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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by hUmaneOne: 9:48pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by mimee9(f): 9:48pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
I feel your pains and confusion, I was once in this situation, it disorganized me, I listened a lot to friends and today I regret my decision, things has never been okay with me, and I have never been able to forgive myself....so don't be like me 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Codeman01(m): 9:49pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
If I may get you right from the context of you story, he insisted you keep the baby while he is planning to marry is ex by December? Wow! Come off the childish game , it is a logical means of telling you to get rid of the pregnancy or you become a baby mama. Reason very well and conclude in what is best for you. 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Trust77: 9:49pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
Foolish girl keep it... Women and fvck are like Rice and stew |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by izzou(m): 9:50pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
Tinalex: I used to read your comments here on nairaland. They were quite brilliant But I don't understand what happened to you tonight Am disappointed sha 3 Likes |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by chineloSA(f): 9:50pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn: You drive or walk to a man's house. Take off your clothes. Take off your underwear. Get into his bed. Open your legs wider than 180 degrees. Do these steps repeatedly AND YOU CALL ALL THIS A MISTAKE!!!!!! Na wa ooooo 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by pheyimen: 9:50pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
God i hate dis cos its mess u got ursf in2. D God fearing part in me keep telin me its a sin 2 abort coz u might b killing next wizkid bt d street mind is sayin d step is nt goin 2 b easy. Ur mum cant kill ya coz its a 9month tin. Face it chick it might b ur 1st or last baby. 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 9:50pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
femi4:how many have I what? |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Jola58: 9:50pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
ur pregnancy might be the best thing & the happiest thing that might has ever happened to you, don't think of the trauma u are going to pass through or the stress... think of the consequence that might follow if u abort. don't even think about forcing yourself on the guy, take it as a cross that only you has to carry... think of the future, don't think of the present... lastly consult with the faith u acknowledge wish u all the best |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by WebSurfer(m): 9:51pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:honestly, I'm mad at you for that post. You should take it down |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by jessykings(f): 9:52pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:Like seriously?seriously? |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 9:53pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
Why not, if I was in her shoes my conscience will be very clear after the abortion and I will have peace OLUJOSHINS: 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by thedarkside: 9:53pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
twinskenny: you are naiv...i know,the woman always ends up alone with the child,struggling to survive... nigeria doesnt have any laws i know that punish irrespossible men like him.... 2 Likes |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 9:54pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Tosssin(m): 9:54pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
if you are considering an abortion there are 2 things involve, (1) its either you die during or after the abortion OR (2) your womb get damage 4ever, it does not matter if its your first abortion. Pls do not abort it, you dont know what that child might become in future. |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by TheManfromKenya: 9:54pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
Chubhie:lol |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by TheManfromKenya: 9:55pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
Chubhie:lol |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by pheyimen: 9:56pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
mimee9:i totaly understand u. GOD forgive us all 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 9:56pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
jessykings:Yes I'm serious |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by OLUJOSHINS(m): 9:56pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
naniawini: IT is not a rodent on Ur farm or a cockroach in Ur cupboard. IT is a HUMAN BEING. A happy baby with poppy cheeks, curly hair & a very loud cry. A living soul with the potentials to do exploits. My dear, don't be quick to condemn another human to a death sentence simply because U made a passionate mistake. Haa, Omo seriously, to marry theses 21st century ladies is actually scary ooooooo So if I make a mistake in my marriage, my wife will just wake up in the middle of the night & trust a knife into my enemies chest!!! |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by neocortex: 9:58pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
goingape1: So much hate just for a dissenting view ? It is hypocritical for a "sinner" to feel that he/she is better than other "sinners" 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by goingape1: 9:58pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
izzou:if her parents didn't brought her up the right way she would know that abortion is not an alternative to a solution. her parents is into this. |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 9:58pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
@ Tega4B : Keep the baby. When its born, give him up for adoption at an orphanage. Or make enquiries, do your research and find a couple looking for a baby to adopt. Even if you have to take it to littlesaintsorphanage.org and lie that you found the baby somewhere. Please do not abort the child. I also need you to examine the psychological effects the abortion will have on you. Depression, mental torture, and eventual suicide, etc often come as side effects of an abortion. Things like the baby's 'birthday' will disturb you for a long time. This is pure psychology I'm talking about here. I also suggest you watch a few abortion videos to know how its done, then decide if you want to carry through with it. Taking the easy way out never solves anything. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by neocortex: 9:59pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
goingape1: So much hate just for a dissenting view ? By their fruits , you shall know them 2 Likes |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 9:59pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
WebSurfer:I'm so sorry thatt you feel mad at my post but I have no power to take it down 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by madgoat(m): 10:00pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn: DEVIL. |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by maazikc: 10:00pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
This kind risk is always expected from desperate girls. |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 10:01pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:You're as crazy as your name. It's obvious...What if she dies in the process? What if that's the ONLY baby God has purposed for her life? If you were a man I would have been silent because women love children more than most irresponsible men do. SMH! |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 10:01pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
chineloSA:are you any better? Scratch that..... Are you perfect? |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by thedarkside: 10:01pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
TheManfromKenya: kenyan...ahhhhhhh.. i want to ask a question to a kenyan: why the hell are you kenyans sooo obsessesed in be better in something or whatever than nigerians??... do you want to be better than us in pisssing and shiiting too??..why are you people soo obsessed with nigerians??.. |
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