Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by mizzbouqui(f): 9:38am On Aug 22, 2016 |
Dear lovely sister ![smiley](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/smiley.png) So.... your man tells you he is not planning on having kids or getting married anytime soon as he is still sorting out his life... he tells you he wants to have his second degree, a proper house and a bigger car first.... you sit there smiling with just a birth certificate thinking you''ll be the wife? ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) With the little he has, you ask for Brazilian hair and Prada... he goes to work and goes straight to class after work... he leaves you in pajamas and finds you in the same pajamas when he comes back... while he studies, you watch empire or any Telemundo series, he comes back home to find pap and chicken in the microwave everyday... the house is clean and his clothes ironed and arranged neatly.. the only serious conversation you have is about the type of groceries you need. The only advice u give him is "Bae you need to buy new socks, the ones you bought last time are torn" nothing intelligent comes out of your mouth.. ![smiley](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/smiley.png) no plans of making your own life better... yes you are pretty... no doubt about that!... ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) but so is every second girl passing by, Do you realise something?.... you are not doing anything a maid can't do... he is going to finish school and the first thing he is going to do is REPLACE HIS FREE MAID cause he can now afford to pay one and have a PROPER WIFE. That is when we are going to hear your famous last words "I was with him through thick and thin, when he had nothing, now he is successful he thinks I am nothing" ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) Yes you are right.. you've always been NOTHING but a maid to him ... ![smiley](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/smiley.png) My dear sister empower yourself to be the woman your man wants to be with... a woman who would be able to carry the whole family if anything happens to his job or health!!! (Just saying tho, nothing of such will happen to your man in future, he won't fall sick neither will he lose his job, I just want you to empower yourself). Note: Not all men will do this, some will still want you to be the full house wife you've always been, so you might not take the piece serious (For your mind). I love you ![kiss](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/kiss.gif) Lalasticlala, oya front page, it's a command not a request ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) 14 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by alberto2k(m): 9:41am On Aug 22, 2016 |
Nice Write up! The BIG girls of Nairaland won't like this though! 4 Likes |
Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by jamalnation(m): 9:43am On Aug 22, 2016 |
OP u killed it 2 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by mercichoco(f): 9:47am On Aug 22, 2016 |
Its very good to get oneself empowered and become independent. You will not only an asset to your man but also a pillar of support to him 3 Likes |
Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by Tallesty1(m): 9:47am On Aug 22, 2016 |
I don't get what this lady thinks she is. |
Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by mizzbouqui(f): 9:54am On Aug 22, 2016 |
Tallesty1: I don't get what this lady thinks she is. She is a blessing to her generation dear 5 Likes |
Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by Tallesty1(m): 9:57am On Aug 22, 2016 |
mizzbouqui:
She is a blessing to her generation dear Online generation 1 Like |
Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by MrCork: 9:58am On Aug 22, 2016 |
mizzbouqui: Dear lovely sister ![smiley](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/smiley.png)
So.... your man tells you he is not planning on having kids or getting married anytime soon as he is still sorting out his life... he tells you he wants to have his second degree, a proper house and a bigger car first.... you sit there smiling with just a birth certificate thinking you''ll be the wife? ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) With the little he has, you ask for Brazilian hair and Prada... he goes to work and goes straight to class after work... he leaves you in pajamas and finds you in the same pajamas when he comes back... while he studies, you watch empire or any Telemundo series, he comes back home to find pap and chicken in the microwave everyday... the house is clean and his clothes ironed and arranged neatly.. the only serious conversation you have is about the type of groceries you need. The only advice u give him is "Bae you need to buy new socks, the ones you bought last time are torn" nothing intelligent comes out of your mouth.. no plans of making your own life better... yes you are pretty... no doubt about that!... but so is every second girl passing by, Do you realise something?.... you are not doing anything a maid can't do... he is going to finish school and the first thing he is going to do is REPLACE HIS FREE MAID cause he can now afford to pay one and have a PROPER WIFE. That is when we are going to hear your famous last words "I was with him through thick and thin, when he had nothing, now he is successful he thinks I am nothing" ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) Yes you are right.. you've always been NOTHING but a maid to him ... My dear sister empower yourself to be the woman your man wants to be with... a woman who would be able to carry the whole family if anything happens to his job or health!!! (Just saying tho, nothing of such will happen to your man in future, he won't fall sick neither will he lose his job, I just want you to empower yourself).
Note: Not all man will do this, some will still want you to be the full house wife you've always been, so you might not take the piece serious (For your mind).
I love you ![kiss](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/kiss.gif)
Lalasticlala, oya front page, it's a command not a request ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png)
![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) |
Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by Nobody: 9:58am On Aug 22, 2016 |
Self empowerment.. This message is not for ladies only... Its also for we Guys.. Stop thinking that ur father dies you will inherit his wealth 3 Likes |
Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by Garshyzee(m): 9:59am On Aug 22, 2016 |
oh boy! if only every girl has d mentality u have,the world would have been a better place.... 3 Likes |
Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by mizzbouqui(f): 10:00am On Aug 22, 2016 |
MrCork:
...did some body refuse to marrry u?((no oofense)) ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) It's a question And the answer to it is NOPE ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) 1 Like |
Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by MrCork: 10:04am On Aug 22, 2016 |
mizzbouqui: Dear lovely sister ![smiley](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/smiley.png)
So.... your man tells you he is not planning on having kids or getting married anytime soon as he is still sorting out his life... he tells you he wants to have his second degree, a proper house and a bigger car first.... you sit there smiling with just a birth certificate thinking you''ll be the wife? ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) With the little he has, you ask for Brazilian hair and Prada... he goes to work and goes straight to class after work... he leaves you in pajamas and finds you in the same pajamas when he comes back... while he studies, you watch empire or any Telemundo series, he comes back home to find pap and chicken in the microwave everyday... the house is clean and his clothes ironed and arranged neatly.. the only serious conversation you have is about the type of groceries you need. The only advice u give him is "Bae you need to buy new socks, the ones you bought last time are torn" nothing intelligent comes out of your mouth.. no plans of making your own life better... yes you are pretty... no doubt about that!... but so is every second girl passing by, Do you realise something?.... you are not doing anything a maid can't do... he is going to finish school and the first thing he is going to do is REPLACE HIS FREE MAID cause he can now afford to pay one and have a PROPER WIFE. That is when we are going to hear your famous last words "I was with him through thick and thin, when he had nothing, now he is successful he thinks I am nothing" ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) Yes you are right.. you've always been NOTHING but a maid to him ... My dear sister empower yourself to be the woman your man wants to be with... a woman who would be able to carry the whole family if anything happens to his job or health!!! (Just saying tho, nothing of such will happen to your man in future, he won't fall sick neither will he lose his job, I just want you to empower yourself).
Note: Not all man will do this, some will still want you to be the full house wife you've always been, so you might not take the piece serious (For your mind).
I love you ![kiss](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/kiss.gif)
, oya front page, it's a command not a request ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png)
..did some body reject u for maaarage?(no oofense) ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by paragon40(m): 10:05am On Aug 22, 2016 |
Mam u nailed it. 3 Likes |
Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by MrCork: 10:05am On Aug 22, 2016 |
mizzbouqui:
It's a question And the answer to it is NOPE ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) ...its early moday morning & u want us to help u find man...correct? ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) |
Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by Genea(f): 10:08am On Aug 22, 2016 |
alberto2k: Nice Write up! The BIG girls of Nairaland won't like this though! what's ur own with d big gurls? No one offered u a free pussy abi? Mtcheeeeew |
Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by mizzbouqui(f): 10:12am On Aug 22, 2016 |
MrCork:
...its early moday morning & u want us to help u find man...correct? ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) I have a man Don't bother looking for one for me I'm satisfied with him and him alone |
Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by shotin(m): 10:14am On Aug 22, 2016 |
I luv dis post, no man want to marry a liability, gat ursaf busy wit sometin dat yield income even if little, u are gonna earn a lot of respect wit ya man... #thumbsup at OP 2 Likes |
Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by mizzbouqui(f): 10:21am On Aug 22, 2016 |
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Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by mercichoco(f): 10:23am On Aug 22, 2016 |
Garshyzee: oh boy! if only every girl has d mentality u have,the world would have been a better place.... The world would be a better place if both gender have this mentality. Not just the girls |
Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by Nobody: 10:24am On Aug 22, 2016 |
mercichoco: The world would be a better place if both gender have this mentality. Not just the girls mercy |
Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by Garshyzee(m): 10:26am On Aug 22, 2016 |
mercichoco: The world would be a better place if both gender have this mentality. Not just the girls but most guys do work hard sha...at least from expirence and close observation....concur? |
Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by AfricanApple(f): 10:27am On Aug 22, 2016 |
some men would be the ones to tell their wives not to work. and still dump her at the end 2 Likes |
Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by Debbywills(f): 10:28am On Aug 22, 2016 |
Nice write up.. An Independent Lady is one that is respected! 4 Likes |
Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by AfricanApple(f): 10:28am On Aug 22, 2016 |
Tallesty1: Online generation ahahaha. tallesty, this your mouth no dey shut up |
Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by MrCork: 10:39am On Aug 22, 2016 |
mizzbouqui:
I have a man Don't bother looking for one for me I'm satisfied with him and him alone ..yea right we belif u like 2pac is alive....anyways sinse u ask..did I mention I drive £28,000(cash) range rover spot & am from London pekam!!(a Londoner) ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) |
Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by MrCork: 10:42am On Aug 22, 2016 |
Debbywills: Nice write up.. An Independent Lady is one that is respected! ..so who told u she independent?..hav u Eva met her in yor life? ..you Homebase people mennnn!!((no oofense)) ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) |
Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by Nobody: 10:43am On Aug 22, 2016 |
Debbywills: Nice write up.. An Independent Lady is one that is respected! As if you are independent ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) |
Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by mizzbouqui(f): 10:48am On Aug 22, 2016 |
MrCork:
..yea right we belif u like 2pac is alive....anyways sinse u ask..did I mention I drive £28,000(cash) range rover spot & am from London pekam!!(a Londoner) ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) What should I do with this information? 2 Likes |
Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by Nobody: 10:50am On Aug 22, 2016 |
mizzbouqui: Dear lovely sister ![smiley](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/smiley.png)
So.... your man tells you he is not planning on having kids or getting married anytime soon as he is still sorting out his life... he tells you he wants to have his second degree, a proper house and a bigger car first.... you sit there smiling with just a birth certificate thinking you''ll be the wife? ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) With the little he has, you ask for Brazilian hair and Prada... he goes to work and goes straight to class after work... he leaves you in pajamas and finds you in the same pajamas when he comes back... while he studies, you watch empire or any Telemundo series, he comes back home to find pap and chicken in the microwave everyday... the house is clean and his clothes ironed and arranged neatly.. the only serious conversation you have is about the type of groceries you need. The only advice u give him is "Bae you need to buy new socks, the ones you bought last time are torn" nothing intelligent comes out of your mouth.. no plans of making your own life better... yes you are pretty... no doubt about that!... but so is every second girl passing by, Do you realise something?.... you are not doing anything a maid can't do... he is going to finish school and the first thing he is going to do is REPLACE HIS FREE MAID cause he can now afford to pay one and have a PROPER WIFE. That is when we are going to hear your famous last words "I was with him through thick and thin, when he had nothing, now he is successful he thinks I am nothing" ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) Yes you are right.. you've always been NOTHING but a maid to him ... My dear sister empower yourself to be the woman your man wants to be with... a woman who would be able to carry the whole family if anything happens to his job or health!!! (Just saying tho, nothing of such will happen to your man in future, he won't fall sick neither will he lose his job, I just want you to empower yourself).
Note: Not all man will do this, some will still want you to be the full house wife you've always been, so you might not take the piece serious (For your mind).
I love you ![kiss](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/kiss.gif)
Lalasticlala, oya front page, it's a command not a request ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png)
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Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by Nobody: 10:52am On Aug 22, 2016 |
Being Independent is key ladies ![cool](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cool.png) God forbid if my husband demand me to be a housewife ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) |
Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by McBrooklyn(m): 10:53am On Aug 22, 2016 |
L-O-L ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png)
They Won't Listen To Be You Dear. BTW, Who love Epp?? ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png)
Some Ladies Are Just Better Off Being The Lord Of The Rings ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) |
Re: Dear Beautiful Lady, Empower Yourself!!! by Nobody: 10:54am On Aug 22, 2016 |
A piece of advice; Lerner to take care of yourself first before anyone else ![cool](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cool.png) especially when it comes to men ![smiley](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/smiley.png) |