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Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by GossipHeart(m): 12:06am On Sep 13, 2016 |
Annalise: What is your suggestion ?? |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by skfa1: 12:06am On Sep 13, 2016 |
ikevin: Not beating,making use of my anaconda in a way she has never received it before. |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by theorist(m): 12:06am On Sep 13, 2016 |
Oshe Maami Oyimeoyimemua: |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by ikevin(m): 12:09am On Sep 13, 2016 |
Tearg1:na only SCOAN God dey abi? 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Gwangwadangwa77: 12:09am On Sep 13, 2016 |
Okikiki: Abeg abeg no too much preaching . am not saying the husband should divorce her but that woman need some hard lesson. Can't you just see that this woman in question has gone extreme 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by MONITZ: 12:09am On Sep 13, 2016 |
SirWere: Na wa for the guy, me just taya, who is now even worse between himself and the person he wants us to believe that he is trying to correct. |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Miladi(f): 12:09am On Sep 13, 2016 |
RedCapChief: You amuse me. I really don't want to write much; but let me try. 1) If he wasn't prejudicial, he wouldn't had reacted the way he did when her wife made request for an internet router - it was an obvious indirect way of initiating a dialog and reconciliatory talk with him. He could be forgiven for failing to apply diplomacy in that scene 1, because not many are gifted the gift of high sensitivity. 2) Scene two was much more obvious what her intentions was, yet the man failed to decode it, too. Come on, here we're talking about two married people. Well, her outburst and taunts after the scenes above was a clear indication of how frustrated she was over her beloved husband's inability to understand her love language. Although, she overreacted on the spitting aspect, but you and I knows that action always takes place before reaction. OP, kindly forgive your wife and then register your disappointment over her overreaction. 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by sweetcocoa(f): 12:11am On Sep 13, 2016 |
ERCROSS:If that kain thing happen to me, wetin my mind go first tell be na "headbutt him", "kick am" "bite am" in fact, killing him can't even make me feel better. |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by InvertedHammer: 12:11am On Sep 13, 2016 |
/ It is not your fault. The issue is that when she looks at you, she gets mad at herself because you were her second choice. But you don't know it. \ 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 12:14am On Sep 13, 2016 |
nameerfhtennek: Behira: ogorwyne:yeah i salute your cool temper which is an evidence of maturity and soundness. However, sending her packing will negate your former coolness. So pls just forgive her and continue to love her as God commands all husbands to love their wives as Christ loves the Church. Irrespective of our misdeeds but He still forgives us even though He was also spat on, so pls dont send her packing, welcome her back in your arms and prove to her that your love for her is beyond bounds. And she will be propelled by this sudden action of yours and her conscience (if she has any) wont let her rest. Selah |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by ayamAgenius: 12:14am On Sep 13, 2016 |
It's evident... she needs her once upon a time university love/husband... this is just her very crude way of being expressive... dat is ow complicated women can be... Your marriage is still young... we men are very mindful wen we wana select the woman we feel we can spend forever with... it means you may have seen something in her... and if u are sensitive enough, u can tell if she was faking it all or not... It takes 2 to tango. Either or both of you may av been underfeeding some areas in your relationship passively b4 u can escalated to dis. D way u dey passionate abt ur fifa (esply after close of work), do u guys every make out time to get intimate? (not jst sex) "To every reaction, der mst av been a trigger" Abeg give am anoda chance. Wen this is over, make una take a break. D devil is currently taking delight in all this drama, don't entertain him any further... And please don't make the mistake to hit her... God bless you home... |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by VajanahDischaj(f): 12:14am On Sep 13, 2016 |
nameerfhtennek:just simply tell your in-laws that you guys are coming home. I'm sure the lady is looking for loop holes to free the marriage. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by sleek82(m): 12:15am On Sep 13, 2016 |
My friend, first i commend you for controlling your anger but as much as i want to give you the credit, i would also tell you....you have a part to be blamed for. From your story, you said she asked you for your internet gadget but you ignored her because from her tone of voice, you knew she wanted a quarrel. I'm not sure i understand that part...why did you not just let her go with her wahala jeje and answer her the first time instead of waiting till she ceased the remote b4 answering her?......ofcourse anybody would doubt the authenticity of what you said if at the first time you ddnt answer, then after ceasing the remote, you now said you forgot it at the office. Bruv, i am a married man and i can say the same about women whose husbands play consoles just like me...they will always raise hell for that game to be stopped if you dont include them in your game plans. My wife can start sweeping the sitting room at night just to distract me. Na so women be! Yes i would say spitting on your face was the worst she could do but sending her back won't settle anything bruv....there are better ways of punishing a woman and remember you love her. |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by gmoni2(m): 12:15am On Sep 13, 2016 |
my bro, just keep your cool. if na Yankee you de, na jail you go end up o, and you go get felony record for life, just let her go. |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by NEROSKY(m): 12:15am On Sep 13, 2016 |
DICKtator: Hahahaha!! |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Miladi(f): 12:15am On Sep 13, 2016 |
Oyimeoyimemua: Spot-on. |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by sweetcocoa(f): 12:16am On Sep 13, 2016 |
Iefosa:Apologise to her ke, you people must be joking. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by ssonn: 12:18am On Sep 13, 2016 |
VolTOxic: Your advice is not reasonable. Hey bro I know I am just 21yrs old have never been in any relationship b4 not to talk of marriage but I feel your pain, I have fixed my self in your place and I know how hard it is to be treated like that not by an enemy but by your own someone you could die for someone you have made sacrifices for someone you love if you ll see my comment before its too late here's what you should know. Marriage is not a bed of roses it is pain mixed with pleasure, bitterness with sweetness its love mixed with hate just like u hate her for what she did sometime some of these things come up and its like its never gonna end but I want you to know this the back bone of any marriage is God and endurance your ability to let go and let God, makes your marriage stand, sending her home won't help the devil will just rejoice. Every hard time you overcome in your marriage make it better someday your child or a friend will be in this same shoe and you'll use ur experience To advice him if you don't pass this how can u. Keep cool silence echos the loudest. Its too much she has gone pass her limit No body would take this yes its true but remember there are some that even seek for a spouse to spit on there face they have not seen come on bro make your marriage work. Some will read this post and say mtchew you dnt even have a problem. If you hear their own u will thnk God for your life. You love her if u send her home you'll make it worse you don't want to have ur kids parented by separate parents. That good life you have imagined and worked hard to build until now is still in progress. Pray that God will help you pass this storm you'll look back and smile at this moment bro don't send her away make it work. This is a big very big huddle u can't afford to trip over. GOD BLESS YOU ,BLESS YOU DEAR WIFE AND BLESS YOU MARRIAGE. In Jesus name AMEN. Pls don't go after another in cases like this you ll see another lady showing up appearing to be better but they end up being worse. Be careful the advice you take cos some of these ppl here are single immediately they just see my wife spate on my face they will jump on their keyboard and say nonsense like send her away its too much but its easy for them to say cos they have never been married so they don't know what its like to send ones wife away or some think its like sending a girl friend away... |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by sleek82(m): 12:19am On Sep 13, 2016 |
ayamAgenius:God bless you on this piece.....nairalanders are very fast to judge when they hear one side of a story without thinking deeply |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Mayflowa(m): 12:20am On Sep 13, 2016 |
ladyF: Haba! I didn't have issues with the men advocating for the wife to be sent home. I thought female will thought different. Sinice the husband chooses to be gentle, he shouldn't have gone rough with the wife. For me, I will just command that the remote should be given to me and change my eyeball to blood red. He went physical with the wife and hurt her in the process. That was her way of getting back. In fact, he caused the quarrel. Why did he keep the wife quiet? I am sure the wife will have no friend in Saudi Arabia other than him. And he hardly sit home because of his job maybe. And when he comes home, it is game. The wife has been pissed of by his refusal to go shopping with him way before. If my wife put my remote inside her pvssy zone. She will definitely get f**ked by hook or by crook. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by ikevin(m): 12:20am On Sep 13, 2016 |
GossipHeart:. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by cococandy(f): 12:21am On Sep 13, 2016 |
Spitting on your face? Mehn that's baaad. In my culture it's seen as something reserved for the vilest and most disgusting of creatures. Nobody in their right minds would do that to their husband/wife except they are done with the marriage and really despise the spouse. And she's not even remorseful about it which makes it worse. Sorry OP. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by ikevin(m): 12:22am On Sep 13, 2016 |
skfa1:. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 12:23am On Sep 13, 2016 |
InvertedHammer: ayamAgenius:una be badt guys aswear. This could be the real hidden truth |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by sleek82(m): 12:23am On Sep 13, 2016 |
To add to what i have said before.....bruv, if my wife hides something in her panties....trust me, she is telling a different thing! |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by hamzaanka1: 12:23am On Sep 13, 2016 |
just send her back. How can she treat u lyk dat. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by XaintJoel20: 12:24am On Sep 13, 2016 |
I would not concur to what your pointed out right there that your wife was not acting in same manner when you were dating. She did, but peradventure, you were blinded by lust not to have noticed it. According to your statement, she asked you several times for the router, and you refused to asnwer. Don't you think your protracted silence could have been responsible for what have degenerated to this level? I am of the view that this wouldn't have been a topic for discussion if you had told her you forgot the router at your place of work. If you would be candid with yourself, you would know that you also have your own share of the blame. In all honesty, she was wrong to have switched off the TV, ceased the remote and all the other unpalatable stuffs that she did, including spitting on your face which is the height of them all. Make peace with her, look out for a time when she will be in a relaxed mode then raise the issue. Discuss with her at length. Tell her those things she did that you were not comfortable with and also give her time to say hers... There is no substitute for discussion in a union. I wish you conjugal bliss.... |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 12:24am On Sep 13, 2016 |
I'm going to tell you what you should do. You won't do it. That's okay. You'll thank me in a year or two. Here's what you should do. 1) Pack your portmanteau with as much as you can. 2) Check into a hotel, a long stay one. 3) Find an apartment. 4) Live your life. Here's what's going to happen if you don't. 1) She'll kill you 2) You'll kill her 3) You'll be in jail Good luck PS: your wife has you completely and pathetically subjugated. PPS: I'm on my 3rd marriage. Life is supposed to be gay, merry and joyous. Anyone that waylays that gets carved out of my life like a cancerous growth. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by otodeluxe(m): 12:24am On Sep 13, 2016 |
you were playing FIFA 16. do you u even have time for her? please don't send her away. am sure you can talk things out with her |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by abduldope(m): 12:24am On Sep 13, 2016 |
Wtf! for real u strted dating another guy twice her Age ? |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 12:24am On Sep 13, 2016 |
ikevin:hahahahaha amor the guy na bad guy. Him mind don dirty finish. Chai. What a comment. But the way the woman hide that thing for her inner dey make me suspect something fishy |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Bishop(m): 12:24am On Sep 13, 2016 |
hi, From your long write up i believe you have not been given your wife enough attention and in this manner your communication with her has reduced if exists at all. please spend Time with her and build your relationship. Ensure that you communicate to her that spitting at you would no longer be tolerated. my one kobo advice, guys who play video games like you would not have time for wifey and it hurts them. shallom |
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