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| Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by Swizdom(m): 9:35pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
I believe relationships are meant to be enjoyed equally by both parties involved. It's been a cliche' that the women crave For attention more, and I'm here wondering, " does it mean guys should not crave for that too, after all males are humans, not logs of wood?" I dated my "Ex" for four years and was going to settle down with her. I never dated nor had the time for any other woman. I cherished her so much since I had finally made up my mind I was going to marry her, but girls are funny;they act like their brains are halved. During her IT, she uploaded pictures of her male colleague and herself on FB. They held each other like love birds It didn't bother me. It was until she sent her pictures (even ones with other female colleagues) to me and omitted that of hers with the guy that the jealousy crept in. The next day, while chatting with her, I tried to bring up the issue since that was the only male picture on her entire FB pictures;mine (her bf) wasn't even there. I simply, in the most polite manner, made her know how I felt about it. She became annoyed and said I was acting overly jealous. I asked her what would be her reaction if she were to be in my shoes, and I acted just the way she did? She waved it aside, ended that she was gonna get rid of it; "it was a mere pix!" But my problem wasn't even the mere pix thing. "Why was she hiding it from me?" Didn't I have a right to be a lil bit jealous. I remember it now because it is happening to a friend of mine too. What ya say, my Nairaland family? Just know I respect every of your comments. Last bullet--> African men are not romantic isn't the issue with our women. I think our women are wired to repel romantic gestures. 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by naijaboiy: 9:41pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
Don't mind such mumu girls. It's only when they are guilty that they bring up quarrels when you try to ask them questions concerning a guy. If you're not guilty simply answer the question and everybody moves on. You have every right to get jealous and ask questions. If you don't feel the need to guard what's yours then where is the love? If you keep acting like you're not bothered it's the same girls that will say you don't even care. Confused beings!  14 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by Swizdom(m): 9:43pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
naijaboiy: Naijaboiy, you don't know how much I respect ur comment just now cos I felt I erred then. Thanks bro, I really appreciate. |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by naijaboiy: 9:46pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
Swizdom:No problem. Anytime... 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by youngest85(m): 9:50pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
kids everywhere 1 Like |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by Nobody: 9:50pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
Dont mind very confused set of humans (most girls)..buh me these i treat them like they want to be treated if u act like a ho% i treat u like that and if u act like a lady i treat u same as a lady should be treated.Nonsense na money to take buy properties down we dey find nw oo no be one daft girl go come dey pollute my mind when i dey purge off negativity every day..u gat right to ask any question if she is avoiding it guy just turn the table and dont stop till she tire for life...tell ur friend op 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by Nobody: 9:52pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
Bro, You've got the right. As a matter of fact, every relationship needs that healthy jealous to keep the fire burning. Just don't indulge your insecurities or mistrust. 4 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by Nobody: 9:52pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
Swizdom: Break up with her. U will thank me later. She no value u my guy. If u meet girl wen value u. U no go complain, even my ex till today still show me love in every way she can. SSo many girls out there. I can. Never think twice to leave a girl who disrespect me for once. My current gf, wen we quarrel I insult her wen am really angry but she has never replied any Respect#. 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by Swizdom(m): 9:56pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
youngest85:Your ignorance will only be compounded by your ignorance, fool! 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by Swizdom(m): 9:58pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
dairykidd: You guys are my family, I swear! Thanks 1 Like |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by Swizdom(m): 9:59pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
Drew0: Thank you so much, Sir. I apPreciate a whole lot. |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by Nobody: 10:04pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
Any lady who deliberately hurt her boyfriend is not worthy to be kept.I don't believe in playing hard to get or flirting with other guys to test your boyfriend.A lady who truly love her boyfriend will be scare to hurt him. 4 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by Swizdom(m): 10:09pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
@VolTOxic, thanks and point well taken. Mine wasn't an unhealthy jealousy. Infact, she once saw me with my junior cousin and narrated how jealous she felt when she saw me talking to her. I completely knw that insecurity is the no 1 killer of relationship. I only felt jealous because she had our pictures but never uploaded them. I didn't feel any atom of bad about it, but the moment she uploaded that guy, the jealousy, out of spontaneity, came up. Who wouldn't feel bad? |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by charijee(f): 11:04pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
naijaboiy:  |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by Ifakiland(m): 11:08pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
When dey ask u people to av one main chick and many side chicks u'll not listen...now see wat a gal is putting u tru cos of a forking pix! U sef upload a pix of ur face buried in a gal's boobs and see if she won't behave! When ur gal tries to get u jealous...do ure in a 100 folds! Be a bossman abeg! I serious! 3 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by naijaboiy: 11:10pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
charijee:LOL! It's not what you think.  |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by lilmax(m): 11:11pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
I suggest you do the same, even more 1 Like |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by charijee(f): 11:15pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
naijaboiy:Hmmmmm Are you now controlling my mind to know what I think  Kontinu |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by Swizdom(m): 11:16pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
Ifakiland: You are right my brother, very right. It was my Ex, remember;we are no more together. Also remember I talked about settling down and not flirting around. I completely know how to get at women, but never will I do that while searching for my better half. Thanks for your opinion. You are 100% right. |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by naijaboiy: 11:32pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
charijee:LOL! But I can guess what's on your mind. So I'm guessing right.  |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by Ifakiland(m): 11:38pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
Swizdom:My broda an average gal has atleast 4 guys on standby in every relationship she finds herself, dey call it "not putting all my eggs in one basket". Fine dey love u and all dat, but dey av oda guyz on standby incase Deir feelings for u changes. You shuld do just dat wen next ure looking for "d one" av her and den keep as much oda female frnds as possible....if u shower a gal with too much love she will misbehave....uve got to dilute d love alittle and share it with oda gals. 5 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by elkraune(m): 11:42pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
mumu girls. litter naija na 1 Like |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by charijee(f): 11:44pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
naijaboiy:*side eyes* Interesting Since I can't place what's on my mind, maybe you should help So, what did you guess right? |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by topzttst(m): 11:48pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
hmm |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by Nobody: 11:50pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
Swizdom: u welcome brah |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by m6tem: 11:59pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
Ifakiland: LOL 100 folds indeed |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by rosy1992(f): 12:58am On Aug 31, 2016 |
It's normal but you both should work things out positively. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by Swizdom(m): 8:05am On Aug 31, 2016 |
rosy1992: Rosy, enunciate that a lil bit, pLease. How is it normal? Shouldn't a guy ask on issues like that? |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by Nobody: 9:42am On Aug 31, 2016 |
Okay, jealousy was allowed. It was only natural for you to feel a bit spiffed about the whole *Facebook* incident . I'm sure if the reverse was the case, your girlfriend would have blown the roof. But abeg, don't use your girlfriend's action to judge all girls. You and other guys on this thread. If you were unfortunate enough to have dated a girl with "halved-brain", that was your bad luck. Not all girls would act in that manner. 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by rosy1992(f): 9:57am On Aug 31, 2016 |
Swizdom:Exactly what I'm saying I would also get jealous if I was in your shoes but that shouldn't trigger mistrust or argument . |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by JustHere2Observ(f): 10:24am On Aug 31, 2016 |
Drew0: She is keeping your insults inside cooler for you. Your relationship doesn't even sound healthy. You shouldn't insult each other. 4 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Some Girls Act Stupid When the Guys Get a little bit Jealous? by Nobody: 10:26am On Aug 31, 2016 |
JustHere2Observ: It doesn't sound healthy but we are very happy. I don't av to explain anything to u. Bye. |
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