See me, see problem o! I was taking my bath last night, after i had used the WC toilet and in the process of flushing the toilet, my bathing sponge got flushed down into the WC toilet. So i decided to use my wife's sponge pending when i will buy a fresh sponge, but my wife is objecting to my using her bathing sponge. But, i have told her that as husband and wife, we ought to have been using the same sponge, but just that we did not start the practice right from our marriage(we are just over close to 3 years in marriage) and i don't think anything is wrong with using my wife's sponge or vice versa, but she is complaining that she does not feel comfortable with sharing her bathing sponge with anyone, even me, her husband. I have told her that henceforth, we SHALL be using the same sponge to bath.

Is there any thing wrong medically, spiritually and otherwise for husband and wife to use the same bathing sponge for bath?

Urrgh! Why would u even think of using a woman's bathing sponge in the first place?



Fifty shades of gross!

Something is wrong...if na me sef i won't use it again..
i just can't figure out what is wrong..buh i know something is wrong.

Can't u afford to get a new sponge? go get a loofa.. It's more cheaper...

Damn. Is this how marriage limits freedom?

Bro, she's not comfortable with it. Besides, there are health implications of sharing bath sponge. This simple act will aid the breeding of nasty skin bacteria & germs.

So just get a new one. It's for your protection & hers.

It's optional

There is no biggie in sharing a sponge with your wife. What have you not shared? Saliva(lawd knows how disgusting it is to look at someone else's saliva not to talk of ingesting it) or some slippery mucus down below?

Bet if she's not comfortable, it shouldn't become an issue. Go get you another sponge and try not buy a shit looking one so you don't mistakenly flush it down again.

Beamborla:
There is no biggie in sharing a sponge with your wife. What have you not shared? Saliva(lawd knows how disgusting it is to look at someone else's saliva not to talk of ingesting it) or some slippery mucus down below?

Bet if she's not comfortable, it shouldn't become an issue. Go get you another sponge and try not buy a shit looking one so you don't mistakenly flush it down again.

Nothing is wrong with it but seems madam is not comfortable with it so you just have to get yours.

Some couple even share toothbrush as long as they are both comfortable with it.

Do you have craw craw?
Just respect her personal space. Go and buy your own sponge. You can get one for as low as 50 naira

Just because you are married doesn't mean you are not individuals with differences, she says she is not ok with it, respect her and let it be. Don't force your opinion just because you are the man, she will only disrespect you.

You could as well share toothbrush just because you're husband and wife.

Is there any thing wrong medically, spiritually and otherwise for husband and wife to use the same bathing sponge for bath? this got me lol


Maybe you have some skin infections.....just get yours fast

nickxtra:
See me, see problem o! I was taking my bath last night, after i had used the WC toilet and in the process of flushing the toilet, my bathing sponge got flushed down into the WC toilet. So i decided to use my wife's sponge pending when i will buy a fresh sponge, but my wife is objecting to my using her bathing sponge. But, i have told her that as husband and wife, we ought to have been using the same sponge, but just that we did not start the practice right from our marriage(we are just over close to 3 years in marriage) and i don't think anything is wrong with using my wife's sponge or vice versa, but she is complaining that she does not feel comfortable with sharing her bathing sponge with anyone, even me, her husband. I have told her that henceforth, we SHALL be using the same sponge to bath.

Is there any thing wrong medically, spiritually and otherwise for husband and wife to use the same bathing sponge for bath?

Respect your wife's views.
Health wise it is not healthy to share bathing sponge even amongst spouses and siblings.

JustHere2Observ:
Just because you are married doesn't mean you are not individuals with differences, she says she is not ok with it, respect her and let it be. Don't force your opinion just because you are the man, she will only disrespect you.

1000,000 likes.

I see nothing wrong in sharing bath sponge.

VolT0xic:
Damn. Is this how marriage limits freedom?

Bro, she's not comfortable with it. Besides, there are health implications of sharing bath sponge. This simple act will aid the breeding of nasty skin bacteria & germs.

So just get a new one. It's for your protection & hers.

Which health implications?Husband and wife can't share sponge but exchange saliva,sweat and body fluids?

Op,there's nothing wrong with sharing a sponge.Just get yours because your wife is not comfortable with it.

uboma:



Respect your wife's views.
Health wise it is not healthy to share bathing sponge even amongst spouses and siblings.

The only health issue here is if a sibling has a skin infection and you don't want others to contact it.Siblings also do not share body fluids like spouses.

Spiritually if you share the same sponge with your spouse,you will find yourself thinking more about her,whether at work,while eating or even sleeping.

VolT0xic:
Damn. Is this how marriage limits freedom?

Bro, she's not comfortable with it. Besides, there are health implications of sharing bath sponge. This simple act will aid the breeding of nasty skin bacteria & germs.

So just get a new one. It's for your protection & hers.

Thanks

imurboss:
Is there any thing wrong medically, spiritually and otherwise for husband and wife to use the same bathing sponge for bath? this got me lol


Maybe you have some skin infections.....just get yours fast

See your teeth

uboma:



Respect your wife's views.
Health wise it is not healthy to share bathing sponge even amongst spouses and siblings.

I will

okirewaju:
Nothing is wrong with it but seems madam is not comfortable with it so you just have to get yours.

Some couple even share toothbrush as long as they are both comfortable with it.

Thanks, i will get mine sharply

nickxtra:
See your teeth

like your own

byvan03:
I see nothing wrong in sharing bath sponge.

Wait, u supported the husband?

Faints

5minsmadness:


Wait, u supported the husband?

Faints

I see nothing wrong in using my spouse's sponge. We tend to fool ourselves a lot with mock hygiene. Claiming hygiene when you aren't asexual .


Nevertheless he can't enforce it on her to share, let him get his own sponge.

thorpido:
Which health implications?Husband and wife can't share sponge but exchange saliva,sweat and body fluids?

Op,there's nothing wrong with sharing a sponge.Just get yours because your wife is not comfortable with it.
The only health issue here is if a sibling has a skin infection and you don't want others to contact it.Siblings also do not share body fluids like spouses.

Spiritually if you share the same sponge with your spouse,you will find yourself thinking more about her,whether at work,while eating or even sleeping.

If in this generation, you still do not know the health implication of sharing bathing sponge with anyone no matter how close, then I can't really explain to you. Try Google.com

The spiritual reasons given by you is laughable and shows your level of ignorance.

Lolz. What kind of thread is this?

Well, I and hubby use one sponge, what's there anyway?
While growing up, didn't we as siblings use one sponge? Yes I just typed that!
If I am comfortable sucking on hubby's mouth and fluids in da name of kissing, can't I feel comfortable using a piece of net that is easily rinsed off?(Except in rare cases of skin infections)

But Oga pls respect Madam's wishes, she doesn't like it, guess it irritates her. She noh just like am! EOD!

I don't get it, so your wife will allow you to pour your $perm inside of her every time you have sex, but will not let you use her bath sponge? i am confused. Maybe I am missing something

Whether proper or not, I use my husband's sponge, soap, towel, boxers ettcc whenever I wish..

Health implications gini? Person wey you dey lick his saliva(sometimes without brushing sef ), dey lick his 'object' and even his whole body during orals.. na you dey tell me hygiene? Issorait

Except he has some diseases or infections, I see no reason. ..
"Two" have become "one" jare


[size=4pt]Don't think I can ever use his toothbrush though[/size]

Modified.
Lemme not look for trouble this evening

Nickxtra, nothing wrong in sharing the sponge with your wife. However she may not be used to it. Maybe she's used to using her own sponge since she was a kid. You can teach her that its ok to share but if she is adamant, get her own sponge, no need for extra hassle.


Incidentally, do you guys share the same towels?