa ri e. Abi is there anything left after that? cheesy cheesy

Yes ma,

Iri ni si, ni se ni lojo, ise arin la un ko ni.

Literarily meaning Iri ni si, ni se ni lo jo, - How you are seen (physical appearance) you will be assessed, I se arin, la un ko ni - how you walk or appear you will be seen.

tongue

Ijinle oro lati inu Oba awon ede' ati aasa.
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by BlindAngel: 11:14pm On Aug 20, 2016
phensbassey:
I don't believe the op because he said he quit that easily, its impossible to quit without relapses if you are already addicted, I know the struggle, I've been battling mine for close to seven years now...I can go weeks without relapse..now, as mine often happenes at night, before I sleep I reflect on positive things, when I feel the urge to masturbate, I immediately fall to the ground and do push ups till am exhausted by then I won't be able to masturbate I'll just fall asleep the fight is not easy, its just to Neva give up..and ask God for help.. don't feel ashamed when you relapse just analyse what led to the relapse and try to avoid it next time... may God help us.

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True brother, so true you are 100% right, God bless you for this, the op is definitely lying, he made the story up just to make fp.
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by Hanendez(m): 11:28pm On Aug 20, 2016
Damfostopper:
chisos... so dis Vaseline Member has withdrew
Why take the name of the LORD JESUS in vain?

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