Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by xtervaganza(m): 11:15am On Sep 18, 2016 |
SUPERPACK: Don't do the crime, if you can't do the time. hypocrite |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by 1metre: 11:15am On Sep 18, 2016 |
If you know that you have never committed or supported abortion before, simply hit 'like' but if you know you are guilty like the op hit 'share' ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by mkoabiola: 11:16am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Ppu are now proud to do abortion and find solution online God help our youths ooo cos d way things de go now e b like say ppu no gt fear of God again 1 Like |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by naijaboiy: 11:16am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Berbierklaus:
Y'all be shouting hypocrisy up and down,subtly applauding abortion,which is very risky to the person involved,whether properly done or not.
@bold,which of the contraceptives is expensive? please educate me,is it condom or the morning after sex pill?.
Even illiterates,knows to use condom during sex,so what is the excuse of an educated person?
This things should be condemned,this pregnancies often times are not a one time sex,they are caused by continuous unprotected sex,yet you say Nigerians are hypocritical,they keep fvcking and aborting like its the best thing after slice bread.
Okay continue This is the problem.
The deed has been done. One who is on the floor cannot be afraid of falling.
Even if you want to condemn his actions it shouldn't be now he needs help. His girlfriend may lose her life. We should try to proffer solutions first before we condemn him. 3 Likes |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by pat1612(m): 11:17am On Sep 18, 2016 |
klbakare:
U could have just done a medical abortion with misoprostol since its jes a month old. Now that you are into shit. Be ready to spend more money. Cos u have to confide in a doc. Don't be shy or afraid, they have seeing lots of such cases. They are the one who can bail u out now. Be truthful with the doc. And show him all d previous drugs taken. Nigerians should stop hypocrisy. If u are not legalizing abortion, subsidise contraceptives cos people are dying daily from improperly executed abortions. PEACE!!!!! I agree with rest of your advice but please dont give drugs like misoprostol. The drug can cause sever bleeding in some women and also will result in damage to parts.the best advice is to go to specialist who can handle it and trust me doctors are not emotional at all they know there job and they will do it. thanks My view ![smiley](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/smiley.png) 3 Likes |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Nobody: 11:20am On Sep 18, 2016 |
bread go up ,garri go up ,dem import kero.bt condom priice no go up xo who we go blame now ? devil or recession..or una wey no wise..??anyhw you should take her for a scan and post abortion checkup(if thats a thing) .. 1 Like |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by chydii(f): 11:21am On Sep 18, 2016 |
I wouldn't have recommended a hospital but these little signs she is showing could be drastic. Go to a hospital so tests could be conducted or a private clinic. 2 Likes |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by naijaboiy: 11:22am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Nikkybrainz: I had a similar experience. It is normal to have still have pregnancy-like symptoms after an abortion. Since it is not up to a week, a pregnancy test might not be the best option because she will likely still have the HCG hormone in her and might still show positive even though she's not pregnant. This should stop in about two weeks at most. It is normal for her to have stopped bleeding. That differs from woman to woman. So do not worry about that
Your best option is to tell her to have an ultrasound. That would give you a 100% guarantee that the abortionist got everything out and hence, zero chances of a septic infection. If the high temperature and other symptoms exceed two weeks, then I'd advise she see a doctor.
I am, however, quite sure everything is fine since it was only a month old and the bleeding has stopped.
Try to show her support for now at least. And please and careful next time. If you still love her, forget the past and forgive her. That she did that doesn't mean she's a bad person. Maybe she was scared and didn't want to disappoint family and friends.
Peace. Very sensible post! Free from hypocrisy and sentiments.
Thumbs up! 3 Likes |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by ogorwyne(f): 11:23am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Strahovski1: I did not bother to read the article.
You had an abortion.. two options
1. You are shameless
2. You are wicked
Are those options for d OP? Doesn't tally |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by IYANGBALI: 11:24am On Sep 18, 2016 |
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Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by hmuhammad(m): 11:29am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Sgttanner: thanks bro Buh I was told , it's gonna take up to 2 weeks or 3 before the symptoms finally goes off .. It's just roughly 6days now .. And I was told if she do the test , it's still going to show positive Buh fake .. M just scared you de fear to be father but you no fear to chop the girl. If na me I go marry her straight, you just killed a future president 1 Like |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Laveda(f): 11:29am On Sep 18, 2016 |
naijaboiy:
Y'all just know how to act sanctimonious and all holy as if you haven't committed a sin.
I'm darn sure the Op knows the gravity of what he and his girlfriend has done and now he needs help. But what are we seeing? People who can only condemn without proferring any solution.
Please it's better you and others who are insulting the Op shut the hell up and allow people who have something helpful to say to comment.
Finally I'll blame the Op also for thinking there are many sensible people on here when all we have are hypocrites with low thinking abilities.
If you can't help then you close your fingers tight to prevent you from typing shït.
Nonsense! I noticed when a thread like this pops out, girls mostly are fond of running their fingers forgetting things go wrong at times, its really bad when they come here to claim all righteous but in actual they do worst. You wanna help the Op fine, you don't want to? Just read and pass no need sounding like you're without sin. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Respect55(m): 11:31am On Sep 18, 2016 |
mercyviv: God will send you helper. No need to beg humans for help ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) u Don do one b4? |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Greenbullet(m): 11:35am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Sgttanner: if I am financially buoyant.. I won't allow it YOU ARE NOT FINANCIALLY BOUYANT AND YOU ENGAGE IN UNPROTECTED SEX,YOUR SITUATION IS LIKENED TO THAT OF A cockroach WHO SEES FIRE AND WANT TO JUMP INTO IT, YOU AND YOUR GF=MUMU COUPLE., ANYWAY ADVICE: THE abortion WAS NOT PROPERLY EXECUTED.SO YOU NEED TO SEE A DOCTOR TO REMOVE THE REMAINING PART OF THE PREGNANCY. AND IF U LIKE,CONTINUE WITH YOUR MUMU WAYS.USE CONDOM 5 Likes |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by joseph1832(m): 11:36am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Sgttanner: ( notice:pls don't mind my grammar )Hello doctors in the house .. It happened that I imprenated my girlfriend and we aborted it (she brought the whole abortion thing up herself ooo even though I was thinking about it but didn't know how to tell her , the pregnancy is like a month sha )The abortion was done lat week Monday surgically I guess ..after that , she was given ciprotab, and one orange pill like this ( I don't know the name ) to be used morning and night . But she has just been noticing some changes in her body such as high temperature , not feeling too good in her body , sleepy , tired , yellow urine, fever ..another thing is she stopped seeing blood the second day, she saw a brown discharge the third day and the fifth day But I just get scared anytime she calls to tell me all these.The latest development is she was told to receive anti malaria injection cos of the yellow urine and I just hope this won't complicate the matter , though she took the injection already . I am 24 and she's 23..I had to create another profile .. Please I need to know what she can do and your advice pls .. God should forgive me Go and see a doctor. A trained one at that, not all the quacks we see around. |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by wallay77(m): 11:36am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Go back to d hospital n complain bout it...
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Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Cletus77(m): 11:39am On Sep 18, 2016 |
abortion does not make you unpregnant it actually makes u d mother of a dead baby! 3 Likes |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by cyrilamx(m): 11:39am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Abortion is heinous evil dressed in garment of necessity. Ain't we done re-cruxifying christ by our sexual depraved life-style? Must we hold him to contempt by killing the unborn product of our sexual bravado? No matter whatever name we chose to christen it just to water down the gravity of our action, Abortion remains an intrinsically moral evil and truncating the life of defenceless unborn. It is the culture of death. 4 Likes |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by joseph1832(m): 11:40am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Nikkybrainz: I had a similar experience. It is normal to have still have pregnancy-like symptoms after an abortion. Since it is not up to a week, a pregnancy test might not be the best option because she will likely still have the HCG hormone in her and might still show positive even though she's not pregnant. This should stop in about two weeks at most. It is normal for her to have stopped bleeding. That differs from woman to woman. So do not worry about that
Your best option is to tell her to have an ultrasound. That would give you a 100% guarantee that the abortionist got everything out and hence, zero chances of a septic infection. If the high temperature and other symptoms exceed two weeks, then I'd advise she see a doctor.
I am, however, quite sure everything is fine since it was only a month old and the bleeding has stopped.
Try to show her support for now at least. And please and careful next time. If you still love her, forget the past and forgive her. That she did that doesn't mean she's a bad person. Maybe she was scared and didn't want to disappoint family and friends.
Peace. I didn't know there are still sensible monikers here. Your advice is spot on by the way. 2 Likes |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by highwaist: 11:43am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Go to general(gov) hospital now ans seek the specialist help |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by naijaboiy: 11:43am On Sep 18, 2016 |
bqlekan:
don't mind them.. forming saints upandan, when some of them no longer have womb in them... Lool...it's just very sickening.
Someone has made a mistake and it involves the life of his girlfriend but instead of people to try to save a life they are adding salt to the injury. People are so fücking close-minded.
That's why many of them can't open threads with their main accounts because they've also condemned people like this. The op may probably be getting karma too due to the fact that he may have condemned someone who was in dire need of help.
It's just pathetic. 2 Likes |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Suljosh: 11:44am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Sgttanner: ( notice:pls don't mind my grammar )Hello doctors in the house .. It happened that I imprenated my girlfriend and we aborted it (she brought the whole abortion thing up herself ooo even though I was thinking about it but didn't know how to tell her , the pregnancy is like a month sha )The abortion was done lat week Monday surgically I guess ..after that , she was given ciprotab, and one orange pill like this ( I don't know the name ) to be used morning and night . But she has just been noticing some changes in her body such as high temperature , not feeling too good in her body , sleepy , tired , yellow urine, fever ..another thing is she stopped seeing blood the second day, she saw a brown discharge the third day and the fifth day But I just get scared anytime she calls to tell me all these.The latest development is she was told to receive anti malaria injection cos of the yellow urine and I just hope this won't complicate the matter , though she took the injection already . I am 24 and she's 23..I had to create another profile .. Please I need to know what she can do and your advice pls .. God should forgive me just look at your last sentence. GOD SHOULD PLEASE FORGIVE YOU? Are you high on so deep shit? 1 Like |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by naijaboiy: 11:46am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Greenbullet: YOU ARE NOT FINANCIALLY BOUYANT AND YOU ENGAGE IN UNPROTECTED SEX,YOUR SITUATION IS LIKENED TO THAT OF A cockroach WHO SEES FIRE AND WANT TO JUMP INTO IT, YOU AND YOUR GF=MUMU COUPLE., ANYWAY ADVICE: THE abortion WAS NOT PROPERLY EXECUTED.SO YOU NEED TO SEE A DOCTOR TO REMOVE THE REMAINING PART OF THE PREGNANCY. AND IF U LIKE,CONTINUE WITH YOUR MUMU WAYS.USE CONDOM So if i get you properly only financially buoyant people should have sex?
Wonderful! ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by DBestDoc(f): 11:46am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Sgttanner: ( notice:pls don't mind my grammar )Hello doctors in the house .. It happened that I imprenated my girlfriend and we aborted it (she brought the whole abortion thing up herself ooo even though I was thinking about it but didn't know how to tell her , the pregnancy is like a month sha )The abortion was done lat week Monday surgically I guess ..after that , she was given ciprotab, and one orange pill like this ( I don't know the name ) to be used morning and night . But she has just been noticing some changes in her body such as high temperature , not feeling too good in her body , sleepy , tired , yellow urine, fever ..another thing is she stopped seeing blood the second day, she saw a brown discharge the third day and the fifth day But I just get scared anytime she calls to tell me all these.The latest development is she was told to receive anti malaria injection cos of the yellow urine and I just hope this won't complicate the matter , though she took the injection already . I am 24 and she's 23..I had to create another profile .. Please I need to know what she can do and your advice pls .. God should forgive me @ Op, Was the D&C done by a real Doctor? The signs and symptoms she is currently showing could be a result of retained product of conception...meaning some parts of your "would have been" baby may still be left inside of her which is very dangerous and can lead to sepsis. Please, let her go back to her Doctor so she can get examined properly as the antibiotic she is currently on may not be helping much and it's been close to 1 week already. Condoms Condoms Condoms...una go gree hear? i no think so 2 Likes |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by naijaboiy: 11:47am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Suljosh: just look at your last sentence. GOD SHOULD PLEASE FORGIVE YOU? Are you high on so deep shit? Since all we humans can do is condemn and judge who else do you want him to turn to for forgiveness?
You think God is judgmental like us? ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Orikinla(m): 11:47am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Sgttanner: ( notice:pls don't mind my grammar )Hello doctors in the house .. It happened that I imprenated my girlfriend and we aborted it (she brought the whole abortion thing up herself ooo even though I was thinking about it but didn't know how to tell her , the pregnancy is like a month sha )The abortion was done lat week Monday surgically I guess ..after that , she was given ciprotab, and one orange pill like this ( I don't know the name ) to be used morning and night . But she has just been noticing some changes in her body such as high temperature , not feeling too good in her body , sleepy , tired , yellow urine, fever ..another thing is she stopped seeing blood the second day, she saw a brown discharge the third day and the fifth day But I just get scared anytime she calls to tell me all these.The latest development is she was told to receive anti malaria injection cos of the yellow urine and I just hope this won't complicate the matter , though she took the injection already . I am 24 and she's 23..I had to create another profile .. Please I need to know what she can do and your advice pls .. God should forgive me 3 Likes
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Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by bqlekan(m): 11:48am On Sep 18, 2016 |
naijaboiy:
Lool...it's just very sickening.
Someone has made a mistake and it involves the life of his girlfriend but instead of people to try to save a life they are adding salt to the injury. People are so fücking close-minded.
That's why many of them can't open threads with their main accounts because they've also condemned people like this. The op may probably be getting karma too due to the fact that he may have condemned someone who was in dire need of help.
It's just pathetic. really pathetic, like you said, who knows if the op is also one of them. insulting and judging others when they are no good themselves. |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by naijaboiy: 11:51am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Laveda:
I noticed when a thread like this pops out, girls mostly are fond of running their fingers forgetting things go wrong at times, its really bad when they come here to claim all righteous but in actual they do worst.
You wanna help the Op fine, you don't want to? Just read and pass no need sounding like you're without sin. i hope you nor dey throw shades o? ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png)
Your signature though! ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by naijaboiy: 11:52am On Sep 18, 2016 |
bqlekan:
really pathetic, like you said, who knows if the op is also one of them.
insulting and judging others when they are no good themselves. Karma is a very bad bïtch!
If he's also guilty of what he's experiencing right now then I'll say he partly deserves it. But if not, then it's a pity. |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Suljosh: 11:53am On Sep 18, 2016 |
The way I'm desperate to be a father eh! somebody just commit murder. some people doesn't deserve to bear children at all. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by iceberylin(m): 11:53am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Davash222: Oh Lawd! Where did we go wrong So people no come get shame again to even boastfully say they commit abortion? Guy, just pray for forgiveness. Myopic reasoning.. Let me break it for you.... A guy gets his Girl pregnant.. Knowing he can't afford to keep baby yet has a conscience not to bring up such idea but based on people like you who will criticize a baby mama she makes a decision that bodes well for em both. Reducing population, 30% of pregnancy in Africa was without intent. No additional mouth to feed or cloth.. (Things would be easier for your family if you was aborted) RECESSION |
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by salafy050(m): 11:55am On Sep 18, 2016 |
Chai and you kill that child....there's is God oooo
Change abortion |