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Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by biggz82: 10:17am On Sep 18, 2016 |
kill urself n kill her. idiot wen una dey nack e dey sweet una, una no tell us so we no won knwnow |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Nobody: 10:17am On Sep 18, 2016 |
yekparikpa:I still know why people post such private issues online. |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by domopps(m): 10:17am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Please take her to the nearest hospital.......b4 U and your quack doctor lands where you really belong! Kiss condom is N100 Gold cycle is N50 yet you couldn't afford any! Cheers 5 Likes |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by lovinam: 10:17am On Sep 18, 2016 |
I don't know why people refuse to use condoms. I've seen a young lady go through severe pains cos of abortion. The sperm donor was nowhere to console her. If you think you are old enough to start having sex please use a condom for crying out loud. Do you know the risks you put yourself through each time you do in unprotected. Its rather unfortunate tha the ladies suffer most Op I hope you will marry her when the ttime comes. Pls don't give us d sad story she caused it. You should have worn your rain boot!! Simple!! May God help our children! 4 Likes |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by jackie3B(f): 10:18am On Sep 18, 2016 |
in d baby's voice*I ain't leaving dis place until nine months* 6 Likes |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Emeonyerichard(m): 10:18am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Op come again.. U mean u wan comot pikin.. And d pikin turn yellow.. Aii... Let me no wen dis is over.. |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by KINGwax007(m): 10:18am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Let me guess.. Abortion. ... 15,000 naira Condom.... 100 naira Burial... Jail time... 15yrs tops.. We will miss u on nairakand bro 12 Likes |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Emeonyerichard(m): 10:18am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Op come again.. U mean u wan comot pikin.. And d pikin turn yellow.. Aii... Let me no wen dis is over.. Fr dis recession u gt mind dy do skin to skin... 1 Like |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Tobium1(m): 10:18am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Gold circle still sells as cheap as N50, postinor2 is N250 6 Likes |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Darlingmua(f): 10:19am On Sep 18, 2016 |
HateU2: Lol... Dem day teach person to Bleep? 1 Like |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by ibietela2(m): 10:20am On Sep 18, 2016 |
[s] Sgttanner:[/s] 450 durex or rough rider would have prevented this. You should have released on her body (good for the skin) instead of inside her body. Good luck 4 Likes |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by klbakare(m): 10:22am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Sgttanner:U could have just done a medical abortion with misoprostol since its jes a month old. Now that you are into shit. Be ready to spend more money. Cos u have to confide in a doc. Don't be shy or afraid, they have seeing lots of such cases. They are the one who can bail u out now. Be truthful with the doc. And show him all d previous drugs taken. Nigerians should stop hypocrisy. If u are not legalizing abortion, subsidise contraceptives cos people are dying daily from improperly executed abortions. PEACE!!!!! 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by veacea: 10:23am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Let her do a scan and see if there is anything left in her stomach. Additionally her blood sample should be investigated for any infection. If all these come out negative, she should continue with the antibiotics given to her. Cheers |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Junki04(m): 10:24am On Sep 18, 2016 |
see them all, bloody hypocrites, Nigerian mentality.. Bro, what has happened has happened, get her to the nearest hospital and take care of her, i pray nothing bad happens to her, next time, use a CD, have a nice Sunday 13 Likes |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by wrongnumber: 10:24am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Sgttanner: Abortion is bad...what if you are destined to have just a child in your life time..na im be sey you Don kill am be Dat. 3 Likes |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by veacea: 10:25am On Sep 18, 2016 |
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Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Junki04(m): 10:25am On Sep 18, 2016 |
klbakare: Thank you better person, its not possible to stop premarital sex, the government should do something about contraceptives |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by faaz24: 10:26am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Don't have sex when u are not ready 1 Like
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Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by muller101(m): 10:26am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Sgttanner:put am belle again. |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Homguy(m): 10:27am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Sgttanner:i suspect incomplete abortion. Go for a scan to be sure. 2 Likes |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Lilyomi2: 10:28am On Sep 18, 2016 |
with the fever and fatigue, I'm suspecting sepsis and probably anaemia due to the blood loss. Do not joke with it; septic shock is a major cause of death, post abortion. I advice u go back to the hospital for a full blood count and probably an examination on the uterus and all if indeed it was a safe procedure. A lot has been said already. Abstinence is best and if u can't, use contraceptive. I will be glad if u go to a gynaecologist to do the post abortion examination and care. I'm sure this mistake will not repeat itself. 7 Likes |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Strahovski1(m): 10:28am On Sep 18, 2016 |
I did not bother to read the article. You had an abortion.. two options 1. You are shameless 2. You are wicked 3 Likes |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by dasparrow: 10:28am On Sep 18, 2016 |
@Post You better take that girl to the hospital before she dies. When they tell you people to practice abstinence till marriage, you will not listen. Do you need a soothsayer to tell you to take the lady in question to the hospital? I am sure a quack performed the abortion. What happened to condoms are why did you not use it? This is how many of you ruin your destinies. If Jehovah God decides that you are not getting any other baby in your life again, you people will begin to jump from church to church looking for the fruit of the womb forgetting that a fruit was once given to you which you discarded. 3 Likes |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by chamillitary64(m): 10:30am On Sep 18, 2016 |
SUPERPACK:it has already been done. The way forward is what he is asking. |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Nikkybrainz(f): 10:31am On Sep 18, 2016 |
I had a similar experience. It is normal to have still have pregnancy-like symptoms after an abortion. Since it is not up to a week, a pregnancy test might not be the best option because she will likely still have the HCG hormone in her and might still show positive even though she's not pregnant. This should stop in about two weeks at most. It is normal for her to have stopped bleeding. That differs from woman to woman. So do not worry about that Your best option is to tell her to have an ultrasound. That would give you a 100% guarantee that the abortionist got everything out and hence, zero chances of a septic infection. If the high temperature and other symptoms exceed two weeks, then I'd advise she see a doctor. I am, however, quite sure everything is fine since it was only a month old and the bleeding has stopped. Try to show her support for now at least. And please and careful next time. If you still love her, forget the past and forgive her. That she did that doesn't mean she's a bad person. Maybe she was scared and didn't want to disappoint family and friends. Peace. 36 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by ibietela2(m): 10:31am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Sorry bro shits happen...... Don't go get yourself hurt just chill take her to a doctor, if you are in a good relationship with an aunt just let her know Good luck 1 Like |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by canalily(m): 10:31am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Hey! Man! Get it clear! Just watch it! She is still pregnant with all these signs. If u willing, then inbox me lemme giv names of injections she wil take to wash self |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Nobody: 10:33am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Common gerawt from dis place, d money u used in buying d pills, why didn't you use it to buy N50 pack of condom then......your mama abort you? 1 Like |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by DonCortino: 10:33am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Sgttanner: My only advice to you is that make sure u marry her! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Koddedtinz: 10:33am On Sep 18, 2016 |
It will take a while for the symptoms to clear. She should be fine. If she has abdominal pain then you will have to go back and complain at the hospital. Pls use protection hence forth and all this HBP and worry will not be necessary. |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by NyemzyHimself: 10:33am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Sgttanner: So why did you have unprotected sex in the first place even when you know you ain't ready for a child. As you've killed that child through abortion, you've automatically become a murderer. Just pray that God will still give you children in the nearest future because most times some of the things we did decades ago will still be haunting us. The only Solution is to seek a Bible believing church and get converted By so doing, the curse of this abortion you guys did will not affect you. Same applies to your girlfriend too. |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by horlumiday(m): 10:33am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Abstain from premarital sex but you wnt, you both just killed your first child tho..Ask God for forgiveness, u wnt die if you dnt av sex before marriage...... Take her to the hospital.... 1 Like |
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