Chaulay1:
@AlphaHandmaiden, thanks for your response. Yes I need to let somethings such as this slide but it hurts. I have to do a review of my activities.

In church, I belong to a unit where I have to stand for most part of the service. So LO still end up being with my help as I can't carry her while on duty. A couple of times that I sit with her, my HOD begs that I hand her to my help as we are very few in my unit. I'll have to look for a way to handle this.

Hmm... may God help me.

Chaulay1:
@AlphaHandmaiden, thanks for your response. Yes I need to let somethings such as this slide but it hurts. I have to do a review of my activities.

In church, I belong to a unit where I have to stand for most part of the service. So LO still end up being with my help as I can't carry her while on duty. A couple of times that I sit with her, my HOD begs that I hand her to my help as we are very few in my unit. I'll have to look for a way to handle this.

Hmm... may God help me.

dexterush:

Mam Tchiwinnie,I stay on okota road, so I will like to join the group too

Onegai:


Madam it is N2500 o. I usually tell him who will contact him so please mention me when you are speaking to him because I negotiated with him to give us lower shipping rates when he could. So if you call him now, he is expecting to speak to Tojued and will agree to N2500 (hopefully).

Chaulay1:
Hello mothers in the house, I will appreciate your advice on this issue. I also want to believe that I may not be the only one experiencing it, so mothers who have been there, how did you handle it.

I am a working mum and on the average I leave home 7am to come back 7pm. Hence, I have a stay-in help who I leave my baby with while I work. LO is now 9months.
On weekends, I have more time with LO and my older daughter but I also have other things to attend to - market, cooking, sometimes salon, outings etc. My Sunday self is busy with church activities. I also juggle work, family with studies.

Most times, when I get back from work I feel bad and guilty for my kids for leaving them in the care of someone else. But I have no option for now than to work, for the family's survival.

You can imagine how bad I felt when I overheard my help telling some people in church that my LO is very attached to her than to anyone else including me. My help is about 26years.
Should I be worried that she is getting attached to someone else other than her parent?

tchiwinnie:
Ok ma, that makes 3 of us. can't even rmbr who d 3rd person is again.

rofemiguwa:
Kidco jus delivered.hehehehe
It so happens that the books are all different. No 2 books with same title.
Then some are for older kids like 3,4,5
Some are for younger kids
Some are jus drawings and few words.

My issue is how do we share it witout either party feeling Cheated.

Do we all meet and do ballot system.u pick n i pick.till it is all shared.

Or will u guys trust me to just share accordingly. I will be using same random selection method.

Please lets decide here.

Cc clas captain onegai
Rhukie
Adeime
Cutiereborn.
Annoymous mama. Maybe u shud get a monicker or if we decide, am sure u will be reading through.


Pls reply my yaba mamas

AlphaHandMaiden:


Lucky dip!

Put the books in a pillowcase and everyone close eye and pick one in turns till e finish.

If 2 people want to exchange afterwards fine...

It just means you all have to be present

Pretimum:
Good evening mamas.

So I think am down with "Apollo" don't know how but my eye is painfully itchy, watery, swollen and red.

Question is, how do I prevent lo from being infected, she's 6months and I don't have help. It's just two of us once hubby leaves in the morning.

Thank you for your responses.

sayoddy:
I'll like to join okota axis as I stay in ejigbo. how much are we contributing.

Onegai:
How did he arrange it? Pics please? At Rofemiguwa

PresVA:
Mamas that use shea butter/coconut oil/olive oil and the likes as cream for their LOs.. how do you achieve that nice smell a baby should have? Cos I don't think shea butter et al can give that 'babylike' smell...

Do you add anything to your shea butter to make it smell nice?

I add Lander oil to it, its a foreign oil. I use baby pears oil for his head/hair, so he always smell nice. Most important thing is for baby to be neat, no body odour.
Thanks

fabmum:


Alright ma, d three of us are ready but mama @imurboss hasn't said anything yet about payment.. Please we are waiting to hear from u so we can all make payment and get our books soon... Thanks

Chaulay1:
@AlphaHandmaiden, thanks for your response. Yes I need to let somethings such as this slide but it hurts. I have to do a review of my activities.

In church, I belong to a unit where I have to stand for most part of the service. So LO still end up being with my help as I can't carry her while on duty. A couple of times that I sit with her, my HOD begs that I hand her to my help as we are very few in my unit. I'll have to look for a way to handle this.

Hmm... may God help me.

Onegai:
Comtem2011, I think tetmosol is antibacterial but with a different active ingredient. Just because I wouldn't want baby getting immune to that antibiotic I probably wouldn't use it

Eolowu1, if your baby is ebf right now there is no need for water. If you are doing combination feeding (BM and formula), maybe a little bit of water if you notice hard stool. I have no idea about Ilorin prices but why not try regular Dove soap classic and keep it out of his eyes?

XX01 contact the other moms in your group and decide who will collect payment and collect books for sharing.

Dunnybaby, we use Boots but Lord knows I don't trust it. We can actually whip up some lotion o. Or try Eucerin (though it's pricey everyone can use it). I'll ask the derma-doctor and see what he says.

comtem2011:
I add Lander oil to it, its a foreign oil. I use baby pears oil for his head/hair, so he always smell nice. Most important thing is for baby to be neat, no body odour.
Thanks smiley

imurboss:


Yes, i was actually waiting to see if we could make up to 4 or 5 mamas at least to reduce the cost but i don't know if we've made up to that number yet. Also, i want to know if kidco has responded to you on the singing books, i was thinking it would be better to have the singing books if the price is reasonable before i decide.Thanks

PresVA:
You mean lavender oil?
Yes, baby won't have body odour but I like that 'babylike' smell....

Mamas, please what harmless fragrance/oil can one add to shea butter to get some nice smell?

olaoyekemi:

@ ma'am tojued hope am not too late.am interested in the book stuff.will like to join nassarawa mum since I stay @ one man village

fabmum:


We are four presently but kidco hasn't responded yet to my question... I for one wuld prefer d singing n pop up books... My baby is less Dan a year and I wouldn't want books for older kids as I intend to use now and not later tinz....

PresVA:
Mamas that use shea butter/coconut oil/olive oil and the likes as cream for their LOs.. how do you achieve that nice smell a baby should have? Cos I don't think shea butter et al can give that 'babylike' smell...

Do you add anything to your shea butter to make it smell nice?

Thanks

PresVA:
You mean lavender oil?
Yes, baby won't have body odour but I like that 'babylike' smell....

Mamas, please what harmless fragrance/oil can one add to shea butter to get some nice smell?