Maychang:
i think you getting all worked up for nothing.

Maychang:
i think you getting all worked up for nothing.

ekanDamie:
Romancelanders, can you please help me judge this situation.
I happen to be dating a lady who we both work in the same place.
She has so many of her male colleagues always trying to impress her n date her.
Some just wanna pay for her next hairdo, buy her things, wanna take her out to lunch n some even wanna just marry her.
She tells me about all of this encounters, she seems to be the nice person but i always tel her dere has to be limits since i am also working in d same place with her.
But what is bout getting me worked up now is, she goes on lunch break with one of this admirers, even tho am convinced she has nothing to do with him, but why go on lunch breaks with them? I take her to lunch, i pay most of d time n sometime she pays,.
Just today she said sumtin bout her being hungry, to b sincere i pretended asif i did not hear cos i was broke myself n we had some chop chop in our locker in which we had both ate from.
So, even if she was still hungry, is it right for her to go on a lunch break with someone who is really wanting to date her? Cant she just bear d hunger till she gets home like am doing? Do i deserve to be angry? Cos i just walked into d canteen n met her dere with d guy, i was just embarassed somehw. Am about picking a fight with this but i need you guys to judge d matter abeg.

That is How You will gradually be relegated to the side boo,worst still friendzone

Your lady seem to like material things and free things(awoof),very soon she will go for someone that can satisfy all her need,buy her lunch everyday,but in the end,it will not to anything serious,maybe just some casual fvck,then she will be back to You and You will accept her back(You have a weak mind), or 2% probability that she will marry the person.LOBATAN


Btw,who gets involved in office romance again?

yomi007k:
u seff go on lunch dates wt other chicks....life no hard nau

Berbierklaus:

That is How You will gradually be relegated to the side boo,worst still friendzone

Your lady seem to like material things and free things(awoof),very soon she will go for someone that can satisfy all her need,buy her lunch everyday,but in the end,it will not to anything serious,maybe just some casual fvck,then she will be back to You and You will accept her back(You have a weak mind), or 2% probability that she will marry the person.LOBATAN


Btw,who gets involved in office romance again?

Berbierklaus:

That is How You will gradually be relegated to the side boo,worst still friendzone

Your lady seem to like material things and free things(awoof),very soon she will go for someone that can satisfy all her need,buy her lunch everyday,but in the end,[it will not to anything serious,maybe just some casual fvck,then she will be back to You] and You will accept her back(You have a weak mind), or 2% probability that she will marry the person.LOBATAN


Btw,who gets involved in office romance again?

Cutehector:
First she ain't ur girlfrnd so she has every right to go out for lunch with whoever she pleases!



Second you aren't her boss!



Third, u are just jealous and insecure.




U like her? Why not talk to her about your feelings? Mind you, office romance is bad. You are just the problem, not her!

Maychang:
i think you getting all worked up for nothing.

ekanDamie:

If u read my post at all, i did say we are dating. She is my gf oga

ekanDamie:

Ur comment is stern, but thats what i need. Hard truth. Can u please explain better wat u mean in the texts i bracketed.

Synzu:

**Clears throat**

faithugo64:
Oga if her going to lunch with other people is getting you worked up,instead of picking a fight with her, call her,sit her down and talk things over with her,let her know you don't fancy what she is doing,try as much as possible to be polite o

in every relationship, communication is the key

ekanDamie:

D truth of d matter is, apart from my fellow guys, i have never gone on date with any lady at work. I just cant cos of her.
Even if she must go, why cant she just tell me so i dont show up there.

Berbierklaus:

That is How You will gradually be relegated to the side boo,worst still friendzone

Your lady seem to like material things and free things(awoof),very soon she will go for someone that can satisfy all her need,buy her lunch everyday,[[[[[[[but in the end,it will not to anything serious,maybe just some casual fvck,then she will be back to You]]]]]]]] and You will accept her back(You have a weak mind), or 2% probability that she will marry the person.LOBATAN


Btw,who gets involved in office romance again?

Berbierklaus:
sounds familiar?

yomi007k:


Bro ur getting too emotional...n its not gona help u.

Free ur mind...accept dt she aint urs yet becos she truly isnt. U neva marry her nau.

Jus try n do wats gona make u happy because most times we think we' ll be happier in a relationship

ekanDamie:

My dear, d truth of d matter is, we have argued over dis guys matter before, yes, i know she tells me about his advances, hes her boss but not that superficial boss that can sack her, its just boss by formality, so its not like shes under pressure.
She has been keepin him at bay since our last reconciliation but i felt she waa over doing it cos she snaps at him n talk to him rudely, i know shes dojng it cos of me.

Just today, d guy had to accost her n ask her y shes been so mean to him, she told me, and i did confirm to her that i noticed it n she should loosen up on him a bit but i never said on bout 1hr time go on lunch break with him.

ekanDamie:

U know what dey say, finding love in d strangest place,
Ok, i feel in love with a colleague, n believ me, its a serious relationship.
So, are u saying i should really let d relationship go or just accept her going on lunch breaks with everyone just to free my mind?

Synzu:

I was only quoting one of those "comments"