ogwucheveekee:
you must be married to an ogbadibo.ma

Please if you don't mind tell me more about the ogbadibo man, I have a sis who is currently dating one but the guys attitude is giving us concern. So many red flags and people who have heard/ seen him display always says the same thing! That ogbadibo men are like that. Please be kind to explain this for me as it's becoming too popular a phrase thank you.

AngryNigerian:

I refused to read your comment...but...devil why?

No need to read my comment you know why? The truth is bitter.

FynBabe:
Why exactly did she return to Abuja so quick?
According to custom and tradition, she should still remain in the village for at least 14 days.
Could it be because of her children's school?

Honestly, I am confused.
All those village elders ehn, God dey sha.
It is well o!

she had no child for him sadly.
I'm sure that's why she is being maltreated

owukpa:
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Source: http://www.idomavoice.com/2016/09/exclusive-ejected-sammoses-enenches.html


We will keep you posted as events unfold.

in a country where there is law She needs to get a lawyer

slimpoppa:
sad

Wait untill you hear the man's families side of the story

In this time of civilization?



Nigeria we hail Thee. Where there is Law but no implementation. People will just bring tradition by force on a legally married couple recognized by our weak law.....
Huh
Nigeria!
Nigeria!!
Nigeria!!!
How many times do I called you??

georgee:
Stupid useless elders in the village. i no kuku ma get village

its well,,,,i think is becos no child or son, so they felt no need.

oglalasioux:
I'll wait until the family say their side of the story. Meanwhile this drama is happening between people who claim to be people of God. Pathetic!

you promised to wait ,but you have spoken. all in error

agarawu23:
The family did something silly by trowing her out of her husbands house.

BUT

I will like to hear from the family as well cos the step is confusing.

if she had a son,,,,,,her son will av secure or garantee her being around,,,,,,i think it was becos no body could make her stay......so they felt she could remarry instead of hanging around.
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tobesticality:
Our ndigbo brothers, I hail you

Your hatred for anything igbo has given you a serious cancer of the brain, pls sell your ancestral land and go for treatment

These peeps ain't igbo, ok?

Thanks

Thought this only happen in movies (nollywood) nah werey family your hubby get oo

jaymejate:
Ladies read this very well

Do not let any man acquire you like a property. If he dies, the family will send you away cos you'll be a useless property. Be an help meet not gold digger.

Strictly for those that want good marriage.

Back to the topic. Ask the woman if he hustle with the man. It would be NO, that's why she was sent away like that. And she should also have been an independent woman.

That's no excuse to chase her away...

Does it mean the late pastor does not have will?

tobesticality:
Our ndigbo brothers, I hail you

Your mouth is scratching you abi? How did Idoma become Igbo?

Educate yourself and stop being so ignorant.

The family took over the business.

They know they can become super rich by controlling their brother's business.

This is so appalling!animals don't hate themselves as much as we humans do to ourselves.

tobesticality:
Our ndigbo brothers, I hail you

U are a fool since wen did benue poeple become igbo ode if u don't have anything useful to say just shut d fuckup

Only in Nigeria! where aa our human rights activist dis is time to act ooo!!!

She may have been rude to them while their brother was alive. They want to humble her first sad tho

Are you alright at all? Why are some of you children of nawadays so rude?
Is it everyone you meet online that you talk to any how?
If christians don't go through stuff like this, then why is it happening to her now?
You rushed to type rubbish without thinking first.
Please, I beg you in the name of God, don't ever quote me to talk thrash again.

ireneony:
she is a christian.
ur talk is invalid.

slimpoppa:
sad

I have problem understanding this woman. If the relationship between her and her late hubby was very tight, she should have access to her husband's bank acct and have certain right to some of the husbands property. This is why a man should think ahead for his wife in case of any eventuality

I'm not Idoma o!
Where I come from, the widow is required to stay for at least 14 days before they let her return back to work.
This is so strange, I didn't know that such things are still obtainable in this modern time.

gudnex22:


Idoma girl I catch u.


That is how they behave in that part of Idoma and is the major reason we refuse to marry from there.

Senior pastor DIGC should wade into the matter

Most villages, no matter their level of christianity do not completely do away with tradition.
I am a christian too but there are certain things you will never know until you have lost someone very close to you.
Except you don't go to the village for burial, else, just be ready for those elders and their wahala.

majekdom2:
A pastor that believe in some strange "custom and tradition" needs to be checked. One could tell since the sister is a slapper.

You just spoke my mind brother, I sure trust uncle Dunamis will do something about it else ...I honestly believe he won't allow such to even happen .it can't be true, he knows the implications na.But the woman too spoke too hastily, haba just few days after burial and you are already into scandals! !!!!

bennyrazz:
A family that has produced Pastors should learn that anything or scandal that comes out from their family becomes News and it is subject to heavy scrutiny. Dr. Paul Enenche should know this and he should know this attacks would be directed at him if his late brothers wife keeps making statements and giving press releases. He should intervene and call all parties to order.

The part that they are taking over the church like a property as simply or will simply turn churches to business venture in the eyes of an unbeliever.

Teniolasmart:
are u guys seeing what am sawing............chai



Idiot



those bags of clothes abi are they empty........



















Now i see evidence of tithe and offering money................





Hmmmmmmmmmmmm or those are d clothes she want to use to open her new boutique:|

Idiot

No wonder!
Ah, I feel her pain. It is not easy to be married for 23 years without a child.
I read some where else that they asked her to go and remarry.
May God intervene.

bestestgirl:
she had no child for him sadly.
I'm sure that's why she is being maltreated

I was really shocked when the news of his death got to me....
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I got in contact with this man on radio, during his powerful message. I was about going for surgery then,,,so i located his church.
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After the surgery, i fell in love with his church,and abandon my church for his.
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He was one person i was very close to at a time.
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For 3 solid years,i was a very strong member in his church...
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I am one person that have really experienced his anoitement....i can't even count the number of times he appeared in my dreams to help fight some serious battle.
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But then, there was rumours up and down about him, his wife and the church,,,some don't seem to like him,i presume besides we human beings can never be contended, we can go talking or seeing bad things about others, it was a normal thing.,,,,,there4 i paid deaf ears to whatever people have to say.
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few years back,,,,mobility became a neccesity and the need to return to my church,,,i av to leave and go back to my church.....so i left.
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Samoses wasn't seeing me in church again and he kept calling me.....i would promise him i would come,,,,,but i got united back to my church,,i was only on transit for 3yrs
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Just few weeks back,,he also called i refused to pick,,,,cos i knew what he wants to say,-av not bin seeing u in church,,,,after then, i even saw his poster in one church around my area inviting him to preach in that program,,,,,i would not know if he came to preach there or not, cos the following week after i saw the church poster, i heard of his death.
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MORAL
am not refering to this pastor, but speaking in general
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(1.) the earlier we realise we r just passing on the earth the better for us.We have no place here and the reason to live right and do right.
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(2.) when you occupy any position here on earth, whether as a politician, doctor, teacher, security man, tailor, builder etc,,,,,let the people around us be able to speak good of us on how we relate or treat them. We shouldn't be seen as being wicked, heartless or inconsiderate.
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(3.)Don't let some people go hungry when u have their food in your custody. It makes no sense doing that in a place that is not even permanent. There is a life after here, which we should concious of.
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(4)wives treat househelps with the fear of God, this place is not our home.lecturers stop making students go thru hell, just becos we av power to do so,,,,remember u must enter 6ft. Bsc, Msc, P.hd r just the things of here, don't screw students out becos of degrees, there is another life after here please.
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(5) above all, any appearance of sin,,,lets all run away from it......
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Am also talking to my self....let live right friends

FynBabe:
Why exactly did she return to Abuja so quick?
According to custom and tradition, she should still remain in the village for at least 14 days.
Could it be because of her children's school?

Honestly, I am confused.
All those village elders ehn, God dey sha.
It is well o!

she didnt have children with the late pastor, a close family friend told me she was very saucy dunnoo hw true.

Am sure pastor enenche i know won't be a party to this if @ all this story is true.

This report is totally false, an absolute fabrication aim at tarnishing the Enenche family name.
All the Eneche family members I know are far richer than her late husband and has no reason what so ever to throw her out. That woman is Evil incarnation out to tanish the image of Enench family period. Who among the Enench family want to take over the church and for what reason?

There is God oooo, the person who collect this evil contract to tanish Enenche family name particularly Pastor Paul Enenche name should remember there is God oooo.

Why all the efforts to get any of the family members to comment is always failing in two of your seperate reports? Why IDOMA VOICE? there is God ooooh. How difficult it is to get Pastor Paul Enenche? What about Major General Enenche, and Evangelist Enenche. What about the Father who is a Traditional ruler what efforts did you make to get them that fails. IDOMA VOICE you pple can't get any of them to comment? There is God oooo

I have heard so much about them too from my mum's colleague as she's married to one.
Their customs are weird.
Let your sister be ready to submit her monthly salary against her wish all the time (the man can decide whether or not to give her from it),there are particular parts of a chicken she must keep for her husband if not, she will fall sick and die.
She MUST not cheat (this is easy to adhere to), if she does, she must confess else she risks loosing her male children and husband to unknown ailment.
Looking at my mum's colleague back then, you would never believe she went to school. She used to wear bathroom slippers to work, was trekking a very long distance and the dressing was zero all because she would have submitted her salary and the man was left with the decision of whether to give or not.
She said the husband wasn't giving her anything and she couldn't complain.
My mum said fellow women adviced her to be keeping part of the money for herself but she said the punishment for doing that was death.
My dear, these are the ones I can remember now because it was a very long time ago.

Coldfeet:
Please if you don't mind tell me more about the ogbadibo man, I have a sis who is currently dating one but the guys attitude is giving us concern. So many red flags and people who have heard/ seen him display always says the same thing! That ogbadibo men are like that. Please be kind to explain this for me as it's becoming too popular a phrase thank you.