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I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Tega4B: 5:32pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
Ok.Tx for Reading. Av been in a relationship with my so called bf for about a year nw. Heaven knws I love him, about a month ago I got pregnant and he insisted dat I kip d pregnancy. My problem is,after much questioning on y he's finding it so difficult to tell his parents,he opened up to me dat he got bck with his x nd dey are planning on getting married in December shocked . Am frm a very responsible home,if my mum gets to find out she would insist dat we get married(I dnt want it to look like am forcing him on me). Am jst few months old in my first job after school,still tryin to settle.If my boss gets to find out its a 50/50 chance of me loosing my job. Being a baby mama is nt an option for me. Do I keep dis baby n go to his parents or Get rid of it n move on with my life. 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 5:44pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
Get rid ASAP if you know what is Good for your life 125 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by byvan03: 5:45pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
For your last paragraph, only you can answer that question. It's obvious the guy isn't interested in winding up with you. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 5:50pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
Oops |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Berbierklaus(f): 5:55pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
No seriously,we know most men are irrational and incapable of thinking with their brains once they are in heat,but what about the ladies? You know you will be get the bigger hit if anything happens,yet you did not use your brain in heat? what happened to condom #100 or how much is gold circle again? Now you are considering commiting murder,when you could have avoided abortion(which is costlier) with morning after pill or condom? A graduate for that matter? Not feeling self righteous,but things like this should not be happening,just know that you are commiting murder if you dare abort that baby. What will be will be 193 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by yvelchstores(f): 6:17pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
if u were raped, I cld hv told u that u could abort. d day I had my baby was d happiest day of my life. I can't imagine life without her. u shldnt just calculate ur physical and most especially TEMPORAL problems and then decide to end a life. dont get rid of that child. forget d guy, u made a mistake but d same way its not d end of ur life, it shldnt be d end of little cute unborn baby too. pls think abt this. be strong 150 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Chubhie: 6:20pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
http://clinicquotes.com/abortion-at-10-weeks-pictures/ Go through the graphic pictures and tell if you still wish to proceed with murder. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by yvelchstores(f): 6:21pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:its amazing how quick u are to tell her to" get rid of..." in order words, u are saying "kill that baby fast...." u shld really be careful. on behalf of d unborn child, receive forgiveness and pls no more 102 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Chubhie: 6:21pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:That's murder 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 6:41pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
So? sometimes in life you just have to sacrifice something for the benefit of many, it's called logic it will result to peace and prosperity Chubhie: 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Jay542(m): 6:49pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:Wrong. What if there are complications? All you advisers won't be with her. Whereas, she can give birth to the child and her mother would take care of the baby and she goes to struggle for Life. A year + would be wasted but it will be worth it. 17 Likes |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by bennyrazz: 6:50pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
why did you have to write "Yoruba deemon" and include no offense when you actually intended the offense. I can relate to reasons why he did not deem you fit to be his wife. This may just be part of the reasons. Coming from a responsible home doesn't make you responsible. Responsibility is a personal decision. I'm not scolding you but you are certainly going to leave with this scar if you abort for the rest of your life. You would have killed a full humanbeing. Now you pregnant with no hubby, that's bring shame to your family and stigma to yourself. You can pray to God to make you lose the pregnancy or get your mother involved while you chase after who got you pregnant. Marrying him though doesn't guarantee a happy marriage cuz he might not be happy with you. From the look of things, you were not a baby, how you got pregnant shows your carelessness. You engage in premarital sex and you get caught in the hook. I wish you luck sha cuz your only saving grace now is if you loose the pregnancy naturally, if not, welcome to the world of single mothers. 13 Likes |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Chubhie: 6:51pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:In this case,an innocent baby? Pray tell what crime the baby committed to warrant such gruesome brutish death as sacrifice for peace and prosperity? I wish to understand this logic you talk about. 7 Likes |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 6:55pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
Jay542:If I were in her shoes, it won't be worth it to me ..... and you are actually being selfish because the child will be traumatized emotionally for the rest of his/her life because he/she doesn't have a dad 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 6:58pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
byvan03:Or the child 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 7:05pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
Chubhie:and please tell me what crime did Jesus commit to warrant such gruesome brutish death as sacrifice for peace and prosperity? 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Jay542(m): 7:07pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:There are lots of people without a dad. Is how you relate it to the child that's paramount. In the real sense it's you that's being selfish cos when you wer enjoying it you didn't know abi. 4 Likes |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Chubhie: 7:15pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:Are you saying the unborn baby is Jesus that will usher peace and prosperity? Jesus was given birth to and went about doing good.Why murder the unborn child and deny him/her Jesus brand of miracles? I wish to understand your logic and comparisons. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 7:18pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
Jay542:human beings make mistakes we are not perfect and this is one of those mistakes so are you saying we are not allowed to make mistakes again? No matter how stupid or expensive the mistake is, mistake is still a mistake 11 Likes |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by byvan03: 7:24pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Jay542(m): 7:24pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:Lol. Yea we make mistake but we should be responsible for our mistakes. That's all I'm saying. Doesn't mean we should commit murder to correct the mistake. Moreso there can even be a greater mistake by committing and abortion and you'll loose at both ends. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 7:24pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
Chubhie:what you are ranting here just didn't make sense to me, stop avoiding the facts which is right in front of you. Both stories are different situations but same scenario 3 Likes |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Chubhie: 7:31pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:I'm yet to understand you. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 7:31pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
Jay542:Life is all about taking risk and making sacrifices my dear which results to great benefit 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 7:32pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
Chubhie:Too bad 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by honeygirl17: 7:36pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
Tega4B:How much is condom in the market if you can't abstain from sex 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 7:38pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:just as ur name implies 3 Likes |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Jay542(m): 7:43pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:I agree but this is not the risk or sacrifice life is talking about. If Cristiano Ronaldo mother had aborted her pregnancy there wouldn't have been this great footballer today. The mother took the risk of giving birth to him and sacrifice of taking care of him. Now that's the risk and sacrifice life is talking about 20 Likes |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by honeygirl17: 7:44pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
bennyrazz:This must be the Yoruba demon the op is talking about Ben take it easy with the op, she is going through a lot right now. 4 Likes |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Tega4B: 7:55pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
honeygirl17: easy thing for u to say...... 9 Likes |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by sisisioge: 8:01pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
Oghenetega!!! Na three time I call you so. Pls whatever you decide to do, remember that that baby has a right to live. I'm not sanctimonious but pls, give him/her a chance. It might be the best decision you ever made. May God forgive us all and help you through this. 15 Likes |
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