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Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 10:51pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Spitting on someone is very very very demeaning. It's a big insult. Very sad indeed. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by RedCapChief(m): 10:51pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Miladi: You've got to be kidding. The op was at no fault whatsoever. He demonstrated no prejudice, rather even going the extra mile to push for peace His wife is clearly somebody with unsettled issues. You just want to tell everybody you know the meaning of 'fracas' 27 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by lomaxbien(m): 10:52pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Give her the silent treatment...it works like magic,she spits on u,just smile and walk away,if you don't react,then she doesn't know what you have in mind and that will make her super uncomfortable. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Deilluminator(m): 10:52pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
This is your own version of the story, she has her own too. Until one hears from both sides, it may not be wise to pass any judgement on this. What will your wife think of you if she learn that you have taken this to the social media? What would be your response if it were your wife that took this to the social media? Please, you guys need to sit and discuss. There's something which both of you are not getting it right which you must sort it out. Most of all work on your egos 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Richy4(m): 10:53pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
What she did was wrong bro.... But my brother, since u play a lot of games... why not do something that will involve her too... She obviously was seeking for your attention and u were not giving it to her.... Hey i am a guy and i know how people that love games behave...when they start playing, they will not even know or care about their immediate surrounding any more... Maybe she feel kinda caged... i have never been to saudi but i hear a lot about how women are been treated in that nation and all the outside extra curriculum activities, they don't get involved... Maybe she feel bored... please involve her in whatever game u are playing at home ... when kids starts rolling out, she will leave u and your game alone and divert her attention on the kids.. 14 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Taryur3(m): 10:53pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
DTRUMPER:Prayer has nothing to do here. D lady got some evil mind. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Cathony(m): 10:54pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
baddestchic:God bless you sister, this is the best advice so far |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Goldenheart(m): 10:54pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Jesus was spat on.....[color=#990000][/color] #runs outta thread 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Miladi(f): 10:55pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
RedCapChief: Better put, I have helped you and your ilks to know that there's a word like fracas. Now be a gentleman by picking not on me okay. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Doncharlie: 10:55pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Serious Character flaw..I commend your maturity by not beating her. |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by GMBuhari: 10:56pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
nameerfhtennek did it occur to you that you misread her intentions? Hiding remote in short pants in my dictionary means I want to have sex Even if that's not the meaning, you could have paused, saved your game and let her have the router since her internet service was going to be renewed in a few days Just my own 10kobo 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by rovher: 10:56pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
You did an amazing thing, By simply walking away... u hv told your self that u are able to to control your temper, even which what she did was the height of it all... believe me, all u nid to do it ignore her for some days, cos kipin mute kills them more than any other thing... stay mute for some days, she's defntly going to come asking for forgiveness, but hv it at the back of your mind, I pray an hope that they dnt be a next time, but what if there is, she prolly cud do more... Easy bro, and stay bless... |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by kizyalex10(m): 10:57pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
See as women jst dey protect themselves,all d female commenting here re emphasising on forgiveness,but if the case is the other way round now,u will see it as abuse,calling the police nd suing the bastard.lets call a spade a spade,u can call me a demon but there is a limit to my tolerance.that is why I can't take my woman abroad,cos most men who takes their women abroad don't have good stories to tell.because they take advantage of the law protecting them.women abuse power to the fullest.they re power drunk,flexing there power even when it's nt neccessary.if it's me my brother,hell will let loose. 17 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Taryur3(m): 10:57pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
We always tell you guys to change whatever you have to change before getting married. Once you married,you most take permission to change TV channel from your wife.so you didn't change her bad habit while dating.the worst thing is this Buhari and his ppu that brought difficult change to Nigerians. If your wife voted for change before she left Nigeria...automatically APC change is affecting her.thanks 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Homguy(m): 10:57pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
nameerfhtennek:You are a gentleman. Keeping your cool thus far. I would advise yiu send her back. She can kill. Spitting on your husband, your head, and saying those unprintable jargons is the height of it. Goodluck mam 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Ghost447(m): 10:58pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
DTRUMPER:Another comforter? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by PqsMike: 10:59pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
sllay: You're preaching peace and still very fast in insulting people,. Do u actually practice what you preach? Over if you were the guy, you would have done worse 33 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by debraleey: 10:59pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
People suggesting beating are terrible....why on earth will anyone suggest what can break someone's home? Who says the lady will change if she gets beaten? Unbelievable mentality! Suggesting beating of wife when she's not a child......try shifting ur focus from her/her undesirable characters.......try ur best to find peace with her n not away from her.....and pray to God to help u like seriously ......n seek counselling...... 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Cathony(m): 10:59pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
"hiding the console and remote in her undies", she needs Ur attention man...u should know Ur woman better, sending her over to Nigeria would be a mistake... NOTE: I need to learn Hw to control my temperament js like u did, I ain't no woman beater but I can say really bad words that can tear a lady's heart in pieces 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by akinswagg(m): 10:59pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
I will never take that from a woman.. she's definitely not your God sent wife.. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by cunlay007(m): 10:59pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
broo I admire your bravery to put ur tot togeda Dis hour at d bck of a hilux van,u shud b a watchword even dou I don't subscribe to spanking women I feel u need to show her messages on dis forum and prepare her mind for eventuality regarding how much u tired killing d wolf in you and how best she as been feeding d baby wolf in ur soul wit tasty fresh blood by being a baby monster in making ur life unromantic and I personally feel u shud do away wit d game playing and help her out more.....God bless u more |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:00pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
baddestchic: Wrong advice, there is nothing to be talked about in this situation because a lot of bridges that should have been tended with care have been burnt by this disrespectful, fight-seeking woman. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by RedCapChief(m): 11:00pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Miladi: Unfortunately, I'm not a gentleman, so you are going to get picked. Just demonstrate how the op is guilty. That's all I see another word up there - ilk. Your vocab bank seems large but you're not communicating 14 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by teemy(m): 11:00pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
a major faucet of respect is off the mark here. from the title i already deduced wifey regards you as less manly compared to ... such as those that see gamers as kids. now that it shows there is another she compares you with, you either build ... 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Tinyemeka(m): 11:00pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
VolTOxic: Nah. That woman was gone the moment he left for Saudi and she hooked up with another guy. @OP, there is no loyaty from the woman you married. You are just waiting for things to be alright even when the sigbs are all there showing you otherwise. 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Tual: 11:01pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
No, Not yet, the marriage is too early for that Just ignore her, don't talk to her, don't eat her food, pretend like she doesn't exist and I assure you, she will come back to her senses but if she doesn't, you can consider that Meanwhile that's marriage for you Whatever you open, you take And again, try talking to her Sort out your differences, there's this saying that goes 'we disagree to agree' By the way, I appreciate you alot for not involving abuse on her especially in this case that she deserves it so much. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:01pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
This issue is a minor one, but can really mature to stage of causing serious damages: You're a married man, bros you don't ignore a woman's want or should I say feeling, no matter how silly it might be, just give her the attention, then you will enjoy and do whatever you do in peace. Assuming you went shopping with her, she for even cook better food give you ontop that fifa self. Follow dey shout Goal even when computer score you . See bros, just go back to her, apologise, let her know that you're sorry for not going shopping with her, that it was not good of you, that nothing can come between you two not even that game self, let her know you paid deaf ear to her feelings, but you have realised now, you're very sorry, it wouldn't happen again. You go see she go just bust cry, then you kiss her, then yanch am, after everything. Tell her say that spit wey she spit for your face you dey forbid am, make she nor ever try am again, she will promise and promise, she wouldn't do it again really. Biko don't send her home oh, Nigeria this time ehn NA wrong timing, sort things out with your wife brother, e nor easy. 16 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by victorazy(m): 11:03pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
nameerfhtennek:You should have said sorry love I forgot it in the office than keeping quiet. Guy ur at fault cuz ur taking her for granted. Your wife is human too not ur dog, trat her with equal rite and dignity. Organize ur house man and stop lamenting on net. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by okestev: 11:03pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Bro, you need to be more tolerance, persevere and accommodating to your wife. ...Why on earth would you stoop so low to be dragging remote control with her, even when she hid it in her private area. ..Why? why? nah? Spitting on you is the minimal response you deserved from her for such coward and inexperience action of yours!!, may be some other lady would have hit you hard. Sending her packing is not the solution, but respect, honour, show love to your wife, then she would accord you with same. Bible calls them "Weaker vessels". May God bless your home. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by emydot(m): 11:03pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
My advice- Send her back to Nigeria so she can learn her lesson. The woman wont change I tell you and there is no point going for any counselling. All those people telling you to go for counselling and reconciliation are not your well wishers. On a day you are supposed to have rest of mind and enjoy your holiday, she is giving you problems. A wife who spits on her husband's face could eventually kill the husband. Dont let her kill you or implicate you/put you in trouble in another man's land. A word is enough for the wise. 2 Likes |
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