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Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by pinkybutter(f): 12:23am On Sep 18, 2016

I really don't understand what is going on with me. I use to be in a relationship before but I quit because, it wasn't favouring me. And i am seriously dying to be in a relationship but finding it difficult to go into one. Not that guys don't come around but I turn them down and sometimes don't even wanna listen to any guy that walk up to me. And even if i try hard to go into one I still find myself holding back.

Plz no abusive words just your advice thanks....

Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by JeffreyJamez(m): 12:27am On Sep 18, 2016

Find something to keep you busy..... You have too much time on your hands.

Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by greatnaija01: 12:27am On Sep 18, 2016

pinkybutter:
I really don't understand what is going on with me. I use to be in a relationship before but I quit because, it wasn't favouring me. And i am seriously dying to be in a relationship but finding it difficult to go into one. Not that guys don't come around but I turn them down and sometimes don't even wanna listen to any guy that walk up to me. And even if i try hard to go into one I still find myself holding back.

Plz no abusive words just your advice thanks....

such iw usually traced to TRUST ISSUES or not being sure that you are READY.... that fear holding u back will be broken by any good guy who will still REMAIN CLOSE TO YOU WAITING FOR YOU TO OPEN YOYR HEART.... SUCH GUYS EXIST AND MAY ALREADY BE WITH U... Just give yourself a second chance. also u may dread rejection so u feel better being the one to do it to others.... ORRRRR YOU HAVE JUST NOT FOUND D GUY THAT WILL MAKE YOU JAW DROP N TRIPPING... its simple o... if u need more PM me

Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by Nobody: 12:27am On Sep 18, 2016

Simple...

Your not ready yet. Do not push urself to be into a relationship if u know tat person doesn't fit on ur standard.. Enjoy urself being single... There's nothing wrong with it...

Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by Vinshu(f): 12:27am On Sep 18, 2016

Get a life... simple

Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by Davash222(m): 12:29am On Sep 18, 2016

Say no to masturbation!!

Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by adewumiopeyemi(m): 12:34am On Sep 18, 2016

hnnn dont u sleep.. undecided

TrapQueen77:
Simple...

Your not ready yet. Do not push urself to be into a relationship if u know tat person doesn't fit on ur standard.. Enjoy urself being single... There's nothing wrong with it...

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Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by pinkybutter(f): 12:38am On Sep 18, 2016

greatnaija01:

such iw usually traced to TRUST ISSUES or not being sure that you are READY.... that fear holding u back will be broken by any good guy who will still REMAIN CLOSE TO YOU WAITING FOR YOU TO OPEN YOYR HEART.... SUCH GUYS EXIST AND MAY ALREADY BE WITH U... Just give yourself a second chance. also u may dread rejection so u feel better being the one to do it to others.... ORRRRR YOU HAVE JUST NOT FOUND D GUY THAT WILL MAKE YOU JAW DROP N TRIPPING... its simple o... if u need more PM me

Thanks. Another thing is the ones you try to be with won't be serious with you. Just so confuse

Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by babywhite(f): 12:38am On Sep 18, 2016

Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by Nobody: 12:40am On Sep 18, 2016

adewumiopeyemi:
hnnn dont u sleep..

I juz woke up ooo... grin

Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by Parpor(m): 12:40am On Sep 18, 2016

D experts will soon b here. Buh before dey com,if u can identify wats causing the "holding back",then we could start from there

Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by greatnaija01: 1:24am On Sep 18, 2016

pinkybutter:
Thanks. Another thing is the ones you try to be with won't be serious with you. Just so confuse

sister kindly change environment and even church if you are a christian.... then also go and study about relationship from authors like MYLES MUNROE or PRAISE GEORGE so you can differentiate boys from MEN and boyfriend from HUSBAND.... you wont always be this young... so start with the right foundation... KNOWLEDGE then u will know what u want and who you want to spend the rest of your life with.

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Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by shadeyinka(m): 1:26am On Sep 18, 2016

pinkybutter:
I really don't understand what is going on with me. I use to be in a relationship before but I quit because, it wasn't favouring m[/b]e. And [b]i am seriously dying to be in a relationship but finding it difficult to go into one. Not that guys don't come around but I turn them down and sometimes don't even wanna listen to any guy that walk up to me. And even if i try hard to go into one I still find myself holding back.

Plz no abusive words just your advice thanks....

Your relationships are bound to all fail. Why? because of your motive which is completely self centered. A relationship that will last is a product of mutual respect and love for your partner.

Secondly, you need to answer the question: Why do you want to go into a relationship? A wrong reason determines whether the relationship will succeed or not.

A relationship without a goal is guaranteed failure and heartbreak!

Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by fridayabdullahi(m): 1:30am On Sep 18, 2016

you are not ready now my sister wait until you are 58years of age then you can start a good relationship

Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by dharay99: 1:58am On Sep 18, 2016

pinkybutter:
Thanks. Another thing is the ones you try to be with won't be serious with you. Just so confuse

Then i guess you must have treated the
Serious 0nes that came by like trash...

Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by herzern(m): 2:00am On Sep 18, 2016

Mtcheew

Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by CosmicWealth: 2:02am On Sep 18, 2016

Have u tried going into a relationship with a female ? You might be a lesbo

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Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by Nobody: 3:13am On Sep 18, 2016

pinkybutter:
Thanks. Another thing is the ones you try to be with won't be serious with you. Just so confuse

seriously!! as in eh...what standard do you set as your type of men remember that you must attract your likes and not the other way round...try and lower your expectations or better still,
clay soil will do the magic..you know the drill !!

women cannot choose but to be chosen

Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by bolabolabo: 3:22am On Sep 18, 2016

Answer this questions honestly.

Why do u need a relationship?

What's ur body count

and I bet u would knw the reason it's been like this.

Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by Lastking147(m): 7:00am On Sep 18, 2016

TrapQueen77:

I juz woke up ooo...

Na 12:40 u dey wake u dy go meeting kwa

Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by Nobody: 7:23am On Sep 18, 2016

Lastking147:

Na 12:40 u dey wake u dy go meeting kwa

Hahahaha... I'm living in the other side of world joor. tongue

Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by Lastking147(m): 7:37am On Sep 18, 2016

TrapQueen77:

Hahahaha... I'm living in the other side of world joor.

Ehen
Happy Sunday
U no dey go church

Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by Nobody: 7:40am On Sep 18, 2016

Lastking147:

Ehen
Happy Sunday
U no dey go church

Nope... I don't have religion bebe wink

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Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by Lastking147(m): 7:46am On Sep 18, 2016

TrapQueen77:

Nope... I don't have religion bebe

So you're a freethinker abi
I get religion but na house I dy sit all through

Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by pinkybutter(f): 7:46am On Sep 18, 2016

bolabolabo:
Answer this questions honestly.

Why do u need a relationship?

What's ur body count

and I bet u would knw the reason it's been like this.

I need a relationship bcuz one isn't getting younger everyday. And I don't want to fall into the wrongs hand bcuz some are this eat and run guys. Especially wen you have a great physique and they all wanna have a taste of you. Some chat you up and start talking nawty with you and i can't stand these pervert for 1 sec. Cus one will just be reducing her pride price if one falls for them thinking they in love with you.

Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by Nobody: 7:53am On Sep 18, 2016

Lastking147:

So you're a freethinker abi
I get religion but na house I dy sit all through

u can say tat bebe...I may be a free thinker.

Ohh... Ur a Christian?

Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by pinkybutter(f): 7:54am On Sep 18, 2016

carmag:

seriously!! as in eh...what standard do you set as your type of men remember that you must attract your likes and not the other way round...try and lower your expectations or better still,
clay soil will do the magic..you know the drill !!

women cannot choose but to be chosen

I need a real husband material not all this chewingum boys.

Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by Nobody: 7:56am On Sep 18, 2016

pinkybutter:
I need a real husband material not all this chewingum boys.

What you need is your psychiatric pills.
Early morning, you're all over this section. undecided

Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by pinkybutter(f): 7:57am On Sep 18, 2016

CosmicWealth:
Have u tried going into a relationship with a female ? You might be a lesbo

sorry I'm not a lesbian and I can never be one.

Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by McBrooklyn(m): 7:59am On Sep 18, 2016

pinkybutter:
I need a real husband material not all this chewingum boys.

Babe, I'm deeply sorry to tell you that most of the guys nowadays ain't even close to a husband material not to talk of the real one which leaves you with the chewing gum type. But why don't you go for a chewing gum type and maybe as times goes on, you can probably change him into the real husband material you want . . . What did you think??

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Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by Lastking147(m): 7:59am On Sep 18, 2016

TrapQueen77:

u can say tat bebe...I may be a free thinker.

Ohh... Ur a Christian?

Rara oh imma Muslim... Ibrahim wink

d name fine abi

Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by pinkybutter(f): 8:01am On Sep 18, 2016

AjFive:

What you need is your psychiatric pills.
Early morning, you're all over this section.

if you read my msg till the last line you see i said no abusive words. If you can't give a piece of advice and you can't say nice words with your mouth, simply say them in Zulu. Thanks

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