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Please Help, Am So Confused. by Nobody: 1:57pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
Hello everyone, here is my story there is a girl am dating presently she have all the attribute and quality of my ideal wife, and she loves me so much. But i dont love her as much as she loves me, because of her stature, she has a small stature , i mean she is slim and not as tall as i am. But in terms of charater and her general desposition to life, she is d best . I hv tired to love her as much as she loves me but is not working reason be her small stature. Pls i really need advise i am scared to let go because i dont knw if i will get a woman wit dat character again, but yet i dont love her so much for marriage. If i get married to her i feel i will cheat on her because of her stature pls what do i do. But i knw marriage is not build on beauty. But yet i still dnt love her enough. Please i need ur advise |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by EMPERORLEEE(m): 2:08pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
In other news you mean she is not beautiful and you still don't love her? Those are two key factors in marriage, forget all those people wey dey say beauty no join. Bro just free the poor girl else you are just going to make the marriage a sad one for both of you, you said she is got good attributes but if you end up marrying her, those same attributes that looks good to you now might piss you off in future. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by Ivanlxi(m): 2:12pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
Manage what u ve |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by Joeyy(m): 2:12pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
Leave her alone. She deserves better. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by umehmj(m): 2:13pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
you don't like her build but you initiated a relationship with her. where you hoping for a miracle? truth is you are yet to be a man as pa relationship. when you become a man you will clearly define what you want and learn how to be a man every willing woman can't have. so bros, first define what you want. for now you are still confused |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by Nobody: 2:17pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
Joeyy: |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by Nobody: 2:19pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
Am tinking if maybe i can bring my self to love her in marriage |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by Eunetmoi(f): 2:20pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
Pls, leave Munirat or Sarifat the chance 2 a happy and loving hubby. #HurtHerNowThanLater |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by Nobody: 2:24pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
I'm very sure she will find someone who will appreciate everything about her........abeg shift joor .....just listen to yourself.....you don't love her because of her small stature......you don't know what you want |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by Nobody: 2:30pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
suzan404:madam i knw what i want but, should base my love on physical appreance or charater. Or d both of dem |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by Nobody: 2:31pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
Go feed her like a pig and not juz all indomie and juice every time u meet together.. If u want her to have a better physical appearance, go and find ways instead of judging her. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by Sunkyphil(m): 2:34pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
dont go for looks go for character, |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by djkaycee001(m): 2:34pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
Seriously!!! Can you take a moment and listen
To yourself....#selfish self Love
LOVE doesn't select which person we be with
It's either Big, Fat, slim, plump and curve
That which we need at the moment just attract us
Like magnet... Which is all GOOD
You are to learn from it by treating it the way
You would treat yourself....#fact of sharing feeling
BUT........ Let me come to your terms
You don't like her as much as she like you..Uuh!!!
Look around you and tell me who LOVE anytin
That LOVE them..?
I'll leave that for urselfish mind to answer..
We all grow to appreciate and LOVE
That which LOVEs us back in return be it gud or bad
Your lady is small in stature or don't have does
Physical feature that you can Show-Off to Friends
What really Matter is are Contended with her.?
Are you happy when you are lonely with her.?
They say " Different strokes for different folks "
Look for that thing in her which makes you happy
Whenever is around you or you are around her...
#karpis/Finish eh.. |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by Jay542(m): 2:39pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
Joeyy:Oga don talk. Best Comment! |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by Nobody: 2:39pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
Climaths:why are you dating your gf?are you dating her because of her character or physical appearance??what made you love fall in love with her??you don't know what you want nah |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by Nobody: 2:45pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
djkaycee001:tanks so much sir |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by Nobody: 2:48pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
More comment pls, has any body ever gotten married like dis and come to love dere spouse more in d marriage |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by firstking01(m): 3:06pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
One rule of dating, don't date someone out of pity. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by Nobody: 3:17pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
Am not dating her out of pity |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by Nobody: 3:45pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
Op op op op how many times i call u.. Leave her alone ooo. U dey F her but she no gud to present abi? Op fear God |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by BlackMbakara1(m): 4:06pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
Free the babe joor! Them no dey use shame drink poison... |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by honeygirl17: 5:30pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
Climaths:Wait till you are matured enough to take decision on your own before you ask another girl out. |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by Nobody: 8:48pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
honeygirl17:tanks dear, are u saying am nt matured |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by Nobody: 9:16pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
Let her go you will be doing both urselves a huge favor |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by Nobody: 1:29am On Sep 03, 2016 |
dairykidd:leting her go is not d problem, but will i ever get a girl wit all her qualities if i let her go |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by Eunetmoi(f): 1:37am On Sep 03, 2016 |
Climaths: Oh! U want 2 eat ur cake n still av it? That guy who called u a selfish being must be right then |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by ShayGirl(f): 1:38am On Sep 03, 2016 |
One thing I've learnt in life is u just cannot force love... If it is not from the heart, then just let her go and be appreciated for whom she really is... |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by brightalo1010: 1:40am On Sep 03, 2016 |
Guy don't make a mistake you'll live to regret tomorrow,if you don't love and fancy her size better don't marry her out of pity. |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by ShayGirl(f): 1:44am On Sep 03, 2016 |
Climaths: Surely u'd get a girl of most of her qualities bt certainly not all...The only difference would be that u actually fell in love and not trying to love ..Everyone ain't made perfect |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by ShayGirl(f): 1:44am On Sep 03, 2016 |
Climaths: Surely u'd get a girl of most of her qualities bt certainly not all...The only difference would be that u actually fell in love and not trying to love ..Everyone ain't made perfect.. |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by Nobody: 11:01am On Sep 03, 2016 |
ShayGirl:tanks sir ; but is it possible to try to love sumbody; and u eventually fall in love wit dat person |
Re: Please Help, Am So Confused. by Nobody: 12:33pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
Climaths: Brah the wonderful girls u haven't met are more than the ones u think u seen already.Always think n blv that way n if its what u really desire n knw what u really really desire it would be drawn to u...don't concern urself with how/when just see urself getting her exactly the way u want her...u actually got what u desired in a woman knowingly/unknowingly u probably had a strong and constant fixed thought on her character without desiring her physical qualities the same way so u got what u asked for. All u need do now is ask properly and forget those negative ppl telling u u cant exactly what u want that kind of thinking is for failures..Think,Believe and Receive. Be aware that ur thoughts become things but if u doubt urself well u can settle for wtv person life throws ur way,i dont pray for that tho..Am not just running mouth try n see its a natural law like gravity...omo later,make i better myself we have more than enough time to change our lives |
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