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Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by aiikman(m): 8:54am On Aug 22, 2016 |
Seemsooo.....thats jst the painful thing about being strong, pple xpect u to always be strong and hard even when u re obviously broken....we men are still human u knw.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by marhoinspire: 8:54am On Aug 22, 2016 |
this cry of a tin is real but still men dont cryn der is dis girl m dating.... she is my all. our parents even knw about d relationship. i had no option 2. one early morning as normal i sent her a morning txt msg dat ended with " i love u" she replied with "come stop been childish, love does nt exist. there is ntin btw us. and pls stop txting or calling me . find urself another girl" omo i have to recheck the calender to make sure its nt April. we were in June. sleep clear frm my eyes instantly. i tried calling her but she keeps turning my calls down. i have to take d nxt available cab to her hus which is in another local govt frm mine. d dad was outside washing his car. i greet him instead of him to answer me he asked who i was looking for. JESU i thought i was dreaming..... i just meantiin her name omo na she call my bae come out o. in front of her dad she asked "did i send for u? i said stay out of my life" d dad was like u heard her. i just got in d cab n on my way back home i deleted her number buttt b4 i got home i tried calling her bcus d number is alread in my head every body noticed sumtin was wrong wit me even in my office. wen im alone omo i nor lie I CRY. After like 4 days i called her elder sis who was very close to me to hlp me beg her sis. i unconsciously said i ll kill myself. dat was wen she told me i suld do no such tin dat my bae n d dad plus herself planned it just to see how much i care about her. wat rubbish. i just get to meet d dad form say oga pls i dont understand ur daughter again. i cant remember hurting her in anyway... d come dey say i ll hear frm her n get back to u. i just dey smile..... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by Toks2008(m): 8:55am On Aug 22, 2016 |
Dajugba: Sorry dude.. The funniest part is that most ladies who are good girls are usually the ones who break guys heart because she will be so good in your eyes that you would have made up your mind to stick to her alone. If not for GOD and my faith in Christ I should be sleeping with a different lady daily not because I'm pained but I kept asking myself if ladies are worth the stress of faithfulness... If you are a lady reading this..please when next you see a player just blame your fellow ladies cos 9 out of every 10 Casanovas were once faithful lovers...nevertheless no man has any excuse to live a sinful life. If I ever remain faithful to one lady in my life again then it will be for Christ sake and nothing to do with that 4 letter scam called love. Signing out guys..have a great week ahead and remember to use your heads when you go into any affair with a lady cos most of them are blessed with short memories and can turn their back on you in a moment forgetting all the time and emotion you have invested in the union. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by AfroKnight: 8:58am On Aug 22, 2016 |
Toks2008: Who dey claim young man? You? |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by arinzeasika(m): 9:03am On Aug 22, 2016 |
I cried for good two weeks and was indoors for a month when my gf of 7years broke up with me.I didnt go to work or do anythg,I lost weight,became sick and felt like taking my life.she is getting married next month.In as much as I still love her,I wish her Gods blessing and happiness.Oby,I ave forgiven you for what u did to me. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by ChappyChase: 9:13am On Aug 22, 2016 |
Toks2008:Hahahahahah....... My own bad somehow cause I was younger and small in size while she was older and bigger(will always pass for my aunt). But the Love no be here cause I was too matured for age(I just wrote my WAEC and she was serving in a bank)... We both knew we won't go anywhere with our "love" but we gave it a try.. She got married three years later and I almost died!! I felt used and betrayed but she just have to move on and I can't hold her back. But my question still remained "why fall for me since you know we'll never make it |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by cyrilamx(m): 9:36am On Aug 22, 2016 |
Mine was catastrophic because we lived a stone throw from each other. Street love...no t again. That was my first Babe @24. First love could really be intoxicating...nothing you could tell me then will make sense...o not na that one b really blindness. when she started seeing another guy from ring road, Benin city, I didn't believe at first. She told me they met at special centre. Before I knew they were madly in love esp wen the said dude bought her a fone. Well I started Suffering from insomnia...I took tablets for six months to be sleeping well. I have to flee to Lagos so as not to be seeing her. Years after I do laugh at the ugly incident. Heart break if not properly managed can be disastrous.... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by TryBanMeMod: 10:00am On Aug 22, 2016 |
arinzeasika: Bless your heart bro |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by ruggedadventure(m): 10:22am On Aug 22, 2016 |
BiafraBushBoy:Heart break is wen u're broke and fvcking hungry buh u have 1000naira left in ur bank account n u wanna go withdraw it then took a bike n askd d bike man to wait for u, got to d atm point waited on d queue for about an hour and got to d machine now to find out dat ur bank has deducted 4 naira for sms alert outta 1K... n d atm only pays wit 1k notes.....bro that's HEART BREAK 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by BiafraBushBoy(m): 10:34am On Aug 22, 2016 |
ruggedadventure: I think I can relate to this better 1 Like |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by chigoizie7(m): 10:54am On Aug 22, 2016 |
Yeah, once |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by Mexyz(m): 11:22am On Aug 22, 2016 |
I followed this thread from page 1 to this place, so this is what you guys experience in a relationship? I don't think I will be able to handle it. make I kukuma stay put for now. I no want hear say monkey born 3, 4 die. 2 Likes |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by Nobody: 11:34am On Aug 22, 2016 |
Good morning guys I came to read and learn from the Men and I am glad that the truth was said. Many good women out there are now suffering because of the actions of the guys former lover. On the flip side many are enjoying a new found compromise in love as a result of their past experience giving them wisdom to continue Just don't give up on people. Give them a fair chance. Not everyone is born to be used. Sometimes God will send exactly what you need in a different package than what you are used to. Vanity doesn't apply because in the end it is still vanity. Be with someone content to share, Love and Build with you and what you have. if you dont they will also share their blessings with you. Your reward should be loyalty and faithfullness. Build your dreams together stop lusting after others I have cried ...I have knelt I have begged too sometimes he didn't deserve it ...I was the one he hurt but don't become hardened dont let it stop the love you have to share You will do yourself a great disservice and miss out on amazing people if you change the way you love because of an Experience 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by jessysparkles(f): 12:02pm On Aug 22, 2016 |
just wat a friend of mine is going thru,tho he is claiming big boy 4 me I know he has soaked his pillow wit tears 4 d girl. First time I saw her pix,my jaw dropped only to hear after some days dt d relationship was already over, she left him for her ex. Shout out 2 u all dt are heartbroken. be strong and double ur hustle. my 5cents. |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by Laido: 1:09pm On Aug 22, 2016 |
Jay542:. Well, its kinda true bro. Love is a serious mental disease. I used to be a playa right from time and funny enough, these girls r doin normal. When I got admission into 100l, first Sem .. I had 2 girls. 2nd sem. Drop them for another set f girls. That's the way iv been switching girls until I got to 400l. After much advice from fellas tht I shld jst try n be in a relationship. So I decided to try it out . I met this girl and fall in love with her bro. I fall in love Paa. Hmm ( smiless) ... Go wash cloth for her, cook for her, a lot of house chores for her. Mehn, it got to a stage that the lady told me the love is too much, that can I plz reduce it , that she's not feelin convenient anymore. LOL. To cut the story short, She eventually broke my heart. Mehn, No be small drama oo something wey neva happend to me b4. Everythin is over now. I'm quite okay. The only thing I think I got to know about myself is those things that I did while I love wif her. I neva blv I could do such. And it has made me blv my wife would enjoy me when I gt married. But iv come to realise this, That girls tends to do normal when a guy isn't normal with them than when a guy is normal with them ... 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by Longman6(m): 1:15pm On Aug 22, 2016 |
Toks2008:hmmm, guy you have a point o, I used to know some guys who were gentle, and so well behaved but when they experienced an heart break they just changed and became heartless towards ladies, it takes a matured and spiritual guy to love without fear after such occurrence. 1 Like |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by Nobody: 1:42pm On Aug 22, 2016 |
Looking 4 trouble.... This debbywills aint too fine oo..just saw her pix. Debbywills: |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by Nobody: 1:53pm On Aug 22, 2016 |
danbrowndmf:Hahahahahahahahaha sorry o |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by danbrowndmf(m): 2:03pm On Aug 22, 2016 |
PinkBarbie:how did u see this? i will go & clean it off |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by rosy1992(f): 2:32pm On Aug 22, 2016 |
*breath down *it's quite surprising how guys have passed through difficult moment all because of love and vice versa. Love is wicked. |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by shurlermoz(m): 2:37pm On Aug 22, 2016 |
Toks2008: Absolutely right bro, over caring has never worked and they always come back directly or indirectly. |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by Debbywills(f): 2:45pm On Aug 22, 2016 |
illuminated93: Well, you just got the attention you so much craved for |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by Nobody: 2:49pm On Aug 22, 2016 |
Debbywills:Dem say you no too fine. lol you be 10/10 jare. and ur bobbilicious again ignore haters |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by Engineermbugame(m): 2:58pm On Aug 22, 2016 |
K9Uneet:lol ,it is d 1 on nairaland? |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by Zakkyoz: 5:50pm On Aug 22, 2016 |
I used to think it only happen in the movie until I got my dose of heartbreak last December. After all we shared together and promises, she dropped the bombshell that virtually drove me crazy. Out of struggle, I registered her for JAMB but in the process of the exam got laid by a Facebook friend using the phone I bought for her. She got the admission and I was not even appreciated because she thought I have become her worst enemy. As God would have it, I had a new year gift. I thought I would not love again but I am presently happy with my new queen. Ladies are highly unpredictable! 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by quintybabe(f): 7:01pm On Aug 22, 2016 |
ChappyChase:I sincerely doubt she was in love with though if she were, she would still have moved on cause of the age difference. She no try at all cause she should have gotten herself involve with you cause you were young and naive and am sure she knows better. I guessed as a young man you were, you must have loved her based on what you thought love was at that age. Please don't get yourself invoke |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by quintybabe(f): 7:03pm On Aug 22, 2016 |
ChappyChase:I sincerely doubt she was in love with you though if she were, she would still have moved on cause of the age difference. She no try at all cause she shouldn't have gotten herself involve with you cause you were young and naive and am sure she knows better. I guessed as a young man you were at that time, you must have loved her based on what you thought love was at that age. Please don't get yourself invole in such an affair again. |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by quintybabe(f): 7:10pm On Aug 22, 2016 |
Laido:I no pity you at all :PYou were given a taste of your poison, hope you now know how it feels to be jilted as you did a lot of that before. Hence, think twice before you break a girl's heart, I just hope you have learnt your lesson |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by rosalieene(f): 7:12pm On Aug 22, 2016 |
anigbajumo where art thou |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by ChappyChase: 7:12pm On Aug 22, 2016 |
quintybabe:Hahahahahahah...... I was the one who asked her out in the first place(talk of bravery around older ladies and I will be first on the list) just for fun but we took it seriously and I was actually holding her down...... Now my bea is also holder than me ... |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by 2map(m): 7:34pm On Aug 22, 2016 |
That feeling when you remember all that happened while still in the relationship and realise how blind you really was. Well, you really won't understand until such happens to you! My state of mind now? I'll rather put the energy into my studies than falling again. It really doesn't worth it, bunch of ingrates! 1 Like |
Re: For guys: Have you ever shed tears over a heart break? by Jay542(m): 7:36pm On Aug 22, 2016 |
Laido: Lol. Real talk. But karma gahhz visit you nw. You wey dey play girls go dey love up . Buh we dey learn sha. Cheers |
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