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Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Kobicove(m): 11:26pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Fucck love Your wife spat on your face like you were a disgusting animal and you're here asking what you should do. I would NEVER tolerate a woman much less my own wife spitting on me under any circumstance Marriage is not a do-or-die affair!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by theorist(m): 11:27pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Many people missed the details of what happened and gave judgement based on the topic and the concluding part of your story. nameerfhtennek I don't want to imagine the type of a lady your wife is or how you play and have fun, but I think you missed some details in her actions because you were angry (used to her habits), and the game was more important. What if she wanted your attention? Let me draw your attention to this part nameerfhtennek: Bro, I'm not a feminist, I am also a gamer. I think you missed your opportunity to WOW her, apologize, explain, make her feel more important than your game. You missed an opportunity to turn her anger into love and respect and have a nice time yesterday night. What if she has been trying to change and she is too From your story, you might be the reason your wife hasn't changed. Just listen to Nairalanders and let them fuel your ego, and gradually break your lovely home. Peace!!! 8 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by NovusHomo(m): 11:28pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Miladi: How so? |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Ikigia: 11:28pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Iefosa: If indeed you "practice what you preach", then you are either a PLAYER or LOVER, I wish you are the latter though. Nice advice bro 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:29pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Pes 2017 comes out tomorrow if that helps All jokes aside, i faced a similar situation with my long term gf a few weeks ago. She hid my remote after a quarrel which brought out my aggressive side, something i'm typically not . First mistake you may have done was not living with this woman long enough to unmask the flaws you can't live with. Can you live with being spat on again and again or worse? If you can't then hey cut your losses early, it's only been one year. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by HornyTiwa(f): 11:30pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
femlex: Best advice,especially from a married man,not these bunch of boys who haven't had one woman to cater for . cc. nameerfhtennek 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by ststyreal(f): 11:30pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Huh! Bros, tiri gbosa for you. I hail u no b small. Wife spat on you and you kept your cool? # Respect for you!. Try talking to her and warn her of trying such stupidity again and the consequences that would accompany it. Of course, petty quarrels and misunderstanding are expected in new marriages like yours but to be frank with you, madam went too too far. Call her to order by talking sense into her head but don't hastily send her back now unless she wishes to return. God bless your home and grant you peace of mind amen. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Tearg1: 11:30pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
After reading this post, I can sense the grief you must be going through in your relationship. Marriage suppose to be a blessing, and not a pain. In order to solve this issue, you have to go to the root of the marriage; Was it based on physical appearance or your spirit and her spirit were a match? What I can sense here as you admitted, you had anger issues, and it sounds like she does too. This is a spiritual thing bro and the permanent solution to this issue is to invite God into the relationship. What your wife did was not right, but from what you wrote, ignoring her only fuelled the provocation. The underline problem here is the love in the home has vanished, and thats why you are more attached to your game console than your wife, to the extent your natural body now needs to cool off else where with alcohol because there is no peace in the house... If you sending her to Nigeria, I will advice you come with her also and go visit SCOAN with her, and seek for spiritual solution from Heaven, and God will hear your prayers if you believe with your heart. Both of you may go through deliverance in order to allow God to align your spirits together and restore the Joy to your matrimony... Your home should be a sanctuary... Sending your wife home alone could expose you to temptation.. That will only give the devil room to operate by allowing the anger in her to grow and lead her towards temptation. I am a strong believer that God can restore your home and bring you Joy, Peace and Happiness... Start praying on your knees with your wife at 12 Midnight and ask God to fill your hearts with His Holy Spirit, and ask him to fix both of you....... and invite Jesus into your relationship.... If you believe, watch what will happen within 1 Month.... 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Felixtuta(m): 11:32pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Chai!!! This is a very touching story...from experience I found out that Love hurt them that loves more. On this I can say for real "YOU love your wife more". Believe me you a boss in this game, cos I can't bear half of what you've bare for the sake of love. So I don't know what to say to you. But you know what? Love they say conquers all, I pray you find reasons to hang on in your marriage, cos Its for men and not boys. Hang on bro. |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by theorist(m): 11:32pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Miladi: I totally agree wit you.... Many people missed the details of what happened and gave judgement based on the topic and the concluding part of you story. nameerfhtennek I don't want to imagine the type of a lady your wife is or how you play and have fun, but I think you missed some details in her actions because you were angry (used to her habits), and the game was more important. What if she wanted your attention? Let me draw your attention to this part nameerfhtennek: After several times of asking for the router and no response from me, she took the TV remote and switched off the TV. She walked straight to the kitchen and hid the remote. I approached her in the kitchen and told her I was not ready for any kinda quarrel. We have had enough for the past one year of getting married. I then told her I forgot the router in my office, I didn't have it. I guess she didn't believe me, she never did. She told me to leave her alone. I returned back to the seating room with my heart beating fast. I knew she wanted a serious quarrel that night. After some minutes, I returned to the kitchen and requested for the remote. Then I figured out she hid it in her pant. Pretending I was passing by, I swiftly went for the remote from under her short gown and grabbed it. She didn't expect I knew where she hid it. She followed me behind and ceased the game console, second indication she wanted me to react. I do have a problem with my temper just like every human, male or female. I have also learnt to deal with it by walking away at times I feel I was going to lose it. The same reason I'm outside at this time, 9:55 pm Saudi time. She knows I have fought hard to tame my temper issues but most times, she makes deliberate efforts to have me overreact to her nags and rants. I watched her hide the console in her pant yet again. I shuddered in obvious fear because I knew what the woman wanted, a fight. Really Or she wanted to play as a way of demanding your attention and saying she wasn't angry because you didn't follow her for shopping. But you made her lose it. Bro, I'm not a feminist, I am also a gamer. I think you missed your opportunity to WOW her, apologize, explain, make her feel more important than your game. You missed an opportunity to turn her anger into love and respect and have a nice time yesterday night. What if she has been trying to change and she is too proud shy to say sorry, or don't know how to start? That "fight" turned into a play/love section would have gone a long way to help your darling wife. Just remember when you started, how you laid down your ego to please your "girlfriend". From your story, you might be the reason your wife hasn't changed. Just listen to Nairalanders and let them fuel your ego, and gradually break your lovely home. Peace!!! |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by onionsoup(f): 11:33pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
VolTOxic: I beg you no answer this advice oo. Surely she did wrong and for you to keep your cool the way you did and have done shows you have a certain kinda strength other men will wish for given the circumstances. Jesus was spat on yet he said to His God and father "forgive them for they know not what they are doing" man, I am so proud of you. And will plead with you again and again to let go and let God. something she will love and respect you for in the future. She will change, so don't throw your love away, don't send her packing. Trust me when I say you are teaching her a serious lesson by being sllent and if you are a Christian, please take your gentlmaness a little further by praying for her. God no fit ignore this golden trait that you have exhibited. He ain't a man that He should lie, neither is He the son of man that He should repent of His word - He will come when you call. Peace. THE COUNSELOR. |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by riddler4real(m): 11:33pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
nameerfhtennek: I feel so sorry for u..... love is a choice. You put urself in this mess and only u can put yourself out of it. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by HornyTiwa(f): 11:33pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
theorist:Another married man with experience Op take note o,don't allow nairaland lions who are ordinary cats real life, destroy your marriage. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by TAXMASTER: 11:33pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
sllay:Taaaaa sharap there,let my sister or daughter be dealt with whenever she misbehaves,women of this days will go at any lenght to get you annoyed whether sister or daughter all women na the same,that's why I like my dad whenever my mum feels like she's goona make trouble my dad is always ready to give her a thorough beating to reset her brain. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by sweetcocoa(f): 11:34pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Your wife should never have to spit on you(unless you are into it ) but I can't help saying you both are like really immature, what's with the talk about how y'alls parents raised you/background? While I don't support beating anybody but the girl dey mad? Even you OP your own no good too, hab!, must you vex at everything? She collected the remote and you reach into her panty to get it, like what's that? must you give her quarrel when you already saw it coming? Plus she was only trying to get your attention, at a point, she was even playing with you, but you had to go and take everything serious, mschew. Still, spitting on you is something else, even I aren't sure I won't get divorced over that. But mehn! If him pour me spit, hmmm, I no know wetin go happen o but I'm sure of one thing, which is that, he will wonder, 'what's going through her head' He should just be very afraid sha. |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by victorazy(m): 11:35pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
soberdrunk: For neglecting his wife abi? Simple honey sorry I forgot it and he was forming boss. |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by theorist(m): 11:36pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
HornyTiwa: I'm not married 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Miladi(f): 11:36pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
theorist: You're wise. Thank you. |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Prince16: 11:37pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
chuksbogus2001: In other words, 'beating' has a way of resetting d female brain to default mode, shey? Rotf! 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Oyimeoyimemua(f): 11:37pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Like u mentioned it is not proper to bring your family issues on social media I can assure u that something has gone wrong in ur marriage b4 now Its obvious u love her and she loves u too and like every marriage urs too has it's challenges .She has no justification whatsoever to spit on u but sending her back is not d best. I must say i respect u for not beating her up,u are a real man! Please just calm down and sort things out,mk her understand how her actions made u feel,allow her to say hers too this will help d healing process. Marriage is beautiful, please try to forgive her and don't use d silent treatment on each other |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by lakefist(m): 11:38pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
theorist: Matured comment so far! I will urge you to understand your wife. I was in your shoes sometimes back, u know what i began to study her actions and know what she wanted. Most times when she is angry and started hiding things or even turning down the volume of my car radio while i am driving with her, i knew she wanted my attention. Its either i say sorry or i just give her the silent treatment. Don't even try to chase her away cos you guys are destined for greater things being together 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by whymoniker(m): 11:39pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
From your story it's kinda obvious she doesn't have a job over there... Get her a job to keep her busy or seek counsel from an elderly person you both respect. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Physika(f): 11:41pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
nsogbuMod: Nsogbu di true true... Abeg nor beat d lad again abeg. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by RedCapChief(m): 11:41pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Miladi: So, a woman is lonely and desires her husband's attention. . . she then seizes his property and spits on him Hiding things in panties is not an indication that a woman wants you to 'touch' her. If she wanted him to 'touch' her, red wine and lingerie are what she needs; not spitting and fighting bigtt76, please don't confuse people here. 9 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:41pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
chuksbogus2001: smh wetin I no go see for nairaland |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by SURElee(f): 11:42pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
My guy ask yourself" why did I get married"? Pls use your internet router to download Tyler Perry's movies why did I get married and the sequel movie also. Let me ask, beating, slapping her as adviced, is it the solution? Sending her back to Africa, is it the solution to the problem? Do u know for every issue, the partners both had their fault roles played? Now ask yourself, could you have simply said honey I forgot the internet router at the office? You chose not to communicate, and it's not like am exonerating her of her faults. But sit back and rate yourself and your spouse and make it work. Every second/minute we choose not to communicate effectively with our partners/spouses/friends cost us our relationships. So bro, Be the head of your home, make it work and may God bless you both. You are married, your partner can't be shipped like a cargo parcel because Oga is annoyed. |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by theorist(m): 11:42pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
lakefist: Nice one bro. I pray our brothers learn. 1 Like |
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