My boyfriend wants me to send him naked pictures. What do I do?
– Em*

Well done for asking yourself this question. It shows good judgment to stop and think about the possible downsides of a situation. In fact, you're probably asking because your gut is telling you it's not a good idea. Trust your instincts.

Sharing pictures may seem private. But in reality, nothing digital is ever 100% guaranteed private. Once a picture's out there, you can't take it back. And you can't control where it ends up. The best way to avoid any problems is not to take the picture in the first place.

It's natural to want to make your boyfriend happy, so it may seem hard to say no to a request like this. But here's the thing: If your boyfriend is a good guy, he'll have more respect for you when you stay true to your values. Saying no is a chance to help your relationship grow by letting your boyfriend know more about what you believe and stand for.

You can let your boyfriend down without making him feel like a creep for asking. Just make it about you. For example, here are some ideas on what you might say:

"I don't feel comfortable with that. I know you won't share my pictures, but I once forwarded a message to the wrong person by mistake and I felt terrible afterward. I don't want there to be any chance of that."
"I don't feel comfortable with that. What if your mom/dad/little brother/school roommate got hold of your phone and saw it? What if MY mom or dad saw it?"
"Photos can be so cold and impersonal. They just don't have the same meaning as being together. What I'd really like is to share pictures like the ones of the bike ride we took last week. Then we don't have to worry about other people seeing them. And it reminds me how great it feels to be with you and how much fun we have together."
This whole situation may scream "AWKWARD!" But it's a good way to learn about your relationship. For starters, you'll get clues into your boyfriend's personality. If he understands and accepts that you don't want to send naked pictures, it's a sign he respects and cares for you. But if he still tries to get photos from you (like if he says "don't worry, I'll delete them right away!", it's a red flag: If he cares for you, why put you in a situation that upsets you or makes you uncomfortable?

The situation also gives you clues about yourself. If you worry about saying no, is it a self-esteem issue? Or is it because your BF is more controlling about the relationship? Where's the real pressure coming from? Is your BF pressuring you or are you pressuring yourself in an attempt to make him happy?

So why do people send sexy pictures? Some people mistake it for a way to feel closer. But it's actually a false sense of closeness. Photos can't replace being together and talking about the things you both consider private and personal. Sharing like this helps your bond grow stronger because you see the other person's reaction and pick up on his feelings. That doesn't happen when you hit "send" on a photograph.

So let your instincts guide you, and take pride in the fact that you know yourself!

A boy sent me over 20 pictures of his girlfriend pleaded me to leak the whole pictures on internet because the girl hurt him.

Please what do you have to say about this thread?

Source: http://lifedrama.com.ng/advise-to-girls-sending-nude-pictures-to-guys-a-must-read/

Beauty without brain

Asking for nudes is common with tennage boys or those still stuck in time a matured man wont ask for that

Only fuçk boys ask for nudes.
And only stupïd twåts send them.

Mariam49:
Asking for nudes is common with tennage boys or those still stuck in time a matured man wont ask for that

Women n self-deceit...

Blame Buhari

Ok

Black belle,who u epp? @ op
Long live kingtblakhoc ma nigga.

if you tell em frm now till tomorrow...
dey ll still send...why disturb your self... girls are unstable creature... nothing upstairs

Una Don hear am??

pfft

ok

A lady once told me of how the boyfriend took record of the s-e-x they had. She said even though her face didn't show, she deleted it after the act. I laughed at her and said she wasn't smart. She didn't understand. So I told her there were other places the video might be at that moment. She doubted and I proved to her with my phone.


Some days later she revisited the boyfriend. Had access to his phone and went straight to what I showed her. Lo and Behold what she deleted was in another file that automatically duplicates your uploads when using a mobile data or WI-FI That was how I saved her.


Whenever a guy ask me any sex related discussion, I always have a handful of replies. For example:

Boy: Baby, what are you wearing?
Me: The full armour of God

Boy: I'm feeling cold
Me: Try and cover yourself with the blood of Jesus or better still drink coffee or take cigar

BOY: Are you wet?
Me: Yes because out of my belly shall flow rivers of the living waters

AND MANY MORE

Your dry bones (Preeq) won't rise again. It will die a painful death.



Girls should just stop entertaining these clowns that remembers them when they are hor ny. If you can't keep a secret, don't expect someone else to keep it for you. Anything that leaves your territory will be shared. The earlier you take note of this, the better.

This is common among ladies..they think every relationship leads to marriage...fowl brain

Baby na wetin you dey find, one pound no balance

No idea

Better u Skype or video call on imo

Let them continue to send nude pix na

Fabulocity:
Only fuçk boys ask for nudes.
And only stupïd twåts send them.

If your bf wants nude pictures its no big ish.... send him the pictures but make sure you Edith IT and remove your face so that no one will know who it is.

What amuses me most is majority of those who called those who ask for nudes pix names are quilty, quilty as soiled whites.


Nonsense,i don't need anyone to tell me what to do, people have different ways of fostering intimacy especiallly when in distance relationships.

Send nudes wisely and responsibly. Fuc..k hypocrites

rain is falling ooo

MadCow1:
Too Long to read..

As in ehen ...no time

Becareful of ur action, Karma is a biiiitch!!!

This dude is just so wicked for thinking to blackmail her

That is a demonic idea from the pit of HELL......A sign that that partner is even demonic n won't go far with you