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My Mother Have Been My Frustration by Nobody: 6:30pm On Sep 13, 2016
I NEED HELP.
This is about my mother and my family
.
.
.
Right from my childhood,I've never felt peace in my house before.Mum have been my frustration.
The worst of it all is that my father supports the whole stuff.
My family is godly,my siblings don't have any problem.We don't disobey and disrespect her like other kids in other family I know of do
She act so so wickedly all in the name of discipline.
*My mother have stripped me naked before,poured pepper all over my body and pushed me to run around the neighbourhood
*There is this very first and last time I stole a phone in my life due to depression caused by she and my father.The owner of the phone got to know about it and told my mother I stole his phone.She knew I don't steal and would have tried knowing why I did so and beating me without public embarrasment.You know what she did? She gathered boys from my community to beat hell out of me,made jest of me cos of one nonsense phone like that then,She brought pepper,Brought ant and they were poured on me
*My fingers have been severally removed because of flogging,She have broken my head with block and so many things,so many times
*Half of my teens life was spent inside bushes and uncompleted building because my parents(especially my mother) will always chase me out of home,throw my stuffs outside.Without food and water I'll be roaming like a mad man.
I was tired of meeting people to go beg for me,I was tired Of life and was enveloped with frustration
*There was a term during my secondary school level I was stopped from going to school for upto 30days for one reason or the other I can't even recall.I was very respectful to her then even though I was a little bit stubborn which was part of my teenage life.Similarly,I was supposed to be in my final years as a Biochemist but in my third year currently and parents were the reason of my repetition of a full session; they refused paying my school fees,why? Because I was tired to join them and go to farm on a monday after the stress of a friends father's burial I attended the weekend before then.
*I can't count how many times I have been disgraced by her inside church,In my school,in the market place,and every other public environment you can imagine.People(even the ones below my age) laughs at me frequently cos of this.They use words like" U no go your house now before your mama go kom here flog you" and lots of them.
I suffered all of this and now she's still doing same to my younger ones.
The picture is my younger brother who was accused to have sent a letter that says"Will you be my friend?" to a girl.She beat him as if the boy is the architect of all the problems in my family.
*I've fainted due to beating by my parents before and this thing is still happening
Am fagged-out,and frustrated.
She have started threatening to never let my father pay my fees again because I confronted her for maltreating my brother the way she did which I later found he never wrote any letter
.
I need a new life,I need another family(I don't mind) before I'll hurt myself
#Mod pls help me push it to front page

Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by Nobody: 6:35pm On Sep 13, 2016
Wicked.
Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by Nobody: 6:36pm On Sep 13, 2016
lalasticlala if u dare push it to front page. abi u r a pusher like all dis ipod yoot?

BTW ur Mom was right abt u otherwise if it wia to b me, u will b in jail getting all dis criminals blowing ur yansh and turning u to a woman.
Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by Mologi(m): 6:41pm On Sep 13, 2016
Be BORN again,into another family and in spirit..
Mologi'' kobo

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Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by Nobody: 6:44pm On Sep 13, 2016
Your mother seems to be a frustrated woman and she is transferring her aggression on you people. Pls focus on your studies and move away from home For as long as you can after school to get your senses back, and while you're at it get something reasonable to do for yourself. This is a phase in your life and it will pass, don't lemme bore you with stories. Shebi den still send you go school? Some of these rich old men you see today were not sent to school by their parents, they struggled their way up while helping with farm work also. You don't have genuine excuse to steal. Find a way to be useful to yourself after school.

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Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by jopretty(f): 7:13pm On Sep 13, 2016
Your mum is frustrated, and I bet this same ill-treatment was meted out on her when she was young as such, she's doing same to you and your siblings. I'm not against parents beating their kids when they go wrong, but publicly embarrassing and doing some inhumane things to them is very wicked. I suggest you do whatever she asks of you now till you are through with sch and can fend for yourself only then can you talk to her and points out her wrongs. Sorry for your bruised back.

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Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by shegxi(m): 7:51pm On Sep 13, 2016
First of all, are u sure she is ur biological mother?
Secondly, are u telling the true story?
If this is true, ur mum is exhibiting d real defination witchcraft. And to think ur dad is silent is alarming!!!
Keep ur head up bro, this phase shall pass.
Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by lamideee(f): 8:34pm On Sep 13, 2016
shegxi:
First of all, are u sure she is ur biological mother?
Secondly, are u telling the true story?
If this is true, ur mum is exhibiting d real defination witchcraft. And to think ur dad is silent is alarming!!!
Keep ur head up bro, this phase shall pass.
Counselor Shegxi,I See u bro wink
Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by soonest(f): 10:39pm On Sep 13, 2016
Your mum may be mentally challenged (no insult intended). Pls manage till you can cater for yourself or can you stay with an aunt or uncle

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Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by Nobody: 10:43pm On Sep 13, 2016
You need to teach your mother a lesson (best with your siblings if possible) but make sure you don't hurt her.

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Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by Ranchhoddas: 10:55pm On Sep 13, 2016
Your mother or your step-mother?

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Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by Marvel1206: 11:30pm On Sep 13, 2016
Her problem is not beating or torturing you guys for nothing but she is over-doing things... Damn!

SOLUTION: ADVISE YOUR BROTHER TO ACT WITH SENSE AND CARE AND MUST NOT DO ANYTHING TO PROVOKE HER

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Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by Nobody: 11:33pm On Sep 13, 2016
even if you have to over respect her..... and be prostrating every morning you need it now... i think finishing school and praying to get a place far from home for nysc is whats next

and praying to get a good job after all that would save you from all of these

sometimes parents think their children act alot worse than the quiet way they look when they are around them... i just think its all a phase....no childhood is perfect.... no matter how it hurts keep forgiving dont hold on to any grudge

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Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by okirewaju(f): 5:07am On Sep 14, 2016
Sadly it seems your mum is strict but she is over doing it.
Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by Aremu01(m): 7:22am On Sep 14, 2016
Are you sure she is your real mother? ? ?
Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by Opistorincos(m): 11:13am On Sep 14, 2016
All i will say is ja ara e gba.
Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by Emmaesty(f): 6:46pm On Sep 14, 2016
shegxi:
First of all, are u sure she is ur biological mother?
Secondly, are u telling the true story?
If this is true, ur mum is exhibiting d real defination witchcraft. And to think ur dad is silent is alarming!!!
Keep ur head up bro, this phase shall pass.
This Bros don forget me sha
Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by Nobody: 6:54pm On Sep 14, 2016
lemme ask, are you from a polygamy family?

If yes, she might be venting the misdeed of your father on you ,and your siblings..

Another cause might be maybe she's frustrated, and you, and your sibling are the only thing she can vent her anger on..

To me, forget she's your mum, this is nothing but pure wickedness ,and that your father keeps quiet is baffling..

Maybe she's one of those harsh women.... May God help you..
Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by shegxi(m): 7:22pm On Sep 14, 2016
Emmaesty:
This Bros don forget me sha
lol....u wey no dey ask of person.
plus ur brothers dem collect my fone now...
i hope u are good? and not writing any exams? grin grin
Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by shegxi(m): 7:27pm On Sep 14, 2016
lamideee:
Counselor Shegxi,I See u bro wink
lol.....point of correction, engr shegxi wink i trust u are fyn.
Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by Richy4(m): 8:13pm On Sep 14, 2016
I can't believe a mother would do all those things u said.... I mean how does she sleep at night?

People are really getting away with lots of things that could earn them a prison term...

Some where in the Western world she would have been forced to undergo a psychiatric check....This is not normal

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Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by Emmaesty(f): 8:24pm On Sep 14, 2016
shegxi:
lol....u wey no dey ask of person.
plus ur brothers dem collect my fone now...
i hope u are good? and not writing any exams? grin grin
I have plenty things to Gist you grin grin Give me your new number
Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by Nobody: 10:03pm On Sep 14, 2016
ZubbyGodson:
I NEED HELP.
This is about my mother and my family
.
.
.
Right from my childhood,I've never felt peace in my house before.Mum have been my frustration.
The worst of it all is that my father supports the whole stuff.
My family is godly,my siblings don't have any problem.We don't disobey and disrespect her like other kids in other family I know of do
She act so so wickedly all in the name of discipline.
*My mother have stripped me naked before,poured pepper all over my body and pushed me to run around the neighbourhood
*There is this very first and last time I stole a phone in my life due to depression caused by she and my father.The owner of the phone got to know about it and told my mother I stole his phone.She knew I don't steal and would have tried knowing why I did so and beating me without public embarrasment.You know what she did? She gathered boys from my community to beat hell out of me,made jest of me cos of one nonsense phone like that then,She brought pepper,Brought ant and they were poured on me
*My fingers have been severally removed because of flogging,She have broken my head with block and so many things,so many times
*Half of my teens life was spent inside bushes and uncompleted building because my parents(especially my mother) will always chase me out of home,throw my stuffs outside.Without food and water I'll be roaming like a mad man.
I was tired of meeting people to go beg for me,I was tired Of life and was enveloped with frustration
*There was a term during my secondary school level I was stopped from going to school for upto 30days for one reason or the other I can't even recall.I was very respectful to her then even though I was a little bit stubborn which was part of my teenage life.Similarly,I was supposed to be in my final years as a Biochemist but in my third year currently and parents were the reason of my repetition of a full session; they refused paying my school fees,why? Because I was tired to join them and go to farm on a monday after the stress of a friends father's burial I attended the weekend before then.
*I can't count how many times I have been disgraced by her inside church,In my school,in the market place,and every other public environment you can imagine.People(even the ones below my age) laughs at me frequently cos of this.They use words like" U no go your house now before your mama go kom here flog you" and lots of them.
I suffered all of this and now she's still doing same to my younger ones.
The picture is my younger brother who was accused to have sent a letter that says"Will you be my friend?" to a girl.She beat him as if the boy is the architect of all the problems in my family.
*I've fainted due to beating by my parents before and this thing is still happening
Am fagged-out,and frustrated.
She have started threatening to never let my father pay my fees again because I confronted her for maltreating my brother the way she did which I later found he never wrote any letter
.
I need a new life,I need another family(I don't mind) before I'll hurt myself
#Mod pls help me push it to front page

So how did you type this? undecided
Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by Nobody: 10:46pm On Sep 14, 2016
shegxi:
First of all, are u sure she is ur biological mother?
Secondly, are u telling the true story?
If this is true, ur mum is exhibiting d real defination witchcraft. And to think ur dad is silent is alarming!!!
Keep ur head up bro, this phase shall pass.
LadyMercedes:


So how did you type this? undecided
Mologi:
Be BORN again,into another family and in spirit..
Mologi'' kobo
LadyMercedes:


So how did you type this? undecided
Thanks You
Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by Nobody: 10:48pm On Sep 14, 2016
This is critical o. Pls bro if you can ehhh just stay in school and hustle to complete your studies. I'm glad you realize there could be a better life outside the ill treatment you're receiving from your mum. You mustn't depend entirely on them to get a better life....how on earth can a Christian mother treat her offspring like a condemned being? What you have to guide now is your self esteem, keep good company, work hard/smart, serve God and be an example to your younger siblings....the shame will be her's latter. God is your strength

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Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by Nobody: 10:50pm On Sep 14, 2016
jopretty:
Your mum is frustrated, and I bet this same ill-treatment was meted out on her when she was young as such, she's doing same to you and your siblings. I'm not against parents beating their kids when they go wrong, but publicly embarrassing and doing some inhumane things to them is very wicked. I suggest you do whatever she asks of you now till you are through with sch and can fend for yourself only then can you talk to her and points out her wrongs. Sorry for your bruised back.
Thanks for your comment.the pics is my younger brother's back actually.She did that to him
Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by Nobody: 10:53pm On Sep 14, 2016
jopretty:
Your mum is frustrated, and I bet this same ill-treatment was meted out on her when she was young as such, she's doing same to you and your siblings. I'm not against parents beating their kids when they go wrong, but publicly embarrassing and doing some inhumane things to them is very wicked. I suggest you do whatever she asks of you now till you are through with sch and can fend for yourself only then can you talk to her and points out her wrongs. Sorry for your bruised back.
Ruemufaith:
This is critical o. Pls bro if you can ehhh just stay in school and hustle to complete your studies. I'm glad you realize there could be a better life outside the ill treatment you're receiving from your mum. You mustn't depend entirely on them to get a better life....how on earth can a Christian mother treat her offspring like a condemned being? What you have to guide now is your self esteem, keep good company, work hard/smart, serve God and be an example to your younger siblings....the shame will be her's latter. God is your strength
jopretty:
Your mum is frustrated, and I bet this same ill-treatment was meted out on her when she was young as such, she's doing same to you and your siblings. I'm not against parents beating their kids when they go wrong, but publicly embarrassing and doing some inhumane things to them is very wicked. I suggest you do whatever she asks of you now till you are through with sch and can fend for yourself only then can you talk to her and points out her wrongs. Sorry for your bruised back.
Amen.Thanks
Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by jopretty(f): 10:56pm On Sep 14, 2016
So sorry
ZubbyGodson:
Thanks for your comment.the pics is my younger brother's back actually.She did that to him
Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by Nobody: 11:02pm On Sep 14, 2016
jopretty:
So sorry
No Qualms.Thanks
Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by Nobody: 11:05pm On Sep 14, 2016
LadyMercedes:


So how did you type this? undecided
I'll be waiting until you have better comment to make

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Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by Nobody: 11:09pm On Sep 14, 2016
Yomieluv:
lemme ask, are you from a polygamy family?

If yes, she might be venting the misdeed of your father on you ,and your siblings..

Another cause might be maybe she's frustrated, and you, and your sibling are the only thing she can vent her anger on..

To me, forget she's your mum, this is nothing but pure wickedness ,and that your father keeps quiet is baffling..

Maybe she's one of those harsh women.... May God help you..
I really depend on God to help me.thanks
Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by lamideee(f): 11:18pm On Sep 14, 2016
shegxi:
lol.....point of correction, engr shegxi wink i trust u are fyn.
hahahahahaha........counselor/engr shegxi grin , I dey kampe

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