frank317:
says a man who cannot handle his wife. This man has no right to teach anything on marriage issues

ifenes:
And wife means servant?

donnie:


Your comprehension enh...

ifenes:


Why not explain! The husband is a master to whom? Christianity is so anti-women

yorhmienerd:


I disagree!!!

Twaci:
Is he trying to say we have no right to be opinionated when married?

We should agree to whatever our "masters" say?

This particular sermon is unsettling

Seun:
Religion and sexism are close pals. You cannot separate them from each other. Personally, I think it's shocking that all women are not atheists.

donnie:


Settle down, read the post again, you will find your answers and peace thereby.

[b]Husband does not mean the male partner in a marriage, husband means master. The reason for most problems in Christian marriages is the fact that women refute God’s definition of marriage and form theirs. They believe they are equal partners....

In marriage, you have the man who is the head of that union and because he’s the head of that union, its important to understand him. You think he’s the one that needs to understand his wife and that is where you are wrong. He will eventually but you have to know the type of man you are married to and his needs.When you say you are marrying a man, you are coming under his authority. The Bible says, the man is the head of the woman (1 Corinthians 11:3) so when you marry him you come under his authority, you are not authority sharers even though you are both heirs to the kingdom of God.When you decide not to subject yourself to that authority, you are a rebel and God is not going to accept what you are doing because you are not functioning correctly. [/b]

Twaci:




Oh I did...

I think you should too.

Is he trying to say this was what he expected of his exwife? Was that why they had issues?

I am not a feminist but I know darn right when something lacks reasoning. And this does....

HMZi:
Is this what happened to his marriage? Pastors should stick to the word of GOD and stop including additions of their own...yes the husband is the head of the house but master? is the woman the slave or servant?..

donnie:


He is not trying to say anything... A facebook page admin just decided to share one of the MOG's old messages.
As chriatians, we walk by faith, not by reason.

Topic: Who is a HUSBAND and What is His Role?
By Rev. Chris OyaKhilome Dsc DD

donnie:


So what Word of God are you sticking to and which one is the MOG adding? Can you be specific?

Seun:
Religion and sexism are close pals. You cannot separate them from each other. Personally, I think it's shocking that all women are not atheists.

donnie:
This post by Christ Embassy.Org Online Missions facebook page is causing heated debates...

FOR THE MARRIED WOMEN AND THOSE INTENDING TO GET MARRIED, LISTEN & TAKE HEED!!

Topic: Who is a HUSBAND and What is His Role?
By Rev. Chris OyaKhilome Dsc DD

Husband does not mean the male partner in a marriage, husband means master. The reason for most problems in Christian marriages is the fact that women refute God’s definition of marriage and form theirs. They believe they are equal partners. If most women had their fathers bold enough to talk to them, they will be very successful in their marriage and they will be very happy people. Most women have never been taught by their parents, their fathers particularly and that’s their biggest problem because they don’t know who a man is, they think he is another woman.

In marriage, you have the man who is the head of that union and because he’s the head of that union, its important to understand him. You think he’s the one that needs to understand his wife and that is where you are wrong. He will eventually but you have to know the type of man you are married to and his needs.When you say you are marrying a man, you are coming under his authority. The Bible says, the man is the head of the woman (1 Corinthians 11:3) so when you marry him you come under his authority, you are not authority sharers even though you are both heirs to the kingdom of God.When you decide not to subject yourself to that authority, you are a rebel and God is not going to accept what you are doing because you are not functioning correctly.

Why did God make the woman?Making woman was not God’s original plan because after God created Adam and before He made Eve, He said in Genesis 1:31 “Then God looked over all he had made, and he saw that it was very good”. God made woman because of man so woman was not His original idea. This is reality.Genesis 2:18a “And the Lord God said “for it is not good for a man to be alone..” The Bible didn’t say “lonely” but “alone”. There is a big difference. Man wasn’t lonely but alone. Genesis 2:18b “…I will make him an help meet”. He didn’t say a partner or a supervisor or a special advisor or someone to tell him what to do.I will make him someone to help him. God gave man a responsibility so woman was made to help man achieve that responsibility. If this is understood in every home then you won’t have problems.I tell people that you don’t need a marriage seminar, you need the Word Seminar.

Let me tell you, no husband wants another mother, he has had one all his life. He doesn’t want an older sister, he probably had one.Your secret is in obedience, your secret is in listening to your husband, your secret is in doing the things that please him. When you don’t do the things that please him, you take the role of a mother or of an older sister. A man loves the one he serves (God) and the one that serves him (a good wife). He fights the one that wants to be at the same level with him (a rebellious wife).

To be happy in your family and home is the easiest thing in the world, just take your role. Take your place. That place that God gave you is a beautiful place. Its a place of peace. Its a place of love. It’s a place of excellence.Every wise person listens to wise voices (advice) but he listens to a wise voice that is presented wisely. Everyone rebels against the voice that is trying to make a fool out of him. When you want to correct your husband, don’t lord it over him,present it as a wise suggestion. Humble yourself and be smart. A wise woman will always be an influence to her husband, the foolish one will always annoy the husband, make him mad, make him angry and when you make him angry, you will be the victim.

Learn to listen to your husband, practice it, tell yourself that you are going to do it because that is where your beauty is.Once you stop listening, your beauty evaporates. You wonder why you are dressing and he can’t see it, he doesn’t remember your last hair style. Beauty is in obedience. That’s where the Glory is

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Donnie: I agree with you Man of God! The bible is clear. Too much western influence among christians these days...
PS: Before you begin to run your mouth, these are excerpts from Pastor Chris' Teaching several years ago and not an off-shoot of anything


After reading this many ladies who are in a hurry to marry will slow down and pray to God for the right man.

Seun:
Religion and sexism are close pals. You cannot separate them from each other. Personally, I think it's shocking that all women are not atheists.

Seun:
Religion and sexism are close pals. You cannot separate them from each other. Personally, I think it's shocking that all women are not atheists.

Twaci:
Is he trying to say we have no right to be opinionated when married?

We should agree to whatever our "masters" say?

This particular sermon is unsettling

THE STORY LINE IS, ALL WIVES ARE SLAVES (LIKE THE HOUSEMAIDS IN NOLLYWOOD MOVIES, YOU KNOW HOW THEM LOOK LIKE NAH.. )

ifenes:

So what is it then? You agree the husband is the woman's master?

Twaci:




Oh I did...

I think you should too.

Is he trying to say this was what he had expected of his exwife? Was that why they had issues?

I am not a feminist but I know darn right when something lacks reasoning. And this does....

chisco82:

If u re not a femnist you out to have seen where he said a woman is a helper.

Greatzeus:
Just like Adeboye said,his teachings on marriage is not for everybody.Even so what Pastor Chris is saying is not for everybody.
So no need to work yourself up,his message is for Christians,whose sole authority in all matters of life is the Holy Bible.Those who wants to please God,not some bunch of hypocrites who hide behind their Phones and PC to spew trash at those they will never ever measure up to in life.
They will soon come and pour out their frustration on life and personal failure on Pastor Chris,the way they did on Pastor Adeboye's advice on marriage.

HMZi:
oga i no get energy 4 endless banter,so u go figure out the 'word' his adding.

yorhmienerd:


I disagree that Christainity is anti-women like you proclaimed.
Marraige is not about one master, one servant. It is all about 'partnership'

ifenes:


What religion said a woman should be silent? What did my Christ Embassy mean by a husband is the master? You have failed to answer the question so far.

donnie:


The woman should be silent, not disturbing the meeting trying to talk to her husband (women and men sat seperately those days). She should rather wait till they get home., then she can go on and on talking, "ehen my Lord, did you see so so and so's wife, hmmm hypocrite woman..."