I am done for, my boyfriend just told me this morning its over that his mother doesn’t want him to marry me, I think he’s mad, he must be after several abortions in fact he’s very stupid, what should I do? I’d rather kill myself or kill us both.


Its five years and he just realizes he doesn’t want to marry me, how can people be this callous, whenever I got pregnant he would cajole me to abort it, saying it wasn’t the right time and things were not great for him financially, I just did another abortion two months ago now he doesn’t want to marry me anymore, I feel used and suicidal, I won’t go silently.



Talk2Bella.


My dear, you need to calm down and take it easy, don’t get worked up over nothing, not all relationships will lead to marriage, although he might have suggested the abortion you willingly went under the knife so don’t apportion blame to him alone.


Don’t kill yourself and don’t kill your boyfriend, it will help no one, what you should do for now is take time off, go somewhere, leave him be, start over, yes its hard and painful and might seem almost impossible but you will look back to this day and find out he never deserved you.


Just let him go, he’s not worth death or jail time.


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If you want to kill him, then do that by all means. Everything is fair in love and war.

I just wish the media won't bug us down with crimes of passion.

Hmmm. Take it easy o

she should just walk

DesChyko:
If you want to kill him, then do that by all means. Everything is fair in love and war.

I just wish the media won't bug us down with crimes of passion.

ahahahahahahahaha

women never learn... 5 years ..... you not a toy for heaven's sake.

Pls kill him but don't kill yourself ooooohhh, lol

abeg she get the doctor when do these multiple abortions number? the guy go sabi work

How will you get pregnant so many times, how old are you?

Aderola15:
Pls kill him but don't kill yourself ooooohhh, lol

Some girls be spreading there legs open as rumours.

paragon40:

What

Aderola15:

What

that your advise nw.

paragon40:
that your advise nw.

lol, wetin do am?

ur funny

NairalandEFCC1:
abeg she get the doctor when do these multiple abortion number? the guy go sabi work

does age require the amount of times someone can get pregnant?

fullstreets:
How will you get pregnant so many times, how old are you?

My advice? Don't do anything stupid u will still regret it its either u go to jail or get miserable. The rite tin to do is to take ur family to his have a meeting with dem let both families get involved elders have diff ways in resolving issues like this u not the first so do d rite tin pls. peace*

Aderola15:

lol, wetin do am?

harsh

Talk2Bella:
she should just walk

She has every reason to be mad at d guy but one thing is for sure, he will get what's coming .... But forgiving carries more trouble for the guy...

Its obvious he's found someone else, using the mother as an excuse is just petty

krispycash:

She has every reason to be mad at d guy but one thing is for sure, he will get what's coming .... But forgiving carries more trouble for the guy...

paragon40:
harsh

lol, he didn't treat her nice na

Talk2Bella:
Its obvious he's found someone else, using the mother as an excuse is just petty

true... But then the lady in question is quite silly... I am sorry to use such derogatory word .... She has equal amount of blame as d guy does if not more.... She should have know he was up to no good from the first time he told her to terminate the pregnancy... No decent man who is God fearing(as that is one of the xteristics most women look for in a man... Or so they say)... Would ask u to terminate another life... Let alone that which is his first child with u... If she's the first he's ever put in the family way...
My dear, love isn't blind... Love just wears a crazily dark ray ban shades on....

krispycash:

She has every reason to be mad at d guy but one thing is for sure, he will get what's coming .... But forgiving carries more trouble for the guy...

Sometimes Karma is too late

krispycash:
true... But then the lady in question is quite silly... I am sorry to use such derogatory word .... She has equal amount of blame as d guy does if not more.... She should have know he was up to no good from the first time he told her to terminate the pregnancy... No decent man who is God fearing(as that is one of the xteristics most women look for in a man... Or so they say)... Would ask u to terminate another life... Let alone that which is his first child with u... If she's the first he's ever put in the family way...
My dear, love isn't blind... Love just wears a crazily dark ray ban shades on....

Exactly what I told her she wasn't forced she willing went to the doctor no one can force an abortion on one without the other party agreeing to it

Talk2Bella:
does age require the amount of times someone can get pregnant?

Even gals in their teens know their safe period and there are contraceptive pills in drug stores all around, I repeat, how old are u?

Abort my baby make god punish u

Some ppl will look for tears in future and won't see. No prophet will cast out your future calamities when u start reaping what u sowed.

Judgement day eh!...?.that innocent child you aborted will ask you his/her offense for not letting him/her live.

Kill yourself and your bf ASAP!

Yu ar a bastard if yu dont do, weere!

Most ladies in this country mumu pass buhari; after 500 abortions? Why won't he drop you?

Listen to me OP; that dude is going to drop you and there's nothing you can do to cease that . You kill him; you rot in jail; you kill yourself; that's your own cup of tea.

The rest won't learn from this now! Awon akindindinrin

ok

This talk2bella don quick buy domain

hhahahaha.. sharp guy he followed my philosophy. .. Lady there's nothing you cn do... girls they are the same ...fish brains