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Re: How I Overcame Pornography by Boyooosa(m): 10:15am On Aug 21, 2016
4Qbitch:

I didn't come off as a saint remember. And Rome was not built in a day. Everything takes d grace of God and our decision and determination to be a better person.
Just joking bro, not really easy to win that tho. Just wondering how easy that theory can be... Thatsall
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by sats: 10:25am On Aug 21, 2016
wheredemdey:


Nawaoh for u

You forgot the 2 greatest...the fantasy of all men...nyomi and beauty dior....these 2 girls abi women don chop mb for ma hand tire....then my favourite couple roc and shay

God bless the founder of xvideos...that guy has consciously or unconsciously helped a lot of young men.
Imagine a world of no porn or mastubation....raaape will be on a daily....I was in Dubai and discovered that they banned all porn sites...but coded olosho joints plenty for deira so who are they deceiving?

To each and his own abeg

Yes o, boss no vex, beauty dior, chai i suffer for that girl hand, i still remember her scene with cherokee and sky black, that 3some was made by the devil. Allah!

Masturbation, not rape i agree
But the problem with masturbation is self control

Forget those arab people, they are hypocrites, they host coded parties where they have sex orrgies, even for government officials, the rich and highly placed too
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by sats: 10:52am On Aug 21, 2016
4Qbitch:



How did u manage to quit?

Thats a big question

TESTIMONY TIME ...
I first tried to stop in 2011, for where story, i did it for another 5 years

Read bible, prayed, i no fast o, read articles, the effects of pornography and masturbation on the brain and body
Story ... i didnt stop

Did it before going to work, did it when i cam back, did it when i wanted to sleep ... it was killing me
I get exam 8am i still did it before going to the hall
Church service 9am, i did it before going

I did it so much i nothing to ejakulate again
But the next morning i was ready to rub it again
I rubbed it so hard (you know when its time to come, o boy e b like heaven) my genital was aching and my testicles were aching

There was always a scene to jerk off too, there were always favorite women to jerk off too, mother and daughter was my favorite

I said i wont watch it again, i wont masturbate again
Story, give me 7 days i am back

I was practically killing myself

My church didnt make me stop
My Bible didnt make me stop
My friends didnt make me stop
Society didnt make me stop (they even encouraged it, they said its normal but i know better)

I decided to stop, you are your own limitation ... gbam

I started myself ... i stopped by myself
I thank God for his grace
While trying to stop, i wonder if he was up there
... HE was and still is
Just waiting patiently for me to reach out for HIS outstretched arm

Another tip : channel your energy into something more productive

I watched porn and masturbated because i was idle and bored
I now channel that energy into work and personal development (web programming)
Am not a very churchy or religious person but i know God

Children of God
Praise the Lord!
Halleluyah

PS we overcame by the blood of the lamb and the words of our testimony Rev 12:11

Jesus still loves you

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Re: How I Overcame Pornography by wheredemdey: 10:57am On Aug 21, 2016
sats:


Yes o, boss no vex, beauty dior, chai i suffer for that girl hand, i still remember her scene with cherokee and sky black, that 3some was made by the devil. Allah!

Masturbation, not rape i agree
But the problem with masturbation is self control

Forget those arab people, they are hypocrites, they host coded parties where they have sex orrgies, even for government officials, the rich and highly placed too


Wow..those 3 are daughters of Lucifer walahi...the scene where they are paired are sur banker for wankersters.....i hv d one they did in the gym with one dude...the one they also wore multi coloured singlet and banged one dude inside a room...

Laws hv mercy on me....xvideos don chop ma mb tire....I hv so many collections...i whole terabyte of hard drive is almost gone....odiegwu
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by Uniboy1: 11:04am On Aug 21, 2016
Porn fuels masturbation (my buddies & i nicknamed it "sustaining") in my hood.
Mine's been about six yrs now (''sustaining" addiction''). been tryin to bring the whole thing to stop but all my efforts seemed not enough. aint giving up!!!

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Re: How I Overcame Pornography by sats: 11:08am On Aug 21, 2016
wheredemdey:



Wow..those 3 are daughters of Lucifer walahi...the scene where they are paired are sur banker for wankersters.....i hv d one they did in the gym with one dude...the one they also wore multi coloured singlet and banged one dude inside a room...

Laws hv mercy on me....xvideos don chop ma mb tire....I hv so many collections...i whole terabyte of hard drive is almost gone....odiegwu

Lozllz, cherokee wear yellow, dior wear blue, i think sky wear black, they first pose small, come shake their bare behind, na dior sabi shake pass, dem come give them oil to rub the asset, the guy come show ... i remember that video wella, i watch am tire, i tire to download and delete, so i just stream ... back then

1 terabyte! Boss, no be small thing o ... grin
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by sats: 11:12am On Aug 21, 2016
Uniboy1:
Porn fuels masturbation (my buddies & i nicknamed it "sustaining"wink in my hood.
Mine's been about six yrs now (''sustaining" addiction''). been tryin to bring the whole thing to stop but all my efforts seemed not enough. aint giving up!!!

Keep trying ... its not easy, freedom is not free, theres light at the end of the tunnel, dont give up, it seem helpless like you cant do it, but let these few words of mine be a beacon of hope that i believe you can stop
Yes you can just like obama
There is light at the end of this tunnel for you
I believe in you!

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Re: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch: 11:41am On Aug 21, 2016
Uniboy1:
Porn fuels masturbation (my buddies & i nicknamed it "sustaining"wink in my hood.
Mine's been about six yrs now (''sustaining" addiction''). been tryin to bring the whole thing to stop but all my efforts seemed not enough. aint giving up!!!

Don't giv up! The fact that porn is demonic is one reason strong enough to make you wanna quit. Each time u watch porn, u open up ur spirit to all sorts of demons. And u dnt wanna b playing ludo wif d devil.

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Re: How I Overcame Pornography by dickt(m): 12:03pm On Aug 21, 2016
4Qbitch:

I think a screw or bolt is missing in ur brainbox.
What's d topic?
Why not comment like a Christian that you claim to be? SMH
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by 4Qbitch: 12:18pm On Aug 21, 2016
dickt:

Why not comment like a Christian that you claim to be? SMH

Why not stay off mentions that weren't meant for u? SMH.
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by wheredemdey: 12:36pm On Aug 21, 2016
sats:


Lozllz, cherokee wear yellow, dior wear blue, i think sky wear black, they first pose small, come shake their bare behind, na dior sabi shake pass, dem come give them oil to rub the asset, the guy come show ... i remember that video wella, i watch am tire, i tire to download and delete, so i just stream ... back then

1 terabyte! Boss, no be small thing o ... grin

Walahi u knw d video wella....the thing I love about beauty Dior and nyomi is the extent they can go to please a man...those whooores can deepthroat like no tomorrow.....i love them wella.


My collections are saved forever. ..I no fit delete am Lai Lai....they are to be passed on to someone someday.....i love to watch porn sha.....i stopped wanking like 1yr 8months ago but collecting porn is my hobby and I owe nobody any explanation.

To each his own...there are so man other vices dat are worse and more harmful than porn yet over religious Nigerians are not focusing on that....nothing is worse than corruption yet y'all praise and defend ur cursed leaders...if it is to judge what one does with his private part you all turn voltrons.

Crazy folks
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by Ganma(m): 12:56pm On Aug 21, 2016
Thank God for your wonderful decision, may God strenthing you the more.
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by Uniboy1: 1:04pm On Aug 21, 2016
@sats & 4Qbitch thanks to u both for the encouragement. i will keep tryin.
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by Fryzi(m): 4:09pm On Aug 21, 2016
Sex before marriage is a sin... Advicer
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by Fryzi(m): 4:15pm On Aug 21, 2016
:-D dis got me ROTFL
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by sats: 4:54pm On Aug 21, 2016
wheredemdey:


Walahi u knw d video wella....the thing I love about beauty Dior and nyomi is the extent they can go to please a man...those whooores can deepthroat like no tomorrow.....i love them wella.


My collections are saved forever. ..I no fit delete am Lai Lai....they are to be passed on to someone someday.....i love to watch porn sha.....i stopped wanking like 1yr 8months ago but collecting porn is my hobby and I owe nobody any explanation.

To each his own...there are so man other vices dat are worse and more harmful than porn yet over religious Nigerians are not focusing on that....nothing is worse than corruption yet y'all praise and defend ur cursed leaders...if it is to judge what one does with his private part you all turn voltrons.

Crazy folks

True talk, your personal life, your personal business

Dior na pro for mouth action, if not for the drugs those men take, allah, them no go last for dior hand

The person that will inherit your collection will have a swell time watching

I was once a collector too, 30gb including vintage porn, boss that time i no get external hard drive, so i ran out of space on my lappy

Boss, you suppose get codi bryant, olivia olovely and kapri styles for your collection, those gals are madt

No mind people, them no go mind their business, na their data?
Some will tell you its wrong but they will be doing it in secret

DO YOU KNOW THAT KIRK FRANKLIN WAS ADDICTED TO PORN?
and he was singing gospel music and people listened

http://www.oprah.com/oprahshow/Porn-Epidemic

Re: How I Overcame Pornography by sats: 4:55pm On Aug 21, 2016
wheredemdey:


Walahi u knw d video wella....the thing I love about beauty Dior and nyomi is the extent they can go to please a man...those whooores can deepthroat like no tomorrow.....i love them wella.


My collections are saved forever. ..I no fit delete am Lai Lai....they are to be passed on to someone someday.....i love to watch porn sha.....i stopped wanking like 1yr 8months ago but collecting porn is my hobby and I owe nobody any explanation.

To each his own...there are so man other vices dat are worse and more harmful than porn yet over religious Nigerians are not focusing on that....nothing is worse than corruption yet y'all praise and defend ur cursed leaders...if it is to judge what one does with his private part you all turn voltrons.

Crazy folks

True talk, your personal life, your personal business

Dior na pro for mouth action, if not for the drugs those men take, allah, them no go last for dior hand

The person that will inherit your collection will have a swell time watching

I was once a collector too, 30gb including vintage porn, boss that time i no get external hard drive, so i ran out of space on my lappy

Boss, you suppose get codi bryant, olivia olovely and kapri styles for your collection, those gals are madt

No mind people, them no go mind their business, na their data?
Some will tell you its wrong but they will be doing it in secret

DO YOU KNOW THAT KIRK FRANKLIN WAS ADDICTED TO PORN?
and he was singing gospel music and people listened

http://www.oprah.com/oprahshow/Porn-Epidemic
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by efficiencie(m): 5:00pm On Aug 21, 2016
4Qbitch:
It's exactly 9 years now since I said no to pornography, that demonic thing that's designed to destroy young men.

Looking back now, I just thank God because I know that nearly everyone wif an access to internet occasionally checks out porn videos.

How did I quit?

Simple. I made a strong vow to God. I just took out a piece of paper and wrote: I hereby vow to quit pornography for life. May God punish me instantly any day I consciously watch porn videos.

It's that simple. I DECIDED TO QUIT. If you still do porn, I pray u also DECIDE to quit. There's nothing good about porn.



Mods ejoor move this to FP to help save our youngsters that re under d devilish grip of pornography!

your moniker does not depict you as someone with godly communication but that is by the way...I wana ask, from a sincere heart, how do you cope with sexual urges when it comes. What do you do when your whole body is enmeshed in this feeling of intense desire to have sex?

Please i need your sincere response!
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by jossypet(m): 5:07pm On Aug 21, 2016
Just getting back home to c comments made on this topic. Interesting. People really need freedom from this Killer Disease called porn n masturbation.
1. Engage urself or mind at something else. Be busy.
2. look out for a mature christian partner u can be accountable to. The devil likes it when we keep our sinful habits secretly. Open up.
3. Always be sincere to Jesus. Tell him exactly how u feel about it without painting words. He would deliver u. I'm a witness too.
4. Be decisive. Confront it. Be bold. Don't allow urself to be caged by u. Fight!!!!
5. Patiently Lean on God's grace for help.
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by BlindAngel: 5:22pm On Aug 21, 2016
ebubeEnyioha:



there is only one way to quit. there is no other than that. ask me how den do it and thank God later!
.
.
Please sir, help me sir. What is the one way to quit masturbation. Please help me sir.
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by Alaanyihaji(m): 5:27pm On Aug 21, 2016
Jay542:

Very useless.
You call it useless, but see the traffic it commands. Its a topical issue for both the youth and the old. Be frank.

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Re: How I Overcame Pornography by efficiencie(m): 5:35pm On Aug 21, 2016
I need responses from men and women who are sexually experienced but have been able to abstain...I just want to know how those that abstain do it for such long periods of time without resorting to masturbation or porn when sexual urge comes!
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by sats: 6:58pm On Aug 21, 2016
Uniboy1:
@sats & 4Qbitch thanks to u both for the encouragement. i will keep tryin.

You welcome. smiley
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by stephano100(m): 7:21pm On Aug 21, 2016
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Re: How I Overcame Pornography by Dunexxx(m): 7:27pm On Aug 21, 2016
Funny comments
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by stephano100(m): 7:28pm On Aug 21, 2016
sats:


Thats a big question

TESTIMONY TIME ...
I first tried to stop in 2011, for where story, i did it for another 5 years

Read bible, prayed, i no fast o, read articles, the effects of pornography and masturbation on the brain and body
Story ... i didnt stop

Did it before going to work, did it when i cam back, did it when i wanted to sleep ... it was killing me
I get exam 8am i still did it before going to the hall
Church service 9am, i did it before going

I did it so much i nothing to ejakulate again
But the next morning i was ready to rub it again
I rubbed it so hard (you know when its time to come, o boy e b like heaven) my genital was aching and my testicles were aching

There was always a scene to jerk off too, there were always favorite women to jerk off too, mother and daughter was my favorite

I said i wont watch it again, i wont masturbate again
Story, give me 7 days i am back

I was practically killing myself

My church didnt make me stop
My Bible didnt make me stop
My friends didnt make me stop
Society didnt make me stop (they even encouraged it, they said its normal but i know better)

I decided to stop, you are your own limitation ... gbam

I started myself ... i stopped by myself
I thank God for his grace
While trying to stop, i wonder if he was up there
... HE was and still is
Just waiting patiently for me to reach out for HIS outstretched arm

Another tip : channel your energy into something more productive

I watched porn and masturbated because i was idle and bored
I now channel that energy into work and personal development (web programming)
Am not a very churchy or religious person but i know God

Children of God
Praise the Lord!
Halleluyah

PS we overcame by the blood of the lamb and the words of our testimony Rev 12:11

Jesus still loves you
Now this is a better narrative,the solution you gave was more realistic compared to all those spiritual tales people tell.
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by wheredemdey: 7:33pm On Aug 21, 2016
sats:


True talk, your personal life, your personal business

Dior na pro for mouth action, if not for the drugs those men take, allah, them no go last for dior hand

The person that will inherit your collection will have a swell time watching

I was once a collector too, 30gb including vintage porn, boss that time i no get external hard drive, so i ran out of space on my lappy

Boss, you suppose get codi bryant, olivia olovely and kapri styles for your collection, those gals are madt

No mind people, them no go mind their business, na their data?
Some will tell you its wrong but they will be doing it in secret

DO YOU KNOW THAT KIRK FRANKLIN WAS ADDICTED TO PORN?
and he was singing gospel music and people listened

http://www.oprah.com/oprahshow/Porn-Epidemic


Chaii....i get Olivia wella....that yellow chic with sweet hips and bum.....



U r so right....i don't think I will last 5mins for Dior hand...dat girl is something else.....she fccks with her whole mind,body and soul....same with nyomi...then jada too....pinky is cool too but she is more of an actor...her moans are so fake......same way with diamond monroe..then masserati and her melin boobs...mehn I love porn walahi
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by Jay542(m): 7:47pm On Aug 21, 2016
Alaanyihaji:
You call it useless, but see the traffic it commands. Its a topical issue for both the youth and the old. Be frank.
The thread is useless cos it's just common logic. If you want to stop any behaviour it's determination to stop. If pple don't have this common sense then it's alarming.
Re: How I Overcame Pornography by efficiencie(m): 8:54pm On Aug 21, 2016
Jay542:

The thread is useless cos it's just common logic. If you want to stop any behaviour it's determination to stop. If pple don't have this common sense then it's alarming.

smart jay, if al it takes is determination to change behavior then we would have had fewer psychiatric patients, fewer scandals in church and secular world and even fewer divorces...Try advicing a mad man on the street to be determined!

If this thread is useless to you, which is your opinion, then create a useful thread or simply stop commenting...some others find this thread important!

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Re: How I Overcame Pornography by Icon79(m): 9:02pm On Aug 21, 2016
Toks2008:


I am not here to argue..i have been born again since 1987 and i will never be caught preaching heresy.

We have bad habits and we have sinful habits...Masturbation can be seen as a bad habit for those who are not comfortable with it while doctors recommend it for some patients and some people see it as a seemingly innocent way of releasing themselves of sexual urge.

Many believers enslave themselves with personal belief of what they think is a sin and that is their choice.

Self servicing was never mentioned a a sin in the bible because GOD did not find it necessary to see it as a sin..he made us to have urge for sex,he created that urge and if you dont have it then you are not normal.

Self servicing is a way many believers have prevented fornication so the truth is that if you can do without easing off, good for you,if you can't please do it rather than fornicate and if you believe you can cheat nature then be ready to have wet dreams.

The point is clear, watching porn at all or while masturbating is a sin but when you feel the urge and ease off with whatever is at your disposal be it candle or your finger or Vaseline as some people say...i believe you are only acting normal as a sexually active man or woman.

Nevertheless, whatever you do in excess and whatever has a possibility of addiction must be minimized to avoid getting traped in excessiveness.

Marriage is one great cure to self servicing and if you still see yourself doing it after marriage, as long as it does not affect your sex life then i wish you well.

Lets stop this self imposed bondage on ourselves.

Bro, take it from someone who knows, masturbation is sin.....a big one. First of all, let's ask ourselves this question: why do people masturbate? They do it because they want to have sex. In other words, they are substituting it for sex. Does God wants us to have a sex substitute? No, I don't think so.

Bottom line, people practice masturbation in an attempt to have sex. It is lust. Please tell me, how can we justify a sexual act between one person that only takes place when you dig up lustful (sometimes perverted) thoughts into your mind? Masturbation always involves impure thoughts. You CANNOT masturbate while thinking about praises and worship for instance or while in spirit of prayer. It is LUST and controlled by the spirit of perversion. People who are in such bondage need to pray it out of their lives.

Furthermore, a book called "The Ministry of Healing pg 142 revealed that demons work the organs of man during masturbation. Here is a quote: "Satanic agencies took possession of men. The bodies of human beings, made for the dwelling place of God, became the habitation of demons. The senses, the nerves, the organs of men were worked by supernatural agencies in the indulgence of the vilest lust ..."

It is not natural for a man or woman to be aroused by themselves. God did not instill this originally in man. It came from the degeneration of sin. When one participates in masturbation, they have also made demons their partner. You may think you're by yourself but demons are there with you working your body, arousing your body and causing your mind to go places where God never intended.

Quick question: If you are fully aware that the Lord Jesus Christ is right there with you in the room, would you masturbate?
That's a food for thought.

Meanwhile, try and get hold of the book I recommended above. It would open your eyes regarding most of the perverted sex acts we have in this day and age.

O pari

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Re: How I Overcame Pornography by sats: 9:04pm On Aug 21, 2016
stephano100:

Now this is a better narrative,the solution you gave was more realistic compared to all those spiritual tales people tell.

Thanks

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