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Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by ayokunlei(m): 11:13pm On Sep 09, 2016
STENON:
We detest cheating.

Scholar
Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by fisayo02(m): 11:14pm On Sep 09, 2016
AwesomeHIM:
Do you really think that your girl has never lied to you? You could be wrong. Even the most sincere girlfriend hides many of her feelings and thoughts from her life partner. There are so many things that they think and dream about but never say.

Women have their deepest secrets that they won’t share with you –never ever. Their wild fantasies, hidden fears, past lovers, unshared longings, insecurities; these are some of the forbidden secrets of females that they won’t tell you.

Even if you men try hard, you can never dig down what lies in the deepest corner of her heart. You can never figure out what is going on inside her mind. So, you’re better off not trying. It’s not that I am accusing women of betrayal and infidelity. They can be truly and sincerely in love with you, but at the same time, they won’t give you access to their secret chamber.

Here are six secrets that your girlfriend won’t let you know ever.

1. They Like To Be Chased

Yes, it is a fact. Women like to be chased. They want their ‘man’ to chase her, willing to do everything to get her. Girls just love this feeling that they are that much important for a man.

It’s not that, girls just want to be chased and not caught, but they don’t want that feeling to go away, even after they are caught by their ‘right man’.

Women want men to woo them. They don’t want to get trapped by some insincere person. So, before quitting this chase game and before submitting themselves, they really want to make sure that the person has what it takes to be their ‘right guy’.

2. They Love It When You Are Jealous

Your girlfriend will never give you an idea of how much she loves the look on your face when you are jealous. They are not looking for a crazy maniac jealous man, but someone who is possessive about them.

If you find your girl flirting lightly with a dashing guy in a party or at the bar, she just wants to hear ‘you are mine’ from you. Yes, these women do have this twisted idea of winning their guy by flirting with others.

Once you tell them about your feeling of jealousy they will come running to you happy and satisfied. They have achieved what they wanted from their flirting game.

3. They Send Out Mixed Signals

It is one of the most complexed traits of women. They are communicators, but you have to be very vigilant to read between the lines when communicating with your girlfriend.

If they say they are ‘OK’, it is mostly the other way around. Women do send out mixed signals and they want their man to figure it out on his own. It can be their psychology, hormones or nature; but women are like this.

If you sense a problem, ask her and if her answer is a brief sentence like ‘I am fine’, or ‘I’m just okay’, then gear yourself up because there is something wrong, for sure. And the main issue is she will not let you know what the actual problem is. She wants you to figure it out and then deal with it.

Mostly, women want their significant other to put in the effort to get her to talk about her issues. Dig deep, get connected with her at a deeper level, only then you will be really communicating with her.

Women are made this way and they can’t help it. So, you need to work on this to make your relationship strong and successful.

4. Her Bestie Knows Everything

That is another forbidden secret. Girls share each and every detail of their relationship with their best friends. Their besties know everything, literally everything.

Many men will get offended with this idea, but that’s how it is. Women need to confide into their besties. It is their nature. Your girlfriend’s bestie will know all her secrets, her past relationships, how she is getting along with you, means each and everything. And of course, she is not going to let you have an idea what details she has shared with her bestie. Even if your girlfriend is about to breakup with you, her bestie would know much much before you.

If you are planning to talk to her bestie about your girlfriend’s past or about her relationship with you, hold it right there. She is your girlfriend’s bestie, not yours.

5. They Feel Insecure

Insecurity is a built-in feeling that every girl has. Girls always feel insecure that their man might fall for another girl. They might never let you know how they feel when you are in close interaction with other girls, but they do feel insecure.

And don’t ever try to play the ‘jealous game’ with your girlfriend. She will be more insecure in her relationship with you. Don’t pay more attention to any other girl/woman than you do to your girlfriend. Never ever give too many compliments or positive remarks about another girl in front of your girl. She is definitely not going to like it.

6. They Compare It All With The Ex

Consciously or unconsciously, women are always comparing their present love with their ex. They take ages to get over their ex boyfriends. But definitely, she is not going to let you have an idea about this, ever.
Women do realise that past relationships need to be forgotten in order to move on with life. They usually forgive their exes but can’t help forgetting the details about him and their relationship with him. They are constantly comparing their present relationship and their life partner with their ex, and most of the time it is you who wins, but they can’t just help comparing the two of you.

Ladies add on if there are more!

Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by Nobody: 11:14pm On Sep 09, 2016
Zedoo:

That will still be spent on pvsse.
Not necessarily.
Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by Kyllahmc(m): 11:15pm On Sep 09, 2016
Nobody get time for girls and their confused nature now

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Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by Nobody: 11:16pm On Sep 09, 2016
Richiy:
That bestie part ehhh...


So true embarassed
What's true about it?.
My bestie doesn't know all my secrets.
Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by femi4: 11:16pm On Sep 09, 2016
Richiy:


I have two besties. I met them in my first year, 5 years ago.

I never chose them, but after seeing how well we complement each other, we kinda stuck together and we are still sticking together till date. It has its ups and downs, but it has been amazing so far. I cannot begin to say how much we have done for each other. No jokes.
That's one aspect you ladies can't do without.
Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by Richiy(f): 11:17pm On Sep 09, 2016
asuo27:
What's true about it?.
My bestie doesn't know all my secrets.

Of course nobody knows all your secrets except you na.

But bestie will know a lot too. Both the ones you tell her and the ones she found through unlimited aproko. Hehehe

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Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by Richiy(f): 11:18pm On Sep 09, 2016
femi4:
That's one aspect you ladies can't do without.

Boys have come and gone...but my besties still remains. embarassed
Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by Nobody: 11:20pm On Sep 09, 2016
Richiy:


Of course nobody knows all your secrets except you na.

But bestie will know a lot too. Both the ones you tell her and the ones she found through unlimited aproko. Hehehe
That's why i can't tell her all my secrets(aproko).
Girls are likely to back bite each other no matter the level of friendship, can't take it. grin

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Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by Igbaba2: 11:20pm On Sep 09, 2016
dat no., 1, if u try it wt me, i'm gone. No tym to check tym. Its a symbiotic thing. Lol!

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Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by Nobody: 11:23pm On Sep 09, 2016
Wizkid dey chase girls?
Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by Fash20: 11:23pm On Sep 09, 2016
I don't have a G friend. So what undecided
Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by Richiy(f): 11:24pm On Sep 09, 2016
asuo27:
That's why i can't tell her all my secrets(aproko).
Girls are likely to back bite each other no matter the level of friendship, can't take it. grin

I wouldn't say all sha. Because the ones I have are quite mature in the brain.

Still on still, never expose anything dark to anybody. Just keep it and die with it. If you must talk about it, find an online boyfriend. Una no go ever meet grin

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Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by Laredojohn(m): 11:24pm On Sep 09, 2016
Some quite true...
Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by Sofan(m): 11:25pm On Sep 09, 2016
Ladies and Gentlemen... True or false? cool
Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by STENON(f): 11:26pm On Sep 09, 2016
ayokunlei:

Scholar
Double respect to my boss! Goodevening and happy weekend to you.

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Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by Nobody: 11:30pm On Sep 09, 2016
Richiy:


I wouldn't say all sha. Because the ones I have are quite mature in the brain.

Still on still, never expose anything dark to anybody. Just keep it and die with it. If you must talk about it, find an online boyfriend. Una no go ever meet grin
So now we've arrived at the same point. grin
Used to have this bestie, very pretty girl, we just met in school and blended in terms of character and intellects, we do team work to pass exams. I loved her and we were open to each other, i noticed when i'm out she will mingle with the Queen bees and when i'm coming back they will suddenly be looking at me in a funny manner.
Girls wahala are too much, i prefer the guys rather. grin

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Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by Nobody: 11:32pm On Sep 09, 2016
And who cares about what she wants or what she's thinking,,
JUST KEEP YOUR KITTY NEAT FOR ME ALWAYSgrin

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Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by Senorprinz(m): 11:36pm On Sep 09, 2016
@op
let me tell you some real secrets.
1) Nigeria is in Africa (bet you're shocked to hear that)
2)cocks dont lay eggs (that shocked me too when i heard it)
3) women love gossip (no! this can't be true)
4) the river niger is a river (mhen! i used to think it was a mountain range)
5) sedimentary rocks are formed by sediments (i was flabbergasted when i heard this one)
shhhh! don't tell anyone, these are top illuminati secrets.

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Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by viktor01(m): 11:37pm On Sep 09, 2016
Tell me about the recession in naija jor.
Love is worthless when there is no food in the belly.

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Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by freddaboh(m): 11:37pm On Sep 09, 2016
AwesomeHIM:
Do you really think that your girl has never lied to you? You could be wrong. Even the most sincere girlfriend hides many of her feelings and thoughts from her life partner. There are so many things that they think and dream about but never say.

Women have their deepest secrets that they won’t share with you –never ever. Their wild fantasies, hidden fears, past lovers, unshared longings, insecurities; these are some of the forbidden secrets of females that they won’t tell you.

Even if you men try hard, you can never dig down what lies in the deepest corner of her heart. You can never figure out what is going on inside her mind. So, you’re better off not trying. It’s not that I am accusing women of betrayal and infidelity. They can be truly and sincerely in love with you, but at the same time, they won’t give you access to their secret chamber.

Here are six secrets that your girlfriend won’t let you know ever.

1. They Like To Be Chased

Yes, it is a fact. Women like to be chased. They want their ‘man’ to chase her, willing to do everything to get her. Girls just love this feeling that they are that much important for a man.

It’s not that, girls just want to be chased and not caught, but they don’t want that feeling to go away, even after they are caught by their ‘right man’.

Women want men to woo them. They don’t want to get trapped by some insincere person. So, before quitting this chase game and before submitting themselves, they really want to make sure that the person has what it takes to be their ‘right guy’.

2. They Love It When You Are Jealous

Your girlfriend will never give you an idea of how much she loves the look on your face when you are jealous. They are not looking for a crazy maniac jealous man, but someone who is possessive about them.

If you find your girl flirting lightly with a dashing guy in a party or at the bar, she just wants to hear ‘you are mine’ from you. Yes, these women do have this twisted idea of winning their guy by flirting with others.

Once you tell them about your feeling of jealousy they will come running to you happy and satisfied. They have achieved what they wanted from their flirting game.

3. They Send Out Mixed Signals

It is one of the most complexed traits of women. They are communicators, but you have to be very vigilant to read between the lines when communicating with your girlfriend.

If they say they are ‘OK’, it is mostly the other way around. Women do send out mixed signals and they want their man to figure it out on his own. It can be their psychology, hormones or nature; but women are like this.

If you sense a problem, ask her and if her answer is a brief sentence like ‘I am fine’, or ‘I’m just okay’, then gear yourself up because there is something wrong, for sure. And the main issue is she will not let you know what the actual problem is. She wants you to figure it out and then deal with it.

Mostly, women want their significant other to put in the effort to get her to talk about her issues. Dig deep, get connected with her at a deeper level, only then you will be really communicating with her.

Women are made this way and they can’t help it. So, you need to work on this to make your relationship strong and successful.

4. Her Bestie Knows Everything

That is another forbidden secret. Girls share each and every detail of their relationship with their best friends. Their besties know everything, literally everything.

Many men will get offended with this idea, but that’s how it is. Women need to confide into their besties. It is their nature. Your girlfriend’s bestie will know all her secrets, her past relationships, how she is getting along with you, means each and everything. And of course, she is not going to let you have an idea what details she has shared with her bestie. Even if your girlfriend is about to breakup with you, her bestie would know much much before you.

If you are planning to talk to her bestie about your girlfriend’s past or about her relationship with you, hold it right there. She is your girlfriend’s bestie, not yours.

5. They Feel Insecure

Insecurity is a built-in feeling that every girl has. Girls always feel insecure that their man might fall for another girl. They might never let you know how they feel when you are in close interaction with other girls, but they do feel insecure.

And don’t ever try to play the ‘jealous game’ with your girlfriend. She will be more insecure in her relationship with you. Don’t pay more attention to any other girl/woman than you do to your girlfriend. Never ever give too many compliments or positive remarks about another girl in front of your girl. She is definitely not going to like it.

6. They Compare It All With The Ex

Consciously or unconsciously, women are always comparing their present love with their ex. They take ages to get over their ex boyfriends. But definitely, she is not going to let you have an idea about this, ever.
Women do realise that past relationships need to be forgotten in order to move on with life. They usually forgive their exes but can’t help forgetting the details about him and their relationship with him. They are constantly comparing their present relationship and their life partner with their ex, and most of the time it is you who wins, but they can’t just help comparing the two of you.

Ladies add on if there are more!


Right on point
Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by babyfaceafrica: 11:38pm On Sep 09, 2016
Lolz....if you have money..forget these rules..naija gals will run after you

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Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by HMZi: 11:43pm On Sep 09, 2016
No 6.. Ene( of my last beta r/ship) was doing that when we just started dating,but some gud loving and sex made her stop...it is like that o...we live to die 4 these girls,how we go do?
Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by HMZi: 11:44pm On Sep 09, 2016
babyfaceafrica:
Lolz....if you have money..forget these rules..naija gals will run after you
true
Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by mathong: 11:47pm On Sep 09, 2016
ahah you've made people scroll up to look at No.6 again


nice1 sha
beautiful232:
that number 6 is so me


But ah will change

number 4 is a big lie

Cause my bestie don't know all bout me
Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by dheolexaone(f): 11:47pm On Sep 09, 2016
Every ladies out there must possess all this in one way or the other. Buh @OP,that no 2 & 4 gat me tho.
Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by iyke649(m): 11:49pm On Sep 09, 2016
[quote author=beautiful232 post=49223234]that number 6 is so me


But ah will change

number 4 is a big lie

Cause my bestie don't know all bout me[/qquote
So you used to compare me with ur Ex, undecided undecided undecided eh? IT'S OVER embarassed
Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by outstandingsyll(f): 11:52pm On Sep 09, 2016
Please call my cute friend Chris, its his birthday and will be his last cos he has cancer 08090833733. God bless you!
Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by mathong: 11:54pm On Sep 09, 2016
lol[quote author=iyke649 post=49224481][/quote]
Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by kinibigdeal(m): 11:55pm On Sep 09, 2016
So this is what Aminat508 wont tell me
Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by hottestberry08(f): 11:55pm On Sep 09, 2016
So tru!
Re: SIX Secrets That Your Girlfriend Won’t Let You. by muareal: 11:56pm On Sep 09, 2016
I'm here just to say good night

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