There have been different stories about abstinence . But what about a situation where a girl claims to abstain from sex till marriage meanwhile she's not a Virgin.

The only reason I believe a girl can be innocent as a non-virgin is if she was a victim of rape. But in this case let's put aside girls loosing their virginity to rape.

A girl grants consent and lost her virginity then later claims abstinence till marriage. Yes! Very few girls in this light would really mean it, but as for we guys, it would be pretty difficult to believe that a girl that willingly gave out her virginity would want to deny us sex. It's pretty hard for we guys to believe that. If a girl is a virgin, any guy would believe but when not, you can't vouch for her if u hear stories from outside, after all she ain't a virgin, so that should give her the license to swallow any pencil, hook ,line and sinker without much resistance. So it would be like, Hope m not a mugu? Hope another guy ain't drilling this saint outside?? Since its pretty much more difficult for a guy to abstain due to the way we are wired.

I'm know some guys would have fallen into this category and believed the girl, only to find out later that she's chopping ' kondo' outside . A close friend of mine once confided in me and told me how much he loved his babe and sworn not to touch her till marriage, but shockingly after years of courtship, the girl got pregnant under his nose . To worsen the case, at some point before her holy pregnancy, they were cohabiting. Bt my guy never for once touched her, and was hoping to keep her till marriage. This is someone I know very well, he's a good abstainer and a devoted muslim as such but he paid dearly for it.

So, what should guys do if girls say no collabo till wedding night and she ain't a V

Choice bro, their choice and decision. It is now left for guys to accept or systematically withdraw

It's all choice.

no they mind them jare.. God punish "no sex till marriage"

Bs

Abstinence is still the very best policy if you can.

I hate virgins, claim u are a virgin, i will delete ur number, after eating my money u will be claiming virginity, thunder scatter ur pu§§y

So you trying to say a girl can't decide to abstain from sex

I don't know why y'all see it that way but its very possible, that one lost her virginity doesn't mean she'll continue _fucking till the dayy she gets to her husband's house.

Anyways its all about having sex with the right guy and not humping on every dick.

If she is not ready?

If your a virgin you're lying if you're not your a slut . SMH

Zceesneh:
I hate virgins, claim u are a virgin, i will delete ur number, after eating my money u will be claiming virginity, thunder scatter ur pu§§y

You're an idiot. Which money do you have? Broke asses be making noise upandan

Joy1706:

You're an idiot. Which money do you have? Broke asses be making noise upandan

don't quote me again

How sure are you she's a virgin for real and is not doing other guys if she told you she is a virgin? It's this type of mentality that makes ladies lie about their status

What of cases where they both have sex yet the guy impregnates someone else?

The choice is all yours to believe or walk away. If you find it difficult to believe, walk away, pls, do not pester her to go back to an act she has chosen to stay away from.

Beamborla:
How sure are you she's a virgin for real and is not doing other guys if she told you she is a virgin? It's this type of mentality that makes ladies lie about their status

What of cases where they both have sex yet the guy impregnates someone else?

The choice is all yours to believe or walk away. If you find it difficult to believe, walk away, pls, do not pester her to go back to an act she has chosen to stay away from.

preach, sister


#teamweddingnight.

Emodeee:






preach, sister


#teamweddingnight.

Lol... You've been hiding where?

Lmao.. funny conments.

CaroLyner:
Abstinence is still the very best policy if you can.

lol

Laveda:
So you trying to say a girl can't decide to abstain from sex

I don't know why y'all see it that way but its very possible, that one lost her virginity doesn't mean she'll continue _fucking till the dayy she gets to her husband's house.

Anyways its all about having sex with the right guy and not humping on every dick.

nope! U seem not to understand my point, except for rape, we guys can't be rest assured that a non-virgin will court with a guy for lyk 3 yrs and claim abstinence, of course the guy must av asked how she lost her virginity but what would make her not want the sex anymore? And would make the guy stay clear

Haba ! Beamborla quite an age! For sure has a guy, u will know if he ain't a virgin nw, of course u should av touched d place to see it sealed then u confirm . U r ryt it's choice

Beamborla:
How sure are you she's a virgin for real and is not doing other guys if she told you she is a virgin? It's this type of mentality that makes ladies lie about their status

What of cases where they both have sex yet the guy impregnates someone else?

The choice is all yours to believe or walk away. If you find it difficult to believe, walk away, pls, do not pester her to go back to an act she has chosen to stay away from.

just don't mind them and do your thing

jennyidem:
If your a virgin you're lying if you're not your a slut . SMH

jaybillionaire:
Haba ! Beamborla quite an age! For sure has a guy, u will know if he ain't a virgin nw, of course u should av touched d place to see it sealed then u confirm . U r ryt it's choice

Look at yew

You want to finger her to know if she's a virgin or not

jaybillionaire:

So, what should guys do if girls say no collabo till wedding night and she ain't a V

You either accept her terms or quit, very simple.

CaroLyner:
Abstinence is still the very best policy if you can.

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Beamborla:

Lol... You've been hiding where?

my love. I've been around. Why would i hide from my love? I see you and your intelligent contributions.

Emodeee:





my love. I've been around. Why would i hide from my love? I see you and your intelligent contributions.

Ghost mode abi

Beamborla:

Ghost mode abi

yeah, though i ain't trynna be olamide and phyno. So how are you, my love? Hope you are enjoying kd?

Emodeee:



yeah, though i ain't trynna be olamide and phyno. So how are you, my love? Hope you are enjoying kd?

Yeah, KD is fine. Save for the landslide upandan

Beamborla:

Yeah, KD is fine. Save for the landslide upandan

dats good. when will you be rounding up? Hope those guys wey dey your secretariat dem hijack you from me?

Beamborla:

Look at yew

You want to finger her to know if she's a virgin or not

Yup now, or place d stick thr to kiss d unit n feel if it's sealed

Joy1706:

You're an idiot. Which money do you have? Broke asses be making noise upandan

lmaooo
I like this response

her life
her choice
her decision

you don't like it, you are not comfortable with it, take a walk instead of doubting her motives.