joseph1832:
No be their fault, na hungry cause am. Remember the economy is bad.

stuffs4me:


Isn't that what they all say?

JustHere2Observ:
If you are not ready to have sex with him, then dont. He should respect your decision not to have sex until marriage whether you are a virgin or not, so my advice if you dont want to dont do it.

finalboss:
lols.. why u dey call me badoo.. lols... i only typed i love this them give me 3 months ban

KingCheezyPuff:
That's really disgusting advice
Is that what you would do 2 a woman who denyed you?

CrazyQuinn:
I really don't understand why girls will allow a guy to take care of your needs financially and emotionally

JustHere2Observ:
If you are not ready to have sex with him, then dont. He should respect your decision not to have sex until marriage whether you are a virgin or not, so my advice if you dont want to dont do it.

Oliviaarims:
If truly you've resolutely decided to abstain, the need to create this thread wouldn't have arisen. Your resolve isn't strong enough, you're having second thoughts and that's where you've begun to lose the battle.

Abstinence is good. Don't allow anyone tell you that because you're no longer a virgin, you must continue indulging in premarital sex.

Dshocker:


I went to my oxford & longman dictionary,and both of em are saying the same thing....Wickedness & greediness


Babe you wicked & greedy

Mustack:

Guy don't decide like that.. I have this girl that i love and i want her as my future inhabitant after i gave my sweet dick but what happen she left me broken into pieces. So girl if he cant wait let loose and run.

herald9:

Erm.. But really, in what ways do ladies contribute to a relationship?

Masterclass32:
Op, its encouraging that people like u still exist.

Stick to your principle and DON'T back down. If he loves you, he will wait. If u give him this thing, he might just chop, clean mouth and take off.

It might hurt to lose someone u love on that ground. Remember u can't lose what's truly yours. If this is the only reason he's acting up, allow him to act 'act down' too. He's not worth your time.

Talking (abi typing) from experience.

oluwalewis:
GIVE AND IT SHALL BE GIVEN UNTO U.
this issue of sex wouldn't b a debate if u have sth tangible to offer him.
The guy has obviously realised u av nth to offer him except sex,if nt he wouldn't pester u.

Oluwalosheleyi:
STAND BY YOUR DECISION GIRL.even if this post is a super story cooked up by you,another girl can still gain from it.but lets just imagine its real,you cant get so attached to a guy,no one is irreplaceable,try to convince him to share your beliefs and if he doesn't change move on,maybe you were not meant to be,what if you marry him and he dies shortly afterwards? shiat happens sis,get ready to let go. I have a similar problem; most girls want to roll in the hay nowadays before marraige or they dont take you serious and I swore an oath to God to refrain from sex years ago and its been so tough but i've discovered i am stronger than i thought.

VikingsOO7:
Sex is overrated. Tell him You've made up Your mind- No sex till marriage. If he's still pushing it, kindly end the relationship and stop collecting his money.

stuffs4me:



What is encouraging about a parasitic girl that is in a relationship to drain a guy's pocket. Why must nearly every Nigerian girl feel she must have her own personal maga.
Did you even read her stvpid post at all?

Finally, I don't think this story is true because the OP claimed this was her first thread on Nairaland, but if you check her profile, you will discover she has been creating threads since March this year.

thekingisback:
except sex, what else do most these biitches have to offer?

thekingisback:
and she should equally return all the ones she has eaten. Seriously it's cos of people like you that's why girls continue to take us for a ride.

VikingsOO7:

Sex is overrated. There is more to life than just sex.

oluwalewis:


I once had same ideology but realised i was wrong. When u meet a special lady that is more insightful,independent,luvin, in summary,UR SOOTHING WIFE MATERIAL,u wldnt b bothered when she says no cos u wld b more concerned about u buildin a future.

I don't mean d OP isn't a wife material but it's obvious she isn't the guy's definition of a wife material.

thekingisback:
same way money is not everything.

You're the one clamouring for her to return all what she has eaten(money). And You're admitting money is not everything.

Masterclass32:


You, detective, you've already snooped on her.

Whether the gist ist true or false may not matter, another person going through such might still be encouraged by my submission. These things happen on a daily.

Talking about favours and draining, what if the girl had also done him some favours too? (gifts on his birthday or some other favours), how does he pay back? It cuts both ways, remember?

If they are going to part ways based solely on the sex issue, then so be it.

KingCheezyPuff:
I think this is the 1st time I've seen you comment on a personal issue
......terrible advice you give.
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Is she a proustite that his favors buy sex with her?
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KingCheezyPuff:
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you males are hung up on the lack of sex and she has a real issue she needs assistance with.
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You are celibate and you should have told him so early on in the relationship so he'd know what it'd be like in a relationship with you.
Tell yer suitors in future you are celibate and will not engage in sex until marriage.
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I suggest you find a man with like more nd or 1 who's willing 2 be celibate for the duration of yer relationship together.
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As for the man you are with
There isn't much 2 do .
You've let him know where you stand he will ether stay or go
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If he does go......it's not the end.
There are other men .

VikingsOO7:
You've said it all.

VikingsOO7:

You're the one clamouring for her to return all what she has eaten(money). And You're admitting money is not everything.