Toks2008:


While I have nothing to say to your comment, your signature is misleading..why 15? If they are more than 3 forget story.

It is so sad that we just have to marry any lady we want regardless of her sexual past.

Of course, Bro! Life is a bîtch!!!





It's a pity we've got no choice than to marry them cos no one dies a virgin because life screws us all!!

firstking01:
Love is supposed to be without a reason...inotherwords, it's supposed to be "unconditional"....you see, from the day you started seeing reasons why you wanna love somebody, be prepared to be keeping the reason up or else the love will vanish overnight...i just hope u get me??

Toks2008:


Chai!..this is an excerpt. Were you in my head? maybe I should just ignore writing anything cos this sums it up.

Berbierklaus:

Can you love without a reason?


your next reply can be your undoing,choose your words wisely

yemmit90:


Can you love without a reason?

This is a simple logic. Love is not natural, it is a result of personal perspectives, greed and gains/rewards.

Have you ever asked yourself why the so called Love vanish between couple that once loved each other?

Toks2008:
I have deep things to write concerning this but on a second thought i have decided to hold back and throw this open for discussion as the title is self explicit.

If you open this thread just go through the comments and make your submission.

Over to you all.

yemmit90:


Can you love without reason, YES or NO?

If YES, then explain why you wanna get married?

McBrooklyn:
Love is a scam!!



The day I came to realize love is a scam is when my long time ex girlfriend left me for a richer dude all because I don't have money then but now that I've hustled for the money, she wanna come back but I simply told her Woss Woss Wobi, Berlyn you wanna come back to my life now cos I've got money now, KOLEWERK!!! Who you Epp??

Toks2008:


For the first time I want to leave the discussion open so go through the comments so far and make your submission.

firstking01:
Thats the problem with you lot, always loving a guy because of one thing he possesses or the other...i give it up.

Who said anything about loving a guy?

please answer the question and stop been emotional



Grandpa,where is the writeup

firstking01:
My brother, dnt be self delusional...love vanish between couples because they fell inlove for a "reason"...if you love with no reasons, then that love will last .

yemmit90:


Continue with your thread bro.

I laugh whenever someone talk about Love, hate, destiny etc as a natural occurence.

Three factors determine behavious of an individual.

1. His/her passion, needs, wants, ambition, desires.

2. The society he/she live in.

3. His/her Religion belief and how the person was brought up.

McBrooklyn:
Love is a scam!!



The day I came to realize love is a scam is when my long time ex girlfriend left me for a richer dude all because I don't have money then but now that I've hustled for the money, she wanna come back but I simply told her Woss Woss Wobi, B√erlyn you wanna come back to my life now cos I've got money now, KOLEWERK!!! Who you Epp??

CrazyQuinn:
how please? that makes no sense so you are saying that a person can just see a mad man on the street and just love him like that without any reason? that doesn't make ayota of sense if you ask me .... You have to have or display qualities in you for people to like or love you. It just like when they ask someone; why do you love this person? Will you say I don't know, I just love this person for loving sake?

Toks2008:


Yes love only exist from God to man but anyone who believes in human love is a big fool.

Human love is a charade, a chase after the wind which is based on a condition and if the condition is no longer there, love fades and tolerance sets in with an eventual crash just for us to start looking for the right condition in another person which triggers the so called dumb words "I LOVE YOU".

firstking01:
Love is supposed to be without a reason...inotherwords, it's supposed to be "unconditional"....you see, from the day you started seeing reasons why you wanna love somebody, be prepared to be keeping the reason up or else the love will vanish overnight...i just hope u get me??

Idealist view
Try to be realistic otherwise give yourself a hard knock on the forehead


Toks2008 where is the thread

CrazyQuinn:
how please? that makes no sense so you are saying that a person can just see a mad man on the street and just love him like that without any reason? that doesn't make ayota of sense if you ask me .... You have to have or display qualities in you for people to like or love you. It just like when they ask someone; why do you love this person? Will you say I don't know, I just love this person for loving sake?

Toks2008:


While I have nothing to say to your comment, your signature is misleading..why 15? If they are more than 3 forget story.

It is so sad that we just have to marry any lady we want regardless of her sexual past.

Na here me and you go fight

firstking01:
Love is supposed to be without a reason...inotherwords, it's supposed to be "unconditional"....you see, from the day you started seeing reasons why you wanna love somebody, be prepared to be keeping the reason up or else the love will vanish overnight...i just hope u get me??

Berbierklaus:

Idealist view
Try to be realistic otherwise give yourself a hard knock on the forehead


Toks2008 where is the thread

firstking01:
Check my comments on this thread you'd see where i explained it....love with "no reason" it will last....

One question for you, what's the reason shy rose love jack in titanic, i'm curiously and anticipating waiting for your answer??

Berlyn:

Baby Boo, Wetin dey do your mouth wey E just dey bend anyhow nowadays?? Were you given punch or rather still were you raped in the mouth??

McBrooklyn:


Baby Boo, Wetin dey do your mouth wey E just dey bend anyhow nowadays?? Were you given punch or rather still were you raped in the mouth??

firstking01:
I 've made my analysis and conclusion that the day you love somebody cos of a thing, the day that thing expires the love expires...all i'm saying is, mr toks2008, love unconditionally.

Toks2008:


Wettin I wan write again?

We are discussing it already..at least this is not my opinion again but we all can make our submissions and this will give lazy people the task to read and make tangible contribution without shouting toks don come again.

Drop something I can oppose,I don't like been on the same page with you and tbh ayam bored

Toks2008:


I totally understand you but please why is it that a lady will see a short fat not too cute guy professing love to her while she will be all over a Tall cute guy?

Why will a lady marry a man she knows does not really love her because the guy is so rich?

Why do ladies say "I want a man with a vision" with this or that and not just say "I want a mam that will love me regardless"

Does that not make love a scam?

Don't get me wrong, its perfectly ok to love or marry a man for whatever reasons thats cool by you but just don't let me hear those scam phrase I LOVE YOU from any lady.

Just tell me you desire me and I'm ok with that.

Berbierklaus:

Na here me and you go fight

yemmit90:


If you can love someone without a reason, then why do you choose the person you claimed you loved for no reason out of probably countless people you've met in your life?

As for the Jack and Rose, if i ask why you come on Nairaland instead of Facebook, what exactly will be your answer?

I will love to read your reply!

Toks2008:


I can not love unconditionally. Kojo

You must be sexually pleasing to my eyes

You must know how to cook or go learn it.

You must be well mannered


Anything short of these na seresere and if I marry you with these qualities and while I am ready to cope with diminishing sexual features you must uphold the last two or you are on your own.

Love ko love ni.

Toks2008:


No be true I talk.

I pity guys looking for sexually decent ladies upandan..they will discover mongo park.

It haff tey sef that I stopped searching for sexually decent guys,coz they don't exist.
na 100th hand full everywhere

CrazyQuinn:
Unconditional love is a falacy! They are those type of unrealistic love you watch on Disney, Hollywood, Bollywood and nollywood movies. They are not real! The only unconditional love that's real is God's love because he is a supernatural being and perfect while human beings are not supernatural beings and are not perfect.

CrazyQuinn:
Those ladies either don't know what they want or they're lying about their love because of what they will get from the relationship