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If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by waleadex(m): 10:45pm On Aug 29, 2016 |
My wife's friend got slapped by her husband for the first time in 8yrs of their marriage. Afterwards,she came to my house this evening,looking so terrible with swollen face,to explain what transpired between them. After listening to her,though I doubted her side of the story,what transpired was not enough to land her a slap on her face. Meanwhile, she was not really bothered that she was slapped but that it came from her hubby(Dapo) for the first time. Funny enough, she said to me that because of that slap she has concluded that Dapo no longer loves her. That got me thinking why she could,in such strong terms, conclude that her husband no longer loves her. If it happened to you,what would be your reaction? |
Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by Davash222(m): 10:53pm On Aug 29, 2016 |
I pray never to be a victim of such circumstance, but Eventually it occurs, please God, give me to zeal to endure it. Amen. 4 Likes |
Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by JeffreyJamez(m): 11:41pm On Aug 29, 2016 |
First time in 8 years?..... She must have done something really bad to warrant brain resetting slap. 3 Likes |
Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 11:42pm On Aug 29, 2016 |
Turn the other cheek ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by Rayendowed007(m): 11:51pm On Aug 29, 2016 |
Den she's a gonner......lolz |
Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by yarimo(m): 11:53pm On Aug 29, 2016 |
I will make sure she makes it to the hospital . |
Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by waleadex(m): 12:00am On Aug 30, 2016 |
JeffreyJamez:Really,it wasn't that bad... |
Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by waleadex(m): 12:01am On Aug 30, 2016 |
yarimo:That will be too harsh bro... 1 Like |
Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by JeffreyJamez(m): 12:03am On Aug 30, 2016 |
waleadex: Where you there?... and have you heard the husband's side? |
Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by waleadex(m): 12:10am On Aug 30, 2016 |
JeffreyJamez:The husband went to work with her car and returned it bashed in the rear. On noticing it,she aggressively asked hubby what happened to her car. That was the cause... but I know what such a lady could have said anyway. |
Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by JeffreyJamez(m): 12:13am On Aug 30, 2016 |
waleadex: You sha were not there. |
Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by walexzee11(m): 12:41am On Aug 30, 2016 |
Women can be so provocative. I'm sure she had been so garrulous lately which prompt her husband to see the need to restore her factory setting!!! 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by menxer: 2:42am On Aug 30, 2016 |
There is always a first time, first time to bash her car, first time to be slapped by hubby. There was equal and opposite over reaction from both sides, besides other issues may have stacked up to that tipping point. 1 Like |
Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 5:15am On Aug 30, 2016 |
Slap him right back! But, first things first... Pictures of the dented car, and her swollen face, or... 1 Like |
Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 5:50am On Aug 30, 2016 |
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Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by lilmax(m): 6:36am On Aug 30, 2016 |
waleadex:she's lying 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 7:58am On Aug 30, 2016 |
in any relationship there shouldnt be slapping of anyone or physical and emotional abuse..... these days things happening in marriages and ending in physical and emotional abuse i dont get.... 4 Likes |
Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by Pidggin(f): 8:44pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
He bashed her car and then he slapped her? ![]() It is more than likely that this will be the beginning of further physical assault. They should see a marriage counselor 1 Like |
Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by SirVintageCock: 9:01pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
She should've slap him back immediately and go ahead and throw some things around. Shout and rave and rant.. Pick phones and make imaginary calls to his parents dead or alive, siblings , friends. Get the pounding pestle and kitchen knife...act like a derange dog. Believe me, a sane man won't try to think of slapping talk more of carrying it out when the other side of his <_LOVING AND DOCILE WIFE gets laid bare for him to see. 5 Likes |
Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 7:36am On Aug 31, 2016 |
Will slap him right back on his ugly face. ![]() Maybe he slapped her because he felt since he bought the car, he has got the right to damaging it as well. ![]() ![]() If it's me, I will drive "120 inch "of nails in all of his own car tyres. ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by Florblu(f): 7:38am On Aug 31, 2016 |
Gonna leave him for the last time if it were to be in a relationship. But in Marriage, hmmmm"for his mecy endureth forever |
Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 7:42am On Aug 31, 2016 |
Florblu: Madam, are you saying you will endure physical abuse Inn marriage? ![]() ![]() |
Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by Florblu(f): 7:48am On Aug 31, 2016 |
LynnPetra:Bro are you telling me not to heed to God's commandments? There are better ways of treating men that sees themselves as Bruce Lee than divorce |
Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 7:50am On Aug 31, 2016 |
Florblu: Who is talking about divorce here? Pray tell, what will you do in this case? |
Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by surveyorng: 10:50am On Aug 31, 2016 |
I would control my anger and would not slap her back. In fact I would still share the same bed with her but I would wake her up in the middle of the night to talk senses into her head. For real I don't know what most guys gain from beating or molesting their women. Despite being slapped and harrassed by women, I have never reciprocated their actions before and I will neither slap nor beat any women in my life. Men who beat women are the most inferior set of people you see around. 4 Likes |
Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by izaray(f): 10:50am On Aug 31, 2016 |
I will give him silent mood for some time. Just to make him realize how angry i am! For those of you saying his wife would have returned back d slap! That was very wrong, and she would've received more than d slap from him even! Because her hubby will see as his wife wants to challenge to him.... 3 Likes |
Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 11:07am On Aug 31, 2016 |
Nothing |
Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by Sparklequeen(f): 11:49am On Aug 31, 2016 |
This is the beginning of molestation, more are on its way if your not careful. Please is there any lawyer here? 1 Like |
Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by Titilayooni(f): 10:16am On Sep 04, 2016 |
waleadex:Some women can be frustrating but no matter what happened,the husband shouldn't have slapped the wife...If I was in her position,I got slapped by my husband...I will maintain silent treatment till he apologizes...i will now treat his own Bleep up 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 3:01pm On Sep 04, 2016 |
SirVintageCock: this got me laughing..... can imagine what the guys expression would be like 1 Like
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Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by eyinjuege: 3:25pm On Sep 04, 2016 |
I'm sure by now, her love for him has reduced by at least 50%. She will start thinking about herself alone now, and no more for the common good. Everyman for himself, God for us all. 1 Like |
Re: If Your Spouse Slaps You For The First Time, What Would You Do? by ardeypearlz(f): 5:12pm On Sep 04, 2016 |
izaray:Exactly what's on my mind! No need retaliating. Just save yourself the stress! |
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