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Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by Handsome777(m): 9:02pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes Be extremely careful when dealing with a woman who grew up in a family where the father walked out at a tender age. At an early age, the father, the dominant male figure in the house, is symbolic of his gender. Abandonment creates issues of guilt in the child, and does a number on the girl's ability to trust men and her unconscious opinion of men on the whole. If the mother shields the girl from the full impact of the blow by not being bitter and by being careful not to tarnish the father image, or if the girl simply gets over it, then so be it. However, if the mother became bitter, then that bitterness tends to pass on to the daughter. The daughter, in turn, later goes on to test men rigorously, trying to make them jump through burning hoops before she lets down her guard, because at a young age, her trust in men was shaken. However, she is not necessarily attracted to the men who put up with her bullshit and stick to her even though she blows hot one minute, and cold air he next. Women who have this problem have serious baggage, and you have to decide if she is worth it. If you decide that she is, you have to walk a tightrope. Your behavior should subtly convey that you will not hurt her, but do not jump through her hoops. Never be more than 5 minutes late for a date, and if you say you will call at a certain time, call at exactly that time. But if she is late do not wait for her, and when she is acting coldly, do not tolerate her mood swings. In other words, you have to still be a challenge, but be trustworthy. It is a delicate balance, and few can master it. Gentlemen, this is from personal experience with such women. When you are talking to a girl and she tells you that her father walked out when she was little, proceed with extreme caution. source: www.nigerianinterest..co.id/2016/08/why-you-should-be-careful-when-dating.html?m=0 5 Likes |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by Drownedgod(m): 9:30pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Handsome777:...This might actually be true 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by JamaicaTheDrunk(m): 10:14pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
just incase it gets to the promise land |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by JamaicaTheDrunk(m): 10:14pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
just incase it gets to the promise land ;Djust incase it gets to the promise land |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by Handsome777(m): 7:04am On Aug 26, 2016 |
Of Course, It shall make the promise land. Where is lalasticlala ooo? |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by fuckyouallmods: 8:57am On Aug 26, 2016 |
Fuckyouallmods was here So what? I booked it already. |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by Handsome777(m): 9:23am On Aug 26, 2016 |
Lol |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by adepiero: 9:30am On Aug 26, 2016 |
Be careful in general! Your background doesn't always define the person. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by Surfboard(m): 9:31am On Aug 26, 2016 |
I don't want to name fingers and point names of some people I've come across who are just like the op described. There's some truth to it. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by Handsome777(m): 2:30pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
It was written from experience, bro 1 Like |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by Nobody: 2:32pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
No be lie |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by chronique(m): 2:36pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
Just thinking... |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by Nobody: 2:39pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
It's no gender thing op. Male from broken homes sometimes act irrationally to opposite sex. I blame the parents for this |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by Handsome777(m): 3:26pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
Ok |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by Nobody: 4:45pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
Very true... |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by austine4real(m): 4:53pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
ok |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by kannyt01(m): 5:31pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
@op thank you......... Handsome777: |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by soilsista(f): 5:39pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
I don't agree with this. Not all women. |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by Handsome777(m): 6:18pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
are you a victim? |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by chigoizie7(m): 6:35pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
I don't agree less. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by Handsome777(m): 6:48pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
OK |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by Nobody: 8:12pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
op is correct. I met this wife material few years ago. (everything man want in a woman). only to ask about her father her face changed she hates him and doesn't speaks about him in good light. I was wondering if we get to marry me. who will be his father on that day. I don't want a situation they will be renting 'daddy'. as don't want another person to be my daughters daddy when I'm alive. most of them are cursed by either parent. bro, I'm not a prayer warrior. 2 Likes |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by Handsome777(m): 8:38pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
na so the thing dey be. |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by Theresa1990: 6:49am On Aug 27, 2016 |
adepiero:you just said ma mind bruh, ones background doesn't really matter atyms buh ur upbringing. den wat happened to dos with good backgrounds with a bad upbringing? 2 Likes |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by Handsome777(m): 7:54am On Aug 27, 2016 |
everything depends on whether the child was made to feel bitter towards the parent that left |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by Talk2Bella(f): 9:47am On Aug 27, 2016 |
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Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by bamirotola: 10:05am On Aug 27, 2016 |
U r 100% right |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by adepiero: 11:20am On Aug 27, 2016 |
Theresa1990:Help me ask OP o |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by yemmit90: 11:24am On Aug 27, 2016 |
WinningSun: Whoever will be her father on wedding day is a small issue, the main problem is her perspective about men. Some of them are always sounds bitter, acting coldly and disrespectful towards men. They hardly listen/accept any correction or subjective to their men's authority. 2 Likes |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by Handsome777(m): 11:45am On Aug 27, 2016 |
yea sure |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by Nobody: 11:34pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
Handsome777 honestly this is an EXCELLENT ADVICE and to a world so, so BROKEN all for selfish reasons. |
Re: Why You Should Be Careful When Dating Babes From Broken Homes by akinz4u(m): 11:52pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
this is the realest article I've seen this week.. op your on point 110% I've witnessed it myself and I can rightly say it's true.. The female child suffers greatly from broken homes especially wen it happens from a tender age and naturally women or mothers might play the victim card and badmouth the father... 1 Like |
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