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Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Berbierklaus(f): 2:19pm On Sep 18, 2016
Marioplus:
JESUS is THE ONLY BEING that can help you both, I pray that the Blood of Jesus Christ that speaks BETTER than vengeance may heal you both in Jesus Name. Amen.
Both of you should go to the hospital and keep on praying thus "JESUS MY SAVIOR PLEASE WASH MY SIN WITH YOUR BLOOD IN JESUS NAME. AMEN." until the complete healing is done.
Why you should rush to the hospital IMMEDIATELY is to save the life of the GIRL but if you find out that the child is still there do not make any further evil move to repeat abortion rather encourage her to keep the Baby.
Abortion does not remove THE TRUTH THAT YOU HAVE A CHILD OR YOU ARE A FATHER/DADDY rather
it makes you THE FATHER OF A DEAD BABY AND THE MURDERER OF HIS OWN CHILD!!!
"May the message of Christ Jesus in all its RICHNESS FIND A PLACE IN YOUR LIFE IN JESUS NAME. AMEN." {Col.3:16}

Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Jalvin(m): 2:23pm On Sep 18, 2016
bros abeg go do scan mke u knw weda d abortion work well.
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by stephnie44(f): 2:28pm On Sep 18, 2016
Sgttanner:
( notice:pls don't mind my grammar )Hello doctors in the house .. It happened that I imprenated my girlfriend and we aborted it (she brought the whole abortion thing up herself ooo even though I was thinking about it but didn't know how to tell her , the pregnancy is like a month sha )The abortion was done lat week Monday surgically I guess ..after that , she was given ciprotab, and one orange pill like this ( I don't know the name ) to be used morning and night . But she has just been noticing some changes in her body such as high temperature , not feeling too good in her body , sleepy , tired , yellow urine, fever ..another thing is she stopped seeing blood the second day, she saw a brown discharge the third day and the fifth day But I just get scared anytime she calls to tell me all these.The latest development is she was told to receive anti malaria injection cos of the yellow urine and I just hope this won't complicate the matter , though she took the injection already . I am 24 and she's 23..I had to create another profile .. Please I need to know what she can do and your advice pls .. God should forgive me
don't worry she would be fine.let her relax her mind
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Pylony(m): 2:29pm On Sep 18, 2016
I believe you just want us to say Congratultions to you and your baby killing girl frnd..
Mind you, the innocent baby's blood lay on your heads should you not ask for goods forgiveness. It is such ladies that would later in Life point fingers at witches and wizards in their villages when they can no longer give birth, forgetting about their ex-evil designs over God's good plans for them.
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by klbakare(m): 2:30pm On Sep 18, 2016
ChynoBEATS:


Abeg bone ... That na lie.... Condoms come in different types... Wetin u dey try yarn self ... Do u think those who produce it are foo|s ? ...

You tlk as-if there's just one type of condom..
....

*sighs*** a don tire to dey explain abeg. How many babes u dey yansh weekly? I mean babes wey u dey form relationship levels give each other ooo. Ask them if they prefer condom or no condom. Its a quick survey. Ask close female friends and/or family wey go tell u truth. Draw ur inference from their response.
##we dey yarn reality dis one dey tlk english###
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by lilreese: 2:35pm On Sep 18, 2016
desquad:
Why's Nigerians always quick to judge someone, undecided, bro am about to become a father next month at age 22 , my girlfriend is just 20 and about to give birth,, this is actually the second pregnancy cos we defected the first on time and termination it with Orange lime and dry gin (you just mix both together best for removing early pregnancy) which i think is far more safe than white medicine and hospital procedure . Then this one came i decided to keep it
Mistakes will always happen in life and there's little to nothing you can do about it
You should have kept the kid bro cos its gonna be your source of happiness later in life,. And mind you am still a kid oo living and still feeding from my parents. Enough of my story

All you're going through is just phases of fear,, give it time and its all gonna be ok,, her body is still reacting to the whole thing and it needs time to adjust.
And also meet the doctor who did the procedure to enlighten you on the side effects, cos its gonna be definitely what she's going through right now.

Can't afford condom yet want to raise a child....

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Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by ChynoBEATS: 2:36pm On Sep 18, 2016
klbakare:


*sighs*** a don tire to dey explain abeg. How many babes u dey yansh weekly? I mean babes wey u dey form relationship levels give each other ooo. Ask them if they prefer condom or no condom. Its a quick survey. Ask close female friends and/or family wey go tell u truth. Draw ur inference from their response.
##we dey yarn reality dis one dey tlk english###

Guy bone.... 4get ur Gold medal yanshin record here.... I stand by my word...normal Condoms will not be pleasurable as-far as ure not having full erection "Boner" .... But skin lite Condoms are... ..


Which one is dis again shey dem swear for auto correct ni ... Haba
Nna legodu this robot o.....
:/ Attention "Situation" ke....... na €r£ction n B0n£r I type o... Chey I don dahyyy!!!
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by kingkenOkus16(m): 2:41pm On Sep 18, 2016
Take her to a Doctor.
Don't let your irresponsibility have a negative effect on her .

What's done is done .
Don't cry over spilt milk
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by willibounce1(m): 2:42pm On Sep 18, 2016
Ready ko to lo redi....your eye go soon clear when you kill person pickin
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by yemmy009(f): 2:43pm On Sep 18, 2016
Tell her to stop using ciprotab get ampliclox beecham n flagyl to be used morning n night n she shouldn't drink cold thing or sugary things for now. She can go for ultra sound scan to confirm if d abortion is properly carried out. As for d malaria ciprotab works for both typhoid n malaria. But to be sincere with u when u know u are not financially bouyant u shouldn't have had sex without a condom. Prevention is better than cure. I pray she get well soon.
Sgttanner:
( notice:pls don't mind my grammar )Hello doctors in the house .. It happened that I imprenated my girlfriend and we aborted it (she brought the whole abortion thing up herself ooo even though I was thinking about it but didn't know how to tell her , the pregnancy is like a month sha )The abortion was done lat week Monday surgically I guess ..after that , she was given ciprotab, and one orange pill like this ( I don't know the name ) to be used morning and night . But she has just been noticing some changes in her body such as high temperature , not feeling too good in her body , sleepy , tired , yellow urine, fever ..another thing is she stopped seeing blood the second day, she saw a brown discharge the third day and the fifth day But I just get scared anytime she calls to tell me all these.The latest development is she was told to receive anti malaria injection cos of the yellow urine and I just hope this won't complicate the matter , though she took the injection already . I am 24 and she's 23..I had to create another profile .. Please I need to know what she can do and your advice pls .. God should forgive me
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Interesting15: 2:46pm On Sep 18, 2016
haywire07:
Omg! I can relate

I almost ran mad wen she said she was pregnant . I didn't know wen I sat on the floor and was crying like a baby right in the toilet. She turned out not to b pregnant sha . But I discovered that weed can't make me mad, only pregnancy scare can o

When you know you are not yet ready to bear the responsibilities of a father, why indulging in sex that brings a baby?
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by danielsmith(m): 2:46pm On Sep 18, 2016
grin
nnachukz:
If to say you tell us when you de display different types of dribbling skill on her vj I for see wetin to tell you.





Make I just pity you small. You may have to run another pregnancy test to be sure it was surely aborted. After that you can run other test to find out what is wrong with her.
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by CSTR13: 2:48pm On Sep 18, 2016
Kids of nowadays. No single fear.
Even adults like us that God has blessed with good job and enough money are still scared of having children, and 24 years old youngies are already dropping one or two babies. shocked
na wa o.
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by MrsAnyanwu(f): 3:11pm On Sep 18, 2016
I am not here to judge you,but it is better you abstain, go and see a doctor asap,if u do a test now, it would still be positive , cause the pregnancy hormones are still intact,abortion is very dangerous,pls be careful ,I wish u the best.
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by aumeehn: 3:12pm On Sep 18, 2016
haywire07:
Omg! I can relate

I almost ran mad wen she said she was pregnant . I didn't know wen I sat on the floor and was crying like a baby right in the toilet. She turned out not to b pregnant sha . But I discovered that weed can't make me mad, only pregnancy scare can o

Mumu!! Rasta mangrin grin grin
Guess, who am i..!! I'm your e padi.
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by cephassugg: 3:19pm On Sep 18, 2016
Take her to hospital a genuine one will push u out if u mention abortion take her to hospital start from there
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by jokerphilics(m): 3:25pm On Sep 18, 2016
Sgttanner:
if I am financially buoyant.. I won't allow it
Buh DAT ur thing no know say u r not financially bouyant wen u are doing it.Oh God of mercy. U Berra start praying d girl no die coz u,d girl and d doctor ve already killed one already and start seeking for God's forgiveness.
Buh DAT girl sef is hyperly gullible, if she die nko.
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by purplelips(f): 3:29pm On Sep 18, 2016
Nikkybrainz:
I had a similar experience. It is normal to have still have pregnancy-like symptoms after an abortion. Since it is not up to a week, a pregnancy test might not be the best option because she will likely still have the HCG hormone in her and might still show positive even though she's not pregnant. This should stop in about two weeks at most. It is normal for her to have stopped bleeding. That differs from woman to woman. So do not worry about that

Your best option is to tell her to have an ultrasound. That would give you a 100% guarantee that the abortionist got everything out and hence, zero chances of a septic infection. If the high temperature and other symptoms exceed two weeks, then I'd advise she see a doctor.

I am, however, quite sure everything is fine since it was only a month old and the bleeding has stopped.

Try to show her support for now at least. And please and careful next time. If you still love her, forget the past and forgive her. That she did that doesn't mean she's a bad person. Maybe she was scared and didn't want to disappoint family and friends.

Peace.
God bless you for this.

It's amazing how people are so quick to criticize and judge others. Let he that is without sin be the first to cast a stone.

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Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by jokerphilics(m): 3:29pm On Sep 18, 2016
Ds is Hw it starts o. Later in life assuming u or d girl is destined to have one kid wey u dn already kill. U go cone dey blame ur partner or one stupid imaginary witch wey u dey see for dream not knowing u dn already spoil tinz for youth period.
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by donasere(m): 3:32pm On Sep 18, 2016
haywire07:

U mean NYSC section?

But wait o... I was only in batch C 2014


Are you hay.wire1?
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Sgttanner: 3:37pm On Sep 18, 2016
Nikkybrainz:
I had a similar experience. It is normal to have still have pregnancy-like symptoms after an abortion. Since it is not up to a week, a pregnancy test might not be the best option because she will likely still have the HCG hormone in her and might still show positive even though she's not pregnant. This should stop in about two weeks at most. It is normal for her to have stopped bleeding. That differs from woman to woman. So do not worry about that

Your best option is to tell her to have an ultrasound. That would give you a 100% guarantee that the abortionist got everything out and hence, zero chances of a septic infection. If the high temperature and other symptoms exceed two weeks, then I'd advise she see a doctor.

I am, however, quite sure everything is fine since it was only a month old and the bleeding has stopped.

Try to show her support for now at least. And please and careful next time. If you still love her, forget the past and forgive her. That she did that doesn't mean she's a bad person. Maybe she was scared and didn't want to disappoint family and friends.

Peace.
thank you for your candid advice ma

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Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by klbakare(m): 3:47pm On Sep 18, 2016
ChynoBEATS:


Guy bone.... 4get ur Gold medal yanshin record here.... I stand by my word...normal Condoms will not be pleasurable as-far as ure not having full erection "Boner" .... But skin lite Condoms are... ..


Which one is dis again shey dem swear for auto correct ni ... Haba
Nna legodu this robot o.....
:/ Attention "Situation" ke....... na €r£ction n B0n£r I type o... Chey I don dahyyy!!!

Do u knw condoms are one the ways to control/reduce premature expulsion? Confirm that on google and find out why. Whether na skin lite condom ooo or 4g lite condom, there is still a thin film in-between the skins. ###lemme alone jare
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by DrP2000(m): 3:58pm On Sep 18, 2016
She need to visit a Tertiary hospital now or a specialist hospital manned by a gynaecologist,

She need to be properly clerked and examined, then adequately investigated including doing abdominopelvic ultrasound for her, urine m/,c/s, mp, ECS m/c/s, blood culture etc.

They also need to commence her on broad spectrum antibiotics if need be.
The truth is that you can't manage a patient by hearsay but by interacting directly with the patient in question.
Pls next time don't put the life of a young woman at risk, better use condoms, at worst coitus interupticus will help. Won't advice you on contraceptives except after proper counselling because each has it's adverse effects.
Pls take her to any specialist (gynaecologist) around you or a teaching hospital. Remain blessed.
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Kcinho(m): 4:22pm On Sep 18, 2016
yemmy009:
Tell her to stop using ciprotab get ampliclox beecham n flagyl to be used morning n night n she shouldn't drink cold thing or sugary things for now. She can go for ultra sound scan to confirm if d abortion is properly carried out. As for d malaria ciprotab works for both typhoid n malaria. But to be sincere with u when u know u are not financially bouyant u shouldn't have had sex without a condom. Prevention is better than cure. I pray she get well soon.
op follow the above at your peril.
ciprofloxacin for malaria? this is the peak of quackery.
op you just need a good gynecologist at this point. Help the young lady by taking her to a good hospital.
she probably has a septic abortion now from retained products that were not removed during the abortion.
An ultrasound scan and complete evacuation of there are still remnants with good antibiotics will help her.

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Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by holarcarny(m): 4:30pm On Sep 18, 2016
they twins you just removed the first but the second is still kicking is better you leave it
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Suljosh: 4:40pm On Sep 18, 2016
naijaboiy:

Since all we humans can do is condemn and judge who else do you want him to turn to for forgiveness?

You think God is judgmental like us? cheesy
bro....I'm not condemning or judging him. that's not how to ask for forgiveness from Almighty God. "He said God SHOULD please forgive him" like he's talking to his mate. is God his mate?
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Suljosh: 4:45pm On Sep 18, 2016
naijaboiy:

Since all we humans can do is condemn and judge who else do you want him to turn to for forgiveness?

You think God is judgmental like us? cheesy
hope you comprehend with my explanations?
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by ayoolar011(m): 4:47pm On Sep 18, 2016
Sgttanner:
( notice:pls don't mind my grammar )Hello doctors in the house .. It happened that I imprenated my girlfriend and we aborted it (she brought the whole abortion thing up herself ooo even though I was thinking about it but didn't know how to tell her , the pregnancy is like a month sha )The abortion was done lat week Monday surgically I guess ..after that , she was given ciprotab, and one orange pill like this ( I don't know the name ) to be used morning and night . But she has just been noticing some changes in her body such as high temperature , not feeling too good in her body , sleepy , tired , yellow urine, fever ..another thing is she stopped seeing blood the second day, she saw a brown discharge the third day and the fifth day But I just get scared anytime she calls to tell me all these.The latest development is she was told to receive anti malaria injection cos of the yellow urine and I just hope this won't complicate the matter , though she took the injection already . I am 24 and she's 23..I had to create another profile .. Please I need to know what she can do and your advice pls .. God should forgive me


Oga my own would be, after all this ordeal, get married to her.
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by habsydiamond(m): 4:49pm On Sep 18, 2016
Why u no add ur name and ur address so that I go fit greet u personally. Sharp shooter if anything do that bae u don enter am be that ooo. Next thing if u no fit hold body use CD and avoid unnecessary panic.
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Abimbex007: 5:09pm On Sep 18, 2016
Suljosh:
bro....I'm not condemning or judging him. that's not how to ask for forgiveness from Almighty God. "He said God SHOULD please forgive him" like he's talking to his mate. is God his mate?
People like you honour God with your lips, but your heart is far away from Him.
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by drotony: 5:18pm On Sep 18, 2016
She has postabortal sepsis. Now that is one of the most difficult gynaecological problem to tackle. The mortality rate is quite high. I am not trying to scare u but to urge you to visit a tertiary hospital asap. Delay is dangerous. Usually no doctor will call the police for this case cos it's already done. Save her life.

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Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Vivly(f): 5:41pm On Sep 18, 2016
Nairalanders can play Pope, Imam and pastor on a vulnerable person. Who died and made you gods?
The OP is remorse already from his opening post but no, people just have to tell him how he killed the next president.
Op, skim through the thread and find some helpful posts that are free of sentiments. Go to a hospital and get help.

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